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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Realhommie(m): 2:36pm On Mar 24, 2020
Brightgem:
That's how a child would handle it, that's not how a Man would handle it.

And some people wonder why their life is so bent, when you ghost someone who has invested a strong emotion as love in your life, if they curse you, na express be that. Stop playing with people's emotions.
Egungun be careful... grin grin grin

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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by ityP(m): 4:37pm On Mar 24, 2020
popoolaopeyemi6:
The problem most good girls have is that they often fall into the hands of wrong men, not wrong in the sense that they don't care about her but in the sense that they are selfish. To say the truth almost all men are, but if it's someone you deeply love, you'll be goddamn hurt. I was in this lady's shoe and what hurts most is the fact that I'm almost crying right now knowing that someone is about to pass through what I passed through. I tell guys if you know you ain't financially stable why walk up and build anything with a girl in the first place? You should have kuku left her, and not build something with her and just leave her all of a sudden. This shit happened with my almost 4 years relationship, mehn I was hurt, was even eyeing an insecticide inside my trolley as at that time but thank GOD for the friends and family I had around me, I was unable to do it it still hurts, and that's the problem with loving someone overly, he never will love you the same way you do. This shit isn't in the least way palatable. You wanna break up with a girl who truly loves you and you wanna know how to go about it without hurting her? TF there's no way to go about that. What we have amongst guys of nowadays is the selfish ones who can risk and sacrifice anything to achieve their career. Not saying there's anything bad in it, but it shouldn't be at the detriment of an innocent girl. What we're you doing encouraging her to love you in the first place when all you can offer her is pain?. Wetin broke guy dey do around relationship sef?


Everyone is selfish though. I agree that he made a mistake of dating her when e never set for him life. But the deed is done. It's better than keeping up the relationship until 4 years as in your case. He should break up while It's still early. Also, ladies and guys dey break each other heart. We just have to move on when it happens. I've always been on the receiving end of breakups. My immediate ex sef do me strong thing. But when she is in town, she invites me for drinks and I gladly accept. We're still good friends. I just believe that is the essence of dating. it is a time to survey your partner. Problem is, don't waste time surveying.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by delishpot: 6:03pm On Mar 24, 2020
World people. Many people use good partners to play teh-teh!
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by jaszplus12(m): 9:05pm On Mar 24, 2020
Try to listen to this song by the MANHATTANS: KISS AND SAY GOODBYE...
it's should give you an idea...
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Dcaliphate(m): 9:35am On Mar 25, 2020
ityP:



I've dated girls who loved me more. It ended in tears cos I got tired of the relationship. See eh, ladies want love and attention. They are hooked when you give them this. If you love a lady so much, except she be olosho, she would reciprocate your love and stick for life.
It's a lie o, your loving a lady so much is no guarantee that she would reciprocate the love. Something or someone can easily make her change easily when you're the one showing more of the love., and you'll be powerless then cos you'll be on the begging side cos you've invested more than she has into that love. This is man to man talk o, women aren't supposed to be seeing this thing I'm revealing to you now.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by ityP(m): 9:52am On Mar 25, 2020
Dcaliphate:

It's a lie o, your loving a lady so much is no guarantee that she would reciprocate the love. Something or someone can easily make her change easily when you're the one showing more of the love., and you'll be powerless then cos you'll be on the begging side cos you've invested more than she has into that love. This is man to man talk o, women aren't supposed to be seeing this thing I'm revealing to you now.


You really don't know women. Women are not moved by the eyes like men. They are largely emotional beings. Men change easily than women. That's why it is a big deal if a woman cheats. Man go just see big nyansh and he will cheat on a woman he deeply loves just because of the big nyansh. But women are not like that. Na the guy wey win her emotionally she dey cheat on. Believe me when I say it, both the man and woman needs to love but the guy's love must be way more for things to work smoothly. Even the holy book agree. "Husbands, love your wives as your own bodies." "Wives, respect your husband."
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Brightgem(f): 7:27pm On Mar 25, 2020
Realhommie:
Egungun be careful... grin grin grin
Haahahahha! cheesy Welldone
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Dcaliphate(m): 1:51am On Mar 26, 2020
ityP:



You really don't know women. Women are not moved by the eyes like men. They are largely emotional beings. Men change easily than women. That's why it is a big deal if a woman cheats. Man go just see big nyansh and he will cheat on a woman he deeply loves just because of the big nyansh. But women are not like that. Na the guy wey win her emotionally she dey cheat on. Believe me when I say it, both the man and woman needs to love but the guy's love must be way more for things to work smoothly. Even the holy book agree. "Husbands, love your wives as your own bodies." "Wives, respect your husband."

'... But women are not like that. Na the guy wey win her emotionally she dey cheat on...'

i really don't get that ^^ line. Women cheat a whole lot these days and when u check you'll see it had little to do with emotions, could be just for fun or for a need the other guy is meeting that you her guy is not meeting. Women change as well too. She can just stop feeling anything for you no matter how much you care. Love is a commandment, many think love is an emotion, it's not, it's actions, words, devotion. You can love someone without having to like them, that's why the Bible said '..love your enemies'. So the Bible commanded the man to love cos God knows it's only in men to give love even without having that 'emotional love' the world knows. Women are not capable of love if their emotions is not engaged, but men are. So it's better her eomotions are more for you than you having more emotions for her. In that scenerio it's easier for the man, cos she has more propensity to stay. I hope you really read this, think about it deeply and understand. Don't stress your life oh, or die b4 your time trying to please a woman.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by ityP(m): 3:06am On Mar 26, 2020
Dcaliphate:


'... But women are not like that. Na the guy wey win her emotionally she dey cheat on...'

i really don't get that ^^ line. Women cheat a whole lot these days and when u check you'll see it had little to do with emotions, could be just for fun or for a need the other guy is meeting that you her guy is not meeting. Women change as well too. She can just stop feeling anything for you no matter how much you care. Love is a commandment, many think love is an emotion, it's not, it's actions, words, devotion. You can love someone without having to like them, that's why the Bible said '..love your enemies'. So the Bible commanded the man to love cos God knows it's only in men to give love even without having that 'emotional love' the world knows. Women are not capable of love if their emotions is not engaged, but men are. So it's better her eomotions are more for you than you having more emotions for her. In that scenerio it's easier for the man, cos she has more propensity to stay. I hope you really read this, think about it deeply and understand. Don't stress your life oh, or die b4 your time trying to please a woman.

Well, not for me. I wouldn't last long with a wife who loves me more. I sure in hell would cheat
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Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Dcaliphate(m): 11:16am On Mar 26, 2020
ityP:


Well, not for me. I wouldn't last long with a wife who loves me more. I sure in hell would cheat
aiit, good luck mate.
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by Rawhumper(m): 1:54pm On Apr 13, 2020
You can really be funny dear,are u for real?











hipsyleema:
It's simple. Just tell her you developed Covid-19 symptoms. Then you got tested and it came out positive.. �
Re: How Do You Break Up With A Girl Without Breaking Her Heart? My Story by YoungLionken(m): 8:30am On Nov 04, 2022
I am just coming out from this same situation. We have been friends for 6yrs years and I was there when she entered year one till her NYSC. She love's me very much but at later on, I could not find what made me to love her in the first place. It was not easy for me. I break up and still come back because I felt I can't see any other girl like her. But recently I have to take a bold step and I told that I am not sure we can go on. Her response was that I have wasted 6yrs years of her life. Which I told her I didn't. She now asked me to block her number and also on social media. But my response to her was, do it yourself. Since then we haven't chatted or called. Seriously my conscience do pick up on me. But I don't want to marry a girl out of a pity. Is not an easy task but I have to face the reality and move on. It's just the choice I have made. She told me that her parents warned her about me that I am a heart breaker but I don't want to let that talk get the best of me. She is the only girl that has ever send me love messages. I miss her but I can't marry her and she is a virgin. I become whatever I think. Sometimes the way life presents itself can't be explained.

Hello bro, how's it going with you guys now??

Still in or out??.

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