kid7soccer:
that the option now cause everyone she mention does not need the child or do u want her to divorce her husband ?

Digmygold:
Even if she does, are they ready to take up any responsibility towards the child? Will she force them? How many of your relatives' kids have you personally taken responsibility for? Una no just dey get sense until Karma comes knocking.

Vyvyanvyvy:

Thanks he is the one that should leave because I just renewed the rent for six months this January no way I will leave the house for him.

travelland:
Then why don't you report to his or your family instead of leaving the father of your kids? you better go and look for the Father of your son

LadySarah:

He will lose anyhow he responds. She pays house rent, feeding, school fees etc. She gave him the option of leaving if he didn't want to stay with the boy.

ALOT of women who are in bad marriages remain cos of finances.

Psoul:
You are right.
The little money she is making is making her feel that whatever she says, the man must do.
If she feels she can handle all her bills, then she should go get her own house and live with her kids.

yeyeosoronga:


She has been trying to talk to her husband for 3 weeks and he has refused to listen to her pleas.
Is he God?
Why should he be happy her son is hungry and homeless while she has a roof over her own head?
You said she is rude and claiming to pay all the bills in the home. Do you want her to start lying to faceless people on this forum when she needs help to sort her matter out?
Many women out there are paying majority of the bills in their homes but you will not hear it from their mouth. You probably wouldnt have heard it from her , if not that people were assuming the boy is going to be extra financial responsibility on the husband. She made it clear so people can get a true picture of everything.
What would you have expected her to do in this case? Her son hasn't gone to school for 3 weeks and counting, he is been starved where he is and probably mistreated. She has been begging her husband for 3 weeks and he is not listening.
What should she do pls? Give her son up for adoption?

yeyeosoronga:
She has been trying to talk to her husband for 3 weeks and he has refused to listen to her pleas.
Is he God?
Why should he be happy her son is hungry and homeless while she has a roof over her own head?
You said she is rude and claiming to pay all the bills in the home. Do you want her to start lying to faceless people on this forum when she needs help to sort her matter out?
Many women out there are paying majority of the bills in their homes but you will not hear it from their mouth. You probably wouldnt have heard it from her , if not that people were assuming the boy is going to be extra financial responsibility on the husband. She made it clear so people can get a true picture of everything.

What would you have expected her to do in this case? Her son hasn't gone to school for 3 weeks and counting, he is been starved where he is and probably mistreated. She has been begging her husband for 3 weeks and he is not listening.
What should she do pls? Give her son up for adoption?

Jman06:
If she's a widow, then that's excusable.

But so long as the ex husband is still alive, someone like me won't have anything to do with a single mum.

LadySarah:


It did only paining them psoul cos she is the breadwinner.
This thread is everything.

sweetdude001:

I will not come too insult peoples mother on a faceless platform, u r trying hard to paint ur mom as a wonderful woman, guess she spent more time training ur cousin and d 15 yr old that's not ur relative.. Coz if she is DAT good as u painted her u won't come here n call out another persons mother without provocation.. U av u likes, enjoy it.

Davash222:

Sarah, it is not yet over. Believe me.
That man is up to something. Endeavor to tell your WcW to update us when kasala burst, though I’m not praying for that but it must occur.
The woman in her quest to bring her child home has dagger the ego of her husband and I believe that man will soon strike.

CeterisXVII:

That is your own headache. Another man who is far better than you by far, will pick her up and treat her well.....

Davash222:

Sarah, it is not yet over. Believe me.
That man is up to something. Endeavor to tell your WcW to update us when kasala burst, though I’m not praying for that but it must occur.
The woman in her quest to bring her child home has dagger the ego of her husband and I believe that man will soon strike.







Oyindidi. You keep giving people bucket and tank to donate tears, are you now working with Water resources? Good morning

yeyeosoronga:


The worst that could happen is for him to divorce her, and move out.
She has stated in her post that she is ready to be a single mother to look after her children.
What more do you people want?
Unless you're expecting him to kill her son and possibly her other children since they are the most important thing to her.
Perhaps you will be happy then?

Davash222:

Okay, let’s assume it happens the way you projected.
A single woman not up to 40, having 4 children from different husband.

This is the life I will wish for my enemy.

yeyeosoronga:


There's nothing wrong with that life. It may be different from what you believe in, but nothing makes it wrong.
So what if she has children for different men?
There's nothing new under the sun.
It's even more common than you think, and they live their lives like other people who grew up in the same family. My advice for her is to face her work squarely, and make sure she continues to improve her financial circumstances. She should also prepare for the future and start building a house for herself, even if it's a small one, for her retirement. While doing that, she should go for strong family planning as she already has enough to look after.
Because a husband has left her doesn't mean she cannot enjoy her life

Davash222:

Someone that is bragging of paying 6 months rent should build a house
You must be mistaking her for Linda ikeji.

Davash222:

Sarah, it is not yet over. Believe me.
That man is up to something. Endeavor to tell your WcW to update us when kasala burst, though I’m not praying for that but it must occur.
The woman in her quest to bring her child home has dagger the ego of her husband and I believe that man will soon strike. Oyindidi. You keep giving people bucket and tank to donate tears, are you now working with Water resources? Good morning

yeyeosoronga:


Life is in stages and men are in sizes.
Life was never always easy on Linda and she didn't grow up with a silver spoon
Because the OP is struggling to pay 6 months rent now doesn't mean her finances won't be better tomorrow.
That why I advised her to work on her finances. It's not going to be a day's job, but it would definitely happen if she's diligent enough

Jman06:
OK ma'am... but I have got myself a "psychedelic babe" (borrowing your phrase) who is also a virgin to marry!

Oyindidi:
Morning Dav, the tears gives me ...... Never mind

Let him strike our girl (op) is ready

CeterisXVII:
Who cares? Does that add one naira to anybody's pocket?

Davash222:

Expected you to say, Let him strike WE are ready.
Are you girls going to leave her to suffer the strike alone after all the advice


The tears gives you what? I’m interested please. Lol

Oyindidi:
I stand with my girl, leave her alone

Davash222:

Sarah, it is not yet over. Believe me.
That man is up to something. Endeavor to tell your WcW to update us when kasala burst, though I’m not praying for that but it must occur.
The woman in her quest to bring her child home has dagger the ego of her husband and I believe that man will soon strike.







Oyindidi. You keep giving people bucket and tank to donate tears, are you now working with Water resources? Good morning

Davash222:

I have no tears to donate... I only have.. nevermind.

Oyindidi:
It must be very small... Never mind

Davash222:

Can still fill that small bucket. Trust me

Oyindidi:
I doubt too small to fill bottle cover

Davash222:

You're underestimating my capability.