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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 9:38am On Mar 18, 2020 |
kid7soccer:If you cannot offer a sensible solution, why not keep quiet? Must you utter nansense? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 9:41am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Digmygold:Help me ask those backward clowns, that are so lacking in logic and sense. They are hell bent on making the boy's condition worse. Their recipe is to throw the boy at the extended family relatives, who do not know him, have never asked about his welfare, and may not even have the means to look after him. Wicked advisers! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by LadySarah: 9:44am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Vyvyanvyvy: Hahahahahahahaha. The mgtow crew will not like it. Logobenz, Ubunja, Davash222 crew Women financial empowerment is the koko. It stops nonsense. I love you Vyvyanvyvy.. ![]() ![]() ![]() Nwoke Je chuba ego 9 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 9:49am On Mar 18, 2020 |
travelland:Go back to the beginning of this thread, and read each and every page, until you get to the final one. If you do so, then you will not be asking these moronic questions, that you are just raising here.... All these issues have already been fully explained, long before now! 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 9:49am On Mar 18, 2020 |
LadySarah:I will also expand on this and tell you that a lot of women are still married to the person they're married to just because of finances, bad marriage or not. Which is why I have always and still hold that men must focus on making money - not specifically to get women, but for themselves and for their own self-respect. If the husband of this woman had any sense and kept his finances up and above hers, she would have been on her knees begging him till next week. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 9:50am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Psoul: 2 Likes
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by LadySarah: 9:51am On Mar 18, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga: It did only paining them psoul cos she is the breadwinner. This thread is everything. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 9:55am On Mar 18, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga: I wish I could dash you 1,000 likes for this post!! You talk am well. Thank you! Let all those children of wickedness, who feel the ego of a man/husband, is superior to the welfare and wellbeing of a child, continue to make empty noise over there. If this same boy is abandoned with his father's relatives, and he turns into a cultist, addict or robber, these same clueless jokers advising her to take the boy to his father's people, will be the first to blame the mother, and invoke fire and brimstone over her head, for failing in her duties. Yeye people..... 14 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 10:00am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Jman06: That is your own headache. Another man who is far better than you by far, will pick her up and treat her well..... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 10:02am On Mar 18, 2020 |
LadySarah:Sarah, it is not yet over. Believe me. That man is up to something. Endeavor to tell your WcW to update us when kasala burst, though I’m not praying for that but it must occur. The woman in her quest to bring her child home has dagger the ego of her husband and I believe that man will soon strike. Oyindidi. You keep giving people bucket and tank to donate tears, are you now working with Water resources? Good morning 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 10:02am On Mar 18, 2020 |
sweetdude001:He did NOT say anything bad about your own mother. He merely cited an example of how his own mum brought up children that are not her own....simple. You were the first person to insult all women in your previous comments when you said: "...if u did u d make d childs life hell jus like ur brothers wife... That's d nature of u women." He only reflected your comments back at you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 10:10am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222:She won't update us on anything, don't bother... ![]() I too am of the opinion that something is already happening but she won't share it here at the risk of spoiling the rave reviews she has been getting. Unless she tied the man's finances and ego inside a bottle, then it is very unusual that she did what she did behind his back and all he is doing in response is hiding himself inside the room like a puppy. The story started looking like a big joke immediately she began responding to my comments asking her to inform us what happened when she took the boy home. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Jman06(m): 10:44am On Mar 18, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:OK ma'am... but I have got myself a "psychedelic babe" (borrowing your phrase) who is also a virgin to marry! |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yeyeosoronga: 10:46am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222: The worst that could happen is for him to divorce her, and move out. She has stated in her post that she is ready to be a single mother to look after her children. What more do you people want? Unless you're expecting him to kill her son and possibly her other children since they are the most important thing to her. Perhaps you will be happy then? 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 10:53am On Mar 18, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga:Okay, let’s assume it happens the way you projected. A single woman not up to 40, having 4 children from different husband. This is the life I will never wish for my enemy. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yeyeosoronga: 11:02am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Whether the husband is richer than her is irrelevant especially when she has her own money. If they both are financially comfortable, they will part ways with no wahala. Afterall, Babangida's son and Indimi's daughter parted ways after 4 children. Both given custody of 2 children each. Life is not as hard as we make it. She has chosen the welfare of her son whom she has a responsibility towards over her husband's displeasure. She took the right decision for HER. It may not be the right decision for other people, especially if the said child was been well taken care of where he was. Till now, I still cannot understand the husband's reservation about bringing in a 12 year old boy who was being maltreated where he is and accused of theft. He is just 12 and can be redeemed under the right care. Only a parent will fully understand that the mother has her son's best interests at heart, and it supersedes everything else 12 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yeyeosoronga: 11:11am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222: There's nothing wrong with that life. It may be different from what you believe in, but nothing makes it wrong. So what if she has children for different men? There's nothing new under the sun. It's even more common than you think, and they live their lives like other people who grew up in the same family. My advice for her is to face her work squarely, and make sure she continues to improve her financial circumstances. She should also prepare for the future and start building a house for herself, even if it's a small one, for her retirement. While doing that, she should go for strong family planning as she already has enough to look after. Because a husband has left her doesn't mean she cannot enjoy her life 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 11:15am On Mar 18, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga:Someone that is bragging of paying 6 months rent should build a house ![]() You must be mistaking her for Linda ikeji. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by yeyeosoronga: 11:18am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222: Life is in stages and men are in sizes. Life was never always easy on Linda and she didn't grow up with a silver spoon Because the OP is struggling to pay 6 months rent now doesn't mean her finances won't be better tomorrow. That why I advised her to work on her finances. It's not going to be a day's job, but it would definitely happen if she's diligent enough 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 11:23am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222:Morning Dav, the tears gives me ...... Never mind Let him strike our girl (op) is ready
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 11:23am On Mar 18, 2020 |
yeyeosoronga:Life wasn’t easy for Linda hence she developed herself first before having a baby. After having Children from different men, now you want her to develop herself on a beer budget. Let’s be realistic here, please. We’re adults. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 11:24am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Jman06:Who cares? Does that add one naira to anybody's pocket? |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 11:26am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Expected you to say, Let him strike WE are ready. Are you girls going to leave her to suffer the strike alone after all the advice ![]() The tears gives you what? I’m interested please. Lol 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Jman06(m): 11:27am On Mar 18, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:NFCS does! |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 11:28am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222:I stand with my girl, leave her alone 1 Like
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 11:34am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Oyindidi:I have no tears to donate... I only have.. nevermind. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Psoul(m): 11:49am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222: I don't want to keep responding to some of these little girls who have bn quoting me up and down especially @LadySarah cos I have seen that they lack common wisdom and understanding. The fail to see the main issue in this whole thing. They believe that the problem with the woman is that the man was angry with her wife cos she is making money. I told them severally that that was not the problem with the man. The man was just scared of the stories he heard about the boy but the woman, instead of working on the man based on that, she was telling the man that she has enough money that will take care of the boy. Well, she has decided to force the boy on the man. Reasonable men have a way to handle such women. It's not by fighting the woman. The woman and other low brain Nairaland girls will be hailing the woman and feeling that she has won the battle. What will happen if there is a case where a presence of a man is needed in that boy's life and the man refuse to stand in? What of in case of some traditional rite? The woman has succeeded in creating a kind of enmity bw the man and that innocent boy. Also, as a woman, I know she will be feeding the boy on how the step dad hates him to an extent he refused to let her bring him to the house. This will make the boy to love her mother and hate the step dad. When this fire starts burning, the woman will be the one that will feel the heat more. The woman failed to work together with her husband to have a mutual agreement on bringing the boy home. This would have helped to creat a better bond btw the boy and the step dad. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 12:11pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222:It must be very small... Never mind ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 12:15pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Oyindidi:Can still fill that small bucket. Trust me 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 12:17pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222:I doubt ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Davash222(m): 12:18pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Oyindidi:You're underestimating my capability. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 12:20pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Davash222:I don't understand ![]() |
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