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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Biglittlelois(f): 4:24pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Lol so if I decide to say Martinez and ubunja are dirty used sloughs, broke as.s niggas as a statement of fact instead of a rebuttal, means I am well within my rights to say that cos no lady will want to be with disgusts like that right? Even if no one can determine for a fact that this is how you both are in real life, since this is just a faceless online forum, but still Martinez and ubunja are dirt broke, right? Okay good to know. Listen up ladies, you are allowed to use shaming words, not as a rebuttal, just say it for saying sake. 3 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 4:36pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Arthur21:You are trying to be cunning. "Evening newspaper" and "broke" are descriptive terms indeed, but if you have a scintilla of honesty in you, you wouldn't act like you don't know or haven't observed people use the term "broke", "jobless", "broke and frustrated" etc. as insults, rebuttals and clapbacks during a heated quarrel, exchange of words, or as ad hominem and silencing tool when someone says something they don't agree with. This is very common in Nigeria, and to deny this is to make yourself an embodiment of dishonesty. These terms are usually thrown in when they have nothing to do with the issue being discussed. Do people also use the term "evening newspaper" as an insult? Yes, but it's rare and not as frequent as broke shaming. Even women, during a heated exchange of words with one another, do throw in the term "evening newspaper" intending it as an insult. However, my point is: have you even seen redpill guys on the forum use a woman's non-virgin/newspaper/olosho/single mom status as an insult, rebuttal, or clapback when they express ideas or make statements we don't like? "Used up products" "damaged goods" "second hand products " are descriptive,fair point. I don't see you use it as a rebuttal. Is your complaint against broke shaming because it was used directly at you or cohorts ,like "Martinez is a broke a$$" or because some ladies use it to describe men on the forum without making a particular reference to them like "all this broke boys on NL"BROKE-SHAMING: insinuating or outrightly proclaiming that someone is broke with the intention of insulting the person, countering his/her point, silencing the people, and/or making a clapback. Such insinuation and proclamation are mere emotional devices and usually have nothing to do with the argument at hand. From your post it seems you draw a margin between description and shaming.I am not drawing any margin. Either you are being dishonest or your brain has gone to sleep. I agree with you that shaming is when its used as ad hominem or rebuttal and making direct reference to the person while description is stating your opinions and choices.So you even know. ![]() ![]() ![]() From your first post of people attaching importance to financial status,was it strictly because broke shaming was directed at someone or because ladies openly stated they spec and choices and how they detest broke guys? If yes to the two then I will say you should allow them the liberty of stating their choice and how they feel about broke guys.Read my post again, and understand better. PS:kindly share with me links or posts to your feud with Michelle.When I have the energy. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Biglittlelois(f): 4:45pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Maybe I should call Organs and istoprudeness to educate you more on your cluelessness, we already know you sleep, eat and drink romance section, and you will probably continue this circle for the rest of your monk life. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 4:49pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:The emboldened part wasn't necessary in your question. The inclusion of that part just shows you are emotional about the whole thing and you hold a grudge against Ubunja and Martinez39s. Anyway, if you made that statement sincerely as a statement of fact where relevant, it wouldn't be counted as broke-shaming. You have just simply made a statement that's either valid or invalid. if no one can determine for a fact that this is how you both are in real life, since this is just a faceless online forum, but still Martinez and ubunja are dirt broke, right? Okay good to know.This is unintelligible. Your emotions and grudge against me and Ubunja are hindering you from making an articulate and lucid write-up. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Listen up ladies, you are allowed to use shaming words, not as a rebuttal, just say it for saying sakeNo one says you are not allowed to use shaming words. In fact, you are free to insult, belittle, and make scathing remarks about anybody, even when inappropriate. No one is stopping you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 4:54pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:Hahahahahahaha. So it's about that thread? You can call them. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes
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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by HMarshal(m): 4:55pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
ubunja: So you are a guy in one word? |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by HMarshal(m): 4:59pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Damn! You dey vex o!!! Hehehehe |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 5:03pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
HMarshal:I am not angry. Money is good, sweet, and important, but one must not take money worship to the next level like Nigerians. ![]() ![]() ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by HMarshal(m): 5:05pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Deffuckingnately! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Actually, I saved more after getting married than I saved when I was single. It was only after getting married that I expanded my business to its full potential, because that was when I became better educated financially. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Biglittlelois(f): 5:08pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Lmao what a smello ![]() 1 Like
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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 5:13pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:My round table is set. There are three empty seats and a white board behind me. Make sure you come with those two guys so I can educate you all on human rights, and teach you that a business owner has the right to deny his services to any potential customer. OLODO RABATA ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s:you first post on this thread was rebuking the fact people in general attach importance to ones financial status,your tone was beyond mere broke shaming people as a rebuttal in banters but the general disdain towards broke men. I don't see berating ladies(saying ladies are h0es,non virgins are sluts,used products,worthless,losers) like your master does as any different from looking down on broke people or being wary of financial status(not merely as rebuttals or personal insults). Except you chose to lie or wanted to lick your master's a$$, you were wrong about him and atroG not disparaging SM. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:you are married? And they said marriage makes men responsible.... 3 Likes
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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Leoniine(f): 5:19pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Arthur21: Are You really red-pilled? Wow. |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Biglittlelois(f): 5:23pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Are you that clueless you don't know when a question is rhetorical? Lol not surprised Emotional? You think you and ubunja are capable of making me emotional? Do I sound like your regulars that goes apeshit cos of your regular baseless banters on a faceless forum? Lol I put you and him at par cos you both have the same level of thinking dude, so don't kid yourself. post=87584821: Are you really this minimal intellectually that you can't understand a simple statement? Believe me you both aren't worth it at all. post=87584821: Very good, I'm glad you finally eat your words and own up to it even though it hurts to admit it, especially with the way you keep using different smiley to cover up, lol. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Leoniine:Go to redpillers subreddits and IG pages of redpillers and mgtow and you will be disappointed with the depravity we have on this forum where some a$$E$ bully other redpillers for not joining monk mode. As Martinez39s said,red pill is to understand women nature, and the game of dating women the choice to avoid relationships(like mgtow) or be in relationships is left to the redpiller. You don't have to be a basher or be averted to ladies before becoming one. I am pro-man,I never eat poo from ladies ,I never give a lady the chance to be obtuse around me,I put them in their place,in fact no human on this globe messes with me(parents included)...I however put humanity into consideration,and treat humans right 3 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 5:30pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Arthur21:My first post on this thread is on something else relevant to this topic. ![]() ![]() ![]() I don't see berating ladies(saying ladies are h0es,non virgins are sluts,used products,worthless,losers) like your master does as any different from looking down on broke people or being wary of financial status(not merely as rebuttals or personal insults).Ubunja is not my master. The redpill movement and manosphere isn't a cult with a supreme leader every man answers to. As I have said, we don't berate or use ad hominem. We say things as we see them. Except you chose to lie or wanted to lick your master's a$$, you were wrong about him and atroG not disparaging SM.Well, there is no point going back and forth. We can agree to disagree. Have a nice day. |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 5:31pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Biglittlelois:Well, no point going back and forth. Have a nice day. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Biglittlelois(f): 5:32pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s: I'd rather vomit than sit and listen to you disgrace yourself just to blindly support, not even a whitey that you guys drool on, but a YELLOW MANGINA, probably becos you are also a mangina correct? Lmao ALAILOPOLO OLORIPELEBE. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 5:35pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Biglittlelois: ![]() ![]() ![]() . . . . Wheww! What a crazy woman. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Biglittlelois(f): 5:35pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s: Why na, come back and get the basic education you most certainly need, it will help you going forward, lol. 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Biglittlelois(f): 5:36pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s:pardon my err in numbering your post . we are saying the same thing,my statement was in case your annoyance had to do with money-worship and not merely broke shaming as ad hominem. I didnt call anyone's name na.why assume I was referring to him? how does this relate to back and forth,I stated a FACT that your master(whom you conclude is u.bunja) and astroG make unsavory comments on SM,is it true or false? Please answer before fleeing 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 5:47pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Arthur21:Na so. Oya, who were you referring to as my master?
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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 5:52pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s:him off course,your slavery ain't permanent,he may have sold you off to another master....go wash the dishes boy,you master needs the kitchen tidy 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 5:53pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Arthur21: Yes. And I am very responsible. I fully and solely shoulder the financial burden of my family and I make sure they never lack, do not engage in extra marital affairs, and make sure I am a listening father to my children. That makes me responsible. Unless of course you are one of those woman pleasing simps who defines male responsibility as being subservient and servile to one's wife; in which case I will probably not fit your definition. 5 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 5:54pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Arthur21: ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:woman pleasing SIMPs?lol I don't define any responsibility for any man 1 Like |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Arthur21: Would have been better if you had kept it closed in that case. 4 Likes |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by 2buffagain(m): 6:00pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
ubunja: In Nigeria, you can be guilty of a lot of things, but it better not be poverty. |
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Mar 19, 2020 |
Martinez39s:that aside,our argument was only in respect to slut shaming. How about simp shaming? Do you and/or cohort simp sham men in arguments? Some people said the excuse for shaming ladies is that non virginity is permanent. Is simp-hood permanent?so why still simp shaming since a simp can turn redpilled? 2 Likes |
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