I just want to let you know that there is nothing normal about that but the good news is that it can be corrected and back to normal. whatsapp me: 07063825868

SUPERPACK:
Have you ever heard of fertility test before marriage? That should be what you seek and it can detect infertility, damaged sexual organs e.t.c. What if the girl takes in as you propose only for you to meet a woman you feel will complete you better than her or she ends up loosing interest in you?

Your just dragging the obvious....ladies don't sit down one place..nd as singles,insult u is not your biz....so they should face the changed society resulting from their changed behavior.....

Fertility test ppl fix results with doctors...lol

internationalman:


No cause for alarm As long as the girl is okay with it...

A lady can still be turned into a baby mama even if she had her baby after wedding...

Don't mind him/her. Nigerians with their too sabi or too holy mentality. The man wants her to get pregnant before marriage, the lady is fine with it and is searching for solution, but somebody is preaching and doing bad belle, hoping for the worst. As you said, don't men leave/ divorce women with children and convert them to baby mamas after marriage?

Mumu girl, you have medical issue and you are coming to nairaland to receive advice from area boys. Don't go to hospital, be asking lazy youths ,you hear?

bigpicture001:


Your just dragging the obvious....ladies don't sit down one place..nd as singles,insult u is not your biz....so they should face the changed society resulting from their changed behavior.....

Fertility test ppl fix results with doctors...lol

Let's just agree to disagree then. Peace.

seancombs617:


It's PCOS..read about it online and how it can be cured.

PCOS can't be cured. Just managed.

Senatorkolade:
Firstly, don't let any man deceive u into getting pregnant and later abandon you. Secondly, it may not be an issue, my wife used to have irregular period like yours before we get married and times, she may not do period for months but she got pregnant on our second month of marriage despite not doing period for three months. The good news was that I met her a virgin.

The man can abandon her whether she is pregnant or not. Pregnancy is not a factor in broken marriages or relationships.

What works for you might not work for others. Virgin marriages (where the man marries the girl as a virgin ) does not have better divorce rate that non virgin marriages.

bigpicture001:


Is there any thing u can do abt women and promiscuity..? No! They say its their personal life

So since birds learn to flying without perching, so hunters will learn to shoot without missing!

So who are the women being promiscuous with? Other women? What about some of you men that go around sleeping with every thing that has a moist hole. You represent what is wrong in our society.

kingsleybrave:

At your age? From what I saw on your DP .....you shouldn't be more 18 years.....
Are you not the same girl complaining of going to a wrong JAMB centre?

Yes and I'm not 18.

Dearie, issues like yours are not handled by just any doctor. Go and see an Ob-Gyn (Obstetric Gynecologist). They're the ones who specialise in female body matters...

OlawaleBammie:


I dont bliv this statement, menstrual irregularities at 20s??
and one quack doctor said its cus u re in ur late twenties!!


guy go better hospital for a reliable diagnosis jare, millions of girls are outside there even at the wrong side of thirties and their red visitors are stil regular on monthly basis.

really quack doctor. They plenty for naija here

SUPERPACK:
Go and sit down your lazy ass, mofo. Why not read and pass. Tell your sister to go same path since it's the best.

you guys in Africa are always first to call people lazy funny enough

hipsyleema:
Dearie, issues like yours are not handled by just any doctor. Go and see an Ob-Gyn (Obstetric Gynecologist). They're the ones who specialise in female body matters...

Her case isnt exactly rocket science and any GP can handle this. Leave the obgyna for more serious issues

mranova:


Hi, I am not a doctor but I would love to share my experience with you. From my little knowledge, it happens so don't be afraid. Visit a proper fertility hospital for a scan to be certain if it's PCOS or not.

My experience is similar to yours I see my period sometimes once in six months. I was happy to escape the usual monthly flow and pains (because anytime the period comes it's heavy). Until I got married and tried getting pregnant which was difficult. When to the hospital did a hormonal profile (which was normal) did HSG (which was normal) then a scan showed that I had PCOS( you can Google more about the condition). Fast forward to the treatment, my doctor prescribed provera 3 times daily for five days ( to bring the period) a few days after the period came. Secondly on day 2 of the period he prescribed Clomid (started 50mg first trial, 100mg second trial, 150mg third trial- which finally got me preggy).
I do hope you find something helpful in my experience.

Noted. thank you

powerkey:


Change that hospital ASAP.


Go to a government hospital.

its actually a govt hospital
uch in ibadan to be precise
thanks though

Ishilove:

So who are the women being promiscuous with? Other women? What about some of you men that go around sleeping with every thing that has a moist hole. You represent what is wrong in our society.

Asa lady,u have a right to sperm test b4 u consent to marriage....

My gf made me go thru that

Remember u can only Mk a man do that if u have some aces

manontree:
First there are a number of reasons to experience this. Luckily you have eliminated much of these, including having done a transvaginal ultrasound and abdominal scan. I also like the fact that your doctor has ruled out hormonal imbalance. So far so good

Second, I guess we should equally eliminate the possibility of an infection by doing an HVS

Finally this might be entirely normal and such cases, usually down to subtle anovulation, tend to normalise over time. Since you plan to get pregnant now, discuss with your doctor on treatment options to get your body back to normal for that procedure

Also eat healthy, exercise and maintain a healthy weight

Good luck

noted.
thanks u sir

Please go check up @savvyhealthplace on IG. She's a specialist when it comes to hormones and it's imbalance. She's based in UAE but will counsel u and tell u the best form of treatment to go for.

azimo:
you guys in Africa are always first to call people lazy funny enough

Are you are in?

visit nsikak effiongs page on Facebook,she has great food plans that works @affordable prices

Eat 2-3 seeds of moringa and come back here with a testimony... Shalom!

seunmohmoh:
Yes and I'm not 18.

Ok.... All the best......
Check my signature.... contact me .....
Let me see how I can be of help

glamorousbluice:
Thank you very much..I seriously needed to hear this..I am also under same pressure and its killing my spirit

my dear don't let any man think that he's doing you a favour by getting married to you. If he can't respect your decision it means he's not worth It.

YahwehRocks:




Days of old, most of our ancestors married after conception. I'll think they had valid reasons.

I laugh at this. Very very untrue and misleading. The days of old you talk of, it was a taboo for an unmarried to have sex and an abomination to be pregnant before wedlock. You may even be ostracized.

kingsleybrave:

Ok.... All the best......
Check my signature.... contact me .....
Let me see how I can be of help

I'm sorry but help with what?

seunmohmoh:
I'm sorry but help with what?

Every body needs help.....
I may also be needing your help....
Have you gotten solution to your jamb stuff

SUPERPACK:
Are you are in?

I know how many of ur type I sent money from this forum. Ask them they will tell u my location. Little advice from me to u is always learn to mind ur own business.

OlawaleBammie:


I dont bliv this statement, menstrual irregularities at 20s??
and one quack doctor said its cus u re in ur late twenties!!


guy go better hospital for a reliable diagnosis jare, millions of girls are outside there even at the wrong side of thirties and their red visitors are stil regular on monthly basis.

she has been taking contraceptive like postinor for years that's why she is having period irregularities.

thundafire:
wats dey recommendation for boil close to dey anus please need ur advice

For how long has it been there? Does it disappear then reappear? If so, you may be referred to a surgeon.

pek:
I laugh at this. Very very untrue and misleading. The days of old you talk of, it was a taboo for an unmarried to have sex and an abomination to be pregnant before wedlock. You may even be ostracized.

The key here is they usually married virgins who they deflowered before or after wedding.

Glocal1:
For how long has it been there? Does it disappear then reappear? If so, you may be referred to a surgeon.

it's just der dey doctor bursted it but dey pains is crazy,it doesn't appear and dissappear

Hi OP,

Please do not be alarmed. The late twenties comment is absolutely wrong as far as female physiology is concerned. Women ovulate and mensurate well into their forties.

Like some people said here and like you have mentioned, going for tests (recommended by a gynaecologist) is the first step.

Then based on this, your diagnosis is read and the next steps advised.

Perhaps balancing this indication with the economics of solution is one worry some people have. But if you have the proper medical guidance, you should be fine.

I think you should try to calm yourself a bit.

Well, if you would like to get free medical advise in this situation, you may like to call othe Managing Pharmacist of Sofia Pharmacy, Lekki on 0903 495 1411

She is very experienced in these kind of matters with women (counselling, directing you to proper and affordable ob-gyn medicare and general physiological care for women)

Wish you all the best and congratulations on your forthcoming wedding.