Good evening pals I have this issue bothering me for quite a while now now let me explain to us what happened because your advice is highly needed I was into a relationship with this girl on campus fortunately she got pregnant for me and gave birth but the problem here is my mom doesn't like her simply because she visited some seers whom told her we aren't compatible that the future is not bright for us I am totally confused about the whole issue and we are from different states the only thing I observed about her at times is that she could be stubborn

In my opinion; You dey craze!!

The Seers your Mum visited, they didn't see into your future to tell you where/how to succeed.
Na incompartible be their work.

Avoid anything pastors, other seers to live long.

Every Nigerian girl is stubborn, so don’t use stubborn as an excuse to disembark from your responsibility.

Engrgreg231:
Good evening pals I have this issue bothering me for quite a while now now let me explain to us what happened because your advice is highly needed I was into a relationship with this girl on campus fortunately she got pregnant for me and gave birth but the problem here is my mom doesn't like her simply because she visited some seers whom told her we aren't compatible that the future is not bright for us I am totally confused about the whole issue and we are from different states the only thing I observed about her at times is that she could be stubborn

Listen, if you truly love her, don't mind what anyone says. At the end of the day, it's you and her that's gonna live together, forever. Good or bad, rich or poor, in sickness or in health.
One man's food is another man's poison.
Dirty girl...na somebody go marry her.
Lazy girl...na somebody go marry her.
Ugly girl...na somebody go marry her.
e.t.c.

You know one thing about we Nigerians ?

We are one of the laziest people in the world.....No insult intended Sir .
We are mostly spiritually lazy and mentally lazy.We swallow everything fed to us, without questioning anything, or at least trying to get things directly from the source . This is why fake pastors are booming here.

Not to sound proud, I also have a connection with God, He is my friend, He speaks to me and I speak to Him.
If I need any information or clarification I go directly to the source
That doesn't stop me from thinking logically where I can.Or at least asking him to give me the wisdom and knowledge to think right and discern right.

You too can speak to God and ask Him yourself....It may be hard because you have already compromised yourself spiritually since carnal knowledge is in play already with the said lady.

Go to God, seek forgiveness, and genuinely ask Him to show you if she would be good enough for you. Fake pastors and prophets exists.

We Christians(kindly forgive me, if you aren't one), need to understand that everything isn't about the spiritual realm, at least as we see it, we think its everything....faith(spiritual) without works(physical) is dead...Drop your emotions aside as well, physically assess her characteristics and see if she would also make a good wife...Its really not that hard to discern a good woman, even if she is a pretender, ask God to give you wisdom and the spirit of discernment, you would see right through her.The spiritual and physical need to work together, that's why he sent Jesus in flesh....... Make I no preach too much

Read Proverbs 31 it gives some hints on a good wife.

Let's stop allowing parents and prophets have a final say in our lives(many people have lost good partners this way), you can also ask God yourself, build your own personal relationship with Him.

Also ask yourself if you are good enough for her and see what you can fix about yourself(if there is any), because most times, we focus too much on the other party, thinking they alone determine the success or failure of a relationship/marriage.

You are a grown man Sir, make decisions on your own, I am not saying its wrong to take counsel from elders, but they are not always right, and they don't know everything, no matter how much experience they claim they have.


I know a lot of people would say, he still shouldn't go ahead because he needs to be in the good books of his mother.I don't pray for her(your mother) to die early, but no matter how old she gets, she would die one day....After she is gone, you would be left with whichever partner you choose to be with, make sure its worth it and someone who would give you happiness and peace of mind.

Since you are confused, go to the source , ask Him.

You better grow up and act has a man

Your mum should ask the seer what you guys can do to make you both compatible since a baby is already in the picture

I think a marriage counsellor is better than the so called seer or prophet as far as I am concerned. I don't understand why mothers are like this. Instead of guiding their children and offering advice that can help them overcome situations they instead visit seers who cannot even seer their own life! I weak abeg!

I blame the baby mama not you and your momm

Just tell us you have found another lady to marry, that she is now an old school

Bro I have not found any

bro I have not said I won't marry her I only threw my mom's stands in this and also seek you people's advice

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Engrgreg231:
Good evening pals I have this issue bothering me for quite a while now now let me explain to us what happened because your advice is highly needed I was into a relationship with this girl on campus fortunately she got pregnant for me and gave birth but the problem here is my mom doesn't like her simply because she visited some seers whom told her we aren't compatible that the future is not bright for us I am totally confused about the whole issue and we are from different states the only thing I observed about her at times is that she could be stubborn

Every one is stubborn in his or her on way and can only manifest when it doesn't get favoured

Keep dating her if you really love and understands her

With time you will be able to understand if she worths being your wife and if you are ready to accommodate her for life

Being pregnant is not the jamb exam to get admitted into a relationship, passing the post utme, which is her attitude is what will give her the choice of course to study that's is being in the marriage

There are no sweet marriage it all depends on how you can cope when the harmattan of

Davash222:
Every Nigerian girl is stubborn, so don’t use stubborn as an excuse to disembark from your responsibility.

What makes you think that every Nigeria girl is stubborn ❓

When the men are difficult, how do you expect the girls to fit in

Engrgreg231:
Good evening pals I have this issue bothering me for quite a while now now let me explain to us what happened because your advice is highly needed I was into a relationship with this girl on campus fortunately she got pregnant for me and gave birth but the problem here is my mom doesn't like her simply because she visited some seers whom told her we aren't compatible that the future is not bright for us I am totally confused about the whole issue and we are from different states the only thing I observed about her at times is that she could be stubborn

No vex, when una strip you no remember say una no come from same state? When una dey do the do wey you dey squeeze face, you no sabi say she stubborn? You give am belle finish naim seer come show up.
Abeg, you believe in wetin seer talk or you just dey find excuse to take waka comot?
My only advice would be that you think through the situation and the lady in question and let it be that your conviction is the reason you are not marrying her and not what some seers say or think. If the seer could see into the future, I am sure he would have seen into a way to make his life much better and leave his seer duties.

Oga don't insult me if you don't have anything to say keep quiet

frozen70:


Every one is stubborn in his or her on way and can only manifest when it doesn't get favoured

Keep dating her if you really love and understands her

With time you will be able to understand if she worths being your wife and if you are ready to accommodate her for life

Being pregnant is not the jamb exam to get admitted into a relationship, passing the post utme, which is her attitude is what will give her the choice of course to study that's is being in the marriage

There are no sweet marriage it all depends on how you can cope when the harmattan of

What makes you think that every Nigeria girl is stubborn ❓

When the men are difficult, how do you expect the girls to fit in

You're the main reason I think Nigerian girls are stubborn.

Davash222:

You're the main reason I think Nigerian girls are stubborn.

I think you really want a mumu Nigeria girl

No way, not even with this generation

frozen70:


I think you really want a mumu Nigeria girl

No way, not even with this generation

I have no business with Nigerian girls. Una wahala too much

Davash222:

I have no business with Nigerian girls. Una wahala too much

And you guys think you are a Saint ❓

Can you leave a life without female friends or girl friend

Winneygirl:
The Seers your Mum visited, they didn't see into your future to tell you where/how to succeed.
Na incompartible be their work.

frozen70:


And you guys think you are a Saint ❓

Can you leave a life without female friends or girl friend

You mean Nigerian female friends or girlfriend? Please be specific.

Davash222:

You mean Nigerian female friends or girlfriend? Please be specific.

Read your question again and answer it because I can't read any meaningful thing there

frozen70:


Read your question again and answer it because I can't read any meaningful thing there

Okay