Magnoliaa:


oh, wow!!

That's sacrilegious!

He's breaking the bro code?!!

What should be done to him? Take him to the police? Or call a village council meeting on his case?

Logoobenz:

1StopRudeness:



Come on .....this is disgusting.....

The brother is dead yet you want to run family monopoly on the widow’s pvssy....If this isn’t dehumanizing then I don’t know what is...

chinchonglee:

i see nothing wrong in what he is trying to do.

afterall the friend is no more.

1StopRudeness:


You are the one with the problem not seeing that it’s inappropriate for a man to come say he has always wanted to sleep with his friend’s wife and now that he his dead he want to take his lust further.......yet you are turning it around and calling me a bad person....

please, it’s best you walk away with ur lack of shame rather than displaying it around with pride.... it’s just disgusting

Magnoliaa:


Did you even read the OP at all? And understood it perfectly? They were friends. The three of them. Close friends. He loves her son (the friend's also) as his own. It's been four years. He wrote, 'their worlds stopped when Dalton died.' They all felt it deeply. This will even form a stronger bond 'coz he knows her better. Unlike a new man just waltzing into the picture.

So, he described her as hot and all - and that shows he's lusting after her? Do you know the parts he didn't share here?
That wasn't the only thing he mentioned.

Of course, it's expected you'll feel offended. You called the man a bastard, said you like to poison his kind, accused him of jumping up at the death of his friend. I mean, what the heck?? Why the harsh judgments, a person you don't know in real life? As I said, your own posts condemn you.



Typical. Now it's being heaped on me. Go and heal. Don't attack me.

Timson01:
Good day everyone,

My issue is with a very close friend of mine. We live in the same compound for years. Actually, her husband and I were buddies as bachelors. He brought her in as girlfriend,they dated for two years. I was like a brother to them,although they are like 3 years older than me.
From dating,they got married and she became our iyawo. This lady is dead gorgeous and I counted my friend (Dalton,not real name) as very lucky. Iyawo is any man’s dream:sexy and a good cook. Plus her figure na die.I used to call her sister mi or iyawo.Them getting married brought me even more closer. I ate in their house most times. Their first son came and was actually 9 months old when Dalton passed on in a motor accident. All our worlds stopped. It was the most painful time of all our lives. I mean,he was a young father and husband,friend and son.
I was dating someone at the time. Later on,I traveled and was in UK for 3 years. I kept in touch with Iyawo. Sent her money now and again even though she didnt need it.I relocated back to Nigeria last year. And Iyawo looks even more stunning.I was perplexed that she was not dating yet. She was like,she is still mourning her late husband. Its been four years later. I think she should move on and get married again but she was like,no one wants a single mother with a kid.She used to tell me how lonely she gets and all that. I knew I liked her alot but we are just like family. The more I saw her,the more I wanted her. I was single. I am 36 years,she is 39. I thought about this for a long time and I told her how I felt about her.She laughed and said it would never work. According to her,I was like a junior brother to her and too close to her late husband. That people would think we were having an affair while he was alive. I see reasons with her but I think there is no excuse good enough to let her go without a fight for her heart.Please I need directive..advise…how do I convince her that all her excuses do not matter..will people actually disapprove of our union…I just want to know what chances I have or concerns that anyone may raise about this before I push further for her love. I love this woman and her son with all my heart.
If there is anyone who has been in a similar situation,please advise also thank u as u offer ur advice no insult please

MJBOLT:

magnoliaa,dont tell me you support this evil

1StopRudeness:



U give urself too much credit.... u think you offended me? Over what?? A comment from someone that doesn’t see anything inappropriate about this can’t make me offended. I’ve said it over and over, it irritates me. It doesn’t offend me.

Funny u even said I’m attacking you, where as u jumped on my comment lying that others said it’s read it and said it okay and I’m the only one that think this is weird...abegg who’s attacking who....

please, we are seeing this from two different angles and if u feel it’s not inappropriate, then enjoy, it’s your view......I don’t have to see t your way...and u don’t have to agree with me

pocohantas:


Lol. Wetin dey sweet this Anambra man?

Logoobenz:
the way you use denounce feminism na.
Wetin happen?

pocohantas:


Have I PLEDGED to be one? I like to think that should have been recorded to happen- before we talk of DENOUNCEMENT.

How do you jump on someone’s comment to say “you as a woman and feminist”...does that even make sense? Mtcheeew!

Logoobenz:
Well,not bad.
Any day you fully denounce am,you know what to do.

pocohantas:


There is nothing to denounce. Wetin dey worry me pass feminism. In fact, na ogbanje.

Logoobenz:
You need person weh go commot the ogbanje for you na.
I dey always tell you,me and you in the same environment or house ehn,either one person go succumb or one person go go.

pocohantas:


Taah! Na you go go na.
Let me finish my makeup first.

SmellingAnus:
All I can say is that may we not have such friends like you that will be waiting to bang our wives after our demise in the name of wanting to date her...

Logoobenz:
abia.
Small shaking you don kupu,then imagine say na my house you dey,me I come go?
Lie lie!!!
Who go allow you do make up sef
It's like you don forget abi?

pocohantas:


Lol. You never tell me wetin dey hungry you. Continue to imagine me and you inside house o.

Magnoliaa:


Was He responsible for his friend's death? He wasn't waiting for anything. Life happened. He was attracted to the woman, no big deal. That she was married doesn't change that. Strangers and friends (men) are attracted to people's wives everywhere. But he didn't make a move. If the friend wasn't dead, his attraction still wouldn't be changed.

Tripitaka:




People marry their late brother's wives, how much more.

rain21:



Really? So it's delusional for guys to keep screaming midnight newspaper when in reality they are still very much sexy and attractive..hmm

Logoobenz:
nothing go happen,you ain't that charming again
Wetin happen?