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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ivebeenbanned(f): 2:45pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
letskeeptalking:Beautiful. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by confido2017: 2:45pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
BOARDING SCHOOL is the best for him 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:46pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Your father, mother,brothers, sisters, grandparents, every body wet dey ur family are slowpokes 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ivebeenbanned(f): 2:47pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Davash222:You're a kid in a grown man's body. Therefore you're a disgrace to manhood. Your weakness, toxic masculinity, and hate for women will drag you to the grave. SARS should be looking for your type to kill. I'm sure nobody would be sad. Ewu. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by deavicky(m): 2:47pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:then tell him to come and carry him. Why are u trying to do it alone? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ivebeenbanned(f): 2:48pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Richy4(m): 2:48pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Blyzz: When I was growing up in Nigeria wayback, I used to hear about Abuja Marriage.. as I began to mature in my teens those days in Abuja , It started making perfect sense. Yes, a couple can stay in a relationship with kids without caring where or who their relatives where. I saw that in Abuja in the late '90s. I did not say someone told me.I saw it.. Though this might be extreme but OP has the right to divorce him on a bridge of contract. this is because he promised to accept her for who she was with her kids and all what not after marrying her, he refused to honour his agreement... I don't know if you are good with Law sha... You may agree or disagree with me but I stand by the side of truth. Bro, Assuming that reverse was the case, and the man had 2 children and OP refused to have anything to do with them or even allow them to set foot in that house, Do u think all these young men dishing out advice would have spared the lady? I have stayed long on Nairaland to know that advise here are based on genda. Noone wants to call a spade a spade. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by elladara: 2:48pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Belafonte: This could be very true especially when you are unfortunate to have child/children for family that care less and does not appreciate relationships . i have a daughter of 6 years, her father is at least 85 percent responsible, i mean he pays her bills most especially school bills and send monthly allowance and am financially okay to an extent as well, so with the grace of God my daughter gets what she needs. we are not married and we cant marry as he as moved on. none of his family asked of the child not for a day, i stopped calling and visiting them 3 years and some months ago when i realized i worth more than what am getting. Madam i can understand what you can be going through, my advice is pls dont trade your son/children for anything. if you are financially okay, have a discussion with you husband that you want to enroll him to a boarding school and he would only be coming over for holiday. or get a room apartment and get a nanny for him while you go visiting. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by deavicky(m): 2:49pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Ivebeenbanned:the truth can pain some people!!! Why? Why can the boy stay with his father. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 2:50pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:50pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Ivebeenbanned: Have been eating bitter kola? Have been drinking and bathing with bitter leaf water? You are a bitter person 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ivebeenbanned(f): 2:51pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
deavicky:Wasn't talking to you. Didn't ask for your silly opinions, Nigerian man. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ivebeenbanned(f): 2:52pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:I like you a lot already ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:52pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi: I see you have tacha syndrome that is why you are so bitter 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ivebeenbanned(f): 2:52pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
M00N:K. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:53pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Belafonte:I am sure your lineage as the holiest oponu |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ivebeenbanned(f): 2:54pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Glad you decided on this. You deserve better. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 2:57pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Madam go & collect ur son 2 ease ur brother's burden..He has commited alot,I supossed.. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 2:57pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
TabletMan:Yes you are right before I brought my problem here have already made up my mind to bring my son to the house this Sunday but I didn’t want to act fast so I decided to come here and seek opinions / advices from others too because is very important. My children are not my relative responsibility while I’m still alive it’s my duty to care and protect them myself nobody can take care of them better than me and if I die ( God forbid) I know my sister will never abandon my children the same way I will do for her kids if she is not around. 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Deepthoughts: 2:58pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:If this is true then I'm sorry to say that it's likely your previous husband was a foreigner/expatriate whom you got Randy with n had kids without proper marriage perhaps out of lust,greed, eldera do or deception but whatever is the case, with your financial strength you should have waited for your kids to come of age before considering marriage again or you should have made their leaving with you a non negotiable condition for marriage,I understand the pains you feel about the pathetic condition of your children irrespective of whatever mistake of the past,try to take up the issue with your present husband in a calm n respectful manner if he refused to bulge then calmly but firmly ask him how he would feel if you abandoned him with his children and go back to your previous children?,then workout the maths from his reaction but please it's important that you have been of respectful n general good conduct to your present husband. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 2:58pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
armadeo:Exactly ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by samworthyever: 2:59pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
If not for the situation of things ï would have advice her not to marry again. That is why its good to be independent. Pls take the Children to their father or family people. There is nothing u can do to convince your husband. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 3:01pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Deepthoughts:I have a grocery shop my late mother funded for me . He can’t maltreat him whyle I’m still there he can correct and punish him if he does wrong but never I will allow him to maltreat him. 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 3:01pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Richy4:well you're right, all boils down to love. If the man love the woman so tenderly, he'll do his best to care for the kids. But if the reverse be the case, I'd also tell you from experience, I've seen men who took their kids to their mother or siblings, because the wife at home maltreat the man's child and takes care of her own children. I've seen men who had kids outside end up marrying a woman with a kids also. From my view, I can tell you the man is going through phycological stress. Thinking of what to do. Having a daughter at home, then another unborn child on its way. So adding another two children in the house, I think he's worried of that. Mind you, most men would accept the woman at first base on the eye of attraction. Then after having sex with her, bearing children for him. It not likely to renew old promises, I hope you get me. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 3:03pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:No longer "independent"? ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by seangy4konji: 3:05pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
That girl commenting up and down has a big problem. She should be ignored. In real life might be a worthless piece of crap... Masturbating all over the thread. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 3:06pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
Oyindidi:this picture na charachiker pattern be this oh. This girl must be flying at night oh. See her display, so terrifying 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by lepasharon(f): 3:06pm On Mar 13, 2020 |
MadeMan01: Are you a virgin? |
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