GreatResearcher:
Not being in a serious relationship has made me spend money recklessly. Sometimes I pay through the nose to get my sexual fantasies actualized. I know what I coughed out for an anal sex.

To me, the best is to get married and start having responsibilities.

DenreleDave:


Ore e.. Omo ase

Arthur21:
you pay for sex when they are ladies to give it for free?

Illuminated993:
Redpill gives you the tools to operate safely through the murky waters of sexual relationships. There's a thin line between being an incel and a redpilled man. When a person like Kennedy says he needs no woman, you see a lying man who would never admit that he has no game. A woman who likes you doesn't need your money, she just wants the life you can provide. And that life isn't so expensive, it has nothing to do with impressing her. A redpilled man stays with the woman who wants him. When she even asks for money, what happened to saying "I don't give women money, I like my woman getting her own money through her own creative efforts?".
Ultimately, the woman who wants to be with you does so because she thinks you're greater than her, and not because of the money she wants from you. Redpill gives you the tools you need in making her see you in this light. Some of the guys who talk down on women here are incels. As a redpilled man, I assume you have a proper understanding of female nature, and this understanding serves as your manual that helps you in making better decisions when dealing with women.

uthlaw:
story teller...is not by force to have a woman in ur life,if u wan Bleep,olosho dey

Biglittlelois:



What is your own? You are obviously him, using your alternate lmao, are you ashamed of owning your bs? Why run scared to your alternate? What a classic simpleton you are.

Ariza:
Lol.... Those words wrong ooo. Demoralise and destroy kwa?

mrpaedo:
Send me a photo of you inserting an unripe plantain into your anus

Biglittlelois:



You should hide yourself in shame here if you unfollow all those ladies because you were called out, it will be called a simp move done by a -0 esteem simpleton, be a man and own your shiit.

Biglittlelois:



Martinez, we all know you are only intelligent on this section and anything ladies and the pills you normally swallow, outside all this, you are completely clueless and unable to hold a good meaningful discussion.

Biglittlelois:



You should hide yourself in shame here if you unfollow all those ladies because you were called out, it will be called a simp move done by a -0 esteem simpleton, be a man and own your shiit.

GreatResearcher:
Not being in a serious relationship has made me spend money recklessly. Sometimes I pay through the nose to get my sexual fantasies actualized. I know what I coughed out for an anal sex.

To me, the best is to get married and start having responsibilities.

ubunja:
remember being broke is temporary. Unlike the things on your list.

Omar09:


I'm placing my whole money on a single mom getting married as a realistic chance.

XhosaNostra:


Ndithi, you're supposedly feeling some type of way when these Nigerian women are broke-shaming men because you're not accustomed to it, ne? Virgin-shaming & ageism are also not common amongst the men in Southern Africa (just like broke-shaming is very rare for Southern African women), yet you have no problem engaging in it apha, day in/day out. That's why I asked you how many South African or Southern African men do you know that are this childish & say the derogatory things (about women) we read about here on a daily basis. If uyahlabeka when the women here call men broke, jobless etc, it should also puzzle you when the men say certain things because that's not a daily occurrence where you're from, but nee, you jump right in. Uyang'thola, oga?

Ariza:
The problem is you guys think the war is always against the Women! You are so loyal to the "Brotherhood" that you do not realize the underlying competition, jealousy, wickedness,pull down, backstabbing and evil your fellow men could do to you. Women understand and watch out for these among themselves and you will hardly see them fall victims orchestrated by their kinds. Lol.

The truth is in Man's philosophy,there is no one as worthless as a broke Man. A broke Man feels helpless, hindered, limited and useless. Being broke is a situation no Man prays for because of it negative impact in his total being. Now who else will understand this state if not Men themselves? And who knows the effect of being called broke if not Men? Ladies only broke shame guys because guys help them understand how powerful it is. Men broke shame men to ruin each other's esteem.


I know some loyal idiots to the Brotherhood will quote this to say I intend to turn men against one another... Lol don't worry I won't be vexed, that's the limit to their understanding.

ubunja:
someone is thinking a GF or a wife gives free sex. Lmfao.


That uncommitted sex was the cheapest sex you'll ever get buddy.

You're saying it yourself you "can't wait to get married to have RESPONSIBILITIES". Those responsibilities cost money. In case you're forgetting.

ubunja:
angihlabeki because it's a new thing to me. I'm just amazed nje.

And you say it yourself "men virgin-shame" etc. But in Nigeria broke-shaming cuts across genders. Both men and women broke-shame men. That is the weird thing. In case you didn't notice, it was a guy that broke-shamed another guy. That's hilarious.

ubunja:
don't be short sighted.


Who will marry these single mothers if guys are not getting jobs??

Arthur21:

Your arrogance and egocentrism will take you no where,even Ubunja can not be this bigoted that is why I respect him to some extent.

You call people kitten worshippers and manginas yet about 100% of those you follow are females..

emmaodet:


Well, in this part of africa, a single mom getting married is far easier than getting a job.
Remember nigerians are over 200m people, getting a job in such a country is a job itself.
Funny enough, because most are poor and most ladies prefer rich guys, we have a whopping large population of sex starved men that are ready to do anything or lower there taste, demand or level just to put anything walking with pvssy at home has a wife.
Also, most single mums know there price and value has drastically crashed in the fierce dating market, so some are ready to shoulder the financial burden of the family just to have a hubby at home just like the thread about a week ago where a single mum boasted of footing 70% of the family bills.

ubunja:
someone is thinking a GF or a wife gives free sex. Lmfao.


That uncommitted sex was the cheapest sex you'll ever get buddy.

You're saying it yourself you "can't wait to get married to have RESPONSIBILITIES". Those responsibilities cost money. In case you're forgetting.

Illuminated993:
The GreatResearcher himself. Towtow no sweet you again abi?

Martinez39s:
Nothing is inside the brains of many Nigerians except money, job, and business even though many lack the mental capacity and skill to achieve these. Even intelligence and the ability to maintain a civil and intelligent discourse don't make the cut. Say something they don't like and they either say directly, or insinuate, that you are broke and jobless instead of refuting your points. I wonder what a man's financial situation has to do with the validity and truthfulness of his arguments. Honestly, it's disappointing.

CAPSLOCKED:


so.... how did you land in the shittiest marriage?
maybe your constant thirst for marriage is the reason for your marital problems? is it only when you're married that you condition yourself to be responsible for things? you mean single men do not have responsibilities?
a bachelor living in peace is healthier and happier than most married men in this country today. hope you know?

ubunja:
even myself I shudder at the relentless brokeshaming on NL. You won't see it on any other social network of another country.

I spent years on 2go SA but I can count on one hand the number of times I heard a guy shamed for being broke. Nigerians take this to a whole new level. It's almost like an obsession.

ubunja:
I remember reading an article on BBC stating how landlords in Lagos demand rent of up to a year in advance from their tenants. I was stunned. Is that really happening?

henryobinna:


man it's standard practice. In fact what Nigerians find uncomfortable is landlords demanding for rent upto 2 years in advance, and it's gradually being accepted.
So yea, it's happening

ubunja:
angihlabeki because it's a new thing to me. I'm just amazed nje.

And you say it yourself "men virgin-shame" etc. But in Nigeria broke-shaming cuts across genders. Both men and women broke-shame men. That is the weird thing. In case you didn't notice, it was a guy that broke-shamed another guy. That's hilarious.

henryobinna:
Man, it's not only on Nairaland. It's the same for every and any social network where Nigerians are active. Twitter, Facebook and IG it's the same.

Say something they don't like, you're reminded how broke you are irrespective of whether you're broke or not.

It's as a result of poverty(of the mind and money) and the massive money worship going on, even the music they listen to promotes those, as a result that's what you get.

XhosaNostra:


You don't get my point, but masiyishiye apho, Tolex

GreatResearcher:
My point is, If I get married and have responsibilities, I'll Chanel my cash to someone meaningful.
I never said getting married guaranteed free sex.