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| Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 11:31am On Mar 13, 2020 |
You are permitted to be chaste by virtue of parental efforts and training—to stay away from sex or erotic acts, until u re married. It's not rocket science! if a lady loses her virginity through consensual sex before marriage and she s regarded as a whóre, then it's not body shaming or hate speech or swear words. Ladies should learn to live with that reality. Back in the days, a guy didnt have to check or sweat to marry his virgin wife. Because cultures were so strong that it was almost certain that every girl was a virgin. But right now... it seems like a grave capital offence, ladies freely donate their virginity for packets of snacks or groceries and ice-cream. some will willingly give it away for a bottle of coke or small stout. Or just give it up for a dime or millions ! Guys will always observe and pay attention as well as take notes about these reckless behaviour, so when ladies hear things like hoe, bitch and all that, it is because of what majority of u do! women are raised to be modest, noble and decent. They are cultured to be wives... not just wives... but good and decent wives. most parents invest so much time and energy trying to give a girl child a proper upbringing. Its shameful that after all that, most ladies engage in this dastardly act of premarital sex. Now what we have are girls with gargantuan body counts... some just gets tired and decides to settle down. why? why?? #OPINION
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| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by donbachi(m): 11:35am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Parental upbringing matters...make we also consider other factors wey our girls no dey fit battle...peer influence and spiritual problem. |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 11:40am On Mar 13, 2020 |
donbachi:can peer pressure be stronger than parental coaching and guidelines.... it's either the girl child is not paying attention or parents are not doing enough. I believe no peer pressure should be greater than parental influence!! |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by cRobo: 11:43am On Mar 13, 2020 |
I won't say a word |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by donbachi(m): 11:48am On Mar 13, 2020 |
MadeINchenzen2:sexually,there are limit to what parents can discuss with the girl child..but,peers will discuss the feelings that comes,when a girl's breast is sucked and when she is fingered..b4 u know it,they are stored in her brain,countering and fighting all her parent told her..self control now comes in and any girl dat lacks dat..will want to experience dat feelings. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by Meedon: 11:50am On Mar 13, 2020 |
Ooohhhhh Not Again Some Olosho and fornicators on this thread wont like this |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by Beckysexy(f): 11:51am On Mar 13, 2020 |
MadeINchenzen2:Duhh  Who cares? Story for the gods  |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by frankkydee(m): 11:53am On Mar 13, 2020 |
I think sex education should be discussed with any child of about 5years of age irrespective of the gender so that nobody will take advantage of their innocence |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by SweetCunt97(f): 11:56am On Mar 13, 2020 |
MadeINchenzen2:Men Should be raised to be modest, noble and hardworking. They are cultured to be husbands ... not just husbands... but good and caring husbands. most parents invest so much time and energy trying to give a Boy child a proper upbringing. Its shameful that after all that, most Men cunningly engage in this dastardly act of premarital sex. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 12:02pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Beckysexy:
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| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 12:09pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:#feminist spotted  |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 12:11pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
cRobo:u better say something!!! A closed mouth is a closed destiny ! 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by Liposure: 12:12pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Guys R d reason Y most girls lose their virginity. Women are weak which makes dem vulnerable 2 d pressures n advances of men. If we focus more attention on guys. I guarantee u a lot of girls will remain virgin 2 Likes |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by chinchonglee(m): 12:21pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
this should be directed to both genders 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by Nobody: 12:24pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
MadeINchenzen2:@the bolded is very wrong. Last I remember, ladies do not do away their virginity themselves. They do it with men. Learn to hold men accountable for their.actions. How can you base a woman's virtue on a piece of friable flesh that is not present in all of them at birth? With increasing incidence of rape And pedophilia, something that is legal in this country. The chances of a man getting married to a virgin is slim to none. That is the reality. Anyone can act naive. Please tell me what thean needs the virginity for, to soak with garri? |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by Nobody: 12:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
donbachi:there's no limit to what a parent can explain o. God bless you mum, she explained everything to me, so that I can make an informed decision. Especially the part about premarital sex and it's results, pregnancy, STDs, single motherhood, poverty.Contraception, puberty, everything. |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 12:31pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2: |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 12:38pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
funmisticqueen2:why? @ the bolded. |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by Nobody: 12:42pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
MadeINchenzen2:they sleep with men. |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by pryme(m): 12:45pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
MadeINchenzen2: Am sick, and tired, of women getting moral lessons from men, dont you guys get bored of this hypocrisy? So who have sex with these women? Is it their shadows or they have sex with their own diicks. If men cant lead by example, then you have no moral authority over women. Pot calling kettle black  1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 12:56pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Our biggest problem in this part of the world has been that canker worm of foreign cultures which has eaten deep and now threatens to overwhelm our own set standards of norms, cultures and traditions. |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by snitchbitch: 1:00pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
The guy above is right, the society starts from home, the parents that don't have time for their children, how will they know if he or she is smoking or fxcking all around. Some parents don't even know where their children sleep to talk of what he eats or drinks. Like the modern day parents, who work in the bank six to six everyday, they just bathe and drop the kid in school, the child doesn't get to see his parents till the next day, Likes breeds likes, like the former emir said: parents who don't take Care of their children should be prosecuted!!!! |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 1:01pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
pryme:Think of it this way, if a lady refuses a guy's advances and sticks with her principles or standards, then there will be no such thing as premarital sex. You expect men to lead by example when it comes to the topic but some feminist will preach gender equality |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 1:05pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
women are catalyst. if you say NO and your NO is weak enough to imply YES... Then there s no need saying no... JUST SAY NO, NO IS NO ! |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by pryme(m): 1:07pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
MadeINchenzen2: Lead by example first. And I can tell you as a man that we are the worst when it comes to being promiscuous because of the so-called African culture. The ratio of men that marry as virgins are around 1:100 to women. So pls let the women be, men are not saints so they should expect angels. |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 1:18pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
pryme: You cannot join or equate fellow male folks in this discourse with the ladies. There is a reason for that.... lemme explain ! Like I said, women are catalyst when it comes to sex. You want men to fall in line when the real issues lies with the ladies... u cant put the cart before the horse. If every guy gets rejected every time they want premarital sex, what it means is; ¹perhaps a guy ll have no choice than to muster self_control, let him conjure it from the sky or anywhere. ²just get married perhaps. ³Respect women The problem are the ladies. They Are DRIVERS !!! 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 1:29pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
pryme:There is no hypocrisy in that. Men have premarital sex because someone gave them the consent and opportunity to do so. imagine if all men gets rejected every time they ask for it... we would have more virgins and men who are accustomed to self control ! |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 1:49pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
donbachi:I disagree @bolded |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by ephz(m): 1:50pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
donbachi: Let's realize that the world we are is too dynamic in system. In those days nothing like social media influence (or rearly available), traditionally there was circumcision for female children which makes sexual urges minimal (though we see that as a crime nowadays), rate of child and sexual abuses are not on high side, and many more. All these account for illicit sexual desire among females today. Look at influx of social media platforms in our modern world. Today ladies don't even need to ask friends about their sexual feelings and problems. Just Google it and you get solution whether compatible with your health status or not. Let's keep our testimony clean please. |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by pryme(m): 2:09pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
MadeINchenzen2: So in summary, We should not blame who instigates sex, rather we should blame the one that responds to the instigator of sex? Last time I checked reaction comes after action, if there is no action there will be no reaction. Look around you, how many women instigate sex? Or we should sweep the fact men are mostly the instigators sex under the carpet? And then face the women that have to deal with the constant bombardment of advances from men? So a guy should muster self control "after" he has been denied sex? What happened to having self control before thinking of sex? I used to call out threads created by females that dump the consequences of their stupid acts on men. Today am calling you out for thinking its OK to use a woman's sin to absolve a man's sin. Men are not babies, you can't wait for women to teach a man self control. Men are logical creatures thats why men should be the trail blazers for self control in the society. Women are emotional creatures, we all the know the power of emotions, it wipes out logic. Men act Women react Action leads to reaction. But you are putting Reaction before Action. You are the one putting the wheels before the chart. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by MadeINchenzen2: 2:25pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
pryme:A boy naturally is trained via sexual education not to engage himself, he s being taught about self control, A girl is basically taught to say NO to a guys passes... This is because that act of consensual intercourse can only happen if a lady gives her consent. Men they say are visual animals and usually they act based on what they see. But it is the duty of that woman to draw the lines. Women do not understand the power they possess when it comes to sex. They are being pressured by men to make it look like a norm or an obligation. Men have used diverse means to shatter strongholds, defences and beliefs. Now most ladies pictures the act of sex as a part of a function or responsiblity they have to respond to especially while in relationships. 1 Like |
| Re: Ladies Has No Moral Right To Expose Themselves Through Sex, Until Marriage! by 24kmagic: 2:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
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