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Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by eagleeye259: 9:35pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Other posts by OP: Timson01:https://www.nairaland.com/5697086/please-need-advise-husband-beat Timson01:https://www.nairaland.com/5722832/wedding-just-few-weeks-away |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by spiralwedge(m): 9:47pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
Timson01, you are in the best position to come in as the father and husband. If need be, both of you can change environment and leave people to their musings. Change cities. Marry her for real. The age difference is nothing as both of you are almost 40. . 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 9:56pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
pocohantas:haha who tell you say I be your enemy? Na say una no dey ever gree or hear word. Na those boujie men weh una go dey look for go kill una las las.. Boys weh no hold one naira nor direction for life go dey pretend give una,dey lie to una steady with queens english say dem get audio contract for abuja una go dey listen,thinking say you dey with person. I be tell you say come be for shop make I face Europe,just dey push you container you dey sell dey forward money. You go keep your school one side enter market After 10 years with trust anyi bago manufacturing... Mana unu si nor ndi olu oyibo mor ndi boujie ka unu cholu Ji si unu ike. Anyi bu ndi odogwu |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by zexy2030(m): 10:05pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
just forget that opinion, its absurd. |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by opribo(m): 10:24pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
You killed your friend for his wife. You were hiding your feeling waiting for an opportunity to strike. All this excuse of love is a lie. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by oyatz(m): 10:40pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
You are wrong sir. In the olden days, a wife isn't just married to the husband but to the entire family. If the husband dies prematurely and the widow is still young with children to cater for, the whole family will form a 'committee' and nominate the late husband's YOUNGER brothers/cousins for the widow to choose any one she likes. The chosen brother/cousin will then marry her , provide for the deceased's children and the woman will continue to live within the family compounds. Examples like this with varying modifications occur all over the world during different eras and instances like this are found in the Bible. 1StopRudeness: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by oyatz(m): 10:52pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
You don't know love/lust Sha! Men still chase 45 year old women around. rain21: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by rain21(f): 10:57pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
lefulefu: They keep screaming 'evening and midnight newspaper' Confused lots 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by rain21(f): 10:59pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
oyatz: Dating and marriage are two different things |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by oyatz(m): 10:59pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: It's far better for the window to re-marry her late husband's brother/cousin than remaining singles and receiving side dicks here and there. Many people in the rural areas are born to fathers who 'inherit' their mothers. |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 10:59pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
rain21:its just to get una attention u should understand we guys normal tin |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by oyatz(m): 11:01pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
rain21: You were talking about a 39 year old woman still been sexy. Even post menopausal ladies can still be sexy. |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 11:05pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
The OP has no sense.If he had,he would use it. |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by rain21(f): 11:07pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
oyatz: Ok o Post menopausal ladies are still sexy to demand marriage from them in reality, but in here it becomes an abomination to be single and more than 30., You guys are not serious 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by rain21(f): 11:08pm On Mar 10, 2020 |
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Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by yeyeosoronga: 12:26am On Mar 11, 2020 |
The dead is dead. Let the living live Four years is more than enough time to show respect for the dead 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 12:49am On Mar 11, 2020 |
oyatz:are we still living in olden days? remember culture is man made and can change anytime.why would someone be lusting after his brother"s wife or best friend"s wife when there are very very beautiful women around |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 1:02am On Mar 11, 2020 |
oyatz: How can u tell me I’m wrong only for you to justify your point with the “olden days”. Are we in the olden days ?? Are we still in the era where women are treated like the family’s property to be tossed from one kin to another?? |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 1:07am On Mar 11, 2020 |
oyatz: What do u mean by it’s better than for her to receive side dicks?? You people are the reason women keep shouting feminism and gender equality.... how will u automatically assume she will be receiving side dicks hence she should be transferred to the next available male in the house... see this discussion is just irritating to me.... |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Sixfeetbelle: 2:29am On Mar 11, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: Personally, that's your opinion, and in the major scale of things here, it doesn't count. You're not the dead man, the iyawo or the man. |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Microwhy: 3:40am On Mar 11, 2020 |
OP should just let her be and go find another fvckmate. Lust is what you feel not love. Ode! She's so gorgeous, so you have been looking at her backside since your friend was alive. |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by rex444(m): 5:00am On Mar 11, 2020 |
SmellingAnus:hahahahahaha over sense no go kii u |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 6:02am On Mar 11, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: I don’t get why you are reminding me it’s my opinion but thanks anyways. I’m also aware this is an online public forum where no ones opinion count, we just come to learn, dialogue, and have fun. So what’s ur point exactly?? |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 6:24am On Mar 11, 2020 |
zexy2030: Some people don’t get what it means when a situation is absurd or inappropriate....that’s when u start to hear : shèbí it happened somewhere in the Bible..... shèbí they are adults .... For me, It’s the same way I see a 45year old woman dating and sleeping with an 18year old guy...they are both adults and it’s not against the law...but it’s just fvckin inappropriate and absurd to me. |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 6:28am On Mar 11, 2020 |
LET ME MAKE IT TRIBAL ARE YOU A YORUBA IF YES THEN ITS NOT YOUR FAULT YOU WANT THE WOMAN OF YOUR LATE FRIEND |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by oyatz(m): 6:45am On Mar 11, 2020 |
You are mixing two different issues together. 1) A 39-50 year-old woman can still be sexy and if lucky can still get chances to RE-MARRY especially to men who might have lost their wives through death, divorce or just separation. 2) A Single lady of over thirty years without any kid may increasingly find it difficult to get SUITABLE life partners. The reason is because she will not want to be second wife or get married to some who already have kids but will prefer FRESH guys who are expected to be few years older than her. However most fresh guys within the 30-35 years are already married or hook up. Those who are still unmarried usually prefer ladies between 21-27 years (start checking the ages of brides during wedding ceremonies). Thus, her chances become fewer. * Most bachelors between 35-40years may be men with certain problems (poor finances, difficult inter-personal relationship, emotional disturbances, personality disorders, truancy, too choosy etc) and this factor may be the reasons they are still unmarried and will certainly affect their relationships and marriages if not we'll handled. # In summary: the older the single lady is, the greater the chances that the majority of her eligible and preferred suitors have eluded her. rain21: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by zexy2030(m): 6:47am On Mar 11, 2020 |
1StopRudeness:they forgot they arranging a troublesome future for their children, the family of the husband may not understand his emotions or feelings or sympathy all they suspect is the girl has been dating his friend while she was married to thier son, now they may do everything to wipe out that generation. make this guy get sense make e no waste or shorten his life for family n children, otherwise na inside grave he go explain say he knew nothing about his friend's death. The family is closely observing her though the contract is over. the late guy may be fondly loved by a relation or prolly a great supporter of his ex- family. so he should watch or make spiritual enquiries. my ten kobo na em I borrow u. if u get sense, use am, if u no get sense leave am. |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by oyatz(m): 6:59am On Mar 11, 2020 |
Bros, let me tell you one naked truth: It is very difficult for someone who has experienced sexual intercourse to stop having sex, let alone a woman who was once married. In Psychiatry, we were thought that Sexual urge is one of the four basic instincts ( the other three are Hunger, Anger and Survival instincts). It can be modified or even suppressed for a while but it can not be abolished. I can say it with 95% Confidence that someone somewhere would have had sex with the woman within the last FOUR YEARS that her husband died. 1StopRudeness: |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by oyatz(m): 7:20am On Mar 11, 2020 |
In Africa, especially in Nigeria, the decision by a man to chose whom to marry is not often made solely by the man but also by his family, friends ,church and the immediate community especially when the man is well educated, well traveled and financially okay. For men with less than secondary School level of education, the society don't place much expectations on them, they can marry whoever they like if at all they marry. Most of them just impregnate any lady that come their, often from early age. There are certain women in the guy's life (his MOTHER, sisters, cousins, aunties,even ex-GFs) who will have to approve that the bride to be chosen is okay. Even if the guy loves the lady but these people in his life say the lady is not good, there's great probability that the lady will be dropped. These women are the major reasons many guys will not like to present single mothers or older women to their families as their chosen brides because they are the first people that will kick against it. Try to visualize how you or your mum and sisters will react the day your brother brings a 39 year old single mother home as his preferred bride. An accountant, Lawyer, Lecturer, doctor or banker that try to do that will become the butt of jokes even among his colleagues. rain21: 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 7:29am On Mar 11, 2020 |
oyatz: It’s not the naked truth, it’s a scientific ideology rooted in the premise that humans are just animals....the idea that humans like every other animal is driven by hunger, survival and sex doesn’t account for the ability of humans to make decision without necessarily being driven by nature... Animals in the wild are almost like zombies especially prokaryotes and also eukaryotes that operate at the adrenal cortex level....they are are driven by pheromones, temperature, chemicals, threat, selective pressure and so on......humans on the contrary are not driven by pheromones and the likes.....humans have sex for totally different reasons...to have kids, for fun, to cure boredom, to manage sadness, to seek revenge, for money...sex is a decision for humans.. Anyways this point u have raise Is only a pointer that humans like to have sex, doesn’t validate ur earlier point that a woman whose husband has passed on will automatically start to take dicks anyhow...and hence must passed on like a property to the next of kin in order to help her animalistic desire.. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by pocohantas(f): 8:04am On Mar 11, 2020 |
Logoobenz: Whatever makes you sleep better at night. At least you are someone’s choice, you should focus more on that. Focus more on her dear. |
Re: I Am Tempted To Date My Friends Wife by Nobody: 8:18am On Mar 11, 2020 |
pocohantas:There are better things that make me sleep well at night,definitely not you. So for your mind now na you I dey focus on?nnekwanum nsogbu ohh. I just dey make you see wetin you miss,no be say I dey move even one inch focus from where the love of my life dey. But e no go bad if you bring cookie make I chop ooh,for goodness sake. 1 Like |
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