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How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 11:52am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Hi guys i just joined NL and from what have been reading on here bfor i sign up i feel i might get a response from nairalanders Am a lady that believes in building with a man and not looking for an already made guys am also an independent lady so i dont really need your money,i work for what i spend, Atimes i end up giving out of the little i earn to my partner, now this is the sad part these guys take me for a fool some just start acting up like some1 with psychosis{apologies} but it the truth well i just broke up with my boyfriend cause i cant deal with his bullshit anymore. now my question is 1. IS IT BAD FOR ME TO SHOW YOU I LOVE YOU? 2. IS IT A SIN FOR ME TO WANT TO BE INVOLVE IN YOUR LIFE{I BELIEVE WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE THERE FOR EACHOTHER}? 3.IS ASKING FOR A LITTLE TRANSPARENCY A SIN? 4.WHY DO GOOD GIRLS HAVE BADLUCK WHEN IT COMES TO GETTING A GUY? APOLOGIES FOR THE LONG POST. 19 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Nobody: 11:58am On Mar 18, 2020 |
My own is that you should not allow your breast to settle down before you. 55 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Nobody: 12:05pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
You are assuming that all your questions, have different answers, but what you did not expect, is that all those questions, have just one common answer. You do not need a lover - Yes, you are complete, and need no other else to complement you. Why you feel you need someone, is the sensation from hormonal imbalances masquerading as loneliness and need to be with someone. The need to be with someone must be taken as such. When you understand that, then you can begin to evaluate who you want to be with outside the periscope of romance. No sex relationships will keep your cerebral cortex on alert without interference from the lympic system that controls your emotion. In essence, if you need a friend, find a friend, if you need sex find some sex, but if you need sex from a friend, then first of all have a great friend and convert such to sex friend or lover. Anyone can have sex, but not everyone can be intelligent and emotionally mature and up to par, so first find an up to par personality before diving into sex. Did I mention that you do not need love? If I didnt mention, then I must have forgotten. No one needs love, but you want some once in a while to reset your minds from stress, but not all the time. 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 12:10pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Sirvingeo: hahahahahaha i laugh in spanish 8 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 12:11pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Vortex369: okay! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by ibkayee(f): 12:20pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
What’s wrong with looking for an already made man when according to you, you’re independent and already have your own? You can focus on ‘building’ when you’re equally yoked, meaning both starting from the grassroots for example and in the same position, or if you’re already married. Nothing wrong with helping anybody put but don’t feel bad for having a certain standard when you match that standard yourself and hold up your own end of the bargain well I also think you’re way too nice, which doesn’t always work out well in this crazy world we live in ![]() 18 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Admissionclass: 12:28pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Phadg: you don't have bad luck sis it just the way the world is don't worry one day you will find a guy that deserves you that ones sure. 14 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Happyguy201: 12:28pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
ibkayee: Mumu 7 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Admissionclass: 12:30pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Sirvingeo: too many kids on NL one of the reason I will deactive all my accounts soon. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Paxie55: 12:32pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Phadg:All of you acting independent, you think a man will open his two eyes to enter marriage with You, knowing full well that he's gonna be your play boy? You girls should keep raising leeches and be thinking you are doing yourself any better. They will chop your money and still marry the ones that they will spend lavishly on. Don't let this I want an independent woman scums fool you. They are all bunch of insecured leeches and will always take you nice women as fools. And btw, raise your standards and stop feeding men. 18 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Edyice: 12:34pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Showing that you love someone is cool Showing that you are interested in someone is cool . Showing that you want to give love a trail is cool But When the person showing love to is not doing same , then you need to bounce ... No time to waste time on someone that's joking or playing you around... That's why I always advice people to decide on what relationship they wanted before embarking on the journey ![]() ![]() 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 12:37pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
ibkayee:i must be frank with you people have told me this severally that am too nice am not suppose to be like that with guys of this generation.imagine me spending for a man am not even sure about.high disappointing 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 12:38pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Paxie55:Dig! |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 12:39pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Admissionclass:MY DEAR IT ALLOWED WE ARE IN THEIR GENERATION 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 12:40pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Admissionclass:AIN'T SURE ABOUT THAT THOUGH. |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by ibkayee(f): 12:41pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Phadg:They are very correct. You don’t need to be a bitch, you can maintain your pleasant nature but just don’t be too open or generous 8 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by samtinx(m): 12:43pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Phadg:kelvin Onyebuchi,5ft6, Electrical technician,27yrs,0812 427 8540, you are never wrong I have been I a similar situation as you, just that different strokes for different folks |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Quality20(m): 12:45pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
next time get a pious Hausa man |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by bigpicture001: 12:49pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Phadg: Honestly...ur the kind of gal av been looking for.... |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by bigpicture001: 12:53pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
bigpicture001: Add me up on wat sap so we know better : |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Admissionclass: 12:59pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Phadg: just believe there is power in belief. |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Clashy(m): 1:00pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Phadg:my mind is telling i am the rightful option for you and i cant resist my instinct.waiting to hear from you thanks. |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 1:00pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() guys are funny though i didnt say i need another guy that will play me or that wont. am sure if i need another guy not on here.you guys are worst than my exes have been following some trends bfor i sign up i know how you pple advice.thanks to all the guys in my mail and the once dropping contact i think am going pass on the offers pls thanks 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Paxie55: 1:03pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
samtinx: Clashy: bigpicture001:Shameless gold diggers. ![]() You won't see the so called Alfa men advisers here to advice their fellow leeches here. ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by TerryMcGinis(m): 1:03pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Phadg:sorry babe.. It's going to be okay, God is going to bless you with a man that would love and appreciate you return. Chin up okay? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by bigpicture001: 1:06pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Paxie55: Thats d p with u...u imagine everyone is like u...DT don't HV job and sleeps In nairaland.... Wanting a lady who would rather partner u nd have her rights in a relationship a d a slay queen like ur old 43year old sister.... Which is better..? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 1:07pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Paxie55:Abi ooo they done see new mumu 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Phadg(f): 1:07pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
TerryMcGinis:Thanks |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Paxie55: 1:15pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by Paxie55: 1:17pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
bigpicture001:You should invest your time in English classes better 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by allandutch: 1:24pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Vortex369:This is fantastic, I love it. But there's one problem... Why is it that if it's a guy offering another guy a similar advice some "people" on this platform will attack them? Emphasis on similar. |
Re: How Do I Get A Man That Understand Me by samtinx(m): 1:26pm On Mar 18, 2020 |
Paxie55:thanks a lot I will swallow it, keeping it in mind you don't know me,nor know my motive, neither would you know my personal life experience thank you once more ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
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