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Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Chizuru01(m): 5:16pm On Mar 11, 2020
Dashingprince:
Please nairalanders I need your advice. I started dating this girl late last year when she was about rounding up her course in school. I did assisted her in her project work because I graduated from the same department. We've been talking, her family only knew me by name but not facially. Just a month back we did had an unplanned sex (I will say it was a mistake, because I didn't see that coming, because I've always believe in sex after marriage) and after that I stopped communicating with her so we could not be engage in such act again. Though after d sex she said I should buy her a drug that would prevent pregnancy which I did and she took it. But surprisingly she just texted me few days back that she was pregnant and that she have tried removing it but it refuse to go out. Now I'm confused and so is she.. I'm just trying to do my clearance for my NYSC. She is scared and afraid. Me I was just assuring her to be calm but I know down within me I'm scared too. Please I need your advice on this matter, what can u say..
Also note that I hold a very important and high post in my church.

That Woman maybe lying for you o. Maybe she needs money and now she wants to milk you.



Did you release full blast or was it Precum.
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by saint17: 5:19pm On Mar 11, 2020
STOP FORNICATING
This is just the same exact statements you do make to your guillable members every service day

But at their back you are busy banging girls of different size and colour
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Dashingprince(m): 5:19pm On Mar 11, 2020
[quote author=SeunWedsLinda post=87355693] OP, here's the advice you seek.

Dashingprince, You said you gave her a drug. Which drug was that and why didn't you just get it immediately after sex? NB: I've had a similar issue[/qu
I can't remember it fully because she was d one that said I should get it dat day..
What did u do concerning urs?
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Gofwane(m): 5:35pm On Mar 11, 2020
Let her keep the baby. If she delivers and you don't need it, give it to me cos I'm ready for a kid but don't need a wife right now.

Thanks

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Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by SeunWedsLinda(m): 5:37pm On Mar 11, 2020
Dashingprince:

I can't remember it fully because she was d one that said I should get it dat day..
What did u do concerning urs?
First o all, how are you sure she's pregnant? If she actually requested for money for an emergency contraceptive which you made available, then be sure she ain't pregnant. This condition will hold only if she actually took the EC and didn't delay in taking it after sex.

Just recently I had unprotected sex with my girl. Poured everything in and got her postpill the following morning. She saw her period 6 days later. But in the next month which is this March, she started showing signs she was pregnant. She assumed pregnancy without test confirmation and just last week, she saw her period again. I know the feeling when she told me she was pregnant. I Pray you find peace bro
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Dashingprince(m): 6:00pm On Mar 11, 2020
SeunWedsLinda:

First o all, how are you sure she's pregnant? If she actually requested for money for an emergency contraceptive which you made available, then be sure she ain't pregnant. This condition will hold only if she actually took the EC and didn't delay in taking it after sex.

Just recently I had unprotected sex with my girl. Poured everything in and got her postpill the following morning. She saw her period 6 days later. But in the next month which is this March, she started showing signs she was pregnant. She assumed pregnancy without test confirmation and just last week, she saw her period again. I know the feeling when she told me she was pregnant. I Pray you find peace bro


Thanks
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Liposure: 6:03pm On Mar 11, 2020
U are not d first n u wont be d last 2 impregnate a girl. Congratulations

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Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Zealas2: 6:10pm On Mar 11, 2020
Dashingprince:
Please nairalanders I need your advice. I started dating this girl late last year when she was about rounding up her course in school. I did assisted her in her project work because I graduated from the same department. We've been talking, her family only knew me by name but not facially. Just a month back we did had an unplanned sex (I will say it was a mistake, because I didn't see that coming, because I've always believe in sex after marriage) and after that I stopped communicating with her so we could not be engage in such act again. Though after d sex she said I should buy her a drug that would prevent pregnancy which I did and she took it. But surprisingly she just texted me few days back that she was pregnant and that she have tried removing it but it refuse to go out. Now I'm confused and so is she.. I'm just trying to do my clearance for my NYSC. She is scared and afraid. Me I was just assuring her to be calm but I know down within me I'm scared too. Please I need your advice on this matter, what can u say..
Also note that I hold a very important and high post in my church.
Liposure:
U are not d first n u wont be d last 2 impregnate a girl. Congratulations
Dashingprince:
Please nairalanders I need your advice. I started dating this girl late last year when she was about rounding up her course in school. I did assisted her in her project work because I graduated from the same department. We've been talking, her family only knew me by name but not facially. Just a month back we did had an unplanned sex (I will say it was a mistake, because I didn't see that coming, because I've always believe in sex after marriage) and after that I stopped communicating with her so we could not be engage in such act again. Though after d sex she said I should buy her a drug that would prevent pregnancy which I did and she took it. But surprisingly she just texted me few days back that she was pregnant and that she have tried removing it but it refuse to go out. Now I'm confused and so is she.. I'm just trying to do my clearance for my NYSC. She is scared and afraid. Me I was just assuring her to be calm but I know down within me I'm scared too. Please I need your advice on this matter, what can u say..
Also note that I hold a very important and high post in my church.
u hold a very important post in church was that really necessary?lol
when u were pulling her pant u didn't remember ur post in church.yes it was a mistake
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Nobody: 6:17pm On Mar 11, 2020
just start buying baby things small small from nysc allowance. remember to also save for antenatal
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Nobody: 6:20pm On Mar 11, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
Before you rush to accept fatherhood, a few questions, because her story sounds fishy. Which woman finds out she's pregnant and goes for abortion before telling the alleged father? How did she find out she was pregnant just 2 or 3 weeks after sex? How do you know that you're the father of the child, is it because you had unprotected sex with her once? Do you know how many others may have done the same with her in the time period? How do you know that you were not just one of the options she considered for blaming the fatherhood upon?

Don't be gullible. It sounds to me like she might even have been pregnant on the day you had unprotected sex and she knew beforehand but decided to play you. An incident like that has almost happened to me before. Shine your eye well well. A lifetime of bondage raising another man's child no be beans o.
you should also think about this man question
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by gift2xl: 6:20pm On Mar 11, 2020
Am pained when dudes are scared of pregnancy, what do u expect when u dive in raw. where u thinking she's barren or ur impotent. Go take care of ur investment and stop complaining like a kid. Huzzle don pay!!!

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Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Nobody: 6:56pm On Mar 11, 2020
O boy go and carry your kaya because you had all the advice you needed with all the preaching of absteinance, zip up here and there, you didn't take it. Now you're seeking advice. What should we advise you now? To dump her or abort it? We are equally confused.

Next time, you'll think of the consequence of a thing before you go into it.

Ejoy the fruit of your labour.
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Funtobewith: 7:25pm On Mar 11, 2020
0coded80:
chai, can't stop laughing.
Remember its usually said that if u laugh at someones situation then urs would also come so am wishing u success as u go into fatherhood imagine if urs is then quadrupletgrin
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by oluwafemme129(m): 7:30pm On Mar 11, 2020
Who advice you when you dey do am, ori e ti yi

Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by 0coded80: 7:35pm On Mar 11, 2020
Funtobewith:
Remember its usually said that if u laugh at someones situation then urs would also come so am wishing u success as u go into fatherhood imagine if urs is then quadrupletgrin
same to you.
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Funtobewith: 7:41pm On Mar 11, 2020
0coded80:
same to you.
sad grin
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by lecturerr(m): 7:59pm On Mar 11, 2020
Congratulations! Atleast you now know u ain't infertile.
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Oyindidi(f): 8:01pm On Mar 11, 2020
You no serious
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Nobody: 8:15pm On Mar 11, 2020
Dashingprince:
Please nairalanders I need your advice. I started dating this girl late last year when she was about rounding up her course in school. I did assisted her in her project work because I graduated from the same department. We've been talking, her family only knew me by name but not facially. Just a month back we did had an unplanned sex (I will say it was a mistake, because I didn't see that coming, because I've always believe in sex after marriage) and after that I stopped communicating with her so we could not be engage in such act again. Though after d sex she said I should buy her a drug that would prevent pregnancy which I did and she took it. But surprisingly she just texted me few days back that she was pregnant and that she have tried removing it but it refuse to go out. Now I'm confused and so is she.. I'm just trying to do my clearance for my NYSC. She is scared and afraid. Me I was just assuring her to be calm but I know down within me I'm scared too. Please I need your advice on this matter, what can u say..
Also note that I hold a very important and high post in my church.
please abort, or marry her.
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Nobody: 8:30pm On Mar 11, 2020
u be mumu man. wen u were enjoying the sex it was sweeting u like honey baa. u no involve any one u ate alone. u tink say u wise abi... he who eats alone dies alone oga carry yur cross. consult yur dick for advice
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Nobody: 8:41pm On Mar 11, 2020
Dashingprince:
Please nairalanders I need your advice. I started dating this girl late last year when she was about rounding up her course in school. I did assisted her in her project work because I graduated from the same department. We've been talking, her family only knew me by name but not facially. Just a month back we did had an unplanned sex (I will say it was a mistake, because I didn't see that coming, because I've always believe in sex after marriage) and after that I stopped communicating with her so we could not be engage in such act again. Though after d sex she said I should buy her a drug that would prevent pregnancy which I did and she took it. But surprisingly she just texted me few days back that she was pregnant and that she have tried removing it but it refuse to go out. Now I'm confused and so is she.. I'm just trying to do my clearance for my NYSC. She is scared and afraid. Me I was just assuring her to be calm but I know down within me I'm scared too. Please I need your advice on this matter, what can u say..
Also note that I hold a very important and high post in my church.
you cum inside her bro Damn!
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Nobody: 8:43pm On Mar 11, 2020
Start by familiarizing yourself with prices of stuffs like diapers and baby foods, you'll be alright.

I guess saying congratulations to you is in order here. undecided
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by lionD: 9:12pm On Mar 11, 2020
Hahahah English had o...
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Nobody: 9:26pm On Mar 11, 2020
[quote author=Dashingprince post=87354323]Please nairalanders I need your advice. I started dating this girl late last year when she was about rounding up her course in school. I did assisted her in her project work because I graduated from the same department. We've been talking, her family only knew me by name but not facially. Just a month back we did had an unplanned sex (I will say it was a mistake, because I didn't see that coming, because I've always believe in sex after marriage) and after that I stopped communicating with her so we could not be engage in such act again. Though after d sex she said I should buy her a drug that would prevent pregnancy which I did and she took it. But surprisingly she just texted me few days back that she was pregnant and that she have tried removing it but it refuse to go out. Now I'm confused and so is she.. I'm just trying to do my clearance for my NYSC. She is scared and afraid. Me I was just assuring her to be calm but I know down within me I'm scared too. Please I need your advice on this matter, what can u say..
Also note that I hold a very important and high post in my
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by galadima77(m): 10:42pm On Mar 11, 2020
Phenomenal16:
Wow
Congratulations!!!

A big one at that...say no to abortion!
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by Adgideon(m): 12:13am On Mar 12, 2020
A very big congratulations, you are goin to be a baby daddy or a baby's father
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by dinodesmond(m): 1:34am On Mar 12, 2020
[quote author=Dashingprince post=87356929][/quote]

I don't know what to tell if your girl is actually pregnant because it is not easy going to bed knowing that your girlfriend is pregnant when you not independent.

You need to be sure that she's pregnant, when a lady is pregnant, she becomes beautiful and sexy but too weak for sex, I've learned this by experience.

But she will have the signs of pregnancy too when she's close to her period which is confusing when you have slept with her.

Let her go and do pregnancy test before concluding. Dont stress yourself unnecessarily.
Re: Advice- My Girlfriend Is Pregnant by franklingud(m): 8:41am On Mar 12, 2020
Congratulations bro, you are going to be a father very soon.

Don't you ever try to do anything stupid.

Both of should go ahead and finish what you started and see how blessings will follow you.

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