Omar09:
Those who had children out of wedlock should not talk but bow their heads in shame.

But hell! Today's men wanna give them crown!

crackkhaus:
A nicompoop like you crackkhaus with the intellectual density of a dead mahogany, must as a matter of urgency, never quote me again.

If you care so much, please send her a PM, get off NL and take up her issue since it hurts you enough to cause nerological spasms crackkhaus.

merahki:
I agree with your whole post
Then the bolded- Hehehehehehe, the gender warriors (many men and a woman on the side of the “masculinists” ) are spinning a new narrative. They wish the woman was lamenting her sudden lack of a husband (good riddance by the way) instead of being sad her daughter was taken away.

Meanwhile that selfish petty man will soon get another prey (two years at most- many vulnerable, single women in this corona uncertain period)...he will marry her and discard his pawn (daughter).

Afromentalist:
baba you have no case.

They made a deal, but did the deal mention that the boy is a thief ? when there is a change in circumstances, there should be renegotiations. The boy is a thief, and there could be little hope that he changes.

Has the husband refused to take the daughter too? the fact that he took the daugther which is not his signifies that he nas no issue with taking her children, but his particular issue is with the boy. Moreoever, she openly and unapologetically claims that the husband will never have priority over the son. Then the game is over. Noboy wants to marry a daughter of jezebel who only think about her own interest and cant respect the husband.

That lady is unfit to be called a wife. She is arrogant and stubborn, maybe because she has some money.

She shoud now get married to her money.

Afromentalist:

Nothing bad has happened really

now you are praying naked

He who laughs last, laugh best.

Should I join in praying naked ? We may have an intense praying session

CeterisXVII:


Do what...without which dirty approval? Something they have been talking about for 3 years? Ok, while she was still waiting for the man's so called approval, so where should she have left her son? On the streets?

obakovich:

I guess you are happy now. God will never punish him my dear, he will live long and take care of your girl. I told you to talk to him gently its a delicate matter but you followed a wrong advice. You could have sent your son to stay with your husbands relative.

CAPSLOCKED:

WHAT WON'T THIS FORUM TEACH US? IT'S ALL CLEAR TO ME NOW AND I'M READY TO GET CORONAVIRUS INSTEAD OF A SINGLE MOM.
ALL SINGLE MOM TOPICS ON THE FORUM, TWITTER, REDDIT, FACEBOOK ALL GO TOWARDS A DIRECTION. IT'S LIKE IT'S A VERY TERRIBLE BUSINESS THAT MUST BE SPEEDILY AVOIDED.

CeterisXVII:


Do what...without which dirty approval? Something they have been talking about for 3 years? Ok, while she was still waiting for the man's so called approval, so where should she have left her son? On the streets?

CeterisXVII:


If the myopic oaf she called a husband had NOT taken away their daughter, who is still a toddler, she would not have resorted to prayers.

If he brings that child back today, he knows his game will be over. He is just using her child as a pawn. Why didn't he wait, and take the unborn child too? Asíwín man...

CAPSLOCKED:

WHAT WON'T THIS FORUM TEACH US? IT'S ALL CLEAR TO ME NOW AND I'M READY TO GET CORONAVIRUS INSTEAD OF A SINGLE MOM.
ALL SINGLE MOM TOPICS ON THE FORUM, TWITTER, REDDIT, FACEBOOK ALL GO TOWARDS A DIRECTION. IT'S LIKE IT'S A VERY TERRIBLE BUSINESS THAT MUST BE SPEEDILY AVOIDED.

Afromentalist:

I never said the guy is right not to accept the boy. It is her behavior and character that is highly questionable here. The idea that because she paid the rent of january, the husband has no say in the house. If she applies that logic in bringing the boy succesfully, she will apply it in other things.

I agree with you, as a man I would not have married in the first place. but if by some mistake of life I happen to marry her, I would allow the boy to come.

Afrosage:
hahahahaha.....Op come and see oooo, all these people bashing you...this is exactly what they want your son to type in the nearest future, and they will also be part of the 500 and something people that liked the comment......

Graxie:
Madam, this is not the time to pray, put out your daughter pictures on net as a missing child, report to police and all necessary institution. He can not steal a child that is not his.

Afromentalist:

I get your point, you have sense, but look at things differently.

First you have not heard the man's side. Women always play victims, whereas they are main culprits.

Second, this is a woman whose first husband left, and second just left. Now this is no coincidence. It tells a lot about her and her character. She appears to be the type that because she contribues financially, nobody can talk to her.

Third, the guy may be afraid about the boy for wrong reason. I am not saying he is right not to take the boy. But a true wife would not respond like that. If that is what you people call wife, it is better not to get married.

Last, both of them will be fine. She is the one that came here to complain and acted as if the man's life depended on her entirely. Now he has left and she is praying naked.

Afrosage:
hahahahaha.....Op come and see oooo, all these people bashing you...this is exactly what they want your son to type in the nearest future, and they will also be part of the 500 and something people that liked the comment......

PerfectMaster:
I like the fact that she didn't abandon the boy, she is a hero for that [s]but she should have done it in the proper way[/s].

crackkhaus:
Oyindidi, where is that your bucket you've been displaying all over the thread?

Come donate tears for your independent wife.

Omar09:
She was suggested to put the boy in a boarding school pending the time the reach an agreement. Even the boy would have started visiting during the holidays and then boom, he stays over. But no she choose to play the boss. And how much are you being paid defending her?

ableguy:
And who said he shouldn't bring her boy back? Imaging, you have been here arguing aimlessly. You think it's men and women fight abi?
SMH

MrBrownJay1:
bring a thieving child to your own household?! any sane man would take the same approach...

asksteve:
Plenty support for and against OPs' action and the subsequent reaction from the husband but still only very few care to notice that a once happy home has been torn apart.

OP has not even shown any remorse or thought of her broken marriage..

Your words and actions show u never actually needed a husband, u just want to have children. Which is y ur daughter is ur only priority not ur broken marriage.

OP b4 I say anything else I'd like to know, do u still want your marriage/husband back?

ableguy:

It's rather for you

crackkhaus:

When she's being cheered on by people who have only known broken things (families, relationships, & friendships) in their lives, what do you expect?

A broken home is job well-done as far as wise people are concerned.

As if there's anything to be proud of being a mother to children from two different men, and now well on the way to making it three men if she doesn't find a way to mend her family.

What a shame...