I was chatting with my friends yesterday, when one shared his experience with a lady telling him to make some money before he comes to say he want to date her.

This got me thinking, is this love or stupidity?

Not necessarily, but essential!

Money is one reason why I’m still single

Enilovesam:
I was chatting with my friends yesterday, when one shared his experience with a lady telling him to make some money before he comes to say he want to date her.

This got me thinking, is this love or stupidity?

Misery they say loves company.

Jamesrock:
Not necessarily, but essential!

Money is one reason why I’m still single

My thought exactly, how will you know if the lady is compatible if you don't start from the low level?

And that kind of lady will be thinking if he made the so-called money status, he'd stoop so low to come back to her? These are many reasons why I personally have a tight spec for ladies; not just any random hoe. They want rich, handsome, educated bla bla. I cannot want less neither.

chatinent:
And that kind of lady will be thinking if he made the so-called money status, he'd stoop so low to come back to her? These are many reasons why I personally have a tight spec for ladies; not just any random hoe. They want rich, handsome, educated bla bla. I cannot want less neither.

You are right my brother!

Inasmuch as the lady's statement is 'bash' inducing, the truth is money is an essential in any form of relationship.

Just like an engine needs oil to run smoothly, money makes a relationship 'sweet'

It's sweeter when both parties involved give and take as the case may be. I'm not a believer in only receiving

Yeah. The norm is that Wealth to some ladies is the measure of your intelligence.
But most of em just say they have suffered enough and wouldn't want to suffer again.

But it's all good. Eventually, we go all dey alright

RoyalBlu:
Inasmuch as the lady's statement is 'bash' inducing, the truth is money is an essential in any form of relationship.

Just like an engine needs oil to run smoothly, money makes a relationship 'sweet'

It's sweeter when both parties involved give and take as the case may be. I'm not a believer in only receiving

Seems you are still saying the same thing. You mean guys most become rich enough before he get into relationship?

If a lady falls for you while you have nothing,that's love...When you get rich all you have are players and pretenders...So what she's doing now is following rich people,when your friend becomes rich now she'd follow him just so she can have a share of the money and probably make him broke again,if he becomes broke again she leaves him and the cycle continues.
A woman that has her own money is excused though

look at it from the ladies perspective.

if you were her, would you date you? and be comfortable.

forget potential, cos potential light no fit charge phone.

some ladies have faith, some ladies have sight. its their choice and its consequences.

The reason is not far fetched, most ladies see relationship as a means to escape misery and poverty...cars ur parents never drove you want to be seen in without putting in hardwork. Who even says ladies can't make their own money? I have huge respect for women who work and actually pay their own bills without asking, believe me I always take it up from there and do it without blinking...

Enilovesam:
I was chatting with my friends yesterday, when one shared his experience with a lady telling him to make some money before he comes to say he want to date her.

This got me thinking, is this love or stupidity?

When woman tells you a man is mature.......she is telling you he pays her bills

Everrest9:
Seems you are still saying the same thing. You mean guys most become rich enough before he get into relationship?

Not the kinda over hyped rich...

A man that can fend for himself without having to depend on handouts is 'rich'

A man who's ready to have a woman in his life should be able to support her in the littlest things. Not necessarily spending lavishly on her.

Any step in the right direction is a good one.

Since love is expressed by giving...its essential a man is financially OK....(l don't mean must be rich) before going into a relationship....

Welcome back from your sleep.

As a guy you need to be financially stable,have your furnished apartment working your way to driving and owning your own mob before you start thinking of a relationship with any female

Don't u know money Is the spice of every relationship
Money be like Maggi for relationship
In the sense that there are a lot of social activities you need to engage on with your partner which requires money in order for your relationship to be lively and not boring which includes taking your girl to cinemas to watch movie whilst she's licking a 3 scoops of ,vanilla mixed with strawberry and chocolate ice cream with a chicken pizza and all these things require money

The Truth is there's no romance without finance
Love is sweet but when money enter love is sweeter DAVIDO

My late mum before she died used to tell me before I entered the higher institution that the only thing that could make me not to graduate or have problems with cultist in school is "GIRLS"
She told me that I should focus on been a successful rich man then I can have 30 girls later afterwards if I wanted to.

I rather get rich or die trying

With money and a Lexus 350 chilled with a working air-conditioning
You can have the most beautiful chick

Have u ever taught why these married state house of Assembly member's gallivant around and sleep with these beautiful girls in the higher institution in different hotels