funmisticqueen2:
Was it yesterday, or two days ago, when Kennedyiheme02 created this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5726717/understanding-high-value-woman

I read his post and the 9 pages that followed, and laughed to myself. I was also mentioned many times in that thread, maybe to get my controversial opinion on the matter or help the thread trend. I didn't talk too much, because there's no point. Cheetahs don't need to prove to dogs that they are the fastest sprinters. This is not a diss at the thread. Not is this a response to that thread. This is my opinion on the subject matter, which is being a high value woman.

Yes, I think I am qualified to talk on this topic. Because I know enough about being one to write a book on it. Ladies, here's a question, do you think I should write a book on being a high value woman? Please answer in the comments. Thanks.

Maybe I'll break this into 2 or 3 parts, because being a high value woman, is all encompassing.


So who's a high value woman?
The definition varies. But a a high value woman is a woman who is has value, and most importantly, is an asset.

A thing to note is that value is in the eye of the beholder. What everyone values is different. The only person who value counts is YOU.

You are a high value woman, if you are first of
all valuable and an asset to yourself. Before you are valuable to others.

A high value woman prioritizes herself first, prioritizes her visions and goals, prioritizes her appearance. She is an asset to herself. She is her prize.

If you think being all I said above is easy. Then you are deceiving yourself.

Many of us as people, especially womem do not love and value ourselves to begin with. And there are many reasons for that, it could be your upbringing, past experiences, trauma,abuse, disability, and many others.

Here's are some questions for you. If you were your friend, would you love your company? Are you afraid of being single and being with yourself? Are you the woman you want to be? Are you actively striving to be her?

A high value woman is not necessarily the things said in that other thread. The first real truth you have to know is this, A high value woman is someone who loves herself, despite her flaws and imperfections to see that she is worth investing in. She is an asset to herself thereby an asset to others. She is not a liability to herself. She prioritizes herself.

A woman who thinks this way will act differently. Thinking this way puts you in a sphere of like minded people who can only see your value. It Chase's the flies in your life. It changes your behavior to accept nothing less because you are deserving of the best, and if you cannot get it, then you are enough.

Being a high value woman, starts in the mind first.

Michellekabod2, Riele, Rehkina,

Ekakamba:

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And our bittered battered smelly pussy customer above me is still pained by my words, I must have said the truth yesterday.
Sixfeetbelle raydans

funmisticqueen2:
Insults are not necessary here, repeat this and you will be reported. This is your final warning.

funmisticqueen2:
Insults are not necessary here, of you and sweetbuns repeat this and you will be reported. This is your final warning.

funmisticqueen2:
Insults are not necessary here, of you and sweetbuns repeat this and you will be reported. This is your final warning.

sexylassie2:
I am a woman, I don't care whether boys think I am high value or not, if you bring negative energy near me, I return it with negative energy, if you bring positive energy near me, I return it with positive energy

What all these men here want is someone they can maltreat and ride on.

All these small boys shouting they want high value woman, have they gotten their shit together.

Do they have jobs?
Are they independent?
Can they protect their love ones talk less of a woman?
Can they feed their families?
Can they afford basic amenities?

They want a high value woman but they themselves aren't high value..confusion of the highest order, that is why they based their value on sex because that only what they can offer.

pryme:


Stop generalizing.

sexylassie2:


You tell that to your fellow men.

pryme:


I dont believe all women are a waste of space.

funmisticqueen2:
Was it yesterday, or two days ago, when Kennedyiheme02 created this thread https://www.nairaland.com/5726717/understanding-high-value-woman

I read his post and the 9 pages that followed, and laughed to myself. I was also mentioned many times in that thread, maybe to get my controversial opinion on the matter or help the thread trend. I didn't talk too much, because there's no point. Cheetahs don't need to prove to dogs that they are the fastest sprinters. This is not a diss at the thread. Not is this a response to that thread. This is my opinion on the subject matter, which is being a high value woman.

Yes, I think I am qualified to talk on this topic. Because I know enough about being one to write a book on it. Ladies, here's a question, do you think I should write a book on being a high value woman? Please answer in the comments. Thanks.

Maybe I'll break this into 2 or 3 parts, because being a high value woman, is all encompassing.


So who's a high value woman?
The definition varies. But a a high value woman is a woman who has a high value, and most importantly, is an asset.

A thing to note is that value is in the eye of the beholder. What everyone values is different. The only person whose value counts is YOU.

You are a high value woman, if you are first of
all valuable and an asset to yourself. Before you are valuable to others.

A high value woman prioritizes herself first, prioritizes her visions and goals, prioritizes her appearance. She is an asset to herself. She is her prize.

If you think being all I said above is easy. Then you are deceiving yourself. It's a lot of work.

Many of us as people, especially womem do not love and value ourselves to begin with. And there are many reasons for that, it could be your upbringing, past experiences, trauma,abuse, disability, and many others.

Here's some questions for you. If you were your friend, would you love your company? Are you afraid of being single and being with yourself? Are you the woman you want to be? Are you actively striving to be her?

A high value woman is not necessarily the things said in that other thread. The first real truth you have to know is this, A high value woman is someone who loves herself, despite her flaws and imperfections to see that she is worth investing in. She is an asset to herself thereby an asset to others. She is not a liability to herself. She prioritizes herself.

A woman who thinks this way will act differently. Thinking this way puts you in a sphere of like minded people who can only see your value. It chases away the flies in your life. It changes your behavior to accept nothing less because you are deserving of the best, and if you cannot get it, then you are enough.

Being a high value woman, starts in the mind first. It's is not a long list of physical attributes like age, virginity, body count, or the ability to cook and clean, or to give all the sex positions in pornhub and Kamasutra.

Michellekabod2, Riele, Rehkina ariza sexylassie2 blu03 xhosanostra

Modified: please note that reading and internalising threads from people like the thread I
mentioned will only bring down the value of a woman. This is a strategy they are known for. To incite fear, worthlessness and a sense of desperation in women. This brings down her perceived value, and makes her low hanging fruit, easy pickings for such men. You are what you read.

sexylassie2:
I am a woman, I don't care whether boys think I am high value or not, if you bring negative energy near me, I return it with negative energy, if you bring positive energy near me, I return it with positive energy

What all these men here want is someone they can maltreat and ride on.

All these small boys shouting they want high value woman, have they gotten their shit together.

Do they have jobs?
Are they independent?
Can they protect their love ones talk less of a woman?
Can they feed their families?
Can they afford basic amenities?

They want a high value woman but they themselves aren't high value..confusion of the highest order, that is why they based their value on sex because that only what they can offer.

Magnoliaa:
The preaching on top woman head and who she should be exactly is enough to fill up a library. Traditional women preach, modern women preach, even feminists preach. What is it gan? Na only her? Is she not enough, in herself? At the end of the day, the quest to be a 'high value woman' is done with the aim of getting what? A man. Becoming attractive and yada yada yada. If there weren't men in the world, will the noise be this much??

Not telling anyone to not be whatever they want to be. But why do you want to be what you want to be?

Meanwhile, I'll be waiting and will love to read threads on being a 'high value man.' It'll be an interesting discussion. If people will contribute.

proclinician:
This actually reads like a bit of a ramble. A prostitute considers herself an assest to herself. You know the boobs and bum and she flaunts these things on Instagram and facebook twerking pepper them, she's feeling fly 200k followers . But is she a "high value woman"?

Men with the same cognitive abilities like she has are free to treat her like a dog, pull out her number off tinder and bring her over then discard her when you're done. She feels she is an asset to herself because men can't stop but turn heads when she passes around and she gets jaws dropping.

These things are superficial and are just there for the first impression but after that what next. Question is for how long will this last lol. Truth is when a woman can't live beyond her anatomy like most Nigerian ladies no mattet how she feels about herself she is of zero value.

Being a high value woman goes beyond how you see yourself or what you think of yourself but actually the energy you exude and how it affects ppl around you.

WHAT MAKES A WOMAN TO BE OF HIGH VALUE.

I want to correct the impression that sex and how much a woman has it tells negatively about the value of a woman. In fact, this is a collateral thing when it comes to women in general. The only people who put a value on this are those prudish people who, by the way, tend to tell you how you should lead your life.

It’s important to notice that these people are more than irrelevant—and the same goes for their opinions. That said, a woman of value can have sex as many a times as she wants it doesn't mean anything as long as she would never use sex as a currency. In as much as this is true, it doesn't mean i do not prefer virgins for my own ego to start with.

A high value woman is confident. When it comes to her confidence, the high-value woman doesn’t lack a slice of it. She knows her worth, and she wears her confidence like the most expensive, full-length, fur coat. Where i do my residency the management organized a debate competition and we formed groups on the opposing sides of the spectrum and about to get started. This lady, a nurse, my group member said even if we go up the stage and speak gibberish we are going to win.

This is one of the ladies i consider highly intelligent and i knew she said this not because she thinks we are going to speak gibberish but because she knows what she's about to do and she has to let us feel the energy which her confidence exudes. She went in to speak first and she took the audience by storm and swept the judges off their feet. Las las we won.

A high-value woman is proud of her achievements and the hard work she needed to put in, in order to get as high as she is now. Most importantly, she doesn’t need anyone else to tell her she did great because she’s perfectly able to analyze herself by herself.

A high value woman is not afraid to get her fingers dirty. I know a girl that always begs me for money on messenger. We once dated but i couldn't afford her she thought, so she left for some avalon boys. She's white (complexion) and extremely beautiful.

All she needs for great meals for the day to fall out was to walk like 2-4 poles in the street and she will be picked up to some fancy restaurant. She considers herself an asset like she is beautiful, thinks highly of herself like she has to reason the kind of car u have before picking her up but all na emptiness.

I suggested that she find a job while we were dating but she felt she can't stress her self so her complexion doesn't change so she doenst become less attractive. 5 years later today i improved, she wants to come back but no room for that.


A high-value woman doesn’t come crying to a man, asking him to do things for her when these are things she can figure out on her own without using sex as a currency. She won’t have problems doing things women don’t do on a regular basis.





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proclinician:
This actually reads like a bit of a ramble. A prostitute considers herself an assest to herself. You know the boobs and bum and she flaunts these things on Instagram and facebook twerking pepper them, she's feeling fly 200k followers . But is she a "high value woman"?

Men with the same cognitive abilities like she has are free to treat her like a dog, pull out her number off tinder and bring her over then discard her when you're done. She feels she is an asset to herself because men can't stop but turn heads when she passes around and she gets jaws dropping.

These things are superficial and are just there for the first impression but after that what next. Question is for how long will this last lol. Truth is when a woman can't live beyond her anatomy like most Nigerian ladies no mattet how she feels about herself she is of zero value.

Being a high value woman goes beyond how you see yourself or what you think of yourself but actually the energy you exude and how it affects ppl around you.

WHAT MAKES A WOMAN TO BE OF HIGH VALUE.

I want to correct the impression that sex and how much a woman has it tells negatively about the value of a woman. In fact, this is a collateral thing when it comes to women in general. The only people who put a value on this are those prudish people who, by the way, tend to tell you how you should lead your life.

It’s important to notice that these people are more than irrelevant—and the same goes for their opinions. That said, a woman of value can have sex as many a times as she wants it doesn't mean anything as long as she would never use sex as a currency. In as much as this is true, it doesn't mean i do not prefer virgins for my own ego to start with.

A high value woman is confident. When it comes to her confidence, the high-value woman doesn’t lack a slice of it. She knows her worth, and she wears her confidence like the most expensive, full-length, fur coat. Where i do my residency the management organized a debate competition and we formed groups on the opposing sides of the spectrum and about to get started. This lady, a nurse, my group member said even if we go up the stage and speak gibberish we are going to win.

This is one of the ladies i consider highly intelligent and i knew she said this not because she thinks we are going to speak gibberish but because she knows what she's about to do and she has to let us feel the energy which her confidence exudes. She went in to speak first and she took the audience by storm and swept the judges off their feet. Las las we won.

A high-value woman is proud of her achievements and the hard work she needed to put in, in order to get as high as she is now. Most importantly, she doesn’t need anyone else to tell her she did great because she’s perfectly able to analyze herself by herself.

A high value woman is not afraid to get her fingers dirty. I know a girl that always begs me for money on messenger. We once dated but i couldn't afford her she thought, so she left for some avalon boys. She's white (complexion) and extremely beautiful.

All she needs for great meals for the day to fall out was to walk like 2-4 poles in the street and she will be picked up to some fancy restaurant. She considers herself an asset like she is beautiful, thinks highly of herself like she has to reason the kind of car u have before picking her up but all na emptiness.

I suggested that she find a job while we were dating but she felt she can't stress her self so her complexion doesn't change so she doenst become less attractive. 5 years later today i improved, she wants to come back but no room for that.


A high-value woman doesn’t come crying to a man, asking him to do things for her when these are things she can figure out on her own without using sex as a currency. She won’t have problems doing things women don’t do on a regular basis.





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Idontgiveafuck2:
HIGH VALUE OR LOW VALUE.NA STILL MEN GO CARRY una. ASK LINDA IKEJI.

Kennedyiheme02:
which man carry linda ikeji

funmisticqueen2:
exactly.

We women are getting a lot of attention and advice, aren't we?

sexylassie2:


The right question will be which Nigerian man can marry Linda ikeji

The answer: most Nigerian men can't handle her, do you think she will go low with a struggling man, a man full of insecurities like many niaja men.

Reality check, many naija men are struggling to meet their needs, will there low self esteem not be destroyed if they go out with a woman who earn than them

The only men that can handle her and won't be bruise are men who are richer than her, sorry to disappoint you, they are few in this country.

Kennedyiheme02:
maybe you dont really understand men oo.. no high value man would marry a 40 year old woman... dude its quite suprising we men know women well and you just cant figure men out.. why would a man of high value marry someone like linda ikeji.. you see ned and regina?.. you see neds other wives.. sweet, young fine women.. not an old cargo... what exactly would ned be doing with an old mama like linda..is it that she's finer than younger women, or she has a low body count.. at that age not so much... oh or its her money... what the Bleep would ned need linda ikejis money for? . Dude y'all need to understand this game and men.. from the boss of F1 whos a billionaire to that king in nigeria that gave birth to twins with his young wife...80 year old man.. lol dont decieve yourself.. men dont care about your money... there's an igbo adage that says the beauty of a woman is a man.. where women with husbands are gatheredin a meeting.. linda ikeji dares not say a word as she has no class amongst them... she should keep looking for high value men.. no wonder shes still single.. she probably has people like you around her advising her... so unfortunate... at that age the kind of man linda ikeji would get is trash... .. when you wake up every morning use her as case study... you have no value when you're rich and old.. a baby mama with no husband