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Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by lilmonarch(m): 11:09am On Mar 18, 2020 |
iammo:in other words, men should stick to being slaves in marriages cos their wives can take the kids away from them? Nothing i no go read o |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by iammo(m): 11:11am On Mar 18, 2020 |
lilmonarch: its your choice.. isn't it slavish to work all day and use your sweat and salary to pay rent, utility bill , school fees and house keep? or you think marriage is 50% 50% guy wake up. if you haven't being told you would labour hard and sweat for your family and they don't even have to tell you thank you.. highest you would get angry and beat them, while your wife calls you wife beater, your kids call you monster.. nobody cares to listen to your side |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by lilmonarch(m): 11:15am On Mar 18, 2020 |
iammo:sir, i can imagine what you're going through in your home. |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Nobody: 11:15am On Mar 18, 2020 |
iammo:and that is what most people do. Some even threaten the woman with diabolical power till she start rejecting the money. I will even be happy to give an ex ₦10k monthly to raise two kids. That amount may not be enough for one week |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Nobody: 11:21am On Mar 18, 2020 |
solex2346: She is the Boss Just kidding!!! She trust you but she may not trust the girl!!! |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Akinbahm(m): 11:21am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Bro, it still baffles me a lot when guys out there still believes the devil they knew during courtship would change in marriage completely to an Angel by losing guard to them (being lenient) after marriage!!! Someone up there was trying to make Men being lenient towards their women. How on earth would you give your maid break without the intervention of ur husband all in the name of "Trust issue" aswear it's a slap on the husband he can't call his house to order. Bro believe me one day she would shit test him by requesting him to clean up either his son or daughter mess that's even if they belongs to him self. Never you tolerate second hand behaviour from your women if our Fathers tolerated such nasty behaviours our Mothers won't be worthy of emulation today... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Nobody: 11:23am On Mar 18, 2020 |
SassyGem101:The OP should allow 'the boss' to take her decisions without questioning!!! |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Nobody: 11:25am On Mar 18, 2020 |
missimelda01:Which property did she pay for?? A man that pay a woman's bride price , don't even call her a property.. How is a man, a wife's property?? Is that the goal of Feminism?? |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Martinez39s(m): 11:25am On Mar 18, 2020 |
iammo:This is the problem with many men. Marriage makes a woman secure, invincible, and dominate over the man as much as he let's it. It's not written anywhere that a woman can't be sent packing because she is married. Maybe it's because I am a stubborn and strong-willed man, but I will never be a doormat or compromise my peace of mind just to maintain a marriage with a bad and toxic wife just because of the children. Let the marriage scatter if it means I get to keep my peace of mind. As for the children, I can keep them and the mother will visit. If she wants to keep them to herself, we can go court and fight for joint custody, at least. (a family friend did it, why can't I). Besides, Nigerian judicial system is notoriously slow that the process MIGHT be completed when your children are seeing their grandchildren... just kidding. If the children wants to stay with their mother, then I must visit them anytime I want or else, they and the mother can fend go for themselves. By the way, you are indirectly admitting that children are indeed pawns women use to manipulate their husbands. It's true depending on the type of man and the society he lives in. In developed countries with their misandric divorce laws, children are always readily used as pawns by women and the courts to fleece and manipulate the father. Besides, children have always been desired by mothers to be used as pawns where they can since human history. Your remark always begs the question, do mothers really love their children more than fathers? Not to digress, marriage doesn't make a woman invincible, and there is no law that says you can't send her packing. Marriage is not something you must "kill and suffer yourself" on top. Once a woman has insisted on your being a doormat, withhold sex and weaponizing it, depriving you of your peace of mind, etc. send her packing. Recently, a man made the news for sending his wife packing when he discovered her vagina was too wide. With man like that and myself, marriage is not a security for any woman, and it doesn't make them untouchable. I have one life to live and I can waste it be miserable because of a woman and enduring silently because of children. Fùck all that! 6 Likes |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Nobody: 11:28am On Mar 18, 2020 |
XhosaNostra:Just marry 2 wives.. Simple!! Just pray for God's blessings to take care of them.. 1 Like |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Nobody: 11:30am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Marry 2 sumptuous wives!!! Don't allow one wife to turn you into a glorified manservant!!! Polygamy is the way, learn from Mohammed!!! |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Martinez39s(m): 11:30am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Akinbahm:One thing husbands don't realise is that if they become a doormat today, they will likely be doormats tomorrow. Shit tests are real. If they can't stand their ground today, it will be harder tomorrow. Marriage is not an excuse to be a doormat to a woman. 1 Like |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Akinbahm(m): 11:35am On Mar 18, 2020 |
iammo: With the rant of guys sorry boys on NL towards their cheating girlfriends truly attest to their dominance in relationship are you trying to be funny or what Bro, I don dey pity una ooo, u suffered during dating relationship now u don enter another phase through marriage biko redefine una marriage and stop acting like a slave in that Marriage... Don't let any woman caged you all in the name of Marriage nd Kids u brought them to this world together and you must work hand in hand to make them successful it's not a party job but both party... |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Martinez39s(m): 11:37am On Mar 18, 2020 |
lilmonarch:No one should pay attention to the fear mongering divorce tales of iammo. A man too has the right to his children. In Nigeria, who gave the wife the audacity to take the children away? Where is it written that the children belong to her alone? Men who think the children belong to the woman alone and sending their wives packing is never an option are only going to suffer. As far as we are in Nigeria, fathers are not prohibited from fighting for their children. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Akinbahm(m): 11:46am On Mar 18, 2020 |
lilmonarch: Serious hell, that woman no try at all on top his case.
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Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Martinez39s(m): 11:52am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Akinbahm:The mentality killing many married Nigerian men involve: 1) Dissolving the marriage or send the wife packing isn't an option. This is a big lie, and marriage is not a point of no return. This mentality in men is what makes women feel invincible and untouchable when they get married and it makes them misbehave when they tie the knot. 2) The children belongs to the mothers alone. This is a big lie and men had better start realising that the children are theirs also, and no woman has the right to keep the children to themselves and alienate them from their children. 3) Enduring a toxic wife/marriage and brutally compromising their peace of mind are okay and they are best for the children. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Vintax(m): 11:55am On Mar 18, 2020 |
She doesnt trust you at all,and i am suspecting her too for her frequent travelling she might be going to her ex or another man and suspects your house maid will take her place if u discover. If her health is bad:you are the best person to take care of her. |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by TA4TA4: 11:59am On Mar 18, 2020 |
solex2346: SHE WANTS TO AVOID STORIES THAT TOUCH THE HEART. TRY SHOWING YOUR WIFE THIS VIDEO SHA, IT WILL GO A LONG WAY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XSb6bUUMl00 |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Akinbahm(m): 12:00pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Martinez39s: No wonder their women threaten divorce to their face since they refused to Man up... I shunned second hand behaviour from my female siblings who are you that I would condone such from con think of it self someone I paid bride price for NEVER!!! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by infotainment(m): 12:28pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
solex2346: Tell her next time she sends the girl to her parents, u will be moving to her parents house too. And be serious about it. |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by angelfallz(m): 12:34pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
iammo: What leverage do they have exactly? |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by angelfallz(m): 12:42pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
iammo: Under what law is that mapo court operating? How can a woman remarry and still keep the children and also be getting monthly upkeep for the children if the woman wants to keep the children then the new husband should be responsible for the upkeep of the children 1 Like |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Happyguy201: 12:42pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
solex2346: Oga permit me to say your a pusssy . You don't act like the man of the house . Your wife will travel to go see her boy lover and then send the maid away so you don't get to tap that azz is that not greediness Wake up oga and act like a man |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by BecaciaBarbie(f): 12:53pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
solex2346:what shit? so she can come here to post a touching story of how her husband was seduced by her maid abi? |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Martinez39s(m): 1:00pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
angelfallz:No one should pay attention to fear mongering divorce tales of iammo. |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Elimon(m): 1:04pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
solex2346:It is as simple as that sir...nothing attached...tell her no matter her issue of truth it would not ruin u...just kukuma send the maid away...if she like let he hire her the way you did and pay her...then if you travel KO...tell the maid you no wan see her for your house again till you come back,lemme see how she will feel...woman just think insecurity is everything... Forgetting they may be stopping someone's destiny from shinning. Anyways talking to your wife privately might be a better key #be your own counsellor |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by emmaodet: 1:27pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Martinez39s: The woman doesn't trust her husband maybe due to past experience or history with the man been maybe a flirt. They should hire a male house help or someone from the man's side to stay with them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Martinez39s(m): 2:20pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
emmaodet:Maybe, but it is highly unlikely. If the man had been a flirt and cheat to the knowledge of his wife, I don't think he would be puzzled by his wife behaviour to even open a thread on nairaland. Either the wife is overprotective, or she is playing "away match" during her travels and she suspects her husband will cheat just like her in her absence. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Cheato64(m): 2:33pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Get a male househelp, send him to your parents house whenever you are travelling and also ensure your wife pays his salary |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Men are no longer men. Pussies parading about calling themselves men. Stop being a pussy . |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by Cas1741: 3:07pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Simple answer, she doesn't want you to Bleep the small pikin and bring shame to her, period. got it? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Would My Wife Send Our Maid To Her Parents Anytime She's Travelling? by emmaodet: 3:40pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Hmmmmmm |
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