Please advise, go ahead or not?
Can i keep sexual desires in control after castration?

No..seek for help..psychologically,mentally and spiritual.

Okay.

You mean you want to castrated yourself

donbachi:
No..seek for help..psychologically,mentally and spiritual.

No, as in it wont help keep sexual desires in control?

Semperty:
You mean you want to castrated yourself

in the hospital

beardlessdude:
No, as in it wont help keep sexual desires in control?

yes.

beardlessdude:
Please advise, go ahead or not?
Can i keep sexual desires in control after castration?

Lemme advice u, castration won't do it, even psychological and mentally and spiritual help might not go along way to help u. I didn't say u should remain what ure doing but trust me, if the desire will go, it will go.... God can do it only if you're willing to let him do it bro.... But before then don't kill urself with thoughts. You're not the worst person on earth

After taking some classes in psychology of human sexuality, I discovered that that is how you're created, it is a normal biology reaction, only that our culture and various religions considered it as abnormal without knowing the causes nor creating a remedy for it.
I'm very sure that you didn't learn it from somewhere, you just discovered it that people of same sex are sexually attracted to you.
So, you are not at fault for having the urge.

Hello,

Please do not try this, as the side effects may not be nice and you may want to reverse it in future and regret.

You have two options:

1. Don't express the feelings or urges: Just like Monks, Spiritual people or other secular celibates of straight or gay persuasion, you can choose to learn to master and overcome your sexual urges. Everyone needs to learn this to some degree but some people choose to totally overcome or suppress their urges. For you, the first step will be to find a purpose to focus on or commit to, be it school work, spiritual work, fitness and exercise etc. At the beginning you may fail or stumble but you will get better in time. https://www.wikihow.com/Live-a-Life-of-Celibacy is a good place to start.

2. Express them in a healthy environment: You are not the first gay or bisexual person in existence, and you won't be the last. In a society like Nigeria you just need to find the right people who can accommodate you or maybe move countries. It needn't impact your life much and if your moral and spiritual background is not against being gay, you may want to explore this. Once you start exploring you will find tons of advice and literature on the internet and may meet people who have gone through the same conflicts as you have. Please look out for those who want to set you up or take advantage of you, especially in Nigeria.

The path you will follow depends on a number of things, your spirituality: if your adherence to religion and your beliefs are against homosexuality, please don't push it for the time being and follow option 1, as you grow older, you will know what to do; if it doesn't you may consider slowly exploring option 2.

your risk tolerance: Nigeria is a very dangerous place to be gay (funny since this is a country where rape, corruption, fornication and adultery are common), so if your risk tolerance is very low, you can stick with option 1, but if your risk tolerance grows, option 2 may be explored slowly and carefully.

No matter your choice, it is important to not base your view on yourself and self worth solely on your sexuality: You aren't bad or good simply because you are gay or straight; try to have a life outside sex and lust (this may mean scaling back on porn and masturbation). You also need activities that give you , joy, purpose and fulfillment such as work and a hobby.

You also need to work with therapists and professional counselors, I'd advice you seek out therapists that are aligned with social work NGOs, mental health NGOs and LGBT friendly NGOs.

I'd also advice you pick up fitness and maybe mindfulness to help you master yourself and your urges, whether you choose to be celibate or not.

In everything please be careful, know that you have a lot to offer the world and your urges aren't a path to evil of themselves but a part of your life.

I hope this helped.

iClef:
Okay.

I knew something was wrong somewhere.... Legend that's you.

RedEagle:
Hello,

Please do not try this, as the side effects may not be nice and you may want to reverse it in future and regret.

You have two options:

1. Don't express the feelings or urges: Just like Monks, Spiritual people or other secular celibates of straight or gay persuasion, you can choose to learn to master and overcome your sexual urges. Everyone needs to learn this to some degree but some people choose to totally overcome or suppress their urges. For you, the first step will be to find a purpose to focus on or commit to, be it school work, spiritual work, fitness and exercise etc. At the beginning you may fail or stumble but you will get better in time. https://www.wikihow.com/Live-a-Life-of-Celibacy is a good place to start.

2. Express them in a healthy environment: You are not the first gay or bisexual person in existence, and you won't be the last. In a society like Nigeria you just need to find the right people who can accommodate you or maybe move countries. It needn't impact your life much and if your moral and spiritual background is not against being gay, you may want to explore this. Once you start exploring you will find tons of advice and literature on the internet and may meet people who have gone through the same conflicts as you have. Please look out for those who want to set you up or take advantage of you, especially in Nigeria.

The path you will follow depends on a number of things, your spirituality: if your adherence to religion and your beliefs are against homosexuality, please don't push it for the time being and follow option 1, as you grow older, you will know what to do; if it doesn't you may consider slowly exploring option 2.

your risk tolerance: Nigeria is a very dangerous place to be gay (funny since this is a country where rape, corruption, fornication and adultery are common), so if your risk tolerance is very low, you can stick with option 1, but if your risk tolerance grows, option 2 may be explored slowly and carefully.

No matter your choice, it is important to not base your view on yourself and self worth solely on your sexuality: You aren't bad or good simply because you are gay or straight; try to have a life outside sex and lust (this may mean scaling back on porn and masturbation). You also need activities that give you , joy, purpose and fulfillment such as work and a hobby.

You also need to work with therapists and professional counselors, I'd advice you seek out therapists that are aligned with social work NGOs, mental health NGOs and LGBT friendly NGOs.

I'd also advice you pick up fitness and maybe mindfulness to help you master yourself and your urges, whether you choose to be celibate or not.

In everything please be careful, know that you have a lot to offer the world and your urges aren't a path to evil of themselves but a part of your life.

I hope this helped.

Very catchy...are you a psychologist?

bluefilm:
I have a better idea.

You should consider SNIPER.

Nonsense.

Ure very stupid for telling him that....!!! Fagg?t.!!

Lipslikecandy11:



Ure very stupid for telling him that....!!! Fagg?t.!!

GAYbriel.

I sight you.

You can snip the spiner too.

You guys are already useless as far as this world is concerned.

bluefilm:


GAYbriel.

I sight you.

You can snip the spiner too.

You guys are already useless as far as this world is concerned.

honestly i would love to be dead, not by sniper but under a super thick man. HOW DOES THAT FEEL TO THINK OF?

beardlessdude:
honestly i would love to be dead, not by sniper but under a super thick man. HOW DOES THAT FEEL TO THINK OF?

Fvck it man! I'm highly homophobic and castration, drinking sniper,etc won't fix your problem. I was thinking maybe you become a monk.

But before you become a monk, try to reconsider having sex with lady with big soft booty and breast, man. I don't get it..God create this soft succulent female boobs to be sucked by men. Why would you like to touch your fellow man??

Since when did you notice you gay?

beardlessdude:
honestly i would love to be dead, not by sniper but under a super thick man. HOW DOES THAT FEEL TO THINK OF?

Damnnnn nigarrrrr

You so _fucked up, man.

I pray you get what you want.

Rasmega:

Fvck it man! I'm highly homophobic and castration, drinking sniper,etc won't fix your problem. I was thinking maybe you become a monk.

But before you become a monk, try to reconsider having sex with lady with big soft booty and breast, man. I don't get it..God create this soft succulent female boobs to be sucked by men. Why would you like to touch your fellow man??

Since when did you notice you gay?

Notjust touching, I also like looking undressing in my head and disturbing them with eye contacts. I m just so fûcked up mahnn. Dont get me wrong i dont like being like this, but I cannot do anything. I swear. Suicide is not even an option maybe one day HIV would destroy me

beardlessdude:
Notjust touching, I also like looking undressing in my head and disturbing them with eye contacts. I m just so fûcked up mahnn

You should see a psychologist. I believe you don't like it and your feeling is fvcking you up. I will recommend that you should be locked in a cell with beautiful women with nice titties and firm soft ass. In two month time, you should be okay.

Not much of a church goer but I think you should talk to a priest, experienced man of God. Seek some counseling.

Why castration? Why not suicide?

beardlessdude:
Please advise, go ahead or not?
Can i keep sexual desires in control after castration?

This f*cking unrepentant homophobe. I still remember you from 2/3 years ago and how you promised to go hunt down and lynch all the gays when you are ready. How your kito business, didn't you cash out?

As to ur topic, whether you are gay or not, you should go ahead with the castration. Oti ya werey.

P:s, go back and edit most of your previous comments, you lie alot

RichieMichie:

This f*cking unrepentant homophobe. I still remember you from 2/3 years ago and how you promised to go hunt down and lynch all the gays when you are ready. How your kito business, didn't you cash out?

As to ur topic, whether you are gay or not, you should go ahead with the castration. Oti ya werey.

P:s, go back and edit most of your previous comments, you lie alot

shut up bitch!!

bluefilm:
I have a better idea.

You should consider SNIPER.

Nonsense.

Stop this wrong advice...

Advice the OP correctly.

Watch the female anatomy


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bluefilm:


GAYbriel.

I sight you.

You can snip the spiner too.

You guys are already useless as far as this world is concerned.

See mumu....
Frustrated cow...!!! U wey dem for use as experiment for corona virus...

beardlessdude:
shut up bitch!!

Afa, did you still go ahead with the castration?
Foolish boy.

You don't need anything of such.

Desires are of the mind. Work on your mind, train it not to give in to perverse sexual thoughts, avoid homosexual friends, and hang out more with people with good moral standard, confide in people who you can trust and can come to your aid any moment conji wan make you commit and best of all seek God. He fixes messed up minds if they allow Him to as the give him time.

God help you.

Brunicekid:
Stop this wrong advice...

Advice the OP correctly.

It has been proven scientifically that homophobes are either gays themselves, or are into stuff worst than homosexuality so they lash out their dark opinions to cover up their own mess or at least to feel good about themselves.

RichieMichie:

This f*cking unrepentant homophobe. I still remember you from 2/3 years ago and how you promised to go hunt down and lynch all the gays when you are ready. How your kito business, didn't you cash out?

As to ur topic, whether you are gay or not, you should go ahead with the castration. Oti ya werey.

P:s, go back and edit most of your previous comments, you lie alot

sorry dont judge me by my past here.
I was young and with no morals. I'm different now see my signature.

RichieMichie:

Afa, did you still go ahead with the castration?
Foolish boy.

I'm sorry

beardlessdude:
sorry dont judge me by my past here.
I was young and with no morals. I'm different now see my signature.

Hmmm. Why am I having a cynical thought

Good for you if you've truly found light. May the rainbow gods be praised.