williamsotiko:
]Hello house my name is Williams and this story is true, i have a girl who is of Calabar origin,while am from Anambra .i meet her when i was still an apprentice and we became friends on a platonic level. i never thought about befriending her cause she has a boy out of wedlock. but gradually as she started coming to my house when i have finished my apprenticeship things changed and one thing led to another and she took in. it was her Mum who broke the News to me cause she was staying with her and the Mum is divorced and now staying alone with the girl.though she told me that she is going to handle the issue and i left but after a period of two Months the girl came one day crying that the said pregnancy was proving difficult to terminate but i offered to take her to the hospital because myself was not ready to marry then considering my age(22) but she went home and told the Mother and she called and warned me to desist else she will arrest me.i i declined and and told her that she will not stay in my house but will Visit whenever she feels like.but in all these i never told my Parents or sibling until she put to bed,a baby boy. my people where against me marrying her because she is of Calabar descent and also a secondary school dropout.but in order not to have a bastard i offered to train her in something so that she can atleast have something doing and maybe write be of some certain standard.the first thing i did was to raise money for her Mum to start petty trading since from my findings that was what she does inside the market before she lost her funds back in 2010. So i raised the sum of 60,000 for her that was year 2014. but she never made use of it to start up anything,while i continue to raise Money for their monthly upkeep. In 2015/16 i asked her what she can do and she said the Mum is Good at cooking and that she can startup a restaurant there again i raised about 150,000 because it was in a kind of remote area. but to no avail the business did not survive so i lost interest in it and secured a place for her to learn tailoring and she started while i still maintain the monthly salary culture. when she finished i bought a machine for her to startup which was also a difficult for her and lastly she ended saying that she want to go into business which i raised the sum of 200,000 for her but she run the business for like two months made some looses and used the remaining capital to secure a house for herself and mother because she was having issue with the landlady this was in 2018 but in that 2016/17 i started up another relationship with another girl whom i love deeply and we where moving along very well until My baby Mama started found out about the affair though i told the gilr that i have a boy but am not married which she believed and never cared much until my baby Mama started showing up and using the boy as an advantage up to the extent of both of them fighting in my house on several occasions and that led to my girlfriend being rude and naughty towards me. because she started nursing the feeling i still have sexual feelings for my baby Mama which whenever i call her she always responds but i have told her that marriage will not work out between us,yet she still honour my invitations. This my girlfriend is soo much in love with me that finds it difficult to leave me and i also love her cause she is hardworking and also an undergraduate but has little things that she does that fetch her Money. NOW the issue is that i want to leave my baby Mama cause i have lost a lot through her but sometimes i think that am making a mistake because my girlfriend is hot tempered. but the worst is that am confused on who to leave pls advice me.I dont know whats really wrong with me, which ever one i see i fall for that one at that time. AM REALLY CONFUSED. PLS ADVICE

ValCon888:
Think outside the box.
Marry both of them.
An old man with a single penis has 58.
There's no reason you can't have 2.

chatinent:
I strongly believe sb has employed these fake bloggers to post fake stories here. Well, for the article, marry the one who has a child for you.After all, all women are the same; cheats.

ValCon888:
Think outside the box.
Marry both of them.
An old man with a single penis has 58.
There's no reason you can't have 2.

williamsotiko:
]Hello house my name is Williams and this story is true, i have a girl who is of Calabar origin,while am from Anambra .i meet her when i was still an apprentice and we became friends on a platonic level. i never thought about befriending her cause she has a boy out of wedlock. but gradually as she started coming to my house when i have finished my apprenticeship things changed and one thing led to another and she took in. it was her Mum who broke the News to me cause she was staying with her and the Mum is divorced and now staying alone with the girl.though she told me that she is going to handle the issue and i left but after a period of two Months the girl came one day crying that the said pregnancy was proving difficult to terminate but i offered to take her to the hospital because myself was not ready to marry then considering my age(22) but she went home and told the Mother and she called and warned me to desist else she will arrest me.i i declined and and told her that she will not stay in my house but will Visit whenever she feels like.but in all these i never told my Parents or sibling until she put to bed,a baby boy. my people where against me marrying her because she is of Calabar descent and also a secondary school dropout.but in order not to have a bastard i offered to train her in something so that she can atleast have something doing and maybe write be of some certain standard.the first thing i did was to raise money for her Mum to start petty trading since from my findings that was what she does inside the market before she lost her funds back in 2010. So i raised the sum of 60,000 for her that was year 2014. but she never made use of it to start up anything,while i continue to raise Money for their monthly upkeep. In 2015/16 i asked her what she can do and she said the Mum is Good at cooking and that she can startup a restaurant there again i raised about 150,000 because it was in a kind of remote area. but to no avail the business did not survive so i lost interest in it and secured a place for her to learn tailoring and she started while i still maintain the monthly salary culture. when she finished i bought a machine for her to startup which was also a difficult for her and lastly she ended saying that she want to go into business which i raised the sum of 200,000 for her but she run the business for like two months made some looses and used the remaining capital to secure a house for herself and mother because she was having issue with the landlady this was in 2018 but in that 2016/17 i started up another relationship with another girl whom i love deeply and we where moving along very well until My baby Mama started found out about the affair though i told the gilr that i have a boy but am not married which she believed and never cared much until my baby Mama started showing up and using the boy as an advantage up to the extent of both of them fighting in my house on several occasions and that led to my girlfriend being rude and naughty towards me. because she started nursing the feeling i still have sexual feelings for my baby Mama which whenever i call her she always responds but i have told her that marriage will not work out between us,yet she still honour my invitations. This my girlfriend is soo much in love with me that finds it difficult to leave me and i also love her cause she is hardworking and also an undergraduate but has little things that she does that fetch her Money. NOW the issue is that i want to leave my baby Mama cause i have lost a lot through her but sometimes i think that am making a mistake because my girlfriend is hot tempered. but the worst is that am confused on who to leave pls advice me.I dont know whats really wrong with me, which ever one i see i fall for that one at that time. AM REALLY CONFUSED. PLS ADVICE

williamsotiko:
]Hello house my name is Williams and this story is true, i have a girl who is of Calabar origin,while am from Anambra .i meet her when i was still an apprentice and we became friends on a platonic level. i never thought about befriending her cause she has a boy out of wedlock. but gradually as she started coming to my house when i have finished my apprenticeship things changed and one thing led to another and she took in. it was her Mum who broke the News to me cause she was staying with her and the Mum is divorced and now staying alone with the girl.though she told me that she is going to handle the issue and i left but after a period of two Months the girl came one day crying that the said pregnancy was proving difficult to terminate but i offered to take her to the hospital because myself was not ready to marry then considering my age(22) but she went home and told the Mother and she called and warned me to desist else she will arrest me.i i declined and and told her that she will not stay in my house but will Visit whenever she feels like.but in all these i never told my Parents or sibling until she put to bed,a baby boy. my people where against me marrying her because she is of Calabar descent and also a secondary school dropout.but in order not to have a bastard i offered to train her in something so that she can atleast have something doing and maybe write be of some certain standard.the first thing i did was to raise money for her Mum to start petty trading since from my findings that was what she does inside the market before she lost her funds back in 2010. So i raised the sum of 60,000 for her that was year 2014. but she never made use of it to start up anything,while i continue to raise Money for their monthly upkeep. In 2015/16 i asked her what she can do and she said the Mum is Good at cooking and that she can startup a restaurant there again i raised about 150,000 because it was in a kind of remote area. but to no avail the business did not survive so i lost interest in it and secured a place for her to learn tailoring and she started while i still maintain the monthly salary culture. when she finished i bought a machine for her to startup which was also a difficult for her and lastly she ended saying that she want to go into business which i raised the sum of 200,000 for her but she run the business for like two months made some looses and used the remaining capital to secure a house for herself and mother because she was having issue with the landlady this was in 2018 but in that 2016/17 i started up another relationship with another girl whom i love deeply and we where moving along very well until My baby Mama started found out about the affair though i told the gilr that i have a boy but am not married which she believed and never cared much until my baby Mama started showing up and using the boy as an advantage up to the extent of both of them fighting in my house on several occasions and that led to my girlfriend being rude and naughty towards me. because she started nursing the feeling i still have sexual feelings for my baby Mama which whenever i call her she always responds but i have told her that marriage will not work out between us,yet she still honour my invitations. This my girlfriend is soo much in love with me that finds it difficult to leave me and i also love her cause she is hardworking and also an undergraduate but has little things that she does that fetch her Money. NOW the issue is that i want to leave my baby Mama cause i have lost a lot through her but sometimes i think that am making a mistake because my girlfriend is hot tempered. but the worst is that am confused on who to leave pls advice me.I dont know whats really wrong with me, which ever one i see i fall for that one at that time. AM REALLY CONFUSED. PLS ADVICE

williamsotiko:
]Hello house my name is Williams and this story is true, i have a girl who is of Calabar origin,while am from Anambra .i meet her when i was still an apprentice and we became friends on a platonic level. i never thought about befriending her cause she has a boy out of wedlock. but gradually as she started coming to my house when i have finished my apprenticeship things changed and one thing led to another and she took in. it was her Mum who broke the News to me cause she was staying with her and the Mum is divorced and now staying alone with the girl.though she told me that she is going to handle the issue and i left but after a period of two Months the girl came one day crying that the said pregnancy was proving difficult to terminate but i offered to take her to the hospital because myself was not ready to marry then considering my age(22) but she went home and told the Mother and she called and warned me to desist else she will arrest me.i i declined and and told her that she will not stay in my house but will Visit whenever she feels like.but in all these i never told my Parents or sibling until she put to bed,a baby boy. my people where against me marrying her because she is of Calabar descent and also a secondary school dropout.but in order not to have a bastard i offered to train her in something so that she can atleast have something doing and maybe write be of some certain standard.the first thing i did was to raise money for her Mum to start petty trading since from my findings that was what she does inside the market before she lost her funds back in 2010. So i raised the sum of 60,000 for her that was year 2014. but she never made use of it to start up anything,while i continue to raise Money for their monthly upkeep. In 2015/16 i asked her what she can do and she said the Mum is Good at cooking and that she can startup a restaurant there again i raised about 150,000 because it was in a kind of remote area. but to no avail the business did not survive so i lost interest in it and secured a place for her to learn tailoring and she started while i still maintain the monthly salary culture. when she finished i bought a machine for her to startup which was also a difficult for her and lastly she ended saying that she want to go into business which i raised the sum of 200,000 for her but she run the business for like two months made some looses and used the remaining capital to secure a house for herself and mother because she was having issue with the landlady this was in 2018 but in that 2016/17 i started up another relationship with another girl whom i love deeply and we where moving along very well until My baby Mama started found out about the affair though i told the gilr that i have a boy but am not married which she believed and never cared much until my baby Mama started showing up and using the boy as an advantage up to the extent of both of them fighting in my house on several occasions and that led to my girlfriend being rude and naughty towards me. because she started nursing the feeling i still have sexual feelings for my baby Mama which whenever i call her she always responds but i have told her that marriage will not work out between us,yet she still honour my invitations. This my girlfriend is soo much in love with me that finds it difficult to leave me and i also love her cause she is hardworking and also an undergraduate but has little things that she does that fetch her Money. NOW the issue is that i want to leave my baby Mama cause i have lost a lot through her but sometimes i think that am making a mistake because my girlfriend is hot tempered. but the worst is that am confused on who to leave pls advice me.I dont know whats really wrong with me, which ever one i see i fall for that one at that time. AM REALLY CONFUSED. PLS ADVICE

williamsotiko:
]Hello house my name is Williams and this story is true, i have a girl who is of Calabar origin,while am from Anambra .i meet her when i was still an apprentice and we became friends on a platonic level. i never thought about befriending her cause she has a boy out of wedlock. but gradually as she started coming to my house when i have finished my apprenticeship things changed and one thing led to another and she took in. it was her Mum who broke the News to me cause she was staying with her and the Mum is divorced and now staying alone with the girl.though she told me that she is going to handle the issue and i left but after a period of two Months the girl came one day crying that the said pregnancy was proving difficult to terminate but i offered to take her to the hospital because myself was not ready to marry then considering my age(22) but she went home and told the Mother and she called and warned me to desist else she will arrest me.i i declined and and told her that she will not stay in my house but will Visit whenever she feels like.but in all these i never told my Parents or sibling until she put to bed,a baby boy. my people where against me marrying her because she is of Calabar descent and also a secondary school dropout.but in order not to have a bastard i offered to train her in something so that she can atleast have something doing and maybe write be of some certain standard.the first thing i did was to raise money for her Mum to start petty trading since from my findings that was what she does inside the market before she lost her funds back in 2010. So i raised the sum of 60,000 for her that was year 2014. but she never made use of it to start up anything,while i continue to raise Money for their monthly upkeep. In 2015/16 i asked her what she can do and she said the Mum is Good at cooking and that she can startup a restaurant there again i raised about 150,000 because it was in a kind of remote area. but to no avail the business did not survive so i lost interest in it and secured a place for her to learn tailoring and she started while i still maintain the monthly salary culture. when she finished i bought a machine for her to startup which was also a difficult for her and lastly she ended saying that she want to go into business which i raised the sum of 200,000 for her but she run the business for like two months made some looses and used the remaining capital to secure a house for herself and mother because she was having issue with the landlady this was in 2018 but in that 2016/17 i started up another relationship with another girl whom i love deeply and we where moving along very well until My baby Mama started found out about the affair though i told the gilr that i have a boy but am not married which she believed and never cared much until my baby Mama started showing up and using the boy as an advantage up to the extent of both of them fighting in my house on several occasions and that led to my girlfriend being rude and naughty towards me. because she started nursing the feeling i still have sexual feelings for my baby Mama which whenever i call her she always responds but i have told her that marriage will not work out between us,yet she still honour my invitations. This my girlfriend is soo much in love with me that finds it difficult to leave me and i also love her cause she is hardworking and also an undergraduate but has little things that she does that fetch her Money. NOW the issue is that i want to leave my baby Mama cause i have lost a lot through her but sometimes i think that am making a mistake because my girlfriend is hot tempered. but the worst is that am confused on who to leave pls advice me.I dont know whats really wrong with me, which ever one i see i fall for that one at that time. AM REALLY CONFUSED. PLS ADVICE

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

First of all, You are an irresponsible young man but a hard-working type based on efforts you made.

You allowed the a baby mama to milk you based on your third leg. Infact thinking of it when you where enjoying the sex you didn't tell us.

Why should I answer you. I change my mind lol.

You need to distance yourself from the two. In reality both are not truly yours. It is high time you focus more on yourself. You need to work harder cause you have a brought a child to this world and you are responsible for him.

The babymama will never change. Once you distance yourself she will find another guy, which will lead to another baby. It is inbuilt in her case.

As for madam girlfriend, I understand her, but she needs to move on with her life. You can't keep her. If you do there will be more fight in the future. You have to accept that loss too. You can't eat your cake and have it. Unless na stomach ache you dey find. Simple.

Now for you, you have a legacy already, why are you still looking for women up and down. From your first experience you haven't learnt a thing ba.

You need to start using condom also cause I can sense you like deeping raw. You made a statement saying you still invite both girls on separate times. Meaning you are still chopping them. Oga you need to stop and face reality on ground. Na you set your table and the ball is in your court. Deal with it.

Free them and focus on your finance and wellbeing. Simple .

Malawian:

Oga, he is not asking UA to list his errors, he is asking for the way forward.

Fisher007:


And as I can see you still lack reading comprehension. Cause if you didn't you will see the answer to the question.

I purposely gave reason before the answer. So please read well next time and don't Qoute me for qouting sake.

Thank you.

Malawian:

Check the title of the thread again. Obviously he has decided on either of the two. Which of them did you advise on? This is simply reading and comprehension.

Mandelus:


First advice.
Comb your boy hair take it to a medical lab to check the DNA of the boy to confirm if his yours.

Secondly
Relocate to an unknown location (Avoid both ladies and start up life again... Build your self and grow a relationship. Hmm if you give a woman 150k + 200k hope you are not a tenant if yes then you are a womanizer even a good lady would value the money and make good use of it)

Well I can't advice right now but for your future The DNA and Relocation is highly advice will not go into details but you will only go far if you .... Bye

Fisher007:


Ok to make it simple for you :

Free them and focus on your finance and wellbeing. Simple

Which indicates none of them.

So hope you ve got your answer.

Malawian:

Let me troll you small.

He wanted a choice between the two. If he wanted a third choice, his question would have been, should I marry either of the two.

This is how people fail jamb use of English. Forget any outside knowledge you know of and focus on the subject matter at hand.

Thanks.

You can get angry now bro. I will simply be drinking my whiskey/cocacola.

Tajbol4splend:
Must you marry either of those two, girls plenty wey single yapa