Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

Brunosamel:
You don't need to breakup with her for you to stay focus all you have to do is to talk to her about your priorities and tell how difficult and hard it's gonna be for you, she won't be getting any of your attention as she use to cuz you need to set your life straight... if she loves you enough she will stick around and support you....

INnaMAN:
Everybody in conclusion that the girl is a good girl bla bla.know it that there are things the op has seen and might or will not tell u

Kuddy1010:
How would you feel if she walks up to you and tell you she wants to focus on her study coz she's in 200L and you're a distraction, as in if the table turned,how will you feel? all I see here is selfishness or probably you ain't telling the whole story, I'm guessing you've seen a working class lady and you realized the Uni babe ain't your type anymore.

Don't dump that girl if she's good like you claim,alot of you think every girl out there prioritize money over love, most of the girls out there only wants your loyalty and love reciprocated, not some #5000 you'll credit her account with.


Lastly thread carefully that girl might be your ladder to success tomorrow, think twice before you walk out of her life, above all do what suits you.

Kenoxman:

Bros don't break up with dat girl. I see nothing wrong she has done. Most importantly, her love for u is greater than urs for her. That's the kind of girl sharp guys look out for, if u know.
I won't say much, but if u do break up with her I bet u dat u will someday wish u neva did.

Dcaliphate:

he doesn't know, i always tell guys to find a girl who loves them more than they love her... cos thats the kind of relationship that'll serve them better..No stress.

ityP:



Lie o. I want a girl who loves me, but my love for her must be way more than hers.

Dcaliphate:

Ok, goodluck with that, when e start to happen just remember someone gave you this piece of advice for free

Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

blessedchild234:
your generation coronavirusly poor idiot.

ityP:
Easy to say right,I'm sure if the Uni girl was funding his account steady and she has a quite rich Dad, "graduate boy" wont think of focusing on his career, rather he'll be thinking of wifeing her, abeg shift with the sentiments.




No girl is a ladder to my success. If she told him she wants to break up to concentrate on her studies, he will no doubt be heartbroken for a while but he will definitely get over it. Break up isn't palatable but sometimes, it is necessary. If he is considering breaking up, it's clear he wants out. I'm sure he has thought it through. He just needs suggestions on how to end it the right way

Kendroid:
E pain am

Brunosamel:
You don't need to breakup with her for you to stay focus all you have to do is to talk to her about your priorities and tell how difficult and hard it's gonna be for you, she won't be getting any of your attention as she use to cuz you need to set your life straight... if she loves you enough she will stick around and support you....

popoolaopeyemi6:
The problem most good girls have is that they often fall into the hands of wrong men, not wrong in the sense that they don't care about her but in the sense that they are selfish. To say the truth almost all men are, but if it's someone you deeply love, you'll be goddamn hurt. I was in this lady's shoe and what hurts most is the fact that I'm almost crying right now knowing that someone is about to pass through what I passed through. I tell guys if you know you ain't financially stable why walk up and build anything with a girl in the first place? You should have kuku left her, and not build something with her and just leave her all of a sudden. This shit happened with my almost 4 years relationship, mehn I was hurt, was even eyeing an insecticide inside my trolley as at that time but thank GOD for the friends and family I had around me, I was unable to do it it still hurts, and that's the problem with loving someone overly, he never will love you the same way you do. This shit isn't in the least way palatable. You wanna break up with a girl who truly loves you and you wanna know how to go about it without hurting her? TF there's no way to go about that. What we have amongst guys of nowadays is the selfish ones who can risk and sacrifice anything to achieve their career. Not saying there's anything bad in it, but it shouldn't be at the detriment of an innocent girl. What we're you doing encouraging her to love you in the first place when all you can offer her is pain?. Wetin broke guy dey do around relationship sef?

popoolaopeyemi6:
The problem most good girls have is that they often fall into the hands of wrong men, not wrong in the sense that they don't care about her but in the sense that they are selfish. To say the truth almost all men are, but if it's someone you deeply love, you'll be goddamn hurt. I was in this lady's shoe and what hurts most is the fact that I'm almost crying right now knowing that someone is about to pass through what I passed through. I tell guys if you know you ain't financially stable why walk up and build anything with a girl in the first place? You should have kuku left her, and not build something with her and just leave her all of a sudden. This shit happened with my almost 4 years relationship, mehn I was hurt, was even eyeing an insecticide inside my trolley as at that time but thank GOD for the friends and family I had around me, I was unable to do it it still hurts, and that's the problem with loving someone overly, he never will love you the same way you do. This shit isn't in the least way palatable. You wanna break up with a girl who truly loves you and you wanna know how to go about it without hurting her? TF there's no way to go about that. What we have amongst guys of nowadays is the selfish ones who can risk and sacrifice anything to achieve their career. Not saying there's anything bad in it, but it shouldn't be at the detriment of an innocent girl. What we're you doing encouraging her to love you in the first place when all you can offer her is pain?. Wetin broke guy dey do around relationship sef?

Rukkydelta:
Oga please break up with her
You don't deserve her. So that when you are 36 you will come and create a thread about how you only see slay Queens and gold diggers. No good girl out there and you will remember you once had one but you ditch her

Please leave the girl she will finds someone that truly loves her

blessedchild234:
ur fada.

Kendroid:
He's dead. Yours?

Zombiekiller010:
Check her phone,you'll see something to rant on, if she is the nagging type, then provoke her to talk back at you you'll achieve your breakup plan