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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:16pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by xendra: 2:16pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
AreaFada2:but if it was the mans child, your wide mouth will open to call women evil and unwilling to accept their husbands child as their own. Iranu 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Richy4(m): 2:16pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Blyzz: I disagree with u sir. That man can count what he is benefiting from that relationship without you and I knowing it. Remember he was aware of the wife's situation before he agreed to it.. We can't speak for him at the moment.. only him can speak for himself 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Mycommand: 2:19pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
If he is legally in the country where he resides in, tell him to file his son's immigration papers! That he is not in Nigeria is not a good excuse. Vyvyanvyvy: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by xendra: 2:20pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
letskeeptalking:honestly this is what I thought when she said that. she just doesn't care enough, a woman that cares enough will not allow a title "mrs" come btw her and her childs well being |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:20pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
movement2020: |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:22pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
xendra: Gbenu s'oun ode |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:22pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
[quote author=apatheticme post=87410047] I really feel for your son and you. It's not your fault u are caught in between caring for ur children and husband. However ur Son needs you now than ever. He may end up hating you eventually if you can't risk all for him right now. It is heartbreaking right now but the truth is you have to take care of all your children. Get him to go to boarding house, and only come home during break. Maybe your husband will accept that option. Meanwhile, pray, there's nothing prayers cannot achieve God be with you Thank you I have no ideas about how boarding school work , fees and how long for acceptance etc etc |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by xendra: 2:22pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Amumaigwe:and there is nothing wrong with the mentality. dumb dick, if your mother did it for you; your ass will not complain. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by BORN2RULE20(m): 2:23pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
HMMMM FABRICATED STORY JUST TO GET TRAFFIC ANYWAYS, MAN MUST EAT, AND SOMEONE MUST GET PAID SUCH IS LIFE |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 2:23pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
liverpool72: Why likes? I ma a staunch advocate of never marrying a single mother under any circumstance. I nearly entered and I thank God I came back to my senses after seeing unsustainable lifestyle and worldview patterns. The man is yeye because he is going back on his word. He promised to have all his wives children live with him and now he’s backing out. He should be knocked on the head. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:24pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Mycommand:I don’t have his phone number 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:24pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: You be ashewo 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by xendra: 2:24pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
M00N:another mumu misogynist 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 2:25pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
uruba23: If theft is passed down in your lineage and seen as normal, I would like you to understand that not everyone has such values. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by AreaFada2: 2:26pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
xendra: Well, my cute sexy mouth will always say what is fair. ![]() ![]() We know there are far more evil step-mums out there than there evil step-dads. History, literature and folklore attest to it. In another thread by King Satan, I clearly stated that both men and women should carefully consider if they need step kids. Growing up I know of women who starved step-kids in my area. But no step-dad refused to pay school fees, buy clothes or deny fatherly responsibilities. But in old age, the step-kids they used their youth to raise and educate were mostly ingrates. Their never-do-well biological dads suddenly came on the scene when most had graduated from uni. Back in the day jobs were not scarce. I talk from what I saw happening. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 2:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Viicfuntop: His stepfather is apprehensive because his aunt and uncle have vehemently rejected him. And like I said, that is probably not his first infraction. People seem to be missing the point that this boy is troubled and misbehaving and his stepdad isn’t ready to suffer this boy’s delinquencies. Perhaps, when he made the promise to house his wife’s children, he didn’t know there was a problem child in the bargain. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:27pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Richy4:crystal clear, hearing from a woman alone is dangerous. Some women are devil by themselves. On the first page of this thread, scroll down, the second to the last person who commented, you'd hear her own reasons of marrying again. If she takes care of 70% of her current home, what stop her for renting her own house? How can a woman with two kids don't know her former husband relatives or siblings. She doesn't also know the grandmother of her former husband? Even if his grandmother is dead, Facebook is available. Why can't her search for his former husband's siblings only. Yeye dey smell from her story, she doesn't want to tell us she had bad attitude that's why her previous husband's family didn't accept the kids 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by TabletMan: 2:29pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:You created this thread not to seek advice but to validate your actions because I knew you have already made plans for your son before opening this thread. Some of these people advising you to divorce your husband are product of broken and warring homes. That your son needs a fatherly figure in his life and just from your many comments I can only deduce that you're not capable of being both the man and woman in his life. Go on with your plan but please don't quarrel or trouble your husband because he doesn't support it rather convince him with valid reasons why your son needs to be with you. He may not like the idea of your son living with you people but with time, he will get use to the boy. Make peace with your man because I can see taking 70% of the bills is raising up your pride and ego. You're healthy and alive and non of your relatives is capable of taking care of your only son what if something happens tomorrow? who is going to take care of your 3/4 children? . I believe your husband is acting due to bad advise and influence of people, family members or friends that's why he is rejecting your son but accepted your daughter like his own, even after promising of taking care of both of them in the past. Be wise in your dealings because you have made the first mistake, don't let pride and ego be your second mistake . Make your husband to love your son and you will never regret it. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 2:32pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
M00N:Hahahaha.... E pain you. Ashawo na insult? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:35pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Idiot You are nothing more than a baby mama 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:36pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
xendra: Your fada 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 2:37pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
M00N:This will make your balls(ego) bigger I guess. You go cry hot blood for my mention ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by adexpa(m): 2:38pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
The man agreed to allow your kids at first to achieve his selfishness, he accepted the offer because you are reasonably doing well financially and he needs such a man possibly because he cant fully bear whole family burden. He wouldn't have propose marriage suppose you are not doing well financially. It takes extra grace for man to assume someone else responsibility especially when the owner(ex-husban) is alive. My advice; 1) Do not bring the boy home by force because the boy will face the same thing he is facing right now from man(he wouldn't love him n he will maltreat him at any chance). If he doesn't send you out, the home will not be perfect anymore because you have disobeyed him and took action by yourself. 2) Talk to him humbly(stupid all this I foot 70% while addressing your man) by making him realise that the boy is your joy and he can alone make you happy by allowing the boy..... Please with him 3) If you have done the above and the man insist, you can suggest to him separation, tell him you want your son and since he disagree, you need alternative. The two of you can talk on how to achieve that, either you have a separate place where he will be visiting or full separation. The matter require diplomacy and not force. I wish you the best 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by wisdomkid: 2:38pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222: I would have argued with these facts. But it's shamelessly true. But the man should have atleast, given the boy a chance. Yes, I know the corrupting his kids factor is high. But everyone deserves 2nd chance |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
The boy father reject am, uncle reject am, auntie reject am, you now want a innocent man to accept him 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by wisdomkid: 2:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Shifi1:Yeah, she didn't mention the boy's father in her post. But lets not forget. This is the same issue with Dele Alli of Tottenham FC today. If that boy embrace God and change for good... NO Sh*tty person should come and be claiming siblings, uncles, aunties and step father oh. I pray he found the way of the Lord, live a good life and make it. It will be an interesting life story. Goodluck to the Mother, the step father (her husband) and the boy who everyone rejects. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Deepthoughts: 2:40pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Please how do you make all that money?,n why can't you take the children bact to their biological father?,how are you sure that your present husband wouldn't maltreat the boy?,these are some of the reasons why it's very important to think deeply n to consider different scenarios before acting in every situation less we move from frying pan to fire. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 2:42pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
M00N:R is missing in your moniker ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:43pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: You be waka waka baby Public vajayjay 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Deepthoughts: 2:43pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:who colonized her? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by deavicky(m): 2:44pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:every child should have a father, where is his own father. Or father's relatives. 1 Like |
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