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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by dontrulee: 7:57pm On Mar 23, 2020
Mariangeles:


You are a monster! Period!
@op, if you even dare to consider this piece of trash, you're even worse than the giver!
You will be called monster if you have the ability to break a relationship without you getting hurt in the process.
if am tired of a relationship, I break it without considering if you're hurt or not. I don't enjoy the relationship anymore, I move on. you on the receiving end will be completely ignored! I don't care what happens to you.
and if you think you can hurt me first by initiating the breakup, you're wrong because if you break up with me, I will do everything possible to make the relationship work back and break up with you a week later. when it comes to breakups, I call the shots not you.
if you think am lying, ask Iyanu, Beatrice, Sandra and many other useless girls who thinks they are wise. Their names no worthy enough to be mentioned by me. That's how nice I can be...

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by dontrulee: 8:00pm On Mar 23, 2020
Brighte:


This message does not only go for the Op but I am still a benefactor too. I have also been emotionally blackmail that I feel guilty of living same kind of relationship. Now I am thinking about how to make my life better
Am very glad it was helpful to you bro.
God bless you as you follow your head and not your heart.
Make your life better and girls will come chasing after you, you shouldn't be the one doing the chasing. Shalom!

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by blessedchild234(m): 8:04pm On Mar 23, 2020
Kendroid:
Your case is worst than COVID-19
Poverty is my best guess!
you are mad.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Kendroid: 8:06pm On Mar 23, 2020
blessedchild234:
you are mad.
At least I'm madly rich, but u're coronavirusly poor cheesy
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Ubdavis(m): 8:10pm On Mar 23, 2020
I can easily make an input without without even reading through...humans are of different threshold. Some girls would would say "make him go na... Abi he think say na only him get penis. While some would commit suicide... There is no better way to say it, it's all depends on her emotional tenacity.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by blessedchild234(m): 8:11pm On Mar 23, 2020
Kendroid:

At least I'm madly rich, but u're coronavirusly poor cheesy
your generation coronavirusly poor idiot.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by lonji: 8:25pm On Mar 23, 2020
Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

Oga....I know where you're going. Cut the finance bullshit You're simply not into her. Period.

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Brunosamel(m): 8:46pm On Mar 23, 2020
obailala:
The truth is that the Op doesnt really like the girl. The whole talk of "not being ready to commit to a serious relationship" is just an excuse men give to avoid commitment to a partner they dont really like.
maybe who knows... He knows thyself and that's it... grin
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by MANNABBQGRILLS: 8:46pm On Mar 23, 2020
ifiokjohn:
This is the first time you have said something nice and brilliant and I applaud you for that. Mr MannaBBG

Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by ZooOga: 8:50pm On Mar 23, 2020
>>>(I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

abeg, babe freely gives out her number to suitors and our guy is worried about hurting her.... i just can't tonight ... cheesy

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by sammklef225(m): 8:55pm On Mar 23, 2020
You have to be real with her... I've been in ur shoes b4... Try to avoid being romantic with her first and then change ur motive about her and take her like ur blood sister...
Remember to avoid any romantic contact with her if you don't wanna hurt her!

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Kaykay999(m): 8:59pm On Mar 23, 2020
sammklef225:
You have to be real with her... I've been in ur shoes b4... Try to avoid being romantic with her first and then change ur motive about her and take her like ur blood sister...
Remember to avoid any romantic contact with her if you don't wanna hurt her!

Omg
Too much sense !!!!!!!! Ehmmm

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Jayoficial(m): 9:03pm On Mar 23, 2020
Rapmoney:
I've been rapping for the past 25 years, yet I've not been able to break into the Nigerian music industry. Pls who know any strong babalawo wey go fit tidy juju for me so that I go blow like Davido and Wizkid?

This your matter too long, I nor sure say any babalawo fit package this your matter Oh grin grin

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by clemmonce(m): 9:09pm On Mar 23, 2020
Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!
I have been there , done it and move on.
There is no way to break with a girl without hurting her. But this is what I will tell you... try and do it as soon possible so you dont tag her along. Tell her the truth.

She will feel bad but just explain to her. Dont cheat on her in order to break her heart,I repeat she will feel bad, but she go dey okay las las.

You sef go dey okay.

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by maxiuc(m): 9:10pm On Mar 23, 2020
The kind of girl am looking for is what this nigga is planing to chase away

Chai this life you are indeed somehow

Good things always going to people who don't want and regard them

See me for the past 7months I have been stack single looking for a good nice woman who will love me same way I love her also

This OP stop deciveing yourself if you try and loose this girl have it in mind that you will never find someone like her again, maybe at first you never loved her and you were merely attracted to her because of big boobs and nyash
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by maxiuc(m): 9:12pm On Mar 23, 2020
lonji:


Oga....I know where you're going. Cut the finance bullshit You're simply not into her. Period.
gbam you are definitely right on this

The guy is not into her

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by iamkingzlee(m): 9:12pm On Mar 23, 2020
Kenoxman:

Bros don't break up with dat girl. I see nothing wrong she has done. Most importantly, her love for u is greater than urs for her. That's the kind of girl sharp guys look out for, if u know.
I won't say much, but if u do break up with her I bet u dat u will someday wish u neva did.
If no be say social distancing, I for like make we siddon over a bottle of your favourite drink. I like this!!

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by zealadjay(m): 9:13pm On Mar 23, 2020
If u can't break her heart, break her leg
Or better still, break her kidney...
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by israelmao(m): 9:13pm On Mar 23, 2020
It's only possible if there is no true love.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by ityP(m): 9:30pm On Mar 23, 2020
Pegi23:
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He won't and you didn't either..this world is too small period. I pity u both


Lol. When two good people are not good together, the best thing is to break up. Like I told you, I'm living proof. My ex was a great lady and I'm a great guy too kiss but we weren't good together. We broke up. She's with a great guy now and I found myself a queen. I don't regret shit. Even if what I have with this babe ends, I'm very much convinced I'd find someone even better. Life isn't one dimensional; one can find love even 10 times over. Don't pity me. Pity yourself, you seem like someone broke your heart. Accept it and move on

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Budline1(m): 9:35pm On Mar 23, 2020
pajudah007:
bro she sure will be heart-broken in this case.

From what you said and didn't say, you just don't love her as much as she loves you. Check deep within you, if you are truthful to yourself, you'll find one or two reasons why you think the both of you ain't good together. Why I am sure of what I am saying is this: If a lady that meets your requirements come along now, you'll find out that you are ready for commitments.

So my advice, if you don't want to break her heart, learn how to love her. From all you said, she's a good lady and Dem no too plenty o brother.

Yup. She's not fine enough for him. She's not his spec and he doesn't want to settle down with her out of pity. I understand exactly how he's feeling right now.

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Budline1(m): 9:42pm On Mar 23, 2020
obailala:
The truth is that the Op doesnt really like the girl. The whole talk of "not being ready to commit to a serious relationship" is just an excuse men give to avoid commitment to a partner they dont really like.

Exactly
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Ghostmode2two(m): 9:43pm On Mar 23, 2020
Be man enough and tell her the truth
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Miracle5720(m): 9:48pm On Mar 23, 2020
Just think if you are the one in her shoe too, if she is the one trying to this to you, what will you also feel, just continue the relationship, because you are lucky seeing someone who love you and who is not cheating on you, so dont lost your gold for just a stone...asap
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by INnaMAN: 9:49pm On Mar 23, 2020
Everybody in conclusion that the girl is a good girl bla bla.know it that there are things the op has seen and might or will not tell u

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by MrMacinterchi1: 9:54pm On Mar 23, 2020
Pegi23:
n


He won't and you didn't either..this world is too small period. I pity u both

What do you know about the world? Don't go about sounding certain as if u know what happened in their lives. The world is not balance, nothing is fair in it.
I have seen some good get worse things expected for the bad to get and as well see some bad get much better things the good is expected to get. Try to hold yourself together, OK. Sometimes the way life presents itself can't be explained.

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by oluwaahmed: 10:14pm On Mar 23, 2020
Tell her you gay. That you prefer sucking dick to boobs.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by DateMynd44(m): 10:35pm On Mar 23, 2020
Offpoint:
By "Social Distancing" grin
what's the name of this movie
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Liquid2Metal: 11:32pm On Mar 23, 2020
Tell her you've contracted covid19 and need to self isolate for while, I'm certain she will understand.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by DonMekino(m): 11:33pm On Mar 23, 2020
which focus? Mr Man tell us that u don't love the girl probably because u feel she's too much into u, u are now feeling Mr world. what if u getting focused is actually what the girl wants, is she too demanding to the extent of distractiing u...u didn't say, so I guess the answer is no...don't come here with another thread of how hoeish ladies are after throwing away this one.

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