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Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by nlPoster: 6:30pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
freecocoahubby: 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by egopersonified(f): 6:32pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
southniyikaye: Some have food but cannot eat Some can eat but have no food We have food and we can eat Glory be to thee o Lord Like they say, there are three sides to every story. |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by deor03(m): 6:50pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Kuns84: Pass exam first na..... 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by SweetCunt97(f): 7:04pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Kuns84:So you can't go to the abroad first and prepare the place before she comes over? Baba no one can hold u back jor, u are the one holding yourself back with ur arrow mentality... You've not even reasoned outside the box. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by managingpartner(f): 7:13pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Don't you think it's better if you apply without her knowledge in order for you to be fulfilled? |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by yeyeosoronga: 7:17pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
You're not a serious person 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by yeyeosoronga: 7:20pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
SweetCunt97: Exactly... He's so unserious. Do your exams and register with their board there. Go there alone and stay with your brother till you're able to save enough to rent your own place and thereafter bring your family. Rent is paid monthly, so it's very easy after getting a job. How can your wife allow you lead her when you're even more confused ? 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by babythug(f): 7:39pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
You’re not yet ready to relocate actually! I can’t believe part of your plans are built around being accommodated by your brother and what not! That’s not how a family man makes plans for relocation. UK is not Nigeria where we accommodate family members wholeheartedly whether convenient or not! Things are different there. If you want to relocate begin to set aside funds to cover your living expenses immediately you get there, at best you land at your brother’s place for a few days or less sef! Present your plans to your Mrs in an organised and professional manner let her see what opportunities you all including the children can benefit from. Let her know that if it doesn’t work out you’d return here within an agreed time frame but I’m sure once she sees that despite the hardship there once you can iron whenever you feel like and bulk cook without worrying for nepa and she doesn’t hear sound of generator or sit in traffic after working all day for hours she too will make things work there! Good luck oga 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by tiswell(m): 8:01pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:You seem to be a difficult lady.(no pun intended) 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Nobody: 8:04pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Squillaci:I love this! Also add, relocate to UK and marry your bros wife along with him before u marry a new wife Mtcheew. If his brother isn't in UK nd he gets a 6 figure paying job there, won't he relocate? Can't he start off in other developed country first, give the wife the opportunity to discover herself then move to UK not as squatter but somebody who has already stayed in abroad too and knows her way around. U know your wife has an inferiority complex issue and u don't want to help her out instead want to uproot and throw her into toxic surrounding that will worsen her state and u call yourself a Dr? U don't know anything about human management. Help that woman build her confidence by keeping the two ladies poles apart. If your bros wife is as good as u painted her, why has she not reached out to your wife peacefully and amicably by putting herself in your wife's shoe. I think u are in love with her background not her personality. And u seem like the type who can easily betray his wife for a little penny else I don't know why u want to go and squat with your brother and family with your own family. Drs stay in Nigeria and write professional exams, apply for jobs and move when they get one and move into their own house, u want to free load Awof dey run belle 11 Likes
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Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Nobody: 8:09pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
babythug:Don't mind that free loader.eyeing his brothers wife He think we don't know Free kpekus,Free house, Free food etc. Even Buhari own no reach like this. The wife knows what's going on and vehemently rejected it. She is the smart one here I swear, if the wife come here, she will.expose this man Read inbetween lines and know what the problem is Married single man 12 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Nobody: 8:13pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
deor03:Exam ke? He don't know that one. He only want to go and live with his brothers wife under the same roof. He didn't even praise his brother or his own wife but his brothers wife. What am i saying? He said his wife has an inferiority complex Awon werey Dr ni Dr ko 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by freecocoahubby(m): 8:31pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
sassysure: Hahahhahahahaha! Na so e pain you reach? OP, e be like say your wife don arrive 10 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by freecocoahubby(m): 8:37pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
sassysure: Agbaya! It's so obvious this topic hits close to home for you Go and reconcile with your sister in law instead of wallowing in your pathetic display of idiocy.. even your own husband knows you're suffering from inferiority complex . Lol! 12 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:49pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Is this write-up about me? Respect yourself, and stop personalizing my comments. My personal life should be none of your business. tiswell: 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Nobody: 8:52pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Huh, stay in Nigeria jor, u Doctor don't appreciate God, ur salary in Nigeria is a prayer point for some people, u Nigeria Doctors like money too much, and e no dey show for ur body o, upon all d money, na stingy stingy, no dress sense, mchweeeew. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Kuns84(m): 9:06pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
dancok: How much salary? Don't for a second think doctors are paid so much like that. Take LUTH for example, do you how many months and how frequently they delay paying salaries? If not for the private hospital I work at, I doubt I'd be able to even afford rent. As a doctor, I'm faced daily with an immense pressure to live up to certain standards. We have to drive certain cars, carry ourselves a certain way, give handouts to every family member who feels you are better off than they are. It's been a stressful existence so far practicing medicine in Nigeria, it's not all glitz and glam as it seems. 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by sisisioge: 9:24pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
So UK is the size of a face me I face you compound where everyone sees and know one another's business. You never ready 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by GboyegaD(m): 9:29pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Kuns84: You are not relocating to o to live with your brother and his family so,why is she making a fuss out of it? |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by GboyegaD(m): 11:46pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Kuns84: People relocate abroad and start living their own life. If you think she has to support you in staying at your brother's house, you are not being fair to her. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Nobody: 2:26am On Mar 11, 2020 |
rain21:PLEASE respect his OPINION. EVERYONE knows his or her spouse. The Ones married to DEVIL know... The Ones married to ANGELS know... The Ones likely to DIVORCE already know... Allow him. He knows his WIFE better than you. He lives with her. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Nobody: 2:32am On Mar 11, 2020 |
madridguy:The USA is BLOCKED oooo. No Road there. Except his WIFE is a Nurse and Willing to tow that direction. CANADA is Open. But he won't be initiated into the medical practice immediately. He will be subjected to an unusual Canadian Exams, yet that won't guarantee practice... AUSTRALIA OPEN as well. But has to start with a master's program to quickly fit in. |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Nobody: 2:41am On Mar 11, 2020 |
dancok:MEDICAL DOCTORS IN NIGERIA are not generally chased into other countries by low incomes in Nigeria so to speak. OTHER COMMONER CAUSES OF MIGRATION by NIGERIAN MEDICAL DOCTORS include; ..... Growing Nigeria's Insecurity challenges ..... JOB insecurity after Residency. ..... Growing number of Dependent Family relatives. ..... Devastated Health sector (nothing to work with). ..... Closeness to GOD. Don't Always Conclude when you have meagre facts about some things. |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by ambient: 3:35am On Mar 11, 2020 |
I am like your wife,i can never be comfortable in another woman's house not to talk about one i have issues with.the idea of relocating to another country have never freak me.....in short i hate it. Try and go alone your wife is comfortable here pls. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Nobody: 4:45am On Mar 11, 2020 |
Go and find work, then take her over when you're settled. |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by madridguy(m): 5:45am On Mar 11, 2020 |
Thanks Baba, wetin me know EVILFOREST: |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Nobody: 6:31am On Mar 11, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy: A man who is running multiple jobs in his career, you are asking him to make enough money. No dey talk like person who never make money before. He should travel alone first and settle for a year and them send for his wife. |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Olufemiolaolu(m): 6:38am On Mar 11, 2020 |
You can convince her about other countries like US or Canada. Having a wife that is petty about little things can be frustrating. Pray b4 relocating man. |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by RagnarKlavan: 7:32am On Mar 11, 2020 |
As usual, the women are here again to peddle their emotional selfishness. A medical professional who's supposedly to be on better financial standing is struggling even with two streams of income in a very bad economy. He sees an opportunity to better the family lot for a lifetime and generations to come but wife disagrees because of a petulant issue- one she started in the first place. Sad! If you don't act on your instincts and make a move now, you'll build up resentment towards that same wife for being a cog in your wheel of progress and that could hamper even the said marriage. For those asking if he's written the exams first, I say to the OP- give it a shot. you miss %100 of the shots you don't take. If you must stay with your brother when you move, make it the shortest possible stay ever or make plans to go straight to your own place from Nigeria when you move. It's doable with proper planning. On a final note, make genuine moves to repair the relationship between your family and your brother's. You don't want bad blood coursing over generations because of two petty women. Address the issues without passing blames and own up where you're wrong. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by Adgideon(m): 8:13am On Mar 11, 2020 |
Bros doctor you want to here the truth, if it's your wife she won't think twice b4 relocating, might even leave u if you ain't willing to make the move, the question is are u going to stay with your brother, either yes or know ur future and that of your children is important involve her family, whichever way it goes, you are the boss secure your life no dulling. And when you get there send me a thank you card. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by proclinician: 9:57am On Mar 11, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy: Yes he should make money, enough money. Pls isn't the worthless woman a human being? Is she handicapped? Doesn't she have brains except this relaxer gel made from alkali or ammonium thioglycolate which is a salt of the neutralisation reaction of a weak acid and a weak base kills the brain cells making most women daft and useless. Didn't she go to school? Why should it be the man's business to make a lot of money and then bundle a useless log of wood to the U.K? Oga op self how did u end up with such a woman. She is zero goal oriented and with no ambitions. Marco polo is an adventurer and had to travel far and wide because of his Ambitions. This woman is not ready to test new waters she has no drive, no goals, no zeal, nothing. She's empty. I am doing my residency too and not yet married but I am very careful about the woman I want to get married to. I have a long way to go and most times they just think once a doc is done with nysc he's set but not always true. This woman is delaying your destiny juat like eve destroyed Adam's destiny but the mistake Adam made was that he didn't have the video. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Refuses To Move Abroad by tiswell(m): 10:19am On Mar 11, 2020 |
LilMissFavvy:You just confirmed it
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