Congratulations dear

I beg don't go for abortion ooooo, I lost a sister on Feb 14 due to this abortion stuff...

Shame comes once and go

Please guys take it easy on her, nobody is without sin. Yes she opened her legs that is over now. Solutions without bashing her. My dear just be calm, is not d end of d world. Just talk to your sister first. She is in the best position to help u now. Don't take any decision on ur own. And pray all goes well.

I just want u to look at d other side of bright light , just remove fear and marry him. ok. thats the only solution and you will be happy. marry him. but the onus and problems lies on the guy nah, if he will agree to settle down and marry you. ok.ay.

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

. How come you have been fucking your sisters' husband in-law and no one noticed what was happening, ua sister would have noticed dat u have bin collecting dicks as an elder.i mean there shouldbe a change or.an.incrise in your nyansh becoming big,

A typical age of an ss3 girl/person is around 17_18years, the boy should be around 15_16 years old as one in ss2. are u 17/18years? . you just a small girl. BUT YOUR TYPED WELL AS A LEARNED PERSON. HOW COME YOU ALLOWED YOURSELF. OH KONJI NO RESPECTER OF ANY PERSON.

Ngozey:
Thanks someone recommended cytotec I don’t know if the pharmacist will sell to me but I will go and give it a try. I will keep you all updated

I beg you in the name of anything you believe. DO NOT TAKE CYTOTEC This would lead to incomplete abortion, severe pains and bleeding would would persist for several weeks. It could also lead to more complications and death.
If you love your life, D&C would be your best option. Ensure to get this done only in a credible and competent hospital by a professional. Because doing it also in any quack clinic can also lead to future complications.
Am sure you've heard stories like this and how they eventually end up if not properly done.

That's inbreeding or outbreeding .. Daughter of jazebel

Benwems:
Was it your sister brother in-law that deflowered you?

Yes we were both virgins

phyla:
This life sha,this same pregnancy that some people will pay millions to keep is what someone is having dilemma over......Life is cruel!

It’s sad it took my sister 4 years to conceived her baby but me that am young and unmarried only had unprotected sex once because we run out of condoms am look at me now am pregnant. Oh God why just me . When there’s plenty of people out there who will love to have this baby why not give to them instead of giving to me. Am heartbroken I have to get rid of this pregnancy, hope God will forgive me all my sins

Christmasdon:
A typical age of an ss3 girl/person is around 17_18years, the boy should be around 15_16 years old as one in ss2. are u 17/18years? . you just a small girl. BUT YOUR TYPED WELL AS A LEARNED PERSON. HOW COME YOU ALLOWED YOURSELF. OH KONJI NO RESPECTER OF ANY PERSON.

Am 17

so you guys are scared having kids, but went to do what mum and dad are doing.

hmmmmmmmmm. Ss3 that means you will be writing Waec in few months time. so the guy is in Ss2. well i will only advise you to tell your sister the truth.

Ngozey:

It’s sad it took my sister 4 years to conceived her baby but me that am young and unmarried only had unprotected sex once because we run out of condoms am look at me now am pregnant. Oh God why just me . When there’s plenty of people out there who will love to have this baby why not give to them instead of giving to me. Am heartbroken I have to get rid of this pregnancy, hope God will forgive me all my sins

Are you kidding me? so you mean you don't know the outcome of sex is a child?

Christmasdon:
I just want u to look at d other side of bright light , just remove fear and marry him. ok. thats the only solution and you will be happy. marry him. but the onus and problems lies on the guy nah, if he will agree to settle down and marry you. ok.ay.

The guy is in ss2 . how old is he?

izubext007:
Send me ur account number

lol. does she have one? i doubt. besides you want to encourage abortion what if she die in the process?.

West2019:
are you in Lagos ? the mistake has already be done ,but next time you have to avoid such thing , if you wnt to abort it inbox me

hmm mm mm.

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

That your sister dey nairaland oo, she don read this thread.

I really feel your pain little sister but try to be strong.,
Life is a good teacher and I believe you will learn from this. I have came to fully agreed with the scriptural verse that said and I quote: There are ways that seems right unto a man but their ends are total destruction.
Someone said here that you, having sex with a man not your husband is not bad., My dear the sexual act is bad and sinful in its entirety.
Actions and reactions are equals but act in opposite directions. Your action is already sinful don't let your reaction be the same my dear.
This is what I think you should do:
Firstly : asked your Creator to forgive you the sin of immorality
Secondly: try to forgive yourself because my spirit is telling me that you wish this never happened
Thirdly: be ready to face the consequences that will surface as the result of your action
Fourthly: meet your sister and her husband., No matter what they say or do try to beg for forgiveness
Please stop seeing abortion as the best way of cleaning your name, for you may not like it advance effect.
Is just a matter of time, maybe two years all these will be gone and forgotten then you can continue with your education.
As I said before, the world is a wonderful citadel of learning as we all are being taught by her.
Finally my dear, present your trouble to God because He cares for you and face your little trouble of disobedient with prayers., as you try to be strong for that child that choose to come into this world through you.

Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

my advice is tell ur sis b4 she finds out her self she could take u to a qualified gyna to see the possibility of getting rid of it , because I see that both of u are jobless and It will tell on the new being u intend bringing in into this world

Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigeria ct ns. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

Ngozey, Please take to this advice. Nigerians are full of hypocrite. Talk to your sister about it, so you can have a proper abortion if you’re notnready for the baby. I believe it’s better not to have a baby than to have a baby just to suffer him. This same nigerian will abuse a parent whose child is suffering. so don’t fall for their hypocritical behavior. (Talk to your parents/guidance). This is the only way out, Unprofessional abortion can take your life.

Perv kill you there. Answer my question or remain silent. Hypocrite

worworbabe:


So you can masturbate over my answer?

Perv

walkwithgod:
What a big family

Indeed

Tripitaka:
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

take this advice above or just go tell your sisters husband if you think your sister is unapproachable, now you know you ae 4 taking decisions together. a problem shared is a problem solved.

Jonathan39:
Perv kill you there. Answer my question or remain silent. Hypocrite

Idiot.

You think I am like your sisters?

donbachi:
Every exam get result..show dem ur report card.

I disagree! Not every exam gets result. Ask those who have written post Jamb in those days interview test.

All my sister's are happily married, not a cheerful giver like you. I know you must have been drilled today by one randy guy

worworbabe:


Idiot.

You think I am like your sisters?

Please can anyone tell me how to delete my post ? It’s urgent please

jaxxy:


U are very stupid. Do u think I just pet people u do the wrong thing. I tell u the damn truth and give u the best advice. U can spoil ur households if u like still it stinks and think ur helping them. I wasn’t brought up that way. I got caned and flogged/purnished and I learnt the right from wrong.

If I was her guardian I will 1st beat the living daylight out of her b4 taking necessary steps to help her. What rubbish!!!! What nonesense!!!!!!!!

I gave the gal the necessary correction she needs to hear and retrace her steps.

Will you Shuut up there before I injure your big mouth u cat....... such a wicked hearted fellow

Ngozey:

Am 17

. Baby please dont think of any abortion, just call the guy that two of u, are ready to raise that child, after birth leave and weaning give d the child to your mum to cater for, and again whats the age of your boyfriend? . AND CAN U MADE UP YOUR MIND TO MARRY HIM.?

GREATESTPIANIST:
Will you Shuut up there before I injure your big mouth u cat....... such a wicked hearted fellow

U must be drunk or high of cheap stuff. Very big idiot. Gtf out of my mention.