Good day everyone, I'm an old Nairalander but created this account to pour out the tears flowing from my heart over these years. As I type this, my heart is heavy, very heavy. Life is totally unfair and has somehow become too gloomy recently.
Before I entered school, I had planned to be a lecturer or someone who impacts knowledge for the greater good of the society. So I chose an education course and vowed to make first class in order to make it easier to get to my dreams.

At the University, I struggled through school because I partly trained myself and because of this I could only make 2:1 (CGPA 4.2). Since then I've been unable to secure a job, but I do some hustles and have taught in private schools around. But it's nothing because this schools pay as less as 20,000.
As the first of 8 children, what I make rarely get into my pocket. I will have to send to my poor parents in the village and cater for my younger ones. I've continued to push life believing things will get better someday. I apply for jobs, sometimes I get invites, sometimes I don't. Some jobs that I know I merit because of my performance in the interview, you will be surprised I won't be called. Some are clearly bought with money even in my presence.

I'm tired of everything. I thought hardwork in school would have paved way for me knowing the kind of family I came from, and what lies ahead. I feel so down right now. Five years down the line, I'm unemployed and my dream of becoming a lecturer seem not feasible anymore. Just recently my landlord called me and reminded me I've not paid last year rent. I'm tired and giving up about everything.

Pls I need help out of this dilemma. My prayers are simple. Help me with a good job that I can save, do my masters and PhD and get a lecturing job. If the lecturing won't be possible, at least let me be comfortable and help my family. Help me dry this tears in my eyes. Even if not for me, for the sake of my younger ones who look up to me for help and support, my aging mum and people around me. There's tears in my heart anytime I can't help when they are in need.

I can do a lot, I learn very fast, I can manage your organization/establishments, I can mange social media accounts, I can do anything with minimal tutoring about it. Please help me anyway you can.
God bless you.

I wish i could help. No man can truly help you if God does not help you. Put your trust in him and he will see you through. It must not be a white collar job, go out everyday, whatever you can engage yourself in that will put money in your pocket, by all means do it while looking out for a better job.

totosucker:
I wish i could help. No man can truly help you if God does not help you. Put your trust in him and he will see you through. It must not be a white collar job, go out everyday, whatever you can engage yourself in that will put money in your pocket, by all means do it while looking out for a better job.

Bro. I'm trying my best but it seems nothing is happening. I wish I could talk to God directly looking into his eyes.

Keldom:

Bro. I'm trying my best but it seems nothing is happening. I wish I could talk to God directly looking into his eyes.

Hmnm.Talk to him with faith in your heart and he will respond . Back it up with scriptures and i see God, giving you your dream job

Come, who was the person that brought the culture of siblings looking up to older siblings sef? Someone is struggling and you are still cooking eye to take what's not enough... Nawaoo

totosucker:
Hmnm.Talk to him with faith in your heart and he will respond . Back it up with scriptures and i see God, giving you your dream job

At this time, my faith fails me. I've almost lost hope. Sometimes I will just be sleeping and crying, some nights I will be awake wishing to hear a voice give me directions on how to better my life.

SweetCunt97:
Come, who was the person that brought the culture of siblings looking up to older siblings sef? Someone is struggling and you are still cooking eye to take what's not enough... Nawaoo

Sometimes they don't wish to, but nowhere else to look up to. If parents had money, the children won't be looking up to their older siblings but to the parents.

Don't just read please. Help me.

School don't teach you how to make money
It teaches you how to work under someone and get paid after 30days

Going to school is Good but learning something is Golden
Try and learn something you are passionate about

One way no enter market my brother especially in this country

Funny enough I find myself in similar situation.
I have parents that can help out with very serious connections but they won't. Every morning I argue with my mum or there is no day that goes by without a quarrel.
I will be 26 this year but Evryday I sit back an think if I was made to live this kind of life.

op, stop thinking about the whole shit. just hustle and save the little you can. Then go for your M.sc and PhD.
Nobody go help you without them not wanting to collect from you.

Keldom:
Good day everyone, I'm an old Nairalander but created this account to pour out the tears flowing from my heart over these years. As I type this, my heart is heavy, very heavy. Life is totally unfair and has somehow become too gloomy recently.
Before I entered school, I had planned to be a lecturer or someone who impacts knowledge for the greater good of the society. So I chose an education course and vowed to make first class in order to make it easier to get to my dreams.

At the University, I struggled through school because I partly trained myself and because of this I could only make 2:1 (CGPA 4.2). Since then I've been unable to secure a job, but I do some hustles and have taught in private schools around. But it's nothing because this schools pay as less as 20,000.
As the first of 8 children, what I make rarely get into my pocket. I will have to send to my poor parents in the village and cater for my younger ones. I've continued to push life believing things will get better someday. I apply for jobs, sometimes I get invites, sometimes I don't. Some jobs that I know I merit because of my performance in the interview, you will be surprised I won't be called. Some are clearly bought with money even in my presence.

I'm tired of everything. I thought hardwork in school would have paved way for me knowing the kind of family I came from, and what lies ahead. I feel so down right now. Five years down the line, I'm unemployed and my dream of becoming a lecturer seem not feasible anymore. Just recently my landlord called me and reminded me I've not paid last year rent. I'm tired and giving up about everything.

Pls I need help out of this dilemma. My prayers are simple. Help me with a good job that I can save, do my masters and PhD and get a lecturing job. If the lecturing won't be possible, at least let me be comfortable and help my family. Help me dry this tears in my eyes. Even if not for me, for the sake of my younger ones who look up to me for help and support, my aging mum and people around me. There's tears in my heart anytime I can't help when they are in need.

I can do a lot, I learn very fast, I can manage your organization/establishments, I can mange social media accounts, I can do anything with minimal tutoring about it. Please help me anyway you can.
God bless you.

Apply for scholarships... China, Germany and so on.

2dice01:
School don't teach you how to make money

It teaches you how to work under someone and get paid after 30days


Going to school is Good but learning something is Golden

Try and learn something you are passionate about


One way no enter market my brother especially in this country

Apt!

biobash:

Apply for scholarships... China, Germany and so on.

I've been doing that.

2dice01:
School don't teach you how to make money

It teaches you how to work under someone and get paid after 30days


Going to school is Good but learning something is Golden

Try and learn something you are passionate about


One way no enter market my brother especially in this country

Bro. I've been hustling. Maybe you didn't read my post but it seems like I'm not. Baba I no where e dey pain me.

evil1:
Funny enough I find myself in similar situation.
I have parents that can help out with very serious connections but they won't. Every morning I argue with my mum or there is no day that goes by without a quarrel.
I will be 26 this year but Evryday I sit back an think if I was made to live this kind of life.

Bro. Don't ever say it's similar situation. Wish I had a parent that can connect me. I won't even be here seeking for help.

BRO GO THINK OF HOW TO START UP A SMALL BUSINESS....
IT TAKES TIME TO GROW BUT JUST BE OPTIMISTIC AND CONSISTENCE....

ORBLIGHTS:
BRO GO THINK OF HOW TO START UP A SMALL BUSINESS....
IT TAKES TIME TO GROW BUT JUST BE OPTIMISTIC AND CONSISTENCE....

Bro. I have lots of business ideas on my head, but where is the capital? Anyone willing to help me with capital, I will equally be so grateful.

totosucker:
Hmnm.Talk to him with faith in your heart and he will respond . Back it up with scriptures and i see God, giving you your dream job

toto sucker you know God?

manGODDED:
toto sucker you know God?

I know God oo abi na only you know God.

What is your discipline?

totosucker:
I know God oo abi na only you know God.

and you come dey bear totosucker as moniker. People won't take you seriously on things of God.

manGODDED:
and you come dey bear totosucker as moniker. People won't take you seriously on things of God.

Anybody wey no take me serious that is his own cup of tea.

herzernIsHere:
What is your discipline?

Education/Economics

I really need help. Friends suggest anywhere I can get help. Lalasticlala I will be grateful if you can help me get more audience.

Go and learn a trade auto mechanic electrician phone rrepair etc
Even as an apprentice yyou will make more than 20k monthly
Most artisans aare looking ffor helping hhands depending oon where you are

Keldom:

Bro. I have lots of business ideas on my head, but where is the capital? Anyone willing to help me with capital, I will equally be so grateful.

I will advice you stop giving money to siblings for now. just save the little one you hustling then get something doing before thinking about giving out.


advice your siblings to hustle or suspend their dreams till you are a bit comfortable.

you may end up destroying your own dreams and the worst part is that you won't be able to support your siblings to achieve their dreams

Lostz:
I will advice you stop giving money to siblings for now. just save the little one you hustling then get something doing before thinking about giving out.


advice your siblings to hustle or suspend their dreams till you are a bit comfortable.

you may end up destroying your own dreams and the worst part is that you won't be able to support your siblings to achieve their dreams

Chai, I wish I could. Their cries break me. But I will try so I can save something from the little I get. But I really need a better paying job or assistance to start up something.

Keldom:

Chai, I wish I could. Their cries break me. But I will try so I can save something from the little I get. But I really need a better paying job or assistance to start up something.

that is the best you can do now o. they should hustle to eat . those who are through with secondary School should wait till you are a bit comfortable. so you don't lose everything.



wish you good luck in your search for a better job. while you are still searching, save a little amount to start a side hustle.
when you earn from your teaching job, you invest in the side hustle. or you can use the after school hour to learn a skill.

God will see you through

evil1:
Funny enough I find myself in similar situation.
I have parents that can help out with very serious connections but they won't. Every morning I argue with my mum or there is no day that goes by without a quarrel.
I will be 26 this year but Evryday I sit back an think if I was made to live this kind of life.

This is so pathetic., i honestly feel your pain bro having parent that can actually connect you to secure a job but they seems not to bother. i will be 26 october this year and i came out top of my class in the department of geography & regional planning and i'm still in search of job.

biobash:


Apply for scholarships... China, Germany and so on.

Please can you help me with any latest scholarship

What course did you study?