I just ended a relationship of 6 yrs and a kid.
My babe lost her Android phone for sometime and was using a Techno torchlight now she recently got another android phone,
She visited me dis weekend with my lil boy,all thru her stay she was browsing with her phone but I Neva thought abt it even though she deprived me of attention but by the time her battery went off, I was already sleeping , she tried waking me up but I refused den she got angry dat instead of giving her attention I was sleeping,so she left with my son without even telling me,wen I woke up I called and she told me dat she is already at home and I told her dat am thru with her, am I wrong?


N.S don't mind any typing error as am very confused and also stoned

Please forgive and tell her your mind
Also marry her as a responsible somebori, u av a son now so what else do u want?

How did we survive when there was no handsets. These days people can't have 5 minutes straight conversation without pressing the phone. Tell her that anytime she visits, the phone will be switched off for at least 3 hours except she if she is using it to do online business and it will be strictly for business transactions when she is with you and you also do the same.
Phone is affecting your communication which is not good for the relationship. Learn to also draw your son closer, he would have signalled to you when the mother was taking him away.

This is not wise. You could have tried to have a hint of what she was doing with the phone. Some of these girls u guys have a child with then look for the flimsiest excuse to jilt do not find life very funny afterwards. If she was involved in some romantic exchange with another guy then u may be correct in ur actions but if you just want to jilt her over some inconsequentials you're wrong. There's so much difference between you 2 and zero understanding.

Ended it just like that?
Were you high on sokoto weed or is it just your anger issues

Oga, you have been looking for the nearest excuse to breakup, YOU MUST MARRY HER. Rubbish!

proclinician:
This is not wise. You could have tried to have a hint of what she was doing with the phone. Some of these girls u guys have a child with then look for the flimsiest excuse to jilt do not find life very funny afterwards. If she was involved in some romantic exchange with another guy then u may be correct in ur actions but if you just want to jilt her over some inconsequentials you're wrong. There's so much difference between you 2 and zero understanding.

She was actually watching movies

You're funny, you did not even pity that innocent boy

Secretiveman:
She was actually watching movies

Call her back.

Dpharisee:
How did we survive when there was no handsets. These days people can't have 5 minutes straight conversation without pressing the phone. Tell her that anytime she visits, the phone will be switched off for at least 3 hours except she if she is using it to do online business and it will be strictly for business transactions when she is with you and you also do the same.
Phone is affecting your communication which is not good for the relationship. Learn to also draw your son closer, he would have signalled to you when the mother was taking him away.

My boy just turned a year last week

I love dis girl but I see dis as an insult

Firstly, OP you’re wrong by loving a Nigerian girl.

Secondly, she’s trying to manipulate you. After her battery went off, that’s when she wants attention. Entitlement mentality, red flag.

Thirdly, She’s very disrespectful. Unacceptable!

Lastly, use your head.

Secretiveman:
I just ended a relationship of 6 yrs and a kid.
My babe lost her Android phone for sometime and was using a Techno torchlight now she recently got another android phone,
She visited me dis weekend with my lil boy,all thru her stay she was browsing with her phone but I Neva thought abt it even though she deprived me of attention but by the time her battery went off, I was already sleeping , she tried waking me up but I refused den she got angry dat instead of giving her attention I was sleeping,so she left with my son without even telling me,wen I woke up I called and she told me dat she is already at home and I told her dat am thru with her, am I wrong?


N.S don't mind any typing error as am very confused and also stoned

U didn't handle it well bro, u shouldn't hav said u re tru with her, now she wil b blackmailing u around dat u are the cause of the broken relationship. And logically looking at it, at least to some point she's right cus u re the one who threw in the towel.



if i were you, wat i would have said wen she told me dat she's already home is dis.

Me: Hey!! hello where are you, i didn't see u wen i woke up?

Gf: Am in my home!

Me: Ok den, later. take care of the kid. Bye.

Den i wil drop my fon and face my other attention-worthy challenges.

This life is soo simple bro, just learn the rules. Lobatan

OlawaleBammie:


U didn't handle it well bro, u shouldn't hav said u re tru with her, now she wil b blackmailing u around dat u are the cause of the broken relationship. And logically looking at it, at least to some point she's right cus u re the one who threw in the towel.



if i were you, wat i would have said wen she told me dat she's already home is dis.

Me: Hey!! hello where are you, i didn't see u wen i woke up?

Gf: Am in my home!

Me: Ok den, later. take care of the kid. Bye.

Den i wil drop my fon and face my other attention-worthy challenges.

This life is soo simple bro, just learn the rules. Lobatan

Bros u are right i tink this guy o.p has temper and he has to put it in check.

tunize:

Bros u are right i tink this guy o.p has temper and he has to put it in check.

Not dat u tink bro, he has anger issue and he need to deal with it before its too late

Men dont behave the way he did, only toddlers does dat.

What have learnt so far is dat u can only control woman effectively and effortlessly tru ur COMPOSURE AND NOT ANGER, CONTROLLING AND CONFRONTATION.

Davash222:
Firstly, OP you’re wrong by loving a Nigerian girl.

Secondly, she’s trying to manipulate you. After her battery went off, that’s when she wants attention. Entitlement mentality, red flag.

Thirdly, She’s very disrespectful. Unacceptable!

Lastly, use your head.

Bro as a guy its good to reason fast but when ur reasoning becomes too fast u might start getting mad.. Op said she was watching a movie with her phone, probably guy man no get light to entertain them... Her only wrong is leaving with the kid without his consent.

And wtf is wrong in loving a Nigerian girl... guy stop clowning man

Are u hot tempered?
This small thing u r ranting here
I can't imagine how d marriage will look like
But the girl no try

it is what it is... pull the damn plug, u a king.... A fucken king!!.... if she ain't gon beg for forgiveness over her rudeness then she should forget bouh the relationship.

At least you are honest to say that she was the one who bought the phone, not you. If not for that child which your gf has for you, I would have advised you to avoid marriage completely, your type is not meant for marriage. You call off a relationship of 6yrs, because of this minor issue? How did both of you make it up to 6yrs? Or has she been taking a lot of your garbage, and is suddenly fed up? Its a new Dawn wake up!

Secretiveman:
I just ended a relationship of 6 yrs and a kid.
My babe lost her Android phone for sometime and was using a Techno torchlight now she recently got another android phone,
She visited me dis weekend with my lil boy,all thru her stay she was browsing with her phone but I Neva thought abt it even though she deprived me of attention but by the time her battery went off, I was already sleeping , she tried waking me up but I refused den she got angry dat instead of giving her attention I was sleeping,so she left with my son without even telling me,wen I woke up I called and she told me dat she is already at home and I told her dat am thru with her, am I wrong?


N.S don't mind any typing error as am very confused and also stoned

OlawaleBammie:


Not dat u tink bro, he has anger issue and he need to deal with it before its too late

Men dont behave the way he did, only toddlers does dat.

What have learnt so far is dat u can only control woman effectively and effortlessly tru ur COMPOSURE AND NOT ANGER, CONTROLLING AND CONFRONTATION.

It takes a real man to actually handle the attitude and drama of most ladies even some might even misbehave to the point of bringing out the devil in one. Na all this tin make i jst deh my lane cos i nor want headache.

tunize:

It takes a real man to actually handle the attitude and drama of most ladies even some might even misbehave to the point of bringing out the devil in one. Na all this tin make i jst deh my lane cos i nor want headache.

Lol, ur last sentence off me die.



wat does dat mean pls??

OlawaleBammie:



Lol, ur last sentence off me die.



wat does dat mean pls??

Bros e mean sey women drama too much and i don see different kind of attitudes from babes so i jst conclude sey na to jst dey single dey enjoy myself free of headche and e dey sweet me. I was ones like this o.p with anger issues based on attitude of ladies but thank God i had to work on myself by over looking.

tunize:

Bros e mean sey women drama too much and i don see different kind of attitudes from babes so i jst conclude sey na to jst dey single dey enjoy myself free of headche and e dey sweet me. I was ones like this o.p with anger issues based on attitude of ladies but thank God i had to work on myself by over looking.

That is d best tin but bro!! u cant stay single forever oo.

Maybe u should try trial and error method

Anyways, we re on same boat and am enjoying mysef as well, but i cant deny the fact dat its boring.

OlawaleBammie:



That is d best tin but bro!! u cant stay single forever oo.

Maybe u should try trial and error method

Anyways, we re on same boat and am enjoying mysef as well, but i cant deny the fact dat its boring.

Is boring shall buh peace of mind is bttr. Funny thing is that most of my relationships with my ex's na walk away things. Wen the drama is jst too much i jst walk away and lose communication.

tunize:

Is boring shall buh peace of mind is bttr. Funny thing is that most of my relationships with my ex's na walk away things. Wen the drama is jst too much i jst walk away and lose communication.

Lol, u dey try sha

Kiddllc:

Bro as a guy its good to reason fast but when ur reasoning becomes too fast u might start getting mad.. Op said she was watching a movie with her phone, probably guy man no get light to entertain them... Her only wrong is leaving with the kid without his consent.

And wtf is wrong in loving a Nigerian girl... guy stop clowning man

Baba me on generator o,just dat I was playing all this kids music for my boy

OlawaleBammie:


Lol, u dey try sha

Why u talk so

tunize:
Why u talk so

Lol, no now.
i just pictured the number of ladies u had given this silent treatment ni!

OlawaleBammie:


Lol, no now.

i just pictured the number of ladies u had given this silent treatment ni!

Hehehehe nor mind me jare na so i be oooh. If i jst notice sey babe don start misbehave anyhw u know that kind behaviour wen be sey she go want make u do smtn so she go use am as excuse waka u jst ignore then let go. I nvr really break up with any babe i walk away by losing communication and that is the end.