I'm using this opportunity to celebrate our women all over the world. You deserve to be respected nd celebrated. May God bless our mothers, sisters, aunties, friends nd our female colleagues nd bosses.


Back to the question.
In 2017 i did a project topic on domestic abuse nd I found out that most married women nd men in Nigeria are constantly being abused by their spouse, nd the most painful part of it is that good women nd men are not left out.
Sometimes it's like life isn't fair to most pple when it comes to the issue of marriage. So what makes you think are the reasons why some good men nd women end up with bad spouses nd the bad ones end up with good spouses?

The Bible said like charge repels, while opposite charges attract

is like that most times.
the funny part is i have heard had people saying the prayed for good partners.

is like that most times.
the funny part is i have heard people saying the prayed for good partners. they usually got what they prayed for.

OJODEL10:
is like that most times.
the funny part is i have heard had people saying the prayed for good partners.

You're right bro. Av seen so many great beautiful Ladies that ended up in a failed marriage nd bad ones too that ended up marrying angels.

Opposites attract and likes repel, i guess

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SyrusdeHansome:



You're right bro. Av seen so many great beautiful Ladies that ended up in a failed marriage nd bad ones too that ended up marrying angels.

with the help of God. the good ones usually make sure the marriage work out if rightly guided

SyrusdeHansome:
I'm using this opportunity to celebrate our women all over the world. You deserve to be respected nd celebrated. May God bless our mothers, sisters, aunties, friends nd our female colleagues nd bosses.


Back to the question.
In 2017 i did a project topic on domestic abuse nd I found out that most married women nd men in Nigeria are constantly being abused by their spouse, nd the most painful part of it is that good women nd men are not left out.
Sometimes it's like life isn't fair to most pple when it comes to the issue of marriage. So what makes you think are the reasons why some good men nd women end up with bad spouses nd the bad ones end up with good spouses?

What empirical evidence do you have to support your claim?
I remember one DMX song from his "And then there was X" album called 'why do good girls like bad guys'

Because a good person is willing to keep working on a bad relationship hoping for the best. They think its just one more good that can conquer the bad in the other spouse.
Because good people do npt let of bad things without fixing it up. The good in them won't let them walk away.
Because they know they can take the bad without retaliating and so they know they are the ones who can still wish the bad spouse well.
Because maybe all their life that is what they have been exposed to and the familiarity is what they know.
Because how are they sure another won't be worse off.
Because maybe just maube they can love the bad away.
Good people live terrible lives with deep depressions. They spend all their time emptying their happinness to others and no one sees the declining health and depression when it comes.
Shout out to everyone out there sacrificing all to make the world a better place. The dreams will come true one day.
Stay safe.

Bad boys knows how to get the good girls
And the bad girls knows how to get the good guys....

Bad boys has the experience and the skills to win the heart of any woman.
When its time for him to settle down he dumps the bad girls and settle for a good girl.

The bad girls knows all the tricks to attract, keep or even hook the good guys.....

Only in rare cases a good girl gets a good guy and a good girl get a good guy...

its called LIFE... there are two reasons here:

A) the majority of bad people will "pretend" to be good, in order to meet good people. then when they are married and comfortable, they will become themselves again... only then will their spouse realize they are married to a bad person.

B) foolish people knowingly marrying bad people thinking they can CHANGE THEM

MrBrownJay1:
its called LIFE... there are two reasons here:

A) the majority of bad people will "pretend" to be good, in order to meet good people. then when they are married and comfortable, they will become themselves again... only then will their spouse realize they are married to a bad person.

B) foolish people knowingly marrying bad people thinking they can CHANGE THEM

U get sense bro.
Thumbs up

MrBrownJay1:
its called LIFE... there are two reasons here:

A) the majority of bad people will "pretend" to be good, in order to meet good people. then when they are married and comfortable, they will become themselves again... only then will their spouse realize they are married to a bad person.

B) foolish people knowingly marrying bad people thinking they can CHANGE THEM

very correct bro.

As for me,there is nothing as such as good or bad person.people exhibit who they are when they have the opportunity to do so.and we should stop overrating the word marriage and forgetting the reason it was created in the first place.after seeking Gods direction on who to marry lets also consider other things we ought to do as humans,and maybe then our marriages will not continue to crash.and we will stop saying good man marry bad woman and vice versa.

O yeah, cuz it's a fuckkked up world.

Maybe because almost all the good guys are out there, always active in social gathering, living their lives. They're non religious, flexible and looking out for the good girls.
While the good girls are at home (always indoor, waiting for Mr. right) they can't be seen.
And
Most of the bad guys are at home, broke, they hardly goes out to mingle, they're religious, non exposed and keeping the good girls company
While
Most of the bad girls, are out there well dressed, at the mall, in the club, mega churches, etc. showcasing theirselves.
they're outspokenon, always on the lookout for cute, rich and good guys to mingle.

The bottom line is, go out, mingle, make friends, date and choose the one that suit you.

My observation though

Only God can answer that...