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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by clintwine(m): 6:31am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: I understand the feeling you have for your son especially if he is suffering. The bolded above lies your problem and Solution. Don't let pride deprieve you of your joy and your son's future. There is what is called co-parenting. No matter how angry you are, don't let your child suffer especially for the sins of the parents. A Child is raised by a village and not one person. Whether you like it or not, the father or the kids will look for themselves, when they are older and you won't have control over it. Get in touch with his father and in a calm way explain what is going on. It's both your responsibilities to stop another anini in the making 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 6:50am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Sarang:I’ll soon blind you, don’t worry. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Digmygold: 7:06am On Mar 15, 2020 |
martowskin1: So wait till he does and then throw his bastard child to dogs to feed on. STFU. anyone can change at any time, even you. What fvcking wrong choices are you talking about? It's like blaming a cancer patient for having cancer. She got married to her ex fully unaware that he was going to dump her because of green card. So because he did that she should not move on with her life? How is someone else's greed and wickedness her mistake? Did he not know she had baggage when he married her? Why's for better for worse being preached at marriage alters? It's people like you that get destroyed by Karma and come here wailing when your daughters end baby mamas. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Purifiedsoul: 7:09am On Mar 15, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:Does that make sense to you? She don't know where his relatives are ahbi? ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Digmygold: 7:10am On Mar 15, 2020 |
CeterisXVII: I am sorry. I mentioned Psoul though. I just wanted you to see what I wrote to Psoul. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Purifiedsoul: 7:13am On Mar 15, 2020 |
dominique:She have two choices. Either she quit the marriage and take care of her 3 children + the unborn, or she trace the relatives of that child and send him to them while staying happily in her new matrimonial home. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Digmygold: 7:33am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Belafonte: That's not right. When your own daughter becomes a baby mama either through rape or by some irresponsible pretentious devil, I hope you come back here to repeat this trash. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Sarang(f): 7:48am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Davash222: That’s what am talking about. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 8:04am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by kid7soccer(m): 8:20am On Mar 15, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:that the option now cause everyone she mention does not need the child or do u want her to divorce her husband ? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Digmygold: 8:26am On Mar 15, 2020 |
martowskin1: Shut up. Do i have to be one to be reasonable? Beg him for what? Did he not know she had kids with her ex husband before he married her? If it were the other way round, would he not expect t her to accept his own kids? I hope Karma visits you so you stop talking like you own the world. You talking trash because your words are tantamount to blaming a corpse for his own death. Did he plan to die? Go and bury your dead brain in the soil. Its useless obviously. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Digmygold: 8:31am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Purifiedsoul: Even if she does, are they ready to take up any responsibility towards the child? Will she force them? How many of your relatives' kids have you personally taken responsibility for? Una no just dey get sense until Karma comes knocking. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 8:34am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: My dear, you can still make your point without bn rude. I don't understand hw ppl are bn brought up. Make ur point. Don't insult ppl. Well, back to the topic. If the boy is my child, I will not reject him nor refuse my wife bringing him back cos he is my full responsibility. There is no law binding on me to take into my family a child that is not mine. I can only do dat out of compassion or bind to do dat by good morality. What is my point. I never supported the man not to accept taking the boy in, if you have bn following my comments. I only said that the woman need to convince the man on why it will be nice to allow the boy live wt them. She need to assure the man that she will be able to transform the boy and make him a better person. She need to douse the man's fear about what he has heard about the boy. Secondly, I was also of the opinion that the woman should not even be presenting the issue of her taking care of the boys school fees at this point cos, the issue of paying the boy's school fees was not the basis the man was standing to say no to the woman's request. The woman also made a mistake of bn angry and refusing to talk to the man. I am still wondering why ppl are having problem with this opinion. The man mentioned why he said no. He talked about that boy coming in to corrupt the other kids including the daughter the woman had in her previous marriage. I did not see the man as a heartless man as ppl have bn insinuating. The man was just afraid of the recent stories he heard about the boy. The wife needs to clear the man of that story and I see the man accepting her request. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 8:43am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Digmygold: 8:45am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Psoul: You would however not expect your wife to reject your son from another woman because you have two heads. Its people like you that will do DNA for a bastard that you always thought was your son and then go and commit suicide after finding out you have been calling another mans child yours for 20 years. .Of course her husband will "cook up" stories about the boy just to get rid of him. If this lady in question was my sister i will ask her to leave that man because he is only in that marriage because she is financially stable which gives him some measure of financial security.He does not love her at all. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 8:45am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: I prophesy healing into your troubled soul. May every demon of anger leave you permanently Insha Allah. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 8:48am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 8:50am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Belafonte: That fellow is a troubled soul |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 8:54am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: God can still save you. It’s never too late with God. Again, receive healing. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 8:56am On Mar 15, 2020 |
martowskin1: It’s a she actually. Sounds like she has daddy issues. It’s such a pity; so young, yet so angry. Nothing a good dicking and a few bum spanks won’t solve. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 8:57am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 9:00am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: I wonder why you think I’ll lose sleep if any daughters I may have become baby mamas. This is a serious case of deluded projection at best and possibly undetected underlying mental illness. Perhaps it is hereditary, who knows? What is apparent though is your need for healing. Once again, receive healing. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 9:02am On Mar 15, 2020 |
martowskin1: Believe me, those medication will go a long way in assuaging the spirits tormenting her. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 9:03am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Belafonte(m): 9:08am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Digmygold: Thanks for praying for fruitfulness for any daughters I might have. ![]() What’s your real name by the way? Angry women stir up feeling of protection in me. Let me help you |
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