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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 9:42am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Midas01:Thanks he will be home tomorrow I’m so excited and can’t wait to have him back 9 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by movement2020: 9:46am On Mar 14, 2020 |
[quote author=Vyvyanvyvy post=87420448][/quote] Madam, thread softly. Don't use your present status to decide between your son and marriage. Both are important but you need maturity, patience, God's guidance to handle this issue. You will definitely meet stumbling block where you would need your husband. With your approach, the man will fight for his own kids. It would be a court decision. Anger does not solve issues, patience does. You can never be right on this issue. Never. It is fault and until you accept that, you would always be beclouded. Tell yourself the truth. See, from experience due to the nature of my work, if you thread that path, believe me, you will regret. It is not a curse. It is certain. You can't raise 4kids alone. Even if you do, later in life, the kids would need to know their father. What you ought to have done now would be what you would be struggling to do From another angle, what about if you fall ill or death comes knocking, who will look after the kids? Look beyond your selfish interest, look inwards on how to have a future for the kids. We all understand your phlight. I would never advise you separate or divorce again |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by pocohantas(f): 9:46am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Davash222: You saw my photos where biko? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 9:47am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Rejoice5000: May God bless you @Rejoice. Exactly what I have bn saying and ppl are ranting that the man should just accept the boy no need for begging. I maintained that all the woman need is persistent talk with the man. Making him see reasons why they should bring the boy home. Assure him that she will make sure that she rehabilitate the boy. It's not a matter of the woman telling the man that she has enough money to take care of the boy. Some men will see it as an insult. Also, it's not a case of bn angry with the man and refusing to talk to him. She need to keep talking to the man and at a point, she will succeed in breaking the man, then he will agree with her. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by franchasng: 9:48am On Mar 14, 2020 |
dominique:Now you are talking - adopt the child....not training another man's son, only for him to grow up and ditch you and run back to his lazy biological father who intentionally abandoned him when he was a kid, this is one major reason Nigerian men don't like accepting the child (children) of a single mother they are marrying; most often, the Nigerian single mother won't agree for her new husband to adopt the children so they can legally become his children and bear his surname....they will want the man to be training the other man's kids on proxy, no legal agreement, this is Nigeria, sister think Nigerian ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by movement2020: 9:52am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Psoul: Thank you. I hope the woman would see this and amend her ways of using force. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 9:53am On Mar 14, 2020 |
pocohantas:Your visit to Oniru beach. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by franchasng: 9:53am On Mar 14, 2020 |
pocohantas:show me na, I want to look too, what's good for Davash222 is good for the Anonymous Engineer, don't be bias, prejudice is a big sin, or you intend to go to hell fire like Fulani herdsmen too ![]() ![]() ![]() As for your initial statements, they are not necessary, all men love fine buttocks, except gaymen who are obviously biologically abnormal, the bigger the bombom, the better for all; gives a lady nice fitting on clothes, especially if she has flat tummy, nice standing boobs (not those nonsense balloon boobs that fall like wall of Jericho when unclothed ![]() ![]() ![]() Na woman matter go make me miss heaven las las, God abeg help me, I wasn't like this when growing up, kai ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CaptainMitch: 9:57am On Mar 14, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by pocohantas(f): 10:02am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Davash222: How is the person in those pictures short? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by eyinjuege: 10:06am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Psoul: Nobody asked you to do anything for that child. You've not adopted him, neither have you been made his legal guardian, so you have no authorisation to decide anything in his life as a child. You start talking of authorisation if you were being considered for his legal guardianship. Unfortunately, that cannot even be considered in this case as the man is even struggling to be in the same space as the child. Being a legal guardian of anybody is serious business and the courts wouldbt just make decision based on sentiments as being married to the mother, when you can't even try to live with the child. They will give you that honor if you have proven to be responsible enough to hold such a post. I feel it is an honor to be given such a responsibility. HIS MOTHER makes all the decisions for him, and not you. She is his guardian by law. He goes wherever she goes. If she lives with you, he comes with the package. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 10:12am On Mar 14, 2020 |
franchasng:Lol. Repent. Barb me davash hairstyle, your head and davash head na dey same ![]() Give your life to God, bro. Lol |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Miarose: 10:13am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Log out abeg.. you have filled this thread with thrash. Low voltage brain. A mother wants to take care of her kid who has been rejected by others..leave her alone. There is NOTHING else to understand. Psoul: 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 10:15am On Mar 14, 2020 |
pocohantas:The physique of that well rounded ball behind was that of short girls. I know the physical characteristics of short girls. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 10:19am On Mar 14, 2020 |
movement2020: She will prefer to listen to those ppl telling her that her husband is wicked and heartless. Those that will be hailing her and be calling her independent woman. And to those that will tell her to go and bring in the boy weda the man likes it or not that once the boy comes in, the man will agree by force. They will fail to tell her the problems that will bring into the family. They will fail to tell her that the action will trigger hatred from the man to the boy, which will make the man never to accept the boy in his heart even if he allows hin to stay in the house by force. The woman has already concluded that she will go there this Sunday and bring back the boy. She thinks it's an issue of how much money she has. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 10:21am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Miarose: Your high Voltage brain smells. Please get lost 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Rejoice5000(f): 10:35am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Psoul:Yea you are right seconded. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by DedeNkem: 10:39am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: If your own siblings rejected having him (their nephew) around, you can't expect your husband to agree to let him in. If your son is a good kid, everyone would like to have him around. Talk to your son to let know his behaviour is the problem. If he promises to change then kneel down and beg your husband to give your son a chance to prove himself. Good luck! |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by franchasng: 10:40am On Mar 14, 2020 |
pocohantas:What else is self development for if it doesn't bring in good money ![]() Money is the end result of any human development....whatever development you want to do, nne, please make sure you are making money, make sure it brings in plenty money, if not, na waste of time and energy......we are living in a capitalist world now, money defines development, without money you cannot do anything meaningful today. Did you watch Donald Trump's live press briefing yesterday when he declared a state of emergency in the US ![]() In summary, any man that allows you free access to his check book cares about you, he may not know how else to show care aside spending, don't push him away or box him in one corner with some other men as unworthy man.....money defines the world today, every other thing is secondary ![]() I am a guy, I can authoritatively tell you that most black men prefer a bouncing ass to a big boobs, most times, guys don't know which they prefer when it comes to choosing between nice buttocks and big boobs; but flash both on them and let them decide instantly lol |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 10:41am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Davash222:If he can take care of the girl, why can't he take care of the boy, too? The man is totally selfish, abeg. He knew about the existence of the child, before he married the mother. He even made promises in that regard. So what is his headache now? He can ask that the boy should be put in boarding school, close to their place, and only come home for holidays..... |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 10:45am On Mar 14, 2020 |
crackkhaus:There is absolutely nothing wrong with what she said. Why would she put her child in an orphanage, when his mum is still alive? It is abandoned kids and orphans whose parents are dead, that live in orphanages. If you were put in an orphanage, will you like it? Knowing your parents were alive? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by franchasng: 10:46am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Davash222:Show me the pinchor let me be the judge because it seems you are being intentionally mischievous oh, or are you saying any girl with big ukwu is short ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Does sign of the cross as I await for you to show me the big ukwu ![]() [img]https://media1./images/3358aa770dc918b8304ea9d203a0e769/tenor.gif[/img] |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 10:47am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Sixfeetbelle: There is nothing wrong with boarding school. As long as it is well equipped and has a good standard. Everyone in my house went to boarding school, and we all turned out well. It helps you learn discipline and resilience and respect. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 10:50am On Mar 14, 2020 |
martowskin1:The man is a bloody coward. The woman NEVER lied to him, about her kids before she married him. He even promised that they could come and live with them after marriage. Now that it is time to fulfil his promises....he decided to back out. Why did he marry a single mother in the first place, if he knew he would NOT be able to accept her kids? He is a deceitful bloody coward. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by franchasng: 10:53am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Davash222:Does sign of the cross to show my willingness to repent ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 10:55am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: God bless you my dear. Please pray that God intervenes in this situation. Meanwhile, is it possible for your son to attend a boarding school not too far from you, where you can visit him every weekend? Hopefully, by the time the school goes on vacation, you would have found a better solution for him, or your husband might have changed his mind.... |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 10:58am On Mar 14, 2020 |
franchasng:Bro, I kid you not, that ukwu is too heavy for tall girls to carry. E go heavy dem. The portability and perpendicular angle of the ukwu shows it was made only for short girls. I know what i saw. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 10:59am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Mandelus: franchasng:Can't you people read? ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 11:05am On Mar 14, 2020 |
femi4:The boy is NOT a bad influence. He just has not been given the right training, love and support. That is why he picked up bad habits. With the right training and discipline from his mum and others, he will drop all those bad habits. All kids go through challenges when growing up. If he was your own kid, would you be saying this same thing? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 11:07am On Mar 14, 2020 |
DedeNkem:When I’m alive my children are not my siblings responsibilities do you know why ? Because when my husband ask for my hand in marriage he knew I had 2 children i was staying alone with my children we never had any agreements that the children should be staying with relatives as adults we had discussed and agreed that children will be with us after the wedding. If at that time he told me that he only wanted me and not my kids then I wouldn't accepted his proposition I would have prefer to stay single and taking care of my children. Even my brother and my late mother asked him several times if he is ready to accept my kids as his own even my brother told him I don’t want tommorow to come to hear that those children are witches and wizard if you are not sure that you will loves them it’s better to quit now and he said I love them they are my children I will never mistreat them incase of any problem I will always come to you for advice that’s what my husband told my people and my late mother had a heart to heart conversation with him more than 3 times his words I will take care of them they are my children and after the hard times we faced after wedding the day we went to hand over my son to my brother he was there with me pleading for him to allow the boy to stay as soon as we moved to a bigger house we will come for him ? So why did he made all those fake promises when he wasn’t ready to love my children ? 14 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 11:10am On Mar 14, 2020 |
eduman365:If he knew he couldn't accept both kids, WHY did he agree to MARRY her? Is he daft, dumb or just plain stewpid?? ![]() Why didn't he marry a woman without kids? He did NOT do her any favours by marrying her. The guy is just an opportunist. Period. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Amumaigwe: 11:11am On Mar 14, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Wife of a stingy man we have heard you. It is really your destiny to be a communal baby mama. Enjoy your fate and let us hear word. 1 Like |
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