They said our relatives not our sugar daddies

pocohantas:
Make we start to give them small na. No matter how little. This attitude of always expecting from them is what makes them block our numbers.

Anyway, I really can’t pick out one. I just know I have gotten lots of pleasant surprises from them- by not asking.

goldbim:
How about what do give to relatives abroad when they come to Nigeria or Send through a friend of theirs ?most times,that little #2000 slippers or even a small Ankara of 2k goes a long way..
Personally,I feel we should try to extend stuffs to them too once in a while..not every time,gimme gimme ..our thoughtfulness can open doors we least expect too..#just saying#

I will slap you with that slippers

M

Mynd44:
Nothing.

Some of us don't have abroad relative we are close to.

No be lie Mannie....even our 9ja unkles no dey look our side seff

masterflowx:
My car!
Honda Accord 2014.
Though, I sent 50% of the money and he added the remaining one.
The car landed in 2017 and I'm still using it up till today as my one and only car.
9ja hard abeg, no money to buy another one yet...

OGA your using a 2014 Honda Accord and complaining of hardship your own better sha

PS 4 as birthday gift,was meant as a surprise... unfortunately I bought one a month earlier.tho he added Red dead Redemption which I was planning to get

20k is the highest (biggest gift) ever given to me by an abroad relative (very close one at that)

The question is meant for people who have relatives abroad, i dont have anyone abroad, but i would one day be the one abroad to send my relatives something.... By Gods Grace.

Socks

i no get abroad relative




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I have got no close relative abroad.

I don’t know how to ask and good thing is I’ve never had a reason to ask.

Cmanforall:

Did he ask you to make a wish? You that is demanding, what do you give him when he's in Nigeria?
The way you wrote this, it seems you are angry with him and his freewill gift.

I was a kid then dumbo . And he was the one who asked us (i and my brothers) to write down what we wanted.

I received Toyota Sienna February last year from my Eldest Brother, around September my immediate Elder brother sent me Nissan Altima 2010 #FamilyLove

pocohantas:
Make we start to give them small na. No matter how little. This attitude of always expecting from them is what makes them block our numbers.

Anyway, I really can’t pick out one. I just know I have gotten lots of pleasant surprises from them- by not asking.

Leave them. Everytime they call their family abroad it's always one issue or the other that involves money. They always make the convo about them.
Never just to say hello.

foyeks2001:
I have got no close relative abroad.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
i no get abroad relative




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With the rate at which people are running away from Nigeria

Ha! Their own gift is to put head in our family's matter, the bunch of hypocrites have nothing to offer. We no go beg the fools dem go just talk one rubbish say they go buy this dem go buy that when they no get shishi I was laughing when the stupid uncle of mine said he is going to take me to the US for my schooling. I was like with which money.

300k from my cousin in Australia when I lost my job in 2016.

The question should be the opposite lol. People abroad always send something home. It should be,

"What have you given to your abroad relatives?

grafixdon:
Internet modem worth 6k in naija currency. Very stingy guy. I'm a giver, I expect something better

You have never really been a giver.

Pencil and crayons

SweetCunt97:
You right but Nigerians have this mentality that they don't need anything

Do you know not all nigerian foods can be gotten in the west?

Not once do these scrounging relatives consider sending fresh produce from Africa

Abeg pity this people, if u know what dey go tru, i have a younger sister there, we still send money from here gan.

pansophist:
The question should be the opposite lol. People abroad always send something home. It should be,

"What have you given to your abroad relatives?

Most of them are so so stingy eh

Or11:


Thank goodness I'm not one of your relatives. So because someone lives in another country, he must buy you gifts abi. Poverty and beggi beggi mentality smh

You are just a typical black man... Educated but still daf**
Please me point me to the place where op begged the said uncle..

My cousin brother has been promising me for wedding gift and I didn't task him for it, his not free with me any more....the wedding is getting old self


One of a street brother working at a very reputable organisation in UK gave me 10k for wedding.. I praise him as if he gave me 100k and he was even surprised. Though I work in bank and I appreciate a single penny

Condoms

SyrusdeHansome:
Let me start my own this way, I know in this life nobody owes us anything but that doesn't mean our lives must always be about us and us alone. There's a blessing in giving.

I'm opportune to have an uncle who has stayed in US for more than 20 yrs now. He's a surgeon and one of the best in his field but the biggest gift I've received from him was 800 naira in 2007. Though he use to give me those big bargy trousers once in a while I still see the 8h as his biggest gift to me because trouser no be my problem.

Pls tell me your own.

50k during my wedding nothing before then and nothing after.......but I don't hold any grudges cos my hope is in God the true gift giver.

I don't have a relative abroad but my neighbours who travelled out, sends stuffs like T.shirts and chocolate... Some of 'em sent my money some money too...

The most expensive gift given to me was by a friend and it’s this phone I’m using now, iPhone XR

What is the biggest gift you have given your own Abroad relative