emmaodet:


Hmmmmmm

Martinez39s:
We never can tell since we don't know the couple very well. We can only make assumptions on what's most likely.

iammo:


For a relationship, you gave a wonderfull piece of advise, but in marriages things don't work out just has you just barely painted it, in relationships Men can take ubujas advise its all cool and helpful, but marriage especially the one with kids, kids you love and ready to do anything over things change and a man needs to exercise a lot of caution and wisdom

Men can always dominate a relationship as you can walk out easily, women on the other hand dominate marriage because they have leverage on you if you truly love your kids

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emmaodet:
It's well.
I won't blame the woman bcus a lot of men are fvcking their maids, SILs, neighbors etc

Martinez39s:
True. Many men's third leg are restless indeed. However, the woman should have planned a replacement instead of leaving the husband stranded. She should have considered the husband. Anyway, how is life and your wife?

emmaodet:


Bro, life is good as usual and wifey wit bobo they my neck dey chop my moni as required.
Went for a job interview today jare at PH, it seems dis coming recession is really looking good for me.
I pray i secure the new job by ending. 1.2m for a start bro, for a start.
Sometimes, my dirty part wish am still a bachelor to Do justice and run Amok on all these pussies am seeing around, but marriage don handcuff me ..
I dey envy una wey be single bro
Wat is d use of money wen be say na only egusi i go dey chop, i no fit mix am wit ogbono once a while

angelfallz:


Under what law is that mapo court operating? How can a woman remarry and still keep the children and also be getting monthly upkeep for the children if the woman wants to keep the children then the new husband should be responsible for the upkeep of the children

Martinez39s:
No one should pay attention to fear mongering divorce tales of iammo. She He just lying left, right, and centre to buttress his narrative.

Martinez39s:
Not bad. I pray you get the job.

Olunmercy56:
Too avoid any super story I like that woman, she doesn't want her husband to have another wife

XhosaNostra:
She doesn't want any funny business with the maid while she's gone. After all, some men you can't leave them alone with a hole in the wall. Didn't Schwarzenegger get his fat maid pregnant?

iammo:


Nigerian Family law isn't hidden and marriage act is online, study it and know what you are getting into

http://www.nigeria-law.org/Marriage%20Act.htm

Originalsly:


He doesn't care about that.... she can travel as often as she wants and stay away from the home as long as she wants..... but the maid
If getting the work done is your problem..... then you can beg your wife to get you a male servant ..... or an elderly maid. Don't dare ask why.

Purplekush:


From your reply I can point out 3 things:

1. you're single asf
2. you're unmarried
3. you wouldn't know how to keep a woman even if you tried

ChieduJoshua081:
Men are no longer men. Pussies parading about calling themselves men. Stop being a pussy .

iammo:
call me he or she, form alpha male to soothe your young ego.. bro you go learn anyways I helped you with laws guarding marriages in Nigeria should you decide to commit

http://www.nigeria-law.org/Marriage%20Act.htm

Martinez39s:
Okay. I just skimmed through the act, I am yet to see the laws that says a woman automatically has sole custody of the kids during divorce (and even when she is remarried), and the man is obliged to pay child support. The act was just about the legitimacy and conducts of a court wedding in accordance with the Nigerian constitution. In all fairness, I will still go over it again to be sure I didn't misrepresent anything, and I will properly look up the divorce laws here.

Cc. Angelfallz

iammo:


http://www.nigeria-law.org/Matrimonial%20Causes%20Act.htm this comprehensively deals with divorce and settlements

the first deals with what marriage is in the eyes of the law

Cc. Angelfallz

Purplekush:


From your reply I can point out 3 things:

1. you're single asf
2. you're unmarried
3. you wouldn't know how to keep a woman even if you tried


You spoke my mind,God bless you. Such guy or babe can't have a happy home, when you think you are d head in all aspects

Akinbahm:


Bro, it still baffles me a lot when guys out there still believes the devil they knew during courtship would change in marriage completely to an Angel by losing guard to them (being lenient) after marriage!!!

Someone up there was trying to make Men being lenient towards their women. How on earth would you give your maid break without the intervention of ur husband all in the name of "Trust issue" aswear it's a slap on the husband he can't call his house to order.

Bro believe me one day she would shit test him by requesting him to clean up either his son or daughter mess that's even if they belongs to him self.

Never you tolerate second hand behaviour from your women if our Fathers tolerated such nasty behaviours our Mothers won't be worthy of emulation today...

kestolove95:
Bcox she doesn't trust u.

9japride:
On social media, everyone is a saint so nice and lovely. But in real life na something else. @OP is your hands clean? I am very sure your wife has caught you staring at your maid lustfully. Women are smart.

GraGra247:
TRUST OR NO TRUST YOUR WIFE DID THE RIGHT THING.

PLEASE AS A WOMAN EVEN IF YOU TRUST YOUR HUSBAND DO NOT LEAVE THE MAID ALONE WITH HIM.

IF YOUR HUSBAND DOESN'T WANT IT THAT WAY SEND THE MAID BACK.

solex2346:
My wife is found of the habit of sending our maid which am the one paying her salary to her parents anytime she's travelling and she will call her back when she's back? why would she be the only one benefiting from our house maid,i would be the one cooking my food,washing plates and my clothes anytime my wife is away,am tired of all these shits. pls advise me ooo

solex2346:
My wife is found of the habit of sending our maid which am the one paying her salary to her parents anytime she's travelling and she will call her back when she's back? why would she be the only one benefiting from our house maid,i would be the one cooking my food,washing plates and my clothes anytime my wife is away,am tired of all these shits. pls advise me ooo

iammo:


http://www.nigeria-law.org/Matrimonial%20Causes%20Act.htm this comprehensively deals with divorce and settlements

the first deals with what marriage is in the eyes of the law

Cc. Angelfallz

solex2346:

Who invites these broke single guys here for God's sake, Does that mean you can't clean up your son or daughter after poo? What type of man are you? If your child poo a.and your wife not home,will wait for your wife to come and clean the mess? Is either You no get sense or you are wicked

Davash222:
You should be bothered where she's always traveling to.
As you're planning how to eat the noodles meant for kids, someone out there may be eating your fried rice and chicken.

Just saying though.