Its well now

But he didn’t rape your girl. Your girl opened legs for him willingly and she will still be doing that to retain the favour.
You have no issue with the man. Your girl is a hoe and a hoe will always be hoe. Even though she repent and start evangelism, she will still be hoeing religiously.
Take the offer, establish yourself, get yourself a virgin girl and marry.

Forget the love birds and move on with your life...

They owe you nothing and vice versa...

He who wants equity must come with clean hands.

You see why Nigerian guys are soo stupid instead of you to use this opportunity to and secure your future you're here ranting unnecessary rant......Convince your girlfriend that you're ready for the trip let her talk to him and when you get there think of any reasonable thing to do with your life and learn to respect your girlfriend once you get there because if you Bleep up same way she made you is the same way she is going to bring you down.....Better don't bring up this accusations later in the future your girlfriend should be the one doing so and if you go beyond ger way she might break up with you and the man would have you lucked up cause she can't seems to lose her source of livelihood.....I'll do same if I'm in her shoes

pls can someone help me surmised the epistle...

Davash222:
But he didn’t rape your girl. Your girl opened legs for him willingly and she will still be doing that to retain the favour.
You have no issue with the man. Your girl is a hoe and a hoe will always be hoe. Even though she repent and start evangelism, she will still be hoeing religiously.
Take the offer, establish yourself, get yourself a virgin girl and marry.

Gonna b blunt with you, she told me he forced himself on her but that was d one that happened after we met.

That morning as we normally chat, I asked her "how was your night"

She replied "not fine"

Then I asked her why

Then she said "he did it again..." And then stated to me how he forced her. And even gave her a contraceptive like that (I have forgotten the name).
That week she fell ill and her stomach hurt her badly, I had to get off taking the heat of getting her medication. It wasn't funny. With such, what would u say

kiako:


Gonna b blunt with you, she told me he forced himself on her but that was d one that happened after we met.

That morning as we normally chat, I asked her "how was your night"

She replied "not fine"

Then I asked her why

Then she said "he did it again..." And then stated to me how he forced her. And even gave her a contraceptive like that (I have forgotten the name).
That week she fell ill and her stomach hurt her badly, I had to get off taking the heat of getting her medication. It wasn't funny. With such, what would u say

He forced her?? And you believed her?? Smh
Guy, that girl is using your head. She’s enjoying every moment with that man. Allow them!

Millenniumlady:
You see why Nigerian guys are soo stupid instead of you to use this opportunity to and secure your future you're here ranting unnecessary rant......Convince your girlfriend that you're ready for the trip let her talk to him and when you get there think of any reasonable thing you can do with your life and learn to respect your girlfriend once you get there because if you Bleep up same way she made you is the same way she is going to bring you down.....Better don't bring up this accusations later in the future your girlfriend should be the one doing so and if you go beyond ger way she might break up with you and the man would have you lucked up cause she can't seems to lose her source of livelihood.....I'll do same if I'm in her shoes

You’re not making sense, step aside please.

Davash222:

You’re not making sense, step aside please.

Never You in your life quote me again.

Davash222:

He forced her?? And you believed her?? Smh
Guy, that girl is using your head. She’s enjoying every moment with that man. Allow them!

no p ..... Thanks

Millenniumlady:
Never You in your life quote me again.

Shut up!

Davash222:

Shut up!

See how miserable you're

Millenniumlady:
See how miserable you're

Is that all

First and foremost, forget the 'REVENGE' in have in your mind and you'll be able to think clearly. She is your girlfriend and not your wife yet so how has the man offended you?
She might even end up not marrying you as things may change along the line... Please, you have to think straight and not fight a war you know you can not win for now as your future is more important.
Therefore, either leave the girl and trust God to help u in life or stay with her and accept the 'fake' benevolence she suggested

dawnomike:
First and foremost, forget the 'REVENGE' in have in your mind and you'll be able to think clearly. She is your girlfriend and not your wife yet so how has the man offended you?
She might even end up not marrying you as things may change along the line... Please, you have to think straight and not fight a war you know you can not win for now as your future is more important.
Therefore, either leave the girl and trust God to help u in life or stay with her and accept the 'fake' benevolence she suggested

Thanks bro. . . She really wouldn't let me go. I've tried her tho, to see she has got this desire to stay with me forever, I know wat I'm saying.

That's y this thing hurt. However I kinda think going to the abroad and then maybe try to path ways in anyway that may come up possible...

Not that again I don't love her but the ratio of hers to mine is like 70% to 30% .... And as such, that's the reason I also want to settle with her, not the physical property like beauty cos she is average in terms of that; but the love she's got for me being more than I love her. I'm good looking, I know I can get any girl I want based on that but based on experience believe me shes loved me more than any girl I've met before.... I know such really would help in marriage ...

But after all said and done, broda, I juss confuse

Secure the bag, accept d help anything is possible, forget bthe revenge ad love

SadiqBabaSani:
Secure the bag, accept d help anything is possible, forget bthe revenge ad love

thanks bro .....

FATOYINBO again?

Free your mind. Nobody holy.

@Op, i don't think that you're in the right position to call out the man or do anything to him considering that you're not your gf. You're not the index case.

Also, i wish to understand very well that the said man also resides in the abroad with your gf when she said "he did it again". Clear us on this pls.

You're just being helped by your gf and don't take the man for granted that he won't take you out before you do same to him cause for a man of his calibre to be in this shit for sometime now means he's a Street.


For your sanity as a broke ass dude, face your hustle and leave that girl for the man. Go make money and others shall follow.

Shame no dey catch you say pastor dey bleep your gf on rape basis yet sponsoring d girl's boyfriend to Abroad.


No go put ya generation in trouble.

Quote me anywhere

You are bothered about a girl that willing opened her legs for a man for Favours. There is no man that can rape a Full Bodied girl except na muscular man or if the girl is a minor.

An advice for you, no too discuss the matter too much with her again. Try and be shifting the matter to how you can get more help financially. I bet you don’t have a business yet. I bet you have not even travelled to contonu before talkless Of Europe. Work on your financial status. I have been in your shoes and I see you like this babe.

You know what? Just do what ever suits you. I hate pussi men with perfect hatred

Learn how to use your enemies to get what you need.

Your grammatical construction is so bad,it could transmit Corona
You are worried about your gf pusse that has been banged and over banged severally by several men before you met her. Instead of you to make use of an opportunity to travel abroad and change your miserable life. Mu mu boyfriend

Ode,

Travel abroad n fashy them both. Love has blinded your
Eyes to see a simple opportunity to run from this shithole.

You be graduate so? Oponu! If you mess up the man can kill you and you know in Nigeria, nothing ll happen!

Use them to travel n look for another girl later. Secure your own life.

If u wan ur revenge Naw..mention d pastor name and d church..otherwise u re a coward seeking for cheap attention

iamezekwesiri:
@Op, i don't think that you're in the right position to call out the man or do anything to him considering that you're not your gf. You're not the index case.

Also, i wish to understand very well that the said man also resides in the abroad with your gf when she said "he did it again". Clear us on this pls.

You're just being helped by your gf and don't take the man for granted that he won't take you out before you do same to him cause for a man of his calibre to be in this shit for sometime now means he's a Street.


For your sanity as a broke ass dude, face your hustle and leave that girl for the man. Go make money and others shall follow.

Shame no dey catch you say pastor dey bleep your gf on rape basis yet sponsoring d girl's boyfriend to Abroad.


No go put ya generation in trouble.

Quote me anywhere

No the man based here. She came on hols over here before I met her ...

All said, I got what you said except the "put generation for trouble part"

What if I forget everything and hustle on my own, and end up with the girl still means I'm putting "generatn" in trouble ?? Or wat do u mean

berniceunice:
Learn how to use your enemies to get what you need.

thanks bro

These things are very clear... She is still communicating with the man How old is she self If the man forced her to do it, that was then, then she ought to have moved away from him since you guys are dating. Well, there is something hidden that the lady is hidden from you. Forget her, she is still enjoying the goodies from the man which you can't offer her, enu lady yen ti fe!

kiako:


Gonna b blunt with you, she told me he forced himself on her but that was d one that happened after we met.

That morning as we normally chat, I asked her "how was your night"

She replied "not fine"

Then I asked her why

Then she said "he did it again..." And then stated to me how he forced her. And even gave her a contraceptive like that (I have forgotten the name).
That week she fell ill and her stomach hurt her badly, I had to get off taking the heat of getting her medication. It wasn't funny. With such, what would u say

You are naive, you don't know women. He forced her indeed. I feel all parties in this story don't have sense. It's either you stick to your LovePeddler of a girlfriend and accept the offer or you break off and stay away from all the drama.
I know a girl who once claimed her uncle raped her, yet she refused to leave his house even when she had options because the house was comfortable, the man was rich and gives her money.

In this matter, it seems you
are the only one complaining.

The girl, enjoying sponsorship
is not complaining..

The 'man of God, is not complaining
& is even set to assist your sorry
broke arse.

You are the odd fella..

kiako:


Gonna b blunt with you, she told me he forced himself on her but that was d one that happened after we met.

That morning as we normally chat, I asked her "how was your night"

She replied "not fine"

Then I asked her why

Then she said "he did it again..." And then stated to me how he forced her. And even gave her a contraceptive like that (I have forgotten the name).
That week she fell ill and her stomach hurt her badly, I had to get off taking the heat of getting her medication. It wasn't funny. With such, what would u say

that girl does not love you any 70-30%, she just thinks she's smarter than you are, so she's messing with your head

here's how you play it: string her along and get the trip to europe if you can, if you cannot get the europe trip, dump her immediately! while in europe, establish yourself properly then see if you can get her away from the crook-pastor for good, as in, separate country things where they never meet again. if you can do that you can still marry her as payback for her assistance.

if you cannot physically separate them, still dump her! because everytime they meet they will have sex, and the probability of the crook-pastor being the biological father of your kids would be very very high also if you eventually marry that girl, do dna test on all your kids, because you'd have got married to a hoe (not a big deal in itself, but no one wants to raise another man's seed as his own)