ornicus:


heh. simply put, locking down the pussy does not translate to people skills

It does, it shows reliability, loyalties and trustworthiness.

A banker friend once asked about my girlfriend of many years and I reaffirmed we were still together. He was amazed. The next thing was to propose to me that he was ready to release #1.5m for a business we are planning, that was 2009. Please note, the last time we saw was in 2006 that was about 3 yrs.

I asked him why he trusted me so much, he said, if I can still be with my girlfriend of many years (now my wife). Then he has no cause NOT to trust me - that means I can be very reliable. I was amazed with his conclusions and ofcourse he was right.

So yes, locking down pussy or ability to hold ones body translates to skills. The society as a whole value virginity, fathers, mothers, sisters, cousins, nephews , kings, chiefs, friends, aquittances etc.

However it is a worthy to note that virginity without character cant keep a home. The truth is you hardly see a virgin without good character/home training...they mostly goes hand in hand. Although there are always few exceptions.

Updates: I the Said Banker came to me of recent with a business proposal. I obliged and gave out the money he requested. He trusted during is own time. It my turn to trust him too. This is the irony of life. It is give and take.

So if the hymen is reconstructed, does she become a virgin again?

If she's only had anal sex does this make her a virgin?

Lmao.... virgin men exist but I'll let you wallow in delusions.

franchasng:
there is no virgin man, stop deceiving yourself or stop being deceived. Breaking of vagina hymen is used to know when a woman is deflowered, what can you use to know when a man is deflowered Many guys that claim to be virgin have probably fvcked more than 5 girls but maybe as them never fvck their desired girl, they consider themselves virgin to fool willing ladies, wise up.



Nature didn't create man and woman to be equal, women get pregnant and give birth men don't get pregnant and give birth.


There is nothing like a virgin man, it is a hoax created by western gender equality proponents. A man's virginity is inconsequential, get that into your skull

geosegun:


It does, it shows reliability, loyalties and trustworthiness.

A banker friend once asked about my girlfriend of many years and I reaffirmed we were still together. He was amazed. The next thing was to propose to me that he was ready to release #1.5m for a business we are planning, that was 2009. Please note, the last time we saw was in 2006 that was about 3 yrs.

I asked him why he trusted me so much, he said, if I can still be with my girlfriend of many years (now my wife). Then he has no cause NOT to trust me - that means I can be very reliable. I was amazed with his conclusions and ofcourse he was right.

So yes, locking down pussy or ability to hold ones body translates to skills.

It shows nothing. I know of women just like the one in the story who married as virgins and are miserable.

You also have no idea of the importance of people skills/ emotional intelligence. Look no further than our rigid president to understand the importance of people skills. You think if Buhari was more of a people person, he would have been overthrown in 85? While Atiku was plotting against Obj, people were getting back to him.

Your statement about being let money because you are with your girlfriend of several years is the most foolish and bizarre nonsense I have ever read. No wonder banks keep failing. So rather than lend you money based on your financial or business competence, you were lent money based on your faithfulness to your gf. Gtfo with your bs story jare.

seems like you ve got a thing against virgins, was yours stolen at birth?

drnoel:


Not true bro, virginity I not written on the face of the individual. I once knew a guy that could swear he can smell virgins, maybe he could cos all his girlfriend's in school were virgins. He broke all of them; in his words, he opened their ministry.
Well, he married a non-virgin. A runz-girl to be precise, who came from wealthy parents (both parents were divorced hence the children were left on their own for years). The lady he married was wild, he gave him stress for years with her lifestyle but he actually really did love.
Anyways, his madam has finally cooled down. She has mellowed life ice water and has concentrated her energy on him. The guy is a rising star in the firm owner by the wife's mom, her father is now late.
Anyways, life has a way of doing a fast one on us so the issue of virginity or not is just a no go.

I concur and I am also not in anyway saying that the non-virgin lady should not be a blessing to her man, but come on bro with the rate of paternal drama we have been seeing of a recent shows that our generation needs to be encouraging virginity on both sexes because my brother we have failed Grace, and we are at that point of abusing it already

Accurate description of your mother. [s]

21cents:


we all know you've fuçked all the pricks in the neighborhood reason why you're worked up.

don't worry okay? a community prick like yourself is coming to wife you up. I'm not the cause of your wayward lifestyle or your ravaged pucy.

and when you have a daughter in the future, teach her to be a harlot like yourself too okay??. not my problem.

Las Las you go dey alright.

[/s]

Erm, sure.

It guarantees a major risk of sexual incompatibility. It guarantees massive disappointment and a likely painful divorce if you do end up being sexually incompatible. Or a lifetime of “adjustment” in a broken marriage.

Tell me, does having never travelled in your life, guarantee anything when you travel abroad for the first time?

Virginity is just that - lack of experience. Why in the wide world would that be good, or guarantee anything.


I keep count on stuff like this when I was still a practising English lawyer/solicitor and handled matrimonial cases (divorce), among other things.

Exactly 50% of my “virginal bride” marriages ended in divorce. Most of them (40%) were contested divorce, and the rest (5–9%) uncontested. (In case anyone wonders, a diligent lawyer should ask the client if she had entered the marriage as a virginal bride — to cover all bases as it may or may not be a relevant factor for certain claims.)


Sex — or lack thereof — is a completely separate thing from romance, which is also different from marriage. And frankly, the definition of a “successful” marriage varies between cultures, and goes beyond baby making if you ask me (because you can easily make babies without getting married).

In fact, in 2009 I still remember meeting an old couple (around 60+ years old) at East Avenue Medical Center who had grandchildren and looked like a happy family in the traditional Catholic sense… until the grandpa stated out loud that he and his “spouse” never actually got married.

That (among several other experiences) shattered so many of my preconceived notions about relationships.

samtinx:
I concur and I am also not in anyway saying that the non-virgin lady should not be a blessing to her man, but come on bro with the rate of paternal drama we have been seeing of a recent shows that our generation needs to be encouraging virginity on both sexes because my brother we have failed Grace, and we are at that point of abusing it already

Ah well! Me think it's a personal thing. Ofcos we advise our children and family to stay Virginia and all but ofcos implementation is another thing.
I think where we should concentrate is character building and making them understand situations and how to tackle it. If we breed and raise monsters, then it won't matter who is a virgin or non-virgin

geosegun:


It does, it shows reliability, loyalties and trustworthiness.

A banker friend once asked about my girlfriend of many years and I reaffirmed we were still together. He was amazed. The next thing was to propose to me that he was ready to release #1.5m for a business we are planning, that was 2009. Please note, the last time we saw was in 2006 that was about 3 yrs.

I asked him why he trusted me so much, he said, if I can still be with my girlfriend of many years (now my wife). Then he has no cause NOT to trust me - that means I can be very reliable. I was amazed with his conclusions and ofcourse he was right.

So yes, locking down pussy or ability to hold ones body translates to skills. The society as a whole value virginity, fathers, mothers, sisters, cousins, nephews , kings, chiefs, friends, aquittances etc.

However it is a worthy to note that virginity without character cant keep a home. The truth is you hardly see a virgin without good character/home training...they mostly goes hand in hand. Although there are always few exceptions.

@bolded, thank you very much sir.

I've never seen a virgin without good character so all the noise about good characters being synonymous with non virgins are baseless. you already gave your virginity on a platter to someone that didn't marry you and you're claiming it has nothing to do with good or bad characters.
if you've good characters yourself why would you thread a path of immorality in the first place?

my younger sister at 22 is still virgin. good character, homely religious girl that stays at home all day, never lets peer pressure trumps her wills, not a sucker for material things, intelligent and as a matter of fact, a good wife material by all standards. - thanks to my no nonsense parents.
All our tenants have turned her to a bank just because she's someone you can trust with your money or anything.

I've always commended her good behavior and prayed I find someone like her to marry cos most of the girls I've been coming across are already spoit.

ornicus:



It shows nothing. I know of women just like the one in the story who married as virgins and are miserable.

You also have no idea of the importance of people skills/ emotional intelligence. Look no further than our rigid president to understand the importance of people skills. You think if Buhari was more of a people person, he would have been overthrown in 85? While Atiku was plotting against Obj, people were getting back to him.

Your statement about being let money because you are with your girlfriend of several years is the most foolish and bizarre nonsense I have ever read. No wonder banks keep failing. So rather than lend you money based on your financial or business competence, you were lent money based on your faithfulness to your gf. Gtfo with your bs story jare.

We all have reasons for taken certain decisions. The money I mentioned was his personal money. We known for years and h was sure about my character but we ve not seen for 3 yrs and he use that to judge if I'm still the same person or different. As you know people and characters change over time. Please note I wasn't borrowing, he needed to venture into bussines, he has the money I have the technical experience. Dont just read. Learn to read and understand, young man. This is the problem we have in this country.

For the fact that the lady was miserable does not translate to others being miserable. If 90% are happy and enjoying their lives and 10% failed for one reason or the other that does not means all of them failed? Most times you only get to hear about bad news and not the excellent ones...I have more than enough examples I can give instantly and are doing great in their martial life and personal lives.

Can you please defray from using foul and uncouth statements when you drive home your points? That shows some level of aggressiveness, and you don't need it. I believe you are mature enough to comprehend this advise. Thanks, in advance, for your understanding...

unmask:
Well said and nicely put..... virginity is lost in one day......all the other factors you have to deal with for the rest of your life.

Exactly what i told one woman - you can lose it in 1 day - who you are after you lose it is what i am interested in

samtinx:
lastly no sister would encourage her brother to go for a non-virgin,and no mother would encourage her son to marry a non-virgin

If only the said sister and mother were all married as super virgins. Otherwise live matter for Mathias

geosegun:




However it is a worthy to note that virginity without character cant keep a home.

The truth is you hardly see a virgin without good character/home training...they mostly goes hand in hand. Although there are always few exceptions.

The large bodycount-women only agree/ emphasize the fist part of ur above statement because thats the only place they can technically compete with virgins..
But they will never agree with the other paragraph cos they always want to desperately show there nothing special about being a virgin...
that’s one of the reason some people now feel men should no longer settle for less that all this women with high body counts are the ones raising our children in marriage with the same ideology by spreading legs for multiple men in the name of dating and having fun....and it almost seems like the truth.. cos mothers no longer teach their children these values anymore...

Reading through this thread, it just dawned on me how painful it's for non virgins to accept the truth.


Yes, I will agree that virginity doesn't guarantee a happy home but it's far far more guaranteed than a non virgin would.

It's like comparing a new car with an old car.

Sorry, if you have lost yhur virginity as a woman or as a man.


Let's be honest with ourselves here, most men here will rush to marry a Virgin than a non virgin.

If a woman or a man can keep themselves till marriage - staying faithful is far far easier compared to a non virgin.

All these dustbin and sperms donors ranting all over the thread consoling themselves and trying to impose a non virgin sit on us should go and hit their head on the wall abeg.


Stupid people who have no respect for their body, they enter any hole that opens for them and their dustbin partner too will receive any dirty cane ready to enter them.

Imagine the thought of yhur wife being tossed around or flipped over under some dirty morons before yhu met them.


Shame on all of yhu defending fornication (sex before marriage).

As admirable as virginity is, it is just one aspect of character. A sexuallys chaste person may have an unmanageable temper, be selfish, be rude or clumsy. Many factors are at play when it comes to marital happiness.

geosegun:


We all have reasons for taken certain decisions. The money I mentioned was his personal money. We known for years and h was sure about my character but we ve not seen for 3 yrs and he use that to judge if I'm still the same person or different. As you know people and characters change over time. Please note I wasn't borrowing, he needed to venture into bussines, he has the money I have the technical experience. Dont just read. Learn to read and understand, young man. This is the problem we have in this country.

For the fact that the lady was miserable does not translate to others being miserable. If 90% are happy and enjoying their lives and 10% failed for one reason or the other that does not means all of them failed? Most times you only get to hear about bad news and not the excellent ones...I have more than enough examples I can give instantly and are doing great in their martial life and personal lives.

Can you please defray from using foul and uncouth statements when you drive home your points? That shows some level of aggressiveness, and you don't need it. I believe you are mature enough to comprehend this advise. Thanks, in advance, for your understanding...

So did your Business venture succeed based on the fact that you have been ‘ faithful’ to your girlfriend?

If you can’t take the pushback for your absurd , poorly thought out, incoherent posts, then stay in your lane and out of my mentions.

Nonsense and incoherence

ojonugwap:



Nothing special about so called virgin cuz I don't value it neither wish to marry one

I wish you good luck my brother

Rebuke:
Reading through this thread, it just dawned on me how painful it's for non virgins to accept the truth.


Yes, I will agree that virginity doesn't guarantee a happy home but it's far far more guaranteed than a non virgin would.

It's like comparing a new car with an old car.

Sorry, if you have lost yhur virginity as a woman or as a man.


Let's be honest with ourselves here, most men here will rush to marry a Virgin than a non virgin.

If a woman or a man can keep themselves till marriage - staying faithful is far far easier compared to a non virgin.

All these dustbin and sperms donors ranting all over the thread consoling themselves and trying to impose a non virgin sit on us should go and hit their head on the wall abeg.


Stupid people who have no respect for their body, they enter any hole that opens for them and their dustbin partner too will receive any dirty cane ready to enter them.

Imagine the thought of yhur wife being tossed around or flipped over under some dirty morons before yhu met them.


Shame on all of yhu defending fornication (sex before marriage).

may the blessings of the almighty God and heaven never depart from what ever that involves you my brother, you are as bolder as I or anyone who truly tried their best to let these ladies know that it is only the Grace of Christ Jesus alone, that is the reason they are having a pride in exposing somewhere that the holy Spirit of God alone should be dwelling.bros you just made my day

unmask:
Sure they can be learnt but after marriage one probably has a mindset that is rigid and would find it hypocritical adjusting to a new way of thinking or doing things.

Marry an open-minded person.

An 'adventurous' non-virgin girl today can lock up two years after marrying her if she is not ready to evolve.

hustla:


Exactly what i told one woman - you can lose it in 1 day - who you are after you lose it is what i am interested in

Wait are u trying to say....since u technically become like every other non-virgin after u loose it in marriage in less than 10mins, so why don’t u just lose it quickly at age 14 or 16 and start stacking up the pen!s count...This statement of urs only makes it seem like it’s baseless remain a virgin till when it’s actually expected for u to start having children...

See, I believe most men don’t really care about removing the hymen and see the bleed...that’s just ceremonial..it’s the psychological feeling of marrying a lady several other men has pass through most guys don’t want to have.....let me even ask.is there something good or cool about marrying a woman with up to 10-15 pen!s count and sometimes with a couple of abortions to show on her resume..?? cos it’s like this is fast becoming the norm...

Rebuke:
Reading through this thread, it just dawned on me how painful it's for non virgins to accept the truth.


Yes, I will agree that virginity doesn't guarantee a happy home but it's far far more guaranteed than a non virgin would.

It's like comparing a new car with an old car.

Sorry, if you have lost yhur virginity as a woman or as a man.


Let's be honest with ourselves here, most men here will rush to marry a Virgin than a non virgin.

If a woman or a man can keep themselves till marriage - staying faithful is far far easier compared to a non virgin.

All these dustbin and sperms donors ranting all over the thread consoling themselves and trying to impose a non virgin sit on us should go and hit their head on the wall abeg.


Stupid people who have no respect for their body, they enter any hole that opens for them and their dustbin partner too will receive any dirty cane ready to enter them.

Imagine the thought of yhur wife being tossed around or flipped over under some dirty morons before yhu met them.


Shame on all of yhu defending fornication (sex before marriage).

You will not die young for this

olinx:
how many ladies are virgin in this present age sef

Very good question

While it represents a woman's chasteness and pride, it is the only visual proof of authenticity.[right][/right]

But we have paedophiles roaming the streets, children that haven't crawled or hit puberty have been violated anyhow So what happens when the poor child reaches sexual maturity? Do we expect her hymen to come with a seal?

But the good news, there are some virgins out there

franchasng:
there is no virgin man, stop deceiving yourself or stop being deceived. Breaking of vagina hymen is used to know when a woman is deflowered, what can you use to know when a man is deflowered Many guys that claim to be virgin have probably fvcked more than 5 girls but maybe as them never fvck their desired girl, they consider themselves virgin to fool willing ladies, wise up.



Nature didn't create man and woman to be equal, women get pregnant and give birth men don't get pregnant and give birth.


There is nothing like a virgin man, it is a hoax created by western gender equality proponents. A man's virginity is inconsequential, get that into your skull

You're the first person that will say nothing like virgin man.
Even when you know the word virgin meaning.

franchasng:
there is no virgin man, stop deceiving yourself or stop being deceived. Breaking of vagina hymen is used to know when a woman is deflowered, what can you use to know when a man is deflowered Many guys that claim to be virgin have probably fvcked more than 5 girls but maybe as them never fvck their desired girl, they consider themselves virgin to fool willing ladies, wise up.



Nature didn't create man and woman to be equal, women get pregnant and give birth men don't get pregnant and give birth.


There is nothing like a virgin man, it is a hoax created by western gender equality proponents. A man's virginity is inconsequential, get that into your skull

You're the first person that will say nothing like virgin man.
Even when you know the word virgin meaning.

franchasng:
[s]there is no virgin man, stop deceiving yourself or stop being deceived. Breaking of vagina hymen is used to know when a woman is deflowered, what can you use to know when a man is deflowered Many guys that claim to be virgin have probably fvcked more than 5 girls but maybe as them never fvck their desired girl, they consider themselves virgin to fool willing ladies, wise up.



Nature didn't create man and woman to be equal, women get pregnant and give birth men don't get pregnant and give birth.


There is nothing like a virgin man, it is a hoax created by western gender equality proponents. A man's virginity is inconsequential, get that into your skull [/s]

Believe me your thunder is in the lab there are many Virgin guys out there, I included. Stop this illogical alpha male sh1t of you can't spot a non virgin guy. If you even had any modicum of common sense, you'd able to spot a promiscuous, sex craved deluded male non virgin/player. The way they talk, body language , everything. Females are better at concealing it more than males self

Leezah:
Erm, sure.


Virginity is just that - lack of experience. Why in the wide world would that be good, or guarantee anything.

Just checked your profile picture and knew why you wrote this. Devil would continue to be a liar.

Virginity would always be good, no matter how you try to live in denial.

samtinx:
lastly no sister would encourage her brother to go for a non-virgin,and no mother would encourage her son to marry a non-virgin

they "sister and mother " were not married as virgins, irony of life.

Amberon11:
Just like you can preach infidelity without bringing in non-virgins, right?

I hardly see anyone preaching infidelity in relation with non virgins. Just stop fooling yourself

Amberon11:
But the males who have been encouraging Male promiscuity and female virginity have been sensible?

Most of the female comments here encourage both male and female chastity. Were the non-virgin females deflowered by themselves? In countries like Afghanistan everyone either male or female marries a virgin, do you know why? Because fornication is strongly discouraged regardless of gender. It is foolishness to only advocate virginity for one gender when it takes two to have sex.

You're quoting the wrong person. I didnt say virginity is a gender thing. Bye

Amberon11:
Just like you can preach infidelity without bringing in non-virgins, right?

Don't even try to pull a fast one nor play this smart card.

ityP:



Tell.them pls. We don tire for this virginity and character stuffs. Virginity isn't easy. We should stop pushing them to break it with this subtle nonsense talk

I tire for them