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What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Nobody: 9:19am On Mar 12, 2020
Depression is Real... Share your travails, 1.don't let that relationship lead you to depression
2. Don't let that career or money issue kill your drive
3. Don't let that past Pain slow your beautiful Today and tomorrow
..don't bottle up... A few inspired suggestions can help u out... Pls this thread is not for myopic and shallow talk...
Build your mind! Build your capacity... Energies are contagious... Stay away from Negatively...
Share lesson you learnt from life experience, self Help books and your current Challenge.
Share your challenge... Let's get started!

Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by SpyAC(m): 9:27am On Mar 12, 2020
My business was burgled on December, since then, life has never been the same, I hv wished and thoughts of so many negative things within me, but?

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by seunlayi(m): 9:31am On Mar 12, 2020
Ran into some debts due to some unforeseen business crisis and since then, it has bn hell but taking God for the heart to move on

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by kestolove95(m): 10:05am On Mar 12, 2020
I became pregnant and since den business has totally stop, no man wants to go closer to a pregnant girl

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by SweetCunt97(f): 10:06am On Mar 12, 2020
Nothing really but I seem not to be able to attract good men my way... Only tete boyfriend with too many sad stories.. Mtcheew
Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Nobody: 10:31am On Mar 12, 2020
Nothing.
My brain does not produce enough serotonin and dopamine.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by crackkhaus: 10:59am On Mar 12, 2020
Two men above mentioned things that have to do with business, very valid reasons to be depressed... Yet take a look at the two females, just like a lot of young Nigerian women, their only problem in life always has to do with lack of men - no ambition, no personal development, nothing...

And dem go dey vex with me anytime I deal with dem hot hot.. just imagine undecided

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Belafonte(m): 11:02am On Mar 12, 2020
Depression is a symptom of entitlement, and maybe conceit. When you feel entitled to certain things, money, good health, a better life, you might feel depressed if you are unable to attain these things.

However, be reminded this is life and nothing is promised to anybody. Life is a respecter of nobody. As we speak, some people are battling with coronavirus through no fault of their own, they have the choice of being depressed or living the rest of their days coming to terms with their lot and dying happy.

A couple of months ago, while cities were wiped out either through fire or through hurricane. You dey Naija you dey para say you no get work.

If you are alive you have hope, the energy you’re wasting to depression should be utilized in building the future you desire. You don’t wish yourself into the life of your dreams, you build it.

Depression is a sign of ignorance and an unimaginative mind. Believe you can and you will.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Belafonte(m): 11:08am On Mar 12, 2020
kestolove95:
I became pregnant and since den business has totally stop, no man wants to go closer to a pregnant girl

Crackkhaus, you see this? grin grin grin. Tomorrow they will be screaming for gender equality. But this madam is clearly using bobby to attract customers. No sales strategy, no marketing tactics. Just flirt and smile and get simps to come shop at her store.

This is also what they do in the workplace and expect to get promoted over men who have no breasts and vagina to attract patronage. It’s madness.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Belafonte(m): 11:12am On Mar 12, 2020
SpyAC:
My business was burgled on December, since then, life has never been the same, I hv wished and thoughts of so many negative things within me, but?

Be of good courage bro. You are the same person that built that business, you can do it again.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by crackkhaus: 11:32am On Mar 12, 2020
Belafonte:

Crackkhaus, you see this? grin grin grin. Tomorrow they will be screaming for gender equality. But this madam is clearly using bobby to attract customers. No sales strategy, no marketing tactics. Just flirt and smile and get simps to come shop at her store.

This is also what they do in the workplace and expect to get promoted over men who have no breasts and vagina to attract patronage. It’s madness.
These are the opportunists Chimamanda speaks out for...people whose overall self-worth is attached to nothing else but the ability to attract and keep men with nothing but their woman-parts.

Look at the other one making light of something as serious as depression by talking about not having a man to upgrade her social/financial status, which is really the only thing 90% of them dream about...but the next second, they will still claim they are feminists who want gender equality.

Tueh...

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Triniti(m): 11:38am On Mar 12, 2020
I used to think depression was a joke, that it can never happen to someone like me, till I lost $100k in business deal. I have not been the same since then, these days, I’m so scared of everything, just name it, I have serious anxiety creeping the hell outta me. I don’t know how long this will last, I keep reassuring myself that I’ll get back to where I was before, but this situation scares the bejesus out of me. The severe headache after overworking my brain with thoughts now give me serious migraine

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Belafonte(m): 11:45am On Mar 12, 2020
crackkhaus:

These are the opportunists Chimamanda speaks out for...people whose overall self-worth is attached to nothing else but the ability to attract and keep men with nothing but their woman-parts.

Look at the other one making light of something as serious as depression by talking about not having a man to upgrade her social/financial status, which is really the only thing 90% of them dream about...but the next second, they will still claim they are feminists who want gender equality.

Tueh...

I’m really sorry for men who can’t read the writings on the wall and understand gender dynamics.
Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by JONNYSPUTE(m): 12:02pm On Mar 12, 2020
crackkhaus:
Two men above mentioned things that have to do with business, very valid reasons to be depressed... Yet take a look at the two females, just like a lot of young Nigerian women, their only problem in life always have to do with lack of men - no ambition, no personal development, nothing...

And dem go dey vex with me anytime I deal with dem hot hot.. just imagine undecided
..It's a big shame bro.But the funny part is that they will still be claiming feminists and independent women.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Kendumazy(m): 12:03pm On Mar 12, 2020
Triniti:
I used to think depression was a joke, that it can never happen to someone like me, till I lost $100k in business deal. I have not been the same since then, these days, I’m so scared of everything, just name it, I have serious anxiety creeping the hell outta me. I don’t know how long this will last, I keep reassuring myself that I’ll get back to where I was before, but this situation scares the bejesus out of me. The severe headache after overworking my brain with thoughts now give me serious migraine

Mheen! That's huge. Can you state how you manage to lose such amount? What kind of business deal? Was it your fault or its as a result of unforeseen circumstances. Just want to learn sir.
Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by crackkhaus: 12:23pm On Mar 12, 2020
JONNYSPUTE:
..It's a big shame bro.But the funny part is that they will still be claiming feminists and independent women.
No one should ever take a Nigerian woman who calls herself independent or feminist, serious.. Like EVER.
It's always a lie.

I have more sympathy for almajiri and homeless destitutes than these people.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by crackkhaus: 12:24pm On Mar 12, 2020
Belafonte:


I’m really sorry for men who can’t read the writings on the wall and understand gender dynamics.
Not everyone can have the gift of discernment.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Sixfeetbelle: 12:25pm On Mar 12, 2020
Belafonte:


Crackkhaus, you see this? grin grin grin. Tomorrow they will be screaming for gender equality. But this madam is clearly using bobby to attract customers. No sales strategy, no marketing tactics. Just flirt and smile and get simps to come shop at her store.

This is also what they do in the workplace and expect to get promoted over men who have no breasts and vagina to attract patronage. It’s madness.

Read this carefully.

Not all women are feminists. Not all women believe in gender equality.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by missimelda01(f): 12:29pm On Mar 12, 2020
Belafonte:
Depression is a symptom of entitlement, and maybe conceit. When you feel entitled to certain things, money, good health, a better life, you might feel depressed if you are unable to attain these things.

However, be reminded this is life and nothing is promised to anybody. Life is a respecter of nobody. As we speak, some people are battling with coronavirus through no fault of their own, they have the choice of being depressed or living the rest of their days coming to terms with their lot and dying happy.

A couple of months ago, while cities were wiped out either through fire or through hurricane. You dey Naija you dey para say you no get work.

If you are alive you have hope, the energy you’re wasting to depression should be utilized in building the future you desire. You don’t wish yourself into the life of your dreams, you build it.

Depression is a sign of ignorance and an unimaginative mind. Believe you can and you will.
I wish I could click like a million times. You are intelligent.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by sageb: 12:32pm On Mar 12, 2020
Challenges of life, so numerous but i choose to be optimistic. I look up to God, hoping for a breakthrough.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Belafonte(m): 12:59pm On Mar 12, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


Read this carefully.

Not all women are feminists. Not all women believe in gender equality.


Of course na, is that one news? Everybody knows even Nigerian feminists don’t believe in gender equality. They only want equality when it’s to their advantage, the moment feminism doesn’t favour them na to change mouth.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Belafonte(m): 12:59pm On Mar 12, 2020
missimelda01:

I wish I could click like a million times. You are intelligent.

No mind me o. Na breeze blow am come. grin

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Belafonte(m): 1:00pm On Mar 12, 2020
crackkhaus:

Not everyone can have the gift of discernment.

Indeed
Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 1:16pm On Mar 12, 2020
Who got you pregnant? Ta lo fun e Loyun? Stay closer to him


kestolove95 post=87373680[b:
]I became pregnant and since den business has totally stop, no man wants to go closer to a pregnant girl[/b]
Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by 9JAFULLBREED(m): 1:19pm On Mar 12, 2020
crackkhaus:
Two men above mentioned things that have to do with business, very valid reasons to be depressed... Yet take a look at the two females, just like a lot of young Nigerian women, their only problem in life always have to do with lack of men - no ambition, no personal development, nothing...

And dem go dey vex with me anytime I deal with dem hot hot.. just imagine :-
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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by SpyAC(m): 1:33pm On Mar 12, 2020
Belafonte:


Be of good courage bro. You are the same person that built that business, you can do it again.
thanks man, exactly what hv been keeping me going, I really appreciate

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Nobody: 1:35pm On Mar 12, 2020
I got my 17yr old gf pregnant at 18.She was so naive that she only knew she was pregnant when she was 4months gone.My dream before then was to never to have a child out of wedlock,nor a baby mama but boom!!We were fresher's in a private Christian university,It had happened.She was 5months pregnant before I knew it.We were both depressed and confused,Soon She dropped out of school coz of the pregnancy.I also had to drop out coz I couldn't concentrate.
We Couldn't have pulled through if not for the kind of understanding parents we both had they were so supportive.Up til this moment my life has never been the same.That particular incident changed my world,changed me.
Depression is not a mood you can just get over, it's a disease in which the brain ceases to register pleasurable activities as pleasurable.Pls, If you know someone who's suffering from this terrible debilitating condition, give them a hug, hold their hand, tell them they are loved and care for them. Tell them to fight for the light.
Life itself can be like a cliff and u can be at Verge.I pray someone will be there to catch u when u fall.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Nobody: 1:44pm On Mar 12, 2020
nothing to eat in school is DAT not enough to be depressed

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Oyindidi(f): 2:20pm On Mar 12, 2020
I wish I fit open up

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Oyindidi(f): 2:21pm On Mar 12, 2020
culturedboss:
I got my 17yr old gf pregnant at 18.She was so naive that she only knew she was pregnant when she was 4months gone.My dream before then was to never to have a child out of wedlock,nor a baby mama but boom!!We were fresher's in a private Christian university,It had happened.She was 5months pregnant before I knew it.We were both depressed and confused,Soon She dropped out of school coz of the pregnancy.I also had to drop out coz I couldn't concentrate.
We Couldn't have pulled through if not for the kind of understanding parents we both had they were so supportive.Up til this moment my life has never been the same.That particular incident changed my world,changed me.
Depression is not a mood you can just get over, it's a disease in which the brain ceases to register pleasurable activities as pleasurable.Pls, If you know someone who's suffering from this terrible debilitating condition, give them a hug, hold their hand, tell them they are loved and care for them. Tell them to fight for the light.
Life itself can be like a cliff and u can be at Verge.I pray someone will be there to catch u when u fall.
She don born?
Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Sixfeetbelle: 2:24pm On Mar 12, 2020
Belafonte:



Of course na, is that one news? Everybody know even Nigerian feminists don’t believe in gender equality. They only want equality when it’s to their advantage, the moment feminism doesn’t favour them na to change mouth.

You're still missing the point. Don't generalise Nigerian Feminists because some people talk with the back of their mouth. Because you've met some who don't practice what they preach doesn't mean the rest are like that.

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Re: What Is The Issue Leading You To Depression Now! Intelligent Minds Only by Nobody: 2:26pm On Mar 12, 2020
Oyindidi:
She don born?
Yes,The boy recently got admission into the university.

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