pansophist:


The only good thing about feminism.

Sadly, many of these airhead feminists do not know this. They are under the impression that their fight is a noble cause, but they themselves are using their hands to bring down the privileges they received jut for being women. Preach on.

yep bossman. The Sexual Revolution made pussy cheap as bread lol. Before, the price of pussy was marriage, now just airtime can get you pussy.

Asuito7:
I did not confused and split your post. Remember the topic is packaging and you added sex abstinence or purity or holiness to it. No be you talk am. And you even spoke the truth. Even me self like am.

dude you didn't read it from me on this thread that women must have sex. you ASSUMED I was saying that. But you don't know how wrong you are.

Asuito7:
See in real life practice there is no rich man that get a classy and well packaged lady, and then spend on her without receiving a reward in return sex inclusive. Whether he end up marrying her or keeping her as a mistress or side chick, that is his choice

As for the Game of Gold diggers, hope you know that a lady must receive and give something(open legs) in contrary to what you just posted. If you still doubt it, get closer to these gold diggers and mistresses in real life. I am surprised that even you Ubunja will believe a Gold digger(lady) that IT'S GAME OVER when they open their legs.

Ordinary gold digging self you must expend energy, time and resources before you get your gold to sell.

all I see is a guy who doesn't have a clue about the gold digger game.

If that game was easy to understand more girls would be doing it.

When you're saying a girl can't get money without opening her legs, you're making the same error that guys make when they say it's impossible to get sex free. Yet Players do get the sex free everyday.

ubunja:
guys don't get this. That's why good guys are intensely pissed when we call women hoes. Because to the good men women have been nothing but angelic. So they don't understand where we are coming from.
But if only those guys acted like thuggish players themselves, then they would see a whole new world of hoes they never thought existed. I touched on that in the writeup "How You Start With A Woman Is How You End With Her".

It's been quite a long time boss. You now have your own blog. Congrats!!! Hence, It's not been a waste of your effort on NL at all. UBUNJA, YOU HAVE SOMETHING TO SHOW FOR YOUR TIME AND ENERGY ON NL WHICH CAN EARN YOU GOOD MONEY IF YOU SO WISH FOR THE 'BENJAMINS'.

90% of what you write is the REALITY in this world of PRECONCEIVED INDOCTRINATIONS OF FALLACIES, our form of education as against ENLIGHTENMENT.

And even if your message is detested by some who are not ready to see this REALITY, it doesn't change it from being a 90% TRUTH, (for none can be perfect, yet 90% is an 'A')


It's only pathetic how this REALITY you write is a PARADOX OF LIFE and difficult to swallow. Difficult to swallow perhaps because it is a BITTER TRUTH.

The REDPILL is indeed a BITTER TRUTH.

As to your comment.

Let me give an illustration which is my advice to VIRGIN BOYS that may be reading this and wish to remain as so.

If a lady should stylishly ask "HAVE YOU SLEPT WITH A WOMAN BEFORE?" Meaning are you a virgin?.

Never ever say "I AM A VIRGIN" pretend and say "I HAVE SLEPT WITH A FEW" if you can't say "I HAVE SLEPT WITH VERY MANY". This you should say, even if you have never ever seen a woman's panties before. NEVER EVER SAY YOU ARE A VIRGIN!!!

The REALITY is, that's what 98% of ladies, even if all 98% of ladies are virgins want to hear. THAT YOU ARE VERY EXPERIENCED IN BED, YOU AINT A NOVICE.

That's the paradox of life and about women. Even if you want to keep yourself PURE for them, that instinct of being NATURAL HOES will never make them appreciate the PURITY OF A MAN except to make a MOCKERY of him and MANIPULATE you.

IT'S THE REALITY!!! THE BITTER TRUTH!!!

It puzzles the minds of many how BAD BOYS end up marrying the 'GOOD GIRLS' a.k.a 'VIRGINS'. Or when fvck boys say the will settle down with a virgin.

This is a reality that needs no statistical evidence at all, it's an observable fact and which needs no vexation at all as to WHY A FVCK BOY SHOULD DESIRE A VIRGIN.

The PARADOXICAL REALITY is that its the VIRGIN GIRLS a.k.a GOOD GIRLS who desire for BAD BOYS inorder to fulfil her SEXUAL FANTASIES so as to be treated like a HOE.

ubunja:
all I see is a guy who doesn't have a clue about the gold digger game.

If that game was easy to understand more girls would be doing it.

When you're saying a girl can't get money without opening her legs, you're making the same error that guys make when they say it's impossible to get sex free. Yet Players do get the sex free everyday.

You say I don't understand the gold digger game. Ok let me give you example: Ubunja get a classy lady who is willing to be his, you buy stuffs, take her on a shopping spree, buy her a house in banana island, buy her a car, expensive trips across many countries, etc. What do you Ubunja as a wealthy man here get in return from this gold digger Lady?

ubunja:
dude you didn't read it from me on this thread that women must have sex. you ASSUMED I was saying that. But you don't know how wrong you are.

let me tell you one truth that you failed to recognize.....Nothing Goes For Nothing in this life be it GAME or whatsoever. That sex you think they won't have after receiving much is a must. Unless they are dealing with a complete mumu rich man. I didn't assumed it is a fact.

Phenomenal16:
I had this crush ..though we r in d same church circle very good friends.....
He said he's not in any rlship ...boom inside my heart I was very happy.....I was waiting for him to shot his shoot...... Cos me I will accept...
Then one of his friend who is also crushing on me told me d niggar has a gf...but he didn't know I was crushing ooo on his friend....
Fast forward I went to fb ...come n see beautiful expensive looking girl..... Her dressing alone is wow!
I was even seeing the pictures they snapped together... Hmmmm.....
I didn't bother again about him shaaa....but u would he lie to me......
It got me thinking about packaging!!!!.... Though I try to package to d best of my knowledge n income being a student ....it ain't easy though

those things will lead you into prostitution,if u had that inner beauty,the right man will come 4 u

Asuito7:
let me tell you one truth that you failed to recognize.....Nothing Goes For Nothing in this life be it GAME or whatsoever. That sex you think they won't have after receiving much is a must. Unless they are dealing with a complete mumu rich man. I didn't assumed it is a fact.

then stay with what you know.

Asuito7:
You say I don't understand the gold digger game. Ok let me give you example: Ubunja get a classy lady who is willing to be his, you buy stuffs, take her on a shopping spree, buy her a house in banana island, buy her a car, expensive trips across many countries, etc. What do you Ubunja as a wealthy man here get in return from this gold digger Lady?

stay with what you know then. No harm done.

ubunja:
stay with what you know then. No harm done.

You refuse to answer the question. Anyway it is still good. By the way, I am a fan of some your Miseducations. I only like and read. Mind you I have read all of them.

Asuito7:
You refuse to answer the question. Anyway it is still good. By the way, I am a fan of some your Miseducations. I only like and read. Mind you I have read all of them.

there is no point in answering your question because you don't have a clue about this game. I have even broken it down to you like this: "If a Player can get sex free while other men pay for it, Gold Diggers can also get money free while other women sex for it"

If this statement is not enough to show you your knowledge is limited then nothing will. That's why I'm telling you stay with what you know.

ubunja:
there is no point in answering your question because you don't have a clue about this game. I have even broken it down to you like this: "If a Player can get sex free while other men pay for it, Gold Diggers can also get money free while other women sex for it"

If this statement is not enough to show you your knowledge is limited then nothinzg will. That's why I'm telling you stay with what you know.

You assume you know all. Good for you.

Asuito7:
I did not confused and split your post. Remember the topic is packaging and you added sex abstinence or purity or holiness to it. No be you talk am. And you even spoke the truth. Even me self like am.

Yes, truly.. Although Ubunja wasn't against my post too. He specifically bolded one of my points which centered on urban location where calibres of rich folks habitates and transacts most, which serves as higher chances of meeting them when you lobby around there. He's only broadening my point by giving other key hot spots (like mega city churches, etc) of meeting the rich. Reason, he stated "a lady knows that the relationship is dead when she open her legs" to support my purity and abstinence movement.

I think we are all navigating at the same point. Can we make peace now?

ubunja:
you of all people must know this.

But also the average girl is an average gold digger. Nothing major league like I'm advocating here. Few women can pull this level of gold digging off because it takes a special mindset that most just don't have or are too lazy/scared to develop.

What's the mindset if I may ask?? at least for a man he must have the mindset of all "women are Wh*res" what's the mindset for women??

Momoney77:


What's the mindset if I may ask?? at least for a man he must have the mindset of all "women are Wh*res" what's the mindset for women??

"Men are ATMs"

But for all their love of money, women have a very complicated relationship with money. And that relationship needs to be fixed.

ONE:
First, many women lack the character strength to receive from men WITHOUT giving anything back (the key to having a man invested in a woman - see Sunk Cost Fallacy). If you thought men were weak beings who couldn't think straight at the sight of pussy, you haven't seen how weak women are where money is concerned. You cant give an average girl the equivalent of her monthly salary (which is peanuts to a man with money) without the woman eagerly offering her pussy and asshole on a silver platter. Put a wad of cash in many females' hand, and you've just corrupted her. She'll be your wh0re ready to do everything you ask. She can't say NO to anything. All resistance and boundaries and self control goes bye bye. You have seen the crazy things girls do for money out there. So, a woman has to develop that strength of mind not to be swayed by money. No matter how much. To remain STOIC and unmoved. And keep legs shut. No matter the amount of money she has been gifted.

Give an average girl a car and she'll happily become your sex slave. Give a gold digger a car and she's plotting on how to get your house next. That car, mind you, just earned you the right to only kiss her. Not even fvck her. I won't go deep into this MindGame but the summary of it is that gold diggers deal with you in such a way that they allow you to sleep around knowing that the longer they keep their own legs closed the more you'll do for them because as a man the pussy that occupies your mind is the one you can't have. So the slut and the prostitute do the Gold Digger's dirty work. And the more the man pays a woman he's not sleeping with the more VALUABLE that woman becomes in his eyes because if he's paying but not getting anything he tells himself the other men not even paying anything to this woman don't stand a chance X1000. So his mind tells him the gold digger indeed had a pussy of gold (meanwhile a thug is screwing that same bitch free. But pure gold diggers don't even fvck any man for just the pleasure because they understand 1: sex takes a toll on their body and their body is their only asset. 2: sex can make them bond with said thugs and complicate their game as they start to harbour feelings for the guys fvcking them on the side 3: mistakes happen and a girl can get pregnant. Not many are okay with abortion. Plus there's the fear of disease)

MINDSET TWO:
Many Women have forgotten how to receive from Men. Decades of feminism and women's rights have taught women the 50/50 mindset. That they must bring something to the table. Which is a poisonous mindset when a woman is dealing with a masculine man with serious money who was raised to view himself as a Provider. The quickest way to chase away a rich man is to pay your own way. It emasculates a rich man to see their woman use her own money .Rich men have ego. And it's fragile that way. But what has the average woman been brought up to believe? To pay her own way. As a strong woman who is able. Failure to do that she's a loser.

That mindset is a hindrance in the Gold Digger game. As a gold Digger your motto, mantra, slogan, must always be I BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE. Proudly. Without shame. Rich men don't have a problem with that. You can even tell that to a rich man straight and he would just laugh and continue dating you. Rich men are looking for someone to SPEND ON. To throw cash at. It nourishes their ego. But the average girl's mindset is the Independent Woman mindset. fail.

And the independent woman mindset is a direct consequence of growing up poor. Never is a woman more unlikely to accept money from men than when she grew up in poverty because she has learned to hustle for herself to survive. Now that mindset needs to go. A woman needs to heal and learn to accept help from men. Rich men don't date hustlers. Poor men do.


THREE:
Poverty mindset. A Girl who grew up poor grows up with a mindset to choose the cheapest of everything and to live economically. Rich men are allergic to such women. Go to a restaurant and choose the cheapest meal at the smallest quantity and you won't be invited on a second date. To you it may seem normal cause you grew up saving to survive. But you must understand that such things are not the rich man's reality. Rich men are used to oppulance and luxury and extras. And you being frugal/economic will tell him he's Dealing with a low quality woman. And he'll drop you.
The poverty mindset is a poison in the game. Imagine a rich man takes you out to eat, because you grew up hungry, you wipe your plate clean eating everything (a big no no) or there are leftovers and you take out a lunch tin and collect the leftovers into your lunch tin!! You won't get the call for a second date.

That's the poverty mindset that has to go.

Women aspiring to be high level gold diggers need to shed that mindset. Learn to choose the most expensive option on the table. A rich man offers to buy you a phone, choose the most expensive. He offers to buy you a dress, choose the most expensive in the shop, and take two. Or three. He can afford it. If he can't he's not rich enough and he's the wrong target in which case you need to drop him ASAP. But there's a specific way of going about this that works his Ego making everything easy for you.

I can go on and on. But let me end here. And go back to that point about BRINGING NOTHING TO THE TABLE:
A woman who aspires to be a gold digger must learn to take without giving. Because men are ATMs. And because by taking without giving she plays a psychological game on men that draws them closer to her because they become INVESTED in her. Like she's a business project or something.

A woman must never give anything to a rich man if he wants that rich man to marry her. This is a major mindfvcks for many girls. They don't see how that works. But they need to trust the Game. It works. Even if they don't understand it.

Also, you don't give a rich man presents or gifts. If you must, use his money. But don't give anything. Maybe a card. And nothing more. Again, it seems cruel. But it's a psychological game. Trust the game. It works.

But a word of caution is in order: The Game is to played on the right target. A man with a lot to lose in society. Not thugs or broke men, Because 1: the gold digger games don't work on broke men. Because broke men's relationship with money is not like the rich man's relationship with money. 2: thugs have nothing to lose and will kill you if you play them. But a board director of a respectable company won't do anything even if he feels he's been played. He has too much to lose. He'll cut his loses and move on.

Let me stop here on Mindsets. But there's more that can fill a book on these concepts. But the most important thing to note is this: A MAN HAS TO LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LIKE HIM FOR ALL THIS TO WORK.

Not every man will think you a Prize worthy to be pampered daily for the rest of your life, just as you don't think every guy is a Prize, but your job is to find that one rich man who'll be so breathtaken with you that he'll move mountains to see you happy and his joy in this life will be providing for you. Once you get such a man (if you're really lucky he'll not be too old or too ugly), then you'll know what Cinderella felt like. Because Cinderella is the original gold digger.

Ariza:
Just be you.

I have realized one thing in life, there's nothing special about anyone.The one you want to die for is being trampled on by another. The value we place or attach on people /things is there until we have them, the moment we do we start seeking for someone or something bigger.It takes self control and a high level of contentment to appreciate what we have for a long time. So babe don't wear yourself out over a dude who you may get tired of the moment you have him and see someone else.

Self realization should be your focus now, be what people want and stop chasing.

You so right, man.

I don see am several time wey e happen.

E get some girls wey I go dey imagine from afar say na big girls dem be.

But when I finally get close, I go just find out say these girls are nothing. As in nothing. Some of them sef dey find pesin wey go help dem with things like money, recharge card, and food. Some are even small children wey be say dem just too big for dia age whereas Some no even sabi anything. As in they cannot even name five african countries and their capitals.

Then you go come begin wonder sef how dem take dey deceive you since into thinking they are such high class bitches.

But the truth be say there is nothing particular special about them from ab initio.

It was just your personal perception that was drastically _fucking everything up the whole while.

Ubunja I wonder why you are still helping this girls that are not even showing any appreciation or gratitude to you
That is why people like me prefer to redpill guys than to redpill girls because some guys will show you appreciation for redpilling them but rarely will you find a girl that will appreciate u for female redpill

ubunja:
you of all people must know this.

But also the average girl is an average gold digger. Nothing major league like I'm advocating here. Few women can pull this level of gold digging off because it takes a special mindset that most just don't have or are too lazy/scared to develop.

All women are gold diggers, according to you, you are teaching and raising up your so called daughters to be gold diggers.

Now, then you went on to tell guys..starve those hoes

Now, you are preaching starve those hoes and then again you still want to raise your imaginary daughters to be god diggers, so how is it going to benefit them.

The confusions and contradictions in all your write ups is alarming.

Vicboy1:
Ubunja I wonder why you are still helping this girls that are not even showing any appreciation or gratitude to you
That is why people like me prefer to redpill guys than to redpill girls because some guys will show you appreciation for redpilling them but rarely will you find a girl that will appreciate u for female redpill

you do have a point.

ubunja:
"Men are ATMs"

But for all their love of money, women have a very complicated relationship with money. And that relationship needs to be fixed.

ONE:
First, many women lack the character strength to receive from men WITHOUT giving anything back (the key to having a man invested in a woman - see Sunk Cost Fallacy). If you thought men were weak beings who couldn't think straight at the sight of pussy, you haven't seen how weak women are where money is concerned. You cant give an average girl the equivalent of her monthly salary (which is peanuts to a man with money) without the woman eagerly offering her pussy and asshole on a silver platter. Put a wad of cash in many females' hand, and you've just corrupted her. She'll be your wh0re ready to do everything you ask. She can't say NO to anything. All resistance and boundaries and self control goes bye bye. You have seen the crazy things girls do for money out there. So, a woman has to develop that strength of mind not to be swayed by money. No matter how much. To remain STOIC and unmoved. And keep legs shut. No matter the amount of money she has been gifted.

Give an average girl a car and she'll happily become your sex slave. Give a gold digger a car and she's plotting on how to get your house next. That car, mind you, just earned you the right to only kiss her. Not even fvck her. I won't go deep into this MindGame but the summary of it is that gold diggers deal with you in such a way that they allow you to sleep around knowing that the longer they keep their own legs closed the more you'll do for them because as a man the pussy that occupies your mind is the one you can't have. So the slut and the prostitute do the Gold Digger's dirty work. And the more the man pays a woman he's not sleeping with the more VALUABLE that woman becomes in his eyes because if he's paying but not getting anything he tells himself the other men not even paying anything to this woman don't stand a chance X1000. So his mind tells him the gold digger indeed had a pussy of gold (meanwhile a thug is screwing that same bitch free. But pure gold diggers don't even fvck any man for just the pleasure because they understand 1: sex takes a toll on their body and their body is their only asset. 2: sex can make them bond with said thugs and complicate their game as they start to harbour feelings for the guys fvcking them on the side 3: mistakes happen and a girl can get pregnant. Not many are okay with abortion. Plus there's the fear of disease)

MINDSET TWO:
Many Women have forgotten how to receive from Men. Decades of feminism and women's rights have taught women the 50/50 mindset. That they must bring something to the table. Which is a poisonous mindset when a woman is dealing with a masculine man with serious money who was raised to view himself as a Provider. The quickest way to chase away a rich man is to pay your own way. It emasculates a rich man to see their woman use her own money .Rich men have ego. And it's fragile that way. But what has the average woman been brought up to believe? To pay her own way. As a strong woman who is able. Failure to do that she's a loser.

That mindset is a hindrance in the Gold Digger game. As a gold Digger your motto, mantra, slogan, must always be I BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE. Proudly. Without shame. Rich men don't have a problem with that. You can even tell that to a rich man straight and he would just laugh and continue dating you. Rich men are looking for someone to SPEND ON. To throw cash at. It nourishes their ego. But the average girl's mindset is the Independent Woman mindset. fail.

And the independent woman mindset is a direct consequence of growing up poor. Never is a woman more unlikely to accept money from men than when she grew up in poverty because she has learned to hustle for herself to survive. Now that mindset needs to go. A woman needs to heal and learn to accept help from men. Rich men don't date hustlers. Poor men do.


THREE:
Poverty mindset. A Girl who grew up poor grows up with a mindset to choose the cheapest of everything and to live economically. Rich men are allergic to such women. Go to a restaurant and choose the cheapest meal at the smallest quantity and you won't be invited on a second date. To you it may seem normal cause you grew up saving to survive. But you must understand that such things are not the rich man's reality. Rich men are used to oppulance and luxury and extras. And you being frugal/economic will tell him he's Dealing with a low quality woman. And he'll drop you.
The poverty mindset is a poison in the game. Imagine a rich man takes you out to eat, because you grew up hungry, you wipe your plate clean eating everything (a big no no) or there are leftovers and you take out a lunch tin and collect the leftovers into your lunch tin!! You won't get the call for a second date.

That's the poverty mindset that has to go.

Women aspiring to be high level gold diggers need to shed that mindset. Learn to choose the most expensive option on the table. A rich man offers to buy you a phone, choose the most expensive. He offers to buy you a dress, choose the most expensive in the shop, and take two. Or three. He can afford it. If he can't he's not rich enough and he's the wrong target in which case you need to drop him ASAP. But there's a specific way of going about this that works his Ego making everything easy for you.

I can go on and on. But let me end here. And go back to that point about BRINGING NOTHING TO THE TABLE:
A woman who aspires to be a gold digger must learn to take without giving. Because men are ATMs. And because by taking without giving she plays a psychological game on men that draws them closer to her because they become INVESTED in her. Like she's a business project or something.

A woman must never give anything to a rich man if he wants that rich man to marry her. This is a major mindfvcks for many girls. They don't see how that works. But they need to trust the Game. It works. Even if they don't understand it.

Also, you don't give a rich man presents or gifts. If you must, use his money. But don't give anything. Maybe a card. And nothing more. Again, it seems cruel. But it's a psychological game. Trust the game. It works.

But a word of caution is in order: The Game is to played on the right target. A man with a lot to lose in society. Not thugs or broke men, Because 1: the gold digger games don't work on broke men. Because broke men's relationship with money is not like the rich man's relationship with money. 2: thugs have nothing to lose and will kill you if you play them. But a board director of a respectable company won't do anything even if he feels he's been played. He has too much to lose. He'll cut his loses and move on.

Let me stop here on Mindsets. But there's more that can fill a book on these concepts. But the most important thing to note is this: A MAN HAS TO LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LIKE HIM FOR ALL THIS TO WORK.

Not every man will think you a Prize worthy to be pampered daily for the rest of your life, just as you don't think every guy is a Prize, but your job is to find that one rich man who'll be so breathtaken with you that he'll move mountains to see you happy and his joy in this life will be providing for you. Once you get such a man (if you're really lucky he'll not be too old or too ugly), then you'll know what Cinderella felt like. Because Cinderella is the original gold digger.

This is bomb, I wish we can do brain swap. I've learnt so much from Ubunja

Momoney77:


This is bomb, I wish we can do brain swap. I've learnt so much from Ubunja

I've contributed enough. I'm signing off this thread.

ubunja:
"Men are ATMs"

But for all their love of money, women have a very complicated relationship with money. And that relationship needs to be fixed.

ONE:
First, many women lack the character strength to receive from men WITHOUT giving anything back (the key to having a man invested in a woman - see Sunk Cost Fallacy). If you thought men were weak beings who couldn't think straight at the sight of pussy, you haven't seen how weak women are where money is concerned. You cant give an average girl the equivalent of her monthly salary (which is peanuts to a man with money) without the woman eagerly offering her pussy and asshole on a silver platter. Put a wad of cash in many females' hand, and you've just corrupted her. She'll be your wh0re ready to do everything you ask. She can't say NO to anything. All resistance and boundaries and self control goes bye bye. You have seen the crazy things girls do for money out there. So, a woman has to develop that strength of mind not to be swayed by money. No matter how much. To remain STOIC and unmoved. And keep legs shut. No matter the amount of money she has been gifted.

Give an average girl a car and she'll happily become your sex slave. Give a gold digger a car and she's plotting on how to get your house next. That car, mind you, just earned you the right to only kiss her. Not even fvck her. I won't go deep into this MindGame but the summary of it is that gold diggers deal with you in such a way that they allow you to sleep around knowing that the longer they keep their own legs closed the more you'll do for them because as a man the pussy that occupies your mind is the one you can't have. So the slut and the prostitute do the Gold Digger's dirty work. And the more the man pays a woman he's not sleeping with the more VALUABLE that woman becomes in his eyes because if he's paying but not getting anything he tells himself the other men not even paying anything to this woman don't stand a chance X1000. So his mind tells him the gold digger indeed had a pussy of gold (meanwhile a thug is screwing that same bitch free. But pure gold diggers don't even fvck any man for just the pleasure because they understand 1: sex takes a toll on their body and their body is their only asset. 2: sex can make them bond with said thugs and complicate their game as they start to harbour feelings for the guys fvcking them on the side 3: mistakes happen and a girl can get pregnant. Not many are okay with abortion. Plus there's the fear of disease)

MINDSET TWO:
Many Women have forgotten how to receive from Men. Decades of feminism and women's rights have taught women the 50/50 mindset. That they must bring something to the table. Which is a poisonous mindset when a woman is dealing with a masculine man with serious money who was raised to view himself as a Provider. The quickest way to chase away a rich man is to pay your own way. It emasculates a rich man to see their woman use her own money .Rich men have ego. And it's fragile that way. But what has the average woman been brought up to believe? To pay her own way. As a strong woman who is able. Failure to do that she's a loser.

That mindset is a hindrance in the Gold Digger game. As a gold Digger your motto, mantra, slogan, must always be I BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE. Proudly. Without shame. Rich men don't have a problem with that. You can even tell that to a rich man straight and he would just laugh and continue dating you. Rich men are looking for someone to SPEND ON. To throw cash at. It nourishes their ego. But the average girl's mindset is the Independent Woman mindset. fail.

And the independent woman mindset is a direct consequence of growing up poor. Never is a woman more unlikely to accept money from men than when she grew up in poverty because she has learned to hustle for herself to survive. Now that mindset needs to go. A woman needs to heal and learn to accept help from men. Rich men don't date hustlers. Poor men do.


THREE:
Poverty mindset. A Girl who grew up poor grows up with a mindset to choose the cheapest of everything and to live economically. Rich men are allergic to such women. Go to a restaurant and choose the cheapest meal at the smallest quantity and you won't be invited on a second date. To you it may seem normal cause you grew up saving to survive. But you must understand that such things are not the rich man's reality. Rich men are used to oppulance and luxury and extras. And you being frugal/economic will tell him he's Dealing with a low quality woman. And he'll drop you.
The poverty mindset is a poison in the game. Imagine a rich man takes you out to eat, because you grew up hungry, you wipe your plate clean eating everything (a big no no) or there are leftovers and you take out a lunch tin and collect the leftovers into your lunch tin!! You won't get the call for a second date.

That's the poverty mindset that has to go.

Women aspiring to be high level gold diggers need to shed that mindset. Learn to choose the most expensive option on the table. A rich man offers to buy you a phone, choose the most expensive. He offers to buy you a dress, choose the most expensive in the shop, and take two. Or three. He can afford it. If he can't he's not rich enough and he's the wrong target in which case you need to drop him ASAP. But there's a specific way of going about this that works his Ego making everything easy for you.

I can go on and on. But let me end here. And go back to that point about BRINGING NOTHING TO THE TABLE:
A woman who aspires to be a gold digger must learn to take without giving. Because men are ATMs. And because by taking without giving she plays a psychological game on men that draws them closer to her because they become INVESTED in her. Like she's a business project or something.

A woman must never give anything to a rich man if he wants that rich man to marry her. This is a major mindfvcks for many girls. They don't see how that works. But they need to trust the Game. It works. Even if they don't understand it.

Also, you don't give a rich man presents or gifts. If you must, use his money. But don't give anything. Maybe a card. And nothing more. Again, it seems cruel. But it's a psychological game. Trust the game. It works.

But a word of caution is in order: The Game is to played on the right target. A man with a lot to lose in society. Not thugs or broke men, Because 1: the gold digger games don't work on broke men. Because broke men's relationship with money is not like the rich man's relationship with money. 2: thugs have nothing to lose and will kill you if you play them. But a board director of a respectable company won't do anything even if he feels he's been played. He has too much to lose. He'll cut his loses and move on.

Let me stop here on Mindsets. But there's more that can fill a book on these concepts. But the most important thing to note is this: A MAN HAS TO LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LIKE HIM FOR ALL THIS TO WORK.

Not every man will think you a Prize worthy to be pampered daily for the rest of your life, just as you don't think every guy is a Prize, but your job is to find that one rich man who'll be so breathtaken with you that he'll move mountains to see you happy and his joy in this life will be providing for you. Once you get such a man (if you're really lucky he'll not be too old or too ugly), then you'll know what Cinderella felt like. Because Cinderella is the original gold digger.

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These methods are not new to Nigerian girls. The average Nigerian girl is a parasite. Remorseless extortion has been deeply embedded in her DNA. They're masters of this game.

ubunja:
"Men are ATMs"

But for all their love of money, women have a very complicated relationship with money. And that relationship needs to be fixed.

ONE:
First, many women lack the character strength to receive from men WITHOUT giving anything back (the key to having a man invested in a woman - see Sunk Cost Fallacy). If you thought men were weak beings who couldn't think straight at the sight of pussy, you haven't seen how weak women are where money is concerned. You cant give an average girl the equivalent of her monthly salary (which is peanuts to a man with money) without the woman eagerly offering her pussy and asshole on a silver platter. Put a wad of cash in many females' hand, and you've just corrupted her. She'll be your wh0re ready to do everything you ask. She can't say NO to anything. All resistance and boundaries and self control goes bye bye. You have seen the crazy things girls do for money out there. So, a woman has to develop that strength of mind not to be swayed by money. No matter how much. To remain STOIC and unmoved. And keep legs shut. No matter the amount of money she has been gifted.

Give an average girl a car and she'll happily become your sex slave. Give a gold digger a car and she's plotting on how to get your house next. That car, mind you, just earned you the right to only kiss her. Not even fvck her. I won't go deep into this MindGame but the summary of it is that gold diggers deal with you in such a way that they allow you to sleep around knowing that the longer they keep their own legs closed the more you'll do for them because as a man the pussy that occupies your mind is the one you can't have. So the slut and the prostitute do the Gold Digger's dirty work. And the more the man pays a woman he's not sleeping with the more VALUABLE that woman becomes in his eyes because if he's paying but not getting anything he tells himself the other men not even paying anything to this woman don't stand a chance X1000. So his mind tells him the gold digger indeed had a pussy of gold (meanwhile a thug is screwing that same bitch free. But pure gold diggers don't even fvck any man for just the pleasure because they understand 1: sex takes a toll on their body and their body is their only asset. 2: sex can make them bond with said thugs and complicate their game as they start to harbour feelings for the guys fvcking them on the side 3: mistakes happen and a girl can get pregnant. Not many are okay with abortion. Plus there's the fear of disease)

MINDSET TWO:
Many Women have forgotten how to receive from Men. Decades of feminism and women's rights have taught women the 50/50 mindset. That they must bring something to the table. Which is a poisonous mindset when a woman is dealing with a masculine man with serious money who was raised to view himself as a Provider. The quickest way to chase away a rich man is to pay your own way. It emasculates a rich man to see their woman use her own money .Rich men have ego. And it's fragile that way. But what has the average woman been brought up to believe? To pay her own way. As a strong woman who is able. Failure to do that she's a loser.

That mindset is a hindrance in the Gold Digger game. As a gold Digger your motto, mantra, slogan, must always be I BRING NOTHING TO THE TABLE. Proudly. Without shame. Rich men don't have a problem with that. You can even tell that to a rich man straight and he would just laugh and continue dating you. Rich men are looking for someone to SPEND ON. To throw cash at. It nourishes their ego. But the average girl's mindset is the Independent Woman mindset. fail.

And the independent woman mindset is a direct consequence of growing up poor. Never is a woman more unlikely to accept money from men than when she grew up in poverty because she has learned to hustle for herself to survive. Now that mindset needs to go. A woman needs to heal and learn to accept help from men. Rich men don't date hustlers. Poor men do.


THREE:
Poverty mindset. A Girl who grew up poor grows up with a mindset to choose the cheapest of everything and to live economically. Rich men are allergic to such women. Go to a restaurant and choose the cheapest meal at the smallest quantity and you won't be invited on a second date. To you it may seem normal cause you grew up saving to survive. But you must understand that such things are not the rich man's reality. Rich men are used to oppulance and luxury and extras. And you being frugal/economic will tell him he's Dealing with a low quality woman. And he'll drop you.
The poverty mindset is a poison in the game. Imagine a rich man takes you out to eat, because you grew up hungry, you wipe your plate clean eating everything (a big no no) or there are leftovers and you take out a lunch tin and collect the leftovers into your lunch tin!! You won't get the call for a second date.

That's the poverty mindset that has to go.

Women aspiring to be high level gold diggers need to shed that mindset. Learn to choose the most expensive option on the table. A rich man offers to buy you a phone, choose the most expensive. He offers to buy you a dress, choose the most expensive in the shop, and take two. Or three. He can afford it. If he can't he's not rich enough and he's the wrong target in which case you need to drop him ASAP. But there's a specific way of going about this that works his Ego making everything easy for you.

I can go on and on. But let me end here. And go back to that point about BRINGING NOTHING TO THE TABLE:
A woman who aspires to be a gold digger must learn to take without giving. Because men are ATMs. And because by taking without giving she plays a psychological game on men that draws them closer to her because they become INVESTED in her. Like she's a business project or something.

A woman must never give anything to a rich man if he wants that rich man to marry her. This is a major mindfvcks for many girls. They don't see how that works. But they need to trust the Game. It works. Even if they don't understand it.

Also, you don't give a rich man presents or gifts. If you must, use his money. But don't give anything. Maybe a card. And nothing more. Again, it seems cruel. But it's a psychological game. Trust the game. It works.

But a word of caution is in order: The Game is to played on the right target. A man with a lot to lose in society. Not thugs or broke men, Because 1: the gold digger games don't work on broke men. Because broke men's relationship with money is not like the rich man's relationship with money. 2: thugs have nothing to lose and will kill you if you play them. But a board director of a respectable company won't do anything even if he feels he's been played. He has too much to lose. He'll cut his loses and move on.

Let me stop here on Mindsets. But there's more that can fill a book on these concepts. But the most important thing to note is this: A MAN HAS TO LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LIKE HIM FOR ALL THIS TO WORK.

Not every man will think you a Prize worthy to be pampered daily for the rest of your life, just as you don't think every guy is a Prize, but your job is to find that one rich man who'll be so breathtaken with you that he'll move mountains to see you happy and his joy in this life will be providing for you. Once you get such a man (if you're really lucky he'll not be too old or too ugly), then you'll know what Cinderella felt like. Because Cinderella is the original gold digger.

i know what you are trying to do, get favours or support from the women here

but sincerely speaking this is a trash advice especially with the rate of men complaining about high maintenance women who do not work.

your strategy might work for desperate politicians in Nigeria not for rich men or their male children who are making sure to avoid gold diggers

choose the most expensive meal in the restaurant and see you been called a gold digger

choose the most expensive phone and see you been called a gold digger.

Mr Adenuga son Paddy Adenuga once wrote about the type of women that he has encountered and how he was disappointed with the gold diggings of these women.

Nigerian men poor or rich hate gold diggers, if you are a woman from a poor home and you show signs of expensive taste and gold digging know that it is your pussy that will suffer, you will also be dumped after being used and passed around

i can go over and over why this post will do nothing to a woman other than put her in more troubles and ridicules without gaining anything, at the end of the day, she will be used as a sex slave. bad for a woman self esteem..

ubunja:
yep bossman. The Sexual Revolution made pussy cheap as bread lol. Before, the price of pussy was marriage, now just airtime can get you pussy.

One thing I've also observed with how women think, is that they believe they are inherently valuable to men, so therefore, they generally have a hard time understanding that they do not determine how valuable they are. The fact that men values chastity and sexual exclusivity is like a foreign language to them that is hard to grasp. They operate on the idea that showing-up is contribution enough.

Before the sexual revolution, men value women for things like chastity, sexual exclusivity, nurturing abilities and their inherent feminine attributes, but not now, and this women generally can not grasp it. They wanna sleep with 100 men and still want to determine their value to men.

Anty live all this things focus on the realities of life who go like u go like u. Just be urself and be good, and besides u're still a student why the sudden interest on packaging or "oloshiosm dey ur eye" focus on life before u begin jam guys wen dey package too dey change u like cloth.wen u're comfortable all this things go come freely.

pansophist:


One thing I've also observed with how women think, is that they believe they are inherently valuable to men, so therefore, they generally have a hard time understanding that they do not determine how valuable they are. The fact that men values chastity and sexual exclusivity is like a foreign language to them that is hard to grasp. They operate on the idea that showing-up is contribution enough.

Before the sexual revolution, men value women for things like chastity, sexual exclusivity, nurturing abilities and their inherent feminine attributes, but not now, and this women generally can not grasp it. They wanna sleep with 100 men and still want to determine their value to men.

I've already signed off this thread bro.

ubunja:
of course. Sexually attractive but not raunchy as in Scantily Clad.

It will take about a year of intense work on self for an average girl to achieve that rich girl look. Because its a multilayered effort that begins with a Mindset change to drop that poverty mindset. And that Independent Woman thing. Then it goes to language upgrading where she must clean up her language and drop all coarse language and learn to speak in that gentle manner that turns away wrath. Then she has to refine her mannerisms to scrub off all Masculine hand and body movements eg ladies don't do high fives. Then she has to learn to dress like a lady together with finding garments that speak of affluence and money. Then she'll have to drop her circle of friends and move in new circles.

Frankly the average girl can't pull this off because it's too much work.
The same way average dudes can't pull the Red Pill level up because it's too much work. We are used to mediocrity because we are lazy and change is hard work. So we stay in our comfort zone of being average.

But the girl who persists against all odds and achieves that level up will reap handsome rewards. Because that level up is rare rich men will spot it at once. And at some point the girl will be dealing with multiple rich men at the same time. If she has properly learned her game she'll be getting cars, flats, businesses etc. We are not even talking of airtime and phones and laptops. Any girl can get those without leveling up. We're talking life changing assets. Free.

Remember that story of a South African girl who got a horse from her BF. Such crazy stuff.

The tools to achieve that level up are free everywhere from YouTube to Facebook to Instagram. Everywhere. But only a tiny fraction of women have the willpower to change their life that way. Most would rather go study, work some 9-5 job for a mediocre salary and stress like men. And like ugly girls

But if you are young and pretty and you turn heads wherever you go why would you use that prettiness to get a job and spend the day holed up in some office the whole day lmfao. You are wasting the beauty and the freshness.

Pussy is the most valuable thing in the World. Rightly used a woman doesn't have to work one day in her life.

But Feminism and the Sexual Revolution has tricked pretty young women into chasing careers and sex. Now they are like men. Who spend their short lives chasing careers and sex. Alas!!

Sir Ubunja, ... I Hail Thee

There's this very Vital Observation I made and it has been Over-Looked For Several Decades, ... Infact It has been right there in front of us all this Decades,

My Observation;
I Observed accurately; the CHURCH teaches Men How to Become BETTER BETA MALES, ... The Church Teaches and Encourages men on how to Become an Expert In Being a SIMP, ... This is The Truth

In My Church For Example, ... My Pastor once encouraged a man to Marry a lady that already had two kids, that he saw a Vision, .. I was "Blue Pilled" dah time, I didn't know it was absolutely wrong.

Another instance;
During Father's Day, .. In The Church, the men are always Told that the can do Better, the men are almost nearly Condemned despite all the sacrifices that the make for their Family and you'll always hear the women shouting "Amen"

But

During "Mother's Day" ... The Women are always "Celebrated", celebrations everywhere because it's mother's day.



I'll Like to Know your Opinion on this,
"The Church Truely Teaches and Encourages Men To become an Expert in being a "BETA MALE" ... I want you to give me your Opinion Raw Like you always do Sir.


RedPill Indeed is the Best Thing That can Happen To a Wise Man that's not Afraid and Scared to Embrace the Truth.

One Thing People Fail to Realize is that the RedPill Is Not only for women, ... It's for Every Aspect of Life and Once You Apply it, .. believe me, you'll see Unbelievable Truths that were Just there Right Under Your Nose All along.

God Bless The RedPill.

Be yourself if you want .....be yourself

DaddyRochie1642:






Sir Ubunja, ... I Hail Thee

There's this very Vital Observation I made and it has been Over-Looked For Several Decades, ... Infact It has been right there in front of us all this Decades,

My Observation;
I Observed accurately; the CHURCH teaches Men How to Become better BETTER MALES, ... The Church Teaches and Encourages men on how to Become an Expert In Being a SIMP,

In My Church For Example, ... My Pastor once encouraged a man to Marry a lady that already had two kids, that he saw a Vision, .. I was "Blue Pilled" dah time, I didn't know it was absolutely wrong.

Another instance;
During Father's Day, .. In The Church, the men are always Told that the can do Better, the men are almost nearly Condemned despite all the sacrifices that the make for their Family and you'll always hear the women shouting "Amen"

But

During "Mother's Day" ... The Women are always "Celebrated", celebrations everywhere because it's mother's day.



I'll Like to Know your Opinion on this,
"The Church Truely Teaches and Encourages Men To become an Expert in being a "BETA MALE" ... I want you to give me your Opinion Raw Like you always do Sir.


RedPill Indeed is the Best Thing That can Happen To a Wise Man that's not Afraid and Scared to Embrace the Truth.

One Thing People Fail to Realize is that the RedPill Is Not only for women, ... It's for Every Aspect of Life and Once You Apply it, .. believe me, you'll see Unbelievable Truths that were Just there Right Under Your Nose All along.

God Bless The RedPill.

as much as I would love to discuss this, I have already signed off this thread.
How about you post this comment as a new thread and we flog the issue out!

ubunja:
as much as I would love to discuss this, I have already signed off this thread.
How about you post this comment as a new thread and we flog the issue out!

I will Mention You when I do So.

ubunja:
as much as I would love to discuss this, I have already signed off this thread.
How about you post this comment as a new thread and we flog the issue out!

Direct me on how to create a thread on Nairaland

DaddyRochie1642:




Direct me on how to create a thread on Nairaland

Go to Romance Section front page, on top of the topics find that list of pages then infront, you'll see "Create New Topic" . Next to "Mail Mods".