crownedrookie:

Yup. And That's a very intelligent and logical move*not*. In searching for the original definition of something you go to the *REDEFINITION* of the thing.
The term alpha males is surely taking a beating, simply because humans have always had the need to be more civilized and distance themselves from mere animals. The twittminists like u surely find it very uncomfortable for alpha male to be described in humans using the same baseline characteristics as the animals, so like I said, they make being alpha male something about such attractive and inspiring words like "integrity", " emotionally dependable ", " financially sound". Soooorrryyy sis, like your article boldly stated, that's *REDEFINING* alpha male to suit a civilized society in the rising wake of feminism and social correctness. Alpha male still means what it's always meant



I cab see why the unbunjites and redpiller have such a field day with your kind. Your bitterness at any one not putting head under your heels to be crushed radiates off you in waves

I'm not going to read the version you're recommending, this one makes more sense to me. Be the alpha of your own life, 1st & foremost. The rest is just wishful thinking.

XhosaNostra:


And I bet their wives have someone else on the side. There's nothing attractive about a man that can't take care of his household/responsibilities.

Good for you.

the man also have countless concubines. he even steal from his wife and give to his concubines. there are men who provide everything but still share their wives with other men

financing the household is no longer a man responsibility alone.
since I am likely to die first, I deserve to spend some of my money on chasing my own happiness.

Lostz:
the man also have countless concubines. he even steal from his wife and give to his concubines. there are men who provide everything but still share their wives with other men

financing the household is no longer a man responsibility alone.
since I am likely to die first, I deserve to spend some of my money on chasing my own happiness.

I'm bored of this subject already. May you find that unicorn that'll provide for you as a man.

XhosaNostra:


I'm not going to read the version you're recommending, this one makes more sense to me. Be the alpha of your own life, 1st & foremost. The rest is just wishful thinking.

Of course it makes more sense to you. It serves you more. That way you can tell yourself your man is 'alpha' and still treats you good. Go watch any animal documentary watch how the alpha male snaps at even the women who bring in the hunt. Alpha males are not 'nice guys', that's why there is only one or two in every pack no matter how big. Too many and there will be an upheaval. Societal unrest. Civilized animal that man is doesn't want that so he *REDEFINES* it. Now y'all twittminists want to insult any man who remembers the original definition and shame him into being YOUR version of a societal alpha Boohoo cry me a river.

XhosaNostra:


I'm not going to read the version you're recommending

You're close minded and loud mouthed. I never expected you to. Reeducation is painful and not for everyone

crownedrookie:

Of course it makes more sense to you. It serves you more. That way you can tell yourself your man is 'alpha' and still treats you good. Go watch any animal documentary watch how the alpha male snaps at even the women who bring in the hunt. Alpha males are not 'nice guys', that's why there is only one or two in every pack no matter how big. Too many and there will be an upheaval. Societal unrest. Civilized animal that man is doesn't want that so he *REDEFINES* it. Now y'all twittminists want to insult any man who remembers the original definition and shame him into being YOUR version of a societal alpha Boohoo cry me a river.

You're close minded and loud mouthed. I never expected you to. Reeducation is painful and not for everyone

It serves me in no way, when a man is focused on his own life purpose & goals. I say more power to him. That's the kind of man I find attractive, not an aimless nonentity with no direction that expects women to be at his beck & call.

XhosaNostra:


It serves me in no way, when a man is focused on his own life purpose & goals. I say more power to him. That's the kind of man I find attractive, not an aimless nonentity with no direction that expects women to be at his beck & call.

Like I said. YOUR dream man. Not an alpha male.
And in case no one told you growing up, using insulting words doesn't change anything no matter how much you wish it does

XhosaNostra:



I'm bored of this subject already. May you find that unicorn that'll provide for you as a man.

not unicorn when I see it around me.


you now understand why we need miseducations; it reassure us that we are perfectly okay

crownedrookie:

Like I said. YOUR dream man. Not an alpha male

So an alpha male to you is only dominant in women's issues & sex? See why I prefer the other version, where the alpha is dominant in his own life & getting it in order so he won't need to live off others or have them as validation to his identity as a man. That to me is a real man. A man that thinks he's an alpha because of the amount of women he takes to bed is a joke.

You keep counting those notches on your bed post, while the real McCoys are out there building & bettering themselves in all spheres of life.

Apparently I'm an alpha female & it has nothing to do with men or sex. I like


https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-signs-you-are-alpha-woman.html&ved=2ahUKEwiPw5WF1a3oAhVFDWMBHfK2CaUQFjAlegQIBRAB&usg=AOvVaw2RWfdPbfv8d1BBa5PcBxlm&cshid=1584865994132

Lostz:
not unicorn when I see it around me.


you now understand why we need miseducations; it reassure us that we are perfectly okay

Good.

ityP:



As I said, they deserve the shaming. So

Ok, your opinion is duly noted

Meeyankee:
Please nairaland help me reason this matter ooo
What will makes a man take home a prostitute AKA ashowo AkA oloshow as a wife knowing fulling well say the Girl na oloshow. And from my own view also think any girl that is dating more one guy belong to oloshow categories. According ubunja na virgin sure pass.
Nairaland guy what do you take on this one na Virgin sure pass?

Sometimes I feel Nairaland is filled with teenage guys and young men in their early 20s. Y'all are proving me right.
Now, never make a hoe a wife. Virginity does NOT guarantee that a lady is going to make a good wife.
Don't pass on good ladies, just because she used to be bad.
If prophet Hosea in the Bible could marry a hoe, who Fu ck are you? Sit down and be humble.

XhosaNostra:


So an alpha male to you is only dominant in women's issues & sex? See why I prefer the other version, where the alpha is dominant in his own life & getting it in order so he won't need to live off others or have them as validation to his identity as a man. That to me is a real man. A man that thinks he's an alpha because of the amount of women he takes to bed is a joke.

An alpha male to me is what an alpha male really is.
Let me correct a few misconceptions. Nobody said an alpha male had to live off others. That's just something you twittminists throw in to muddy the waters, making it seem like an either this or that situation. Nothing stops an alpha male from having a career and excelling in it. I'm just blandly telling you that is NOT what makes a male alpha. The term alpha male cuts across EVERY animal species that embraces a social system and is closely tied with mating dominace.
Besides the alpha male in animal packs often fights with and subdues other males before earning his title. Is that not resonant of success to you? Stop tying in failure and dependency to color true alphas black. Won't work
Your definition of a 'real man' is YOUR dream man. Not an alpha male

crownedrookie:

An alpha male to me is what an alpha male really is.
Let me correct a few misconceptions. Nobody said an alpha male had to live off others. That's just something you
twittminists throw in to muddy the waters, making it seem like an either this or that situation. Nothing stops an alpha male from having a career and excelling in it. I'm just blandly telling you that is NOT what makes a male alpha. The term alpha male cuts across EVERY animal species that embraces a social system and is closely tied with mating.
Your definition of a 'real man' is YOUR dream man. Not an alpha male

Look at this brothel patronizer talking about alpha male.

Someone who can't approach a real female aside from brothel whores.

Hahahahahahaha
I laugh in corona

XhosaNostra:


That's your own twisted definition of an alpha male, to suit your own sick narrative. What you just described is a gigolo.

This or you're just another scum-sucking leech with delusions of grandeur.

Please don't listen to that man.

He's a local brothel patronizer.
He knows nothing about alpha male.

crownedrookie:

An alpha male to me is what an alpha male really is.
Let me correct a few misconceptions. Nobody said an alpha male had to live off others. That's just something you twittminists throw in to muddy the waters, making it seem like an either this or that situation. Nothing stops an alpha male from having a career and excelling in it. I'm just blandly telling you that is NOT what makes a male alpha. The term alpha male cuts across EVERY animal species that embraces a social system and is closely tied with mating dominace.
Besides the alpha male in animal packs often fights with and subdues other males before earning his title. Is that not resonant of success to you? Stop tying in failure and dependency to color true alphas black. Won't work
Your definition of a 'real man' is YOUR dream man. Not an alpha male

Looooool. Again, that's what it means to YOU. Your definition is the one that needs a little updating if being an alpha is all about mating- taking the easy route to claim a title you don't deserve. It doesn't require special skills to get laid nowadays. People are literally throwing it sideways, up/down & in circles. Try being better in everything you do & everything that you are, then you can wear your crown with pride. Until then, you're just a wannabe.

Cakephp:

Look at this brothel patronizer talking about alpha male.

Someone who can't approach a real female aside from brothel whores.

Hahahahahahaha
I laugh in corona

I am not an alpha male. Doesn't stop me from knowing what one is.
Neither are you by the way. Now stop worrying about what other men do with their joysticks and their money and go rub your flaccid dick some more. This is your home romance land after all.
Faggott

XhosaNostra:

Try being better in everything you do & everything that you are, then you can wear your crown with pride.

I will and I am.
Misconception 1) I have never claimed to be an alpha male nor trying to be one. So I wonder what crown you mean
And that leads to
Misconception 2) being better in everything he does and that he is STILL isn't what makes a man an alpha male no matter how socially desirable that may be. Its just YOUR dream man

Cakephp:

Please don't listen to that man.

He's a local brothel patronizer.
He knows nothing about alpha male.

Lol, I've already deduced that.

crownedrookie:

Not interested in head butting with you but dont twist the definition of an alpha male. Its not an emotionally strong man. Its not an intellectual man. Its not a man who knows his own mind and nothing can change it. Its not a "provider".
Dont twist the definition if concepts to fit your narrative. Go back to the basics and visit the animal kingdom for your definition.
Its simply a man who knows his way around the minds of women, thereby scoring him a lot of sex, often with the women catering for him.
So, yes a man can be alpha while strictly adhering to ubunjas instructions.
Sure being alpha often comes with male dominance and show of strength over other males as it is one of the things that attracts females but no one said that intellectual ideas can't be followed, else human alpha males would all be the stupidest men

At this point I must give up because of the way you're revealing your foolishness by yourself.

Which part of the country are you?

Go back to the basics and visit the animal kingdom for your definition
Its obvious that's where you belong.

crownedrookie:

I will and I am.
Misconception 1) I have never claimed to be an alpha male nor trying to be one. So I wonder what crown you mean
And that leads to
Misconception 2) being better in everything he does and that he is STILL isn't what makes a man an alpha male no matter how socially desirable that may be. Its just YOUR dream man

So sex is all that makes a male an alpha amongst his peers? Oh, you're really special!

Cakephp:


At this point I must give up because of the way you're revealing your foolishness by yourself.

Which part of the country are you?

Go back to the basics and visit the animal kingdom for your definition
Its obvious that's where you belong.

K.
You done masturbating?
Faggott

XhosaNostra:


So sex is all that makes a male an alpha amongst his peers? Oh, you're really special!

Dominance is what makes a male alpha. If you're not getting that so far you're pretty thick skulled.
Sex is just a by product of that. So is the tendency for women to provide for him.

crownedrookie:

Dominance is what makes a male alpha. If you're not getting that so far you're pretty thick skulled.

Dominance in what exactly? Surely it can't only be in sexual matters, when there're much bigger dragons to slay out there. Challenge yourself, my guy. There's more to life than jut sex & women. Put your dominance to test in other areas of life, as well.

XhosaNostra:


Dominance in what exactly? Surely it can't only be in sexual matters, when there're much bigger dragons to slay out there. Challenge yourself, my guy. There's more to life than jut sex & women.

Like I said
1) I am not nor am I aspiring to be an alpha male
2) Nothing stops an alpha male from slaying so called 'other dragons' while retaining the base alpha male characteristics.
Like I said close minded and thick skulled. You and the mor.on Cakephp who finds what other men do with their pe.nises more important than reviving his failed programming career can have a field day. Not replying any more mentions from either. Maybe he can tell you more of what an alpha male is LMAOO. e-zuckerberg

crownedrookie:

Like I said
1) I am not nor am I aspiring to be an alpha male
2) Nothing stops an alpha male from slaying so called 'other dragons' while retaining the base alpha male characteristics.
Like I said close minded and thick skulled. You and the mor.on Cakephp who finds what other men do with their pe.nises more important than reviving his failed programming career can have a field day. Not replying any more mentions from either. Maybe he can tell you more of what an alpha male is LMAOO. e-zuckerberg

What are those "base" alpha male characteristics? You keep mentioning sex, while shucking & jiving about the rest.

We're closed minded because we refuse to accept your version of an alpha male as a sex machine with no other aspirations?

XhosaNostra:



Do you also read books about chewing, walking or blinking?

Be humble and learn from others. Let use sex as examples... sex is a normal thing in life in which nobody teaches or hold a class for,but their are some skills you will learn from watching porn. The categories of people you belong are the kind of people who don’t know and they don’t want to know non listen .must of the dick you are sucking in SA today you guys learn the skills from porn. There is always hidden knowledge in something that is already existing .sex is very common to everybody even among teenagers, how come people are still learning to near perfect it. I know not everybody that watch porn but one way on the other you are learning from people who watch it. See you no matter how Good Barca football club is they stall got beaten by small club. You know nothing about life, the attention people are given you here is getting into your head you better slow down.

I can't reason with u.. Go and meet PSQUARE

Meeyankee:

[s]Be humble and learn from others. Let use sex as examples... sex is a normal thing in life in which nobody teaches or hold a class for,but their are some skills you will learn from watching porn. The categories of people you belong are the kind of people who don’t know and they don’t want to know non listen .must of the dick you are sucking in SA today you guys learn the skills from porn. There is always hidden knowledge in something that is already existing .sex is very common to everybody even among teenagers, how come people are still learning to near perfect it. I know not everybody that watch porn but one way on the other you are learning from people who watch it. See you no matter how Good Barca football club is they stall got beaten by small club. You know nothing about life, the attention people are given you here is getting into your head you better slow down[/s].

Didn't read.

XhosaNostra:


What are those "base" alpha male characteristics? You keep mentioning sex, while shucking & jiving about the rest.

For the love of education i'll assume ive been too abstract and make ONE exception.
Here it is:
Dominance.
It is the base alpha male characteristic. The tendency for him to get more than his fare share of sex and for females to be willing to spend on him is an OFFSPRING of this. It is symptomatic, not causative. There are no other alpha male characteristics. The things you so desperately want in YOUR dream man are not part of the base alpha male characteristics. Regardless of that, an alpha man CAN possess them

XhosaNostra:


We're closed minded because we refuse to accept your version of an alpha male as a sex machine with no other aspirations?

No, that is YOUR twist on THE ORIGINAL AND FUNDAMENTAL definition of an alpha male, in order to shame men into shying away from claiming it and you're close minded because you insist on maintaining it despite my clear indications to the contrary

crownedrookie:

For the love of education i'll assume ive been too abstract. Here it is:
Dominance It is the base alpha male characteristic. The tendency for him to get more than his fare share of sex and for females to be willing to spend on him is an OFFSPRING of this. It is symptomatic, not causative. There are no other alpha male characteristics. The things you so desperately want in YOUR dream man are not part of the base alpha male characteristics. Regardless of that, an alpha man CAN possess them


No, that is YOUR twist on my definition of an alpha male and you're close minded because you insist on maintaining it despite my clear indications to the contrary

LMFAO @ bolded. In other words, a gold digging dìldo. We can all be alphas if that's the only criteria, you just need to be loose & broke.

XhosaNostra:


LMFAO @ bolded. In other words, a gold digging dìldo. We can all be alphas if that's the only criteria, you just need to be loose & broke.

Now you're sorta getting it.
If a man is loose, broke and DOMINANT, thereby reaping the perks of that, then sorry to burst your bubble sis, he is an alpha, never mind that is is NOT YOUR dream man.
So is a man who has integrity, rich and DOMINANT
@ the we can all be part LMFAO. Look around you sis. How many truly dominant men you see?
I'm done with this

justnock:

Sometimes I feel Nairaland is filled with teenage guys and young men in their early 20s. Y'all are proving me right.
Now, never make a hoe a wife. Virginity does NOT guarantee that a lady is going to make a good wife.
Don't pass on good ladies, just because she used to be bad.
If prophet Hosea in the Bible could marry a hoe, who Fu ck are you? Sit down and be humble.

Why are you contradicting yourself?You just started that never make a hoe your wife but you are praising a prophet for taken a hoe home, may be you should go and walk on water because Jesus Christ walk in water. Their is nothing like a change hoe and a hoe can never be a good lady. You stated by talking about kids on nairaland, las las you still sounded like a kid.