Good morning NLI have a little problem at hand there is this lady I started dating recently the relationship is just two months old.At first it was all love and bliss she promised to be with me forever but it's no longer like that.at first when we started dating she always comes to my workplace everyday then I will see her off when she leaves but two days ago it's changed immediately after work she went home without even calling me to let me know she wouldn't come I called her to know why she told me it was an emergency that she had to go home early I overlooked but yesterday she did the same thing again I called her she didn't pick I whatssaped her she took hour to reply after reading it.
She later replied the chat begging me she is sorry this time around I was a bit harsh on her I told her pump and play that if she doesn't love me again that she should just say it rather than playing mind games on me she replied me harshly telling me that am overreacting but I still stood my ground then she went offline .

after some minutes I updated my whatssap status posting one of my beautiful female friends with a catchy caption she saw it and messaged me immediately that I am trying to make her jealous I ignored the messaged without replying.

my question is this a red flag that she is no longer interested in the relationship? because she hardly does this before or should I be a bit patient with her because I want to end the relationship before she dumps me please help.

Can' u invite her out, and ask her wat the issue is

OP go to Church and pray for GOD to give you a sign

She didn't come to your office for just 2 days and you already think she doesn't love you?

Are you sure you're not suffering from complex issues?

Why would you think that it has to do with love? What if the lady has her own issues? Also because of that little drama you put up another girl's photo to spite her? I wish she would see it as a sign and leave you.

People that are unable to control their emotions are time bombs waiting to explode.

For starters, I wouldn't even follow someone that runs to WhatsApp status to post their grievances

I told her pump and play

Admissionclass:
Good morning NLI have a little problem at hand there is this lady I started dating recently the relationship is just two months old.At first it was all love and bliss she promised to be with me forever but it's no longer like that.at first when we started dating she always comes to my workplace everyday then I will see her off when she leaves but two days ago it's changed immediately after work she went home without even calling me to let me know she wouldn't come I called her to know why she told me it was an emergency that she had to go home early I overlooked but yesterday she did the same thing again I called her she didn't pick I whatssaped her she took hour to reply after reading it.
She later replied the chat begging me she is sorry this time around I was a bit harsh on her I told her pump and play that if she doesn't love me again that she should just say it rather than playing mind games on me she replied me harshly telling me that am overreacting but I still stood my ground then she went offline .

after some minutes I updated my whatssap status posting one of my beautiful female friends with a catchy caption she saw it and messaged me immediately that I am trying to make her jealous I ignored the messaged without replying.

my question is this a red flag that she is no longer interested in the relationship? because she hardly does this before or should I be a bit patient with her because I want to end the relationship before she dumps me please help.

She is the only one working to make the relationship work.

What stop you from reciprocating her efforts. Why can't you also visit her at her office or house.

Why can't you invite her on a date.

You're yet to treat her like a queen, yet she has treated you as a king.

Admissionclass:
I called her she didn't pick I whatssaped her she took hour to reply after reading it.
She later replied the chat begging me she is sorry this time around I was a bit harsh on her I told her pump and play that if she doesn't love me again that she should just say it rather than playing mind games on me she replied me harshly telling me that am overreacting but I still stood my ground then she went offline .

so using status picture as scare tactics is now known by every1 who has been spilling our secrets, no wonder its no longer effective

mr man na small pikin dey worry u, things can't remain the same always na, some days things will be off, some relationships go 3 days without seeing easily, small she didnt come to ur work, ure wailing

if she isnt interested she will tell you pump and play
[img]https://media./images/02306ba76c6f956406d56753b9ef9e7e/tenor.gif[/img]

dump her

CokeBar:
She didn't come to your office for just 2 days and you already think she doesn't love you?

Are you sure you're not suffering from complex issues?

Why would you think that it has to do with love? What if the lady has her own issues? Also because of that little drama you put up another girl's photo to spite her? I wish she would see it as a sign and leave you.

People that are unable to control their emotions are time bombs waiting to explode.

For starters, I wouldn't even follow someone that runs to WhatsApp status to post their grievances

bros its inferiority complex when u use complex that way nobody will understand what ure saying like ur thread yesterday

CokeBar:
She didn't come to your office for just 2 days and you already think she doesn't love you?

Are you sure you're not suffering from complex issues?

Why would you think that it has to do with love? What if the lady has her own issues? Also because of that little drama you put up another girl's photo to spite her? I wish she would see it as a sign and leave you.

People that are unable to control their emotions are time bombs waiting to explode.

For starters, I wouldn't even follow someone that runs to WhatsApp status to post their grievances

Hypocrite! A relationship that's just two months old you didnt see or hear from your partner for 2days and you are okay with it then it shows you dont love him or her simple.

Admissionclass:
Good morning NLI have a little problem at hand there is this lady I started dating recently the relationship is just two months old.At first it was all love and bliss she promised to be with me forever but it's no longer like that.at first when we started dating she always comes to my workplace everyday then I will see her off when she leaves but two days ago it's changed immediately after work she went home without even calling me to let me know she wouldn't come I called her to know why she told me it was an emergency that she had to go home early I overlooked but yesterday she did the same thing again I called her she didn't pick I whatssaped her she took hour to reply after reading it.
She later replied the chat begging me she is sorry this time around I was a bit harsh on her I told her pump and play that if she doesn't love me again that she should just say it rather than playing mind games on me she replied me harshly telling me that am overreacting but I still stood my ground then she went offline .

after some minutes I updated my whatssap status posting one of my beautiful female friends with a catchy caption she saw it and messaged me immediately that I am trying to make her jealous I ignored the messaged without replying.

my question is this a red flag that she is no longer interested in the relationship? because she hardly does this before or should I be a bit patient with her because I want to end the relationship before she dumps me please help.

Keep your self busy and learn to be on your own...if you are really occupied, u won't be bothered if someone calls you or not..Makes you more attractive...

NextD18:

Mad man

Hatima:

Keep your self busy and learn to be on your own...if you are really occupied, u won't be bothered if someone calls you or not..Makes you more attractive...

Easier said than done bro.

iamJ:
bros its inferiority complex when u use complex that way nobody will understand what ure saying like ur thread yesterday

Lol, I'm a lady.
And yes, I meant inferiority complex

Admissionclass:


Hypocrite! A relationship that's just two months old you didnt see or hear from your partner for 2days and you are okay with it then it shows you dont love him or her simple.

Swallow spit my dear, you'll eventually be alright!

U no get problem .....


To think not hearing from someone for two days means a lost love is foolish....she told u she had an emergency,did u in ur selfish life care to ask her what brought abt the emergency...do u even care abt her?...to me she is the one that has been loving u ....

And to update ur whatsapp story with a female friend of urs to make her feel jealous cos we all know that is what u did, shows u are very childish...grow up !!!

If u for near me, na slap i for land for ur face!

HRHQueenPhil:
Can' u invite her out, and ask her wat the issue is

I will do that tomorrow but thats because you are a woman from my experience when a woman starts behaving like this it means she is pulling away gradually from the relationship in a subtle way.

Admissionclass:
Good morning NLI have a little problem at hand there is this lady I started dating recently the relationship is just two months old.At first it was all love and bliss she promised to be with me forever but it's no longer like that.at first when we started dating she always comes to my workplace everyday then I will see her off when she leaves but two days ago it's changed immediately after work she went home without even calling me to let me know she wouldn't come I called her to know why she told me it was an emergency that she had to go home early I overlooked but yesterday she did the same thing again I called her she didn't pick I whatssaped her she took hour to reply after reading it.
She later replied the chat begging me she is sorry this time around I was a bit harsh on her I told her pump and play that if she doesn't love me again that she should just say it rather than playing mind games on me she replied me harshly telling me that am overreacting but I still stood my ground then she went offline .

after some minutes I updated my whatssap status posting one of my beautiful female friends with a catchy caption she saw it and messaged me immediately that I am trying to make her jealous I ignored the messaged without replying.

my question is this a red flag that she is no longer interested in the relationship? because she hardly does this before or should I be a bit patient with her because I want to end the relationship before she dumps me please help.

You sounded like this is your first relationship.
Well, how can a full grown man not get tired first of a woman always visiting his work place

.na only u sabi love? . Even if u enjoy it, why not act like u don't?
To keep a woman u love, u have to learn how to play the mind game. Don't ever let her know ur feelings..get her wondering.
There's is no red flag here, she's just fed up of ur obsession. And if u continue asking her why she did not show up.. She will get tired for real.
To make ur relationship work, let her be sometimes.
Let me tell you what would have happened if u never asked her why she did not show up.
She will be the one to get worried..and she will ask a question like,
u did not even ask me today why i did not show up or u did not even ask me why i have not been coming to ur work place.
And ur reply should be, i thought u were tired.
U don't need to worry about a womans actions mostly when u not married.
Don't show her ur weakness.

Admissionclass:


Easier said than done bro.

Yes it is easy! Get something to do before you start looking needy...a needy man isn't attractive

devilmaycry:
U no get problem .....


To think not hearing from someone for two days means a lost love is foolish....she told u she had an emergency,did u in ur selfish life care to ask her what brought abt the emergency...do u even care abt her?...to me she is the one that has been loving u ....

And to update ur whatsapp story with a female friend of urs to make her feel jealous cos we all know that is what u did, shows u are very childish...grow up !!!

If u for near me, na slap i for land for ur face!

I like that last statement

You dey quick vex sha

CokeBar:


Lol, I'm a lady.
And yes, I meant inferiority complex

iamJ:



I called her a he, cause both women and men are given equal standing in my head, that's how reasonable I'm

devilmaycry:
U no get problem .....


To think not hearing from someone for two days means a lost love is foolish....she told u she had an emergency,did u in ur selfish life care to ask her what brought abt the emergency...do u even care abt her?...to me she is the one that has been loving u ....

And to update ur whatsapp story with a female friend of urs to make her feel jealous cos we all know that is what u did, shows u are very childish...grow up !!!

If u for near me, na slap i for land for ur face!

Bros you wouldn't understand this girl is very beautiful and too egostistic lately a lot of guy both rich and average are hitting on her constantly and as a humanbeing that i am am a bit insecure because i lover her but bros can you stay endure two days without hearing from ur partner be truthful someone you love na from clap we dey enter dance poo.

iamJ:
I called her a he, cause both women and men are given equal standing in my head, that's how reasonable I'm

But why would you rather use a masculine third-person pronoun and not "she"?

You're a tough nut...

Once again, enjoy the rest of your day

Admissionclass:


Bros you wouldn't understand this girl is very beautiful and too egostistic lately a lot of guy both rich and average are hitting on her constantly and as a humanbeing that i am am a bit insecure because i lover her but bros can you stay endure two days without hearing from ur partner be truthful someone you love na from clap we dey enter dance poo.

If she's beautiful and egoistical always remember she chose you...if her being chased by other men makes u insecure, learn detachment...love her as you would like to be loved but also learn to live without her just incase the unthinkable happens, you'll take it as one of those things.

CokeBar:


But why would you rather use a masculine third-person pronoun and not "she"?

You're a tough nut...

Once again, enjoy the rest of your day

that bolded shey u know that the saying comes from a woman being unable to make a man cum but who knows maybe i'm secretly crushing on u and was trolling to get ur attention, who knows maybe its ur moniker just stuck wandering the story behind it, who knows maybe its because i noticed that vulnerable part of u yesterday and i just enjoy reading ur vulnerable words

who knows? nobody but i know why, since i'm the one doing it, i can tell u that its nothing personal i just like to randomly look for trouble

iamJ:
that bolded shey u know that the saying comes from a woman being unable to make a man cum but who knows maybe i'm secretly crushing on u and was trolling to get ur attention, who knows maybe its ur moniker just stuck wandering the story behind it, who knows maybe its because i noticed that vulnerable part of u yesterday and i just enjoy reading ur vulnerable words

who knows? nobody but i know why, since i'm the one doing it, i can tell u that its nothing personal i just like to randomly look for trouble

I know! @bold. Vulnerable? You have no idea

Admissionclass:


Bros you wouldn't understand this girl is very beautiful and too egostistic lately a lot of guy both rich and average are hitting on her constantly and as a humanbeing that i am am a bit insecure because i lover her but bros can you stay endure two days without hearing from ur partner be truthful someone you love na from clap we dey enter dance poo.

Okay...from ur write up
She is beautiful and every guy's dream
U are insecure
2days without hearing from ur lover....


I can attest to the fact that, ur insecurity will bring ur imaginative failing relationship to reality.

Girls dnt like clingy guys,...u want to be with her always,know her wer about and stuffs cos she is beautiful and u feel she gon cheat on u
Girls like their space...
Oga give the babe lil space...2days means nothing actually...

If u want to keep a girl...do not, i repeat , do not give her all ur fuccking attention.
If she really love u...she will stick and surely come around, don't force shit!!!!

Maybe ur time with her dn expire and na another person turn

Now open ur bible read small, then crash....everything go dey ok las las

Female manipulation at its finest. She's playing mind games, and the only way you win is by ignoring her. Talk to other ladies, fix dates and see what comes out of it. If she finally understands that you aren't bothered with her silly games, she would want to be a part of your life. You could accept her if you want, but do not discard the other ladies for her. Let her compete with them, after all, she brought it on herself. But I have my doubts about your ability to win her in this game. You seem inexperienced, if not, why rush to nairaland to seek for solutions to a simple problem.

Admissionclass:
Good morning NLI have a little problem at hand there is this lady I started dating recently the relationship is just two months old.At first it was all love and bliss she promised to be with me forever but it's no longer like that.at first when we started dating she always comes to my workplace everyday then I will see her off when she leaves but two days ago it's changed immediately after work she went home without even calling me to let me know she wouldn't come I called her to know why she told me it was an emergency that she had to go home early I overlooked but yesterday she did the same thing again I called her she didn't pick I whatssaped her she took hour to reply after reading it.
She later replied the chat begging me she is sorry this time around I was a bit harsh on her I told her pump and play that if she doesn't love me again that she should just say it rather than playing mind games on me she replied me harshly telling me that am overreacting but I still stood my ground then she went offline .

after some minutes I updated my whatssap status posting one of my beautiful female friends with a catchy caption she saw it and messaged me immediately that I am trying to make her jealous I ignored the messaged without replying.

my question is this a red flag that she is no longer interested in the relationship? because she hardly does this before or should I be a bit patient with her because I want to end the relationship before she dumps me please help.

Admissionclass:


I will do that tomorrow but thats because you are a woman from my experience when a woman starts behaving like this it means she is pulling away gradually from the relationship in a subtle way.

also means she wants u to chase her, shows u are committed as well

I feel like konking you and your girlfriend.

Instead of you people to express yourselves in clear terms like adults you are here complaining.

Actually you fit each other. So this is why you opened a thread on a Sunday Morning. Nonsense.