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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 10:12am On Mar 15, 2020 |
martowskin1: Thank you my brother for bn wise. This is not an issue of emotion. The woman needs to appeal to the man's rationality, which may even help to trigger his emotion. Then rational reason together with parental emotion will move the man into accepting the wife's request. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yeyeosoronga: 10:17am On Mar 15, 2020 |
martowskin1: She says she pays the rent of their home, so its technically her house. 7 Likes
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 10:22am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 10:24am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Graxie(f): 10:43am On Mar 15, 2020 |
martowskin1:You are pained because she is financially capable, you can't believe a lazy man like you can be told what to do. We are getting there, it's either you follow the terms of agreement before marriage or you quit. The husband is lazy, cunny and he is also a manipulator. He wants to eat his cake and have it. Lazy youths, you are looking for a woman to pet you. Ndi iberibe. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by kendrick9(m): 10:53am On Mar 15, 2020 |
eyinjuege:I swear some comments i have read here have been shocking.... 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:54am On Mar 15, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:No, not a female version of Angel Gabriel. I didn't condemn her, I'm only assuming. Because so many woman I've come across or hear about through their husband, family members or friends do have some elements of bad character. My apologies to her if my words might have hurt her, beside she should go on her knees and talk to the current husband to reconsider. Otherwise, let her rent another small apartment if she has the fund. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by NoToPile: 10:54am On Mar 15, 2020 |
I find it strange that some men are not seeing anything wrong with this man refusing the boy from living with him even after the couple had agreed. If it was his own son out of wedlock and this woman was worried about the influence he would have on her young daughter in this marriage would the responses be the same. Last last most people are selfish. 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 11:02am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Page 41!!! I know say them go don judge this woman tire. Awon judge Judy..Dear Op, I’m sending you love, light and common sense :- ....this too shall pass |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 11:09am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by tammie24: 11:09am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:please go ahead and get your son Your husband isn't more important than your children cos if the tables were turned he would do same Your child is your blood while your husband is just a man that can go after another woman in future 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Realtizzy(m): 11:10am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Madam your son needs you now that he will ever do. If your husband doesnt accept him , you leave with your two daughters nd rent apartment. It wont be easy but God will see you through, I am not a prophet but am certain that boy will make you proud someday nd it will be worth it 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 11:10am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yeyeosoronga: 11:16am On Mar 15, 2020 |
martowskin1: I guess she was just being nice and polite. Same way a man should discuss with his wife if he wants to take a major decision such as bringing in his child from another woman. She is bringing the boy into the house now anyway, as she has already pre informed him. Good luck to them all. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by martowskin1(m): 11:22am On Mar 15, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Timkelvin: 11:22am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Morning, Please dialogue is always the best way out. I also want the boy to come home, but try dialogue with your husband, women don't need force to placate a man...a man is programme to be susceptible to a woman. Now the options: 1. Damn all consequences and bring the boy. a. The man accepts, but the man will never acknowledge the boy.(Also bad for the family..brews disharmony) b. Divorce..families slug it out in a court and it result in her losing her kids or not...where do that leave her? c. She should know no matter how independent she is...she still needs help...nobody is an Island. d. Something unfortunate happens to her ( like illness or death....BUT GOD FORBID...what next? who will cater for the children..including the 12yrs boy? d. She tows the line of dialogue with her husband and the man agrees...which men what ever circumstances the man will acknowledge the boy. The truth is that there is a lot of outcomes that u can think of. But as for me i wish I could hear the man's own side of the story. cos i never come to conclusion when i have heard both side story. Egungun just be careful..cos na express u dey go 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Vyvyanvyvy: 11:34am On Mar 15, 2020 |
Thank you everybody for the support , good , bad advices and critics. Like I said the other day I will pick him today am already at my brother place my son stuffs are all packed and we will be leaving soon. I’m very excited happy to have my son back today he will sleep peaceful in his mother house without worrying about what to eat because with me he will have his happy life back 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by juman(m): 12:02pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
@Vyvyanvyvy You are strong woman. Mostly the nigerian mothers own their children fully. Happy he is now with his mama and going to live a happy life. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Pearl05(f): 12:17pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: My dear you did well. None is like the bond btw mom and child. And you have the capacity to care for him well. Be happy and watch how your bp will normalize. Safe and sound delivery to you. Peace and love to your home. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by dominique(f): 1:03pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Nice one, do let us know how it goes 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Graxie(f): 1:48pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Awesome, you will not be put to shame in Jesus name. God will give you the strength to raise sound kids. In a society full of hatred, the Lord will lead you. Congratulations for being there for your kids. I am happy for you. 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Graxie(f): 1:50pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
martowskin1:Be blabbing rubbish, tomorrow is deep. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 1:55pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:Don't forget to tell us what happens when you get home, that's the one that concerns me. Please leave nothing out, this your fairy-tale has to have a sweet ending. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by pillan(f): 2:01pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy:you made the right decision.. Good luck 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yeyeosoronga: 2:15pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Well done. Look after your children well o. They are your own flesh and blood, birthed from your loins. A man can always walk away without looking back, as you've experienced even from your first relationship. If your husband tries to make trouble, just continue to appeal to him.. He may decide to take a walk, but such is life. You win some, you lose some The main thing is that your son is safe 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yemi1504: 3:04pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Why don't you leave your husband's house for some time till his brain resets and pay full attention to your children as you brought them into this world, if he does not come back, get a divorce as he never loved you in the first place, God will provide you with a better husband in time. My 2 cents. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yemi1504: 3:13pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: You might have to do that without answering Mrs. to the irresponsible husband you have currently, if I were you, I will take the risk since you said you pay 70% of the bills in your house. To show how irresponsible your husband is, he pays only 30% when he should be paying at least 70% and he is still dictating to you. Pardon my French. 1 Like |
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