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I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Timson01(m): 1:59pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Good day everyone, My issue is with a very close friend of mine. We live in the same compound for years. Actually, her husband and I were buddies as bachelors. He brought her in as girlfriend,they dated for two years. I was like a brother to them,although they are like 3 years older than me. From dating,they got married and she became our iyawo. This lady is dead gorgeous and I counted my friend (Dalton,not real name) as very lucky. Iyawo is any man’s dream:sexy and a good cook. Plus her figure na die.I used to call her sister mi or iyawo.Them getting married brought me even more closer. I ate in their house most times. Their first son came and was actually 9 months old when Dalton passed on in a motor accident. All our worlds stopped. It was the most painful time of all our lives. I mean,he was a young father and husband,friend and son. I was dating someone at the time. Later on,I traveled and was in UK for 3 years. I kept in touch with Iyawo. Sent her money now and again even though she didnt need it.I relocated back to Nigeria last year. And Iyawo looks even more stunning.I was perplexed that she was not dating yet. She was like,she is still mourning her late husband. Its been four years later. I think she should move on and get married again but she was like,no one wants a single mother with a kid.She used to tell me how lonely she gets and all that. I knew I liked her alot but we are just like family. The more I saw her,the more I wanted her. I was single. I am 36 years,she is 39. I thought about this for a long time and I told her how I felt about her.She laughed and said it would never work. According to her,I was like a junior brother to her and too close to her late husband. That people would think we were having an affair while he was alive. I see reasons with her but I think there is no excuse good enough to let her go without a fight for her heart.Please I need directive..advise…how do I convince her that all her excuses do not matter..will people actually disapprove of our union…I just want to know what chances I have or concerns that anyone may raise about this before I push further for her love. I love this woman and her son with all my heart. If there is anyone who has been in a similar situation,please advise also thank u as u offer ur advice no insult please 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by SmellingAnus(m): 2:00pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
All I can say is that may we not have such friends like you that will be waiting to bang our wives after our demise in the name of wanting to date her... 113 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by steve10(m): 2:07pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Bro, follow your heart make her see reasons why it will work and never give up, also make sure you marry her for real make you no bleep her come run. If you do that thunder will look you 16 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 2:07pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Never break the Bro code. All these Lai Mohammed stories on nairaland sef ![]() 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by ContractKiller: 2:08pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Sigh. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by daddytime(m): 2:09pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
God forbid.... You ain't no close friend nigga but a very close enemy. You were already coveting the poor guy's wife until his death, how are we sure you ain't responsible for his death consciously or unconsciously when you'd seat and keep dreaming to have his wife as yours in your mind. There is power in our thoughts and subconscious mind. May God guide and guard me and whoever is reading this from the likes of you. With the likes of you who needs an enemy? Dig your grave man, you'd be needing it soon. So, of all the women that are in the UK and now Nigeria, no one is as 'set' as the iyawo in question? You are an oloju Kokoro Tuehhh 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by chinchonglee(m): 2:16pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
daddytime:i see nothing wrong in what he is trying to do. afterall the friend is no more. 28 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by daddytime(m): 2:19pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
chinchonglee: There is everything wrong with it when his covetousness had started while the guy was still very much alive. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by bigt2(m): 2:20pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
U have been lurking around to marry her. QED. If not, why not find your own iyawo? Even the man's spirit wouldn't forgive you. ![]() God! Help us! Remember you will die someday too. ![]() 4 Likes
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Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Ekakamba: 2:20pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
May you die in ACTIVE SERVICE..... Sorry for this.... Just read that your friend passed on. All the best man. ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 2:21pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
The truth is you have never loved this woman. The feeling is purely LUST. You only want to fuucck her and move on. Not nice at all 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by chinchonglee(m): 2:23pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
daddytime:they was only fantasizing den... now he is free so long the friend is dead. what abt brother marrying their late brother's wife ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Magnoliaa(f): 2:26pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
SmellingAnus: Was He responsible for his friend's death? He wasn't waiting for anything. Life happened. He was attracted to the woman, no big deal. That she was married doesn't change that. Strangers and friends (men) are attracted to people's wives everywhere. But he didn't make a move. If the friend wasn't dead, his attraction still wouldn't be changed. 14 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Magnoliaa(f): 2:30pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
I am actually rooting for a ship to begin sailing between you guys. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by toffyz(m): 2:42pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
I doubt if this story is real Then, if it's real...There's nothing bad if you guys marry, after all her hubby is late. But expect backlashes from the society and family. But don't mind them, it would soon be over, they will definitely talked it over. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Tripitaka: 2:43pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
SmellingAnus: There's absolutely nothing wrong with him desiring her. For all intents and purposes, she is single. OP did not kill his friend, neither did he sleep with the friends wife when he was alive. It's 4yrs already and well time for her to move on with any one she may choose. People marry their late brother's wives, how much more. 8 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 2:52pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
I personally don’t like the idea of a man sexually desiring his friend’s wife..dead or alive.. Dude have some respect.... I feel like giving people like you rat poison 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by bigpicture001: 2:55pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
....the closer u get a lady the more u fantasize her...give her space nd the scales will fall off ur eyes 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 2:58pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
chinchonglee: U know It’s a tradition of greed under the guise that the deceased’s brother owes whatever the deceased left behind..... it’s not only degrading to treat a woman as an item, it’s also dehumanizing But If it’s the the widow that willfully desires to start riding her late brothers shaft....all well and good 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by kendrick93(m): 3:02pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Timson01:Every guy's prayer should be not to have a friend like you..... You were already jealous of your friend when he was alive cos he got married to your crush.... You Mr man is a Snake....I'm sure you must have been rejoicing when he passed away..... Smh 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 3:06pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Magnoliaa: Madam....this is not a good ship... 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 3:09pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
kendrick93: I can imagine the basstard jumping up that his friend is finally dead... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by chinchonglee(m): 3:11pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:this shuld be the case here... if widow agrees to date him den no wahala. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by shininglite(m): 3:15pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
All I see is LUST..After 2 months of sex with this Lady please come back and tell us how you feel.. Am 100% sure you don't Love her The story sef get K leg 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by jeff1607(m): 3:18pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
From the stables of fake stories Here is another one Feast on this 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by devilmaycry: 3:24pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Guy....just blank this babe...she already told u it won't work....go get ur own babe and leave the poor widow alone!!! |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by GoldenJAT(m): 3:27pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Being awhile I commented here! And here is my submission. I am very real and practical when it comes to the issues of life. Some things we see ourselves doing wasn't planned out from the onset. Admiring your friend's wife , while he was alive isn't a big deal to me. If really she was as you pointed out. I believe you didn't kill your friend. If she feels same way about you,then do the right thing. Even the Bible say, till death do (married people)part. Those condemning your actions here will probably do even worst. PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS TALK. Do what makes you happy. But do not take advantage of her. 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Magnoliaa(f): 3:48pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by BareFacedLies(m): 3:49pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Of all the women around it's your friend's widow you want to fúck? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Kobicove(m): 3:54pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Don't date her unless you're absolutely sure you have intention of marrying her and that the relationship will work. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by osuofia2(m): 3:55pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
wrong caption, ode |
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