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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 6:31pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Omar09: 2 Likes
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 6:34pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
crackkhaus: 3 Likes
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 6:37pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
merahki: Don't mind the cretins. This man was NOT blind, deaf or retar'ded when he decided to marry a single mother with two kids. Now, he is forming Voltron, and dragging space with a small boy young enough to be his son. The next woman he marries will show him pepper....such inconsiderate, narcissistic men often get their comeuppance in the most nasty ways.... 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 6:43pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Afromentalist: A thief of what, please? He stole food, because the wife of his uncle starved him. Was he a thief before that, when he was living with his mum, and getting 3 square meals per day? NO!! He was maltreated where he stayed, and was not given proper training. So you believe that with the right home training, he cannot change or what? ![]() So because someone labelled him a thief, his mother should abandon him on the expressway, to become a criminal or a cultist or something worse, instead of bringing him home and correcting his behaviour? ![]() Oga, you have no case....please keep quiet next time, when people are talking logically. 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 6:49pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Afromentalist: If the myopic oaf she called a husband had NOT taken away their daughter, who is still a toddler, she would not have resorted to prayers. If he brings that child back today, he knows his game will be over. He is just using her child as a pawn. Why didn't he wait, and take the unborn child too? Asíwín man... 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Omar09(m): 7:07pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
CeterisXVII: She was suggested to put the boy in a boarding school pending the time the reach an agreement. Even the boy would have started visiting during the holidays and then boom, he stays over. But no she choose to play the boss. And how much are you being paid defending her? 7 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by dominique(f): 7:30pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
obakovich: That's a dumb idea. Would you willingly take in a child you don't know because you you share DNA with his irresponsible dad? How would you have felt if you were dumped with relatives you don't know because your mother wants to keep her marriage? We never put ourselves in people's positions before dishing out advice 12 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by emmaodet: 7:41pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Ishilove: 7:42pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:His house 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Afrosage(f): 7:56pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
hahahahaha.....Op come and see oooo, all these people bashing you...this is exactly what they want your son to type in the nearest future, and they will also be part of the 500 and something people that liked the comment...... 11 Likes
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Afrosage(f): 8:00pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
CeterisXVII:You are fucking smart...100% 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Omar09(m): 8:00pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: I think you have picked crackhouse instead of Capslocked as a moniker. ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by veykey: 8:12pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Afromentalist:Thanks for being matured about it. Wedding is for a day, marriage is forever. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 8:15pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Afrosage: I saw that comment and the amount of likes it got but here we are observing a similar situation yet these same people who probably liked that post are calling an 11year old boy a thief. This goes to show that most people won't really care about you or what you're passing through until they find themselves in the same position. Or put more simply, "most people are shameless rabid hypocrites" 10 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by dominique(f): 8:39pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Graxie: The child is his and he has every right to her as the mum just that the manner he took her away was wrong. I'm almost certain that he took the child to punish the mother. He probably won't take care of her, he would just dump her with relatives where she will be most likely physical and sexually abused and he won't care as long as he's punishing the mum. The mum should go to human rights office in her LGA and Lodge a complaint. All these midnight prayers won't solve anything. She should take legal steps to gain full or joint custody of her daughter. We can call the man many names but the child is his and a judge can allow him to have full custody of her if he sees the mother is overwhelmed with other kids. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by dominique(f): 9:03pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Afromentalist: @bolded Don't say that, some people are just unlucky when it comes to marriage. I have a cousin aunt who is currently in her 3rd marriage as a 2nd wife. She is one of the most quiet people I've ever met, you can never hear her voice in a gathering of people, she's always easy going and quiet to a fault- the types you men like to trample upon. Yet she suffered all manners of abuse imaginable with her first and 2nd husbands. Then there's her younger sister that is very sharp tongued and sometimes rude, got married to a well-to-do man who adored her. Sometimes losing one's marriage is not because they had bad characters, they were just victims of ill luck and poor judgement such as the OP's case. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by dominique(f): 9:31pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Afrosage: Don't mind them. If the boy grows up and comes to Nairaland to post about his evil mother that abandoned him with relatives to suffer because of a man, they will pounce on the post with their fear women rants. Bunch of confused oafs. My own joy is that a 12-year-old has been rescued from a life of certain doom and is reunited with his only available parent. Anybody upset with that should locate the nearest well and dive into it. it's only a matter of time before she gets her daughter back if she takes the right steps rather than praying naked at night 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 9:43pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
I think the man should have allowed the boy in but seriously caution the woman against taking a decision without him. If for anything, it should be because the boy needed help. The man chosed to marry a single mum and he should not separate her from her kids.. Same way I will condemn any woman who marries a single dad but wants to separate the dad from his kids. The woman on the other hand made a foolish statement that her kids are more important than her marriage, I know she said it out of frustration but still she should have gotten hold of herself. What she should do now is that, she should call the man and apologize to him and beg him, she should delete that mentality of 70% or whatever. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 9:46pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
I like the fact that she didn't abandon the boy, she is a hero for that but she should have done it in the proper way. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Nobody: 10:22pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
PerfectMaster: Thank you for the bolded For the struck out part? Well, you don’t tell someone how to hurt and lash out. Cheers all the same, for having a good heart, human and not “-ist “ 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 11:42pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
Allow him to take a long walk in hell. You have 2 kids and the one you're expecting. Girl you are the strongest woman on earth, give me a tight hug.. |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by Oyindidi(f): 11:43pm On Mar 27, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 12:38am On Mar 28, 2020 |
Omar09:Nobody knows if the school the boy currently attends, has boarding facilities. If it does not, then it means she has to find another school for him. You cannot suddenly transfer kids from one school to another, in the middle of a term. This is because school authorities know, that it is difficult for kids to catch up on all the work, that would have been done, before they came in. There is a process, and it takes a while if it is a govt school. Even in a private school, the parent would be told to go and come back, at the beginning of a new term, or at the start of a new session. Secondly, there is no proof that even if the boy goes to boarding house and comes back during holidays, the husband would still accept him. They have moved to a bigger apartment for over 3 years, and all that time he never made any attempt to encourage the wife to bring the boy into their home. When the child was told to leave the uncle's house, and she started pleading earnestly with the man to allow him to stay with them, he refused. So what is the guarantee that he would have agreed later, when he refused to broach the subject for 3 good years? What about the initial agreement they had? Why didnt he just he tell the woman from day one before they got married, that he COULDN'T accept her kids? Would she have married him? No! So he played a game with her. He probably felt the small girl she had earlier, would be easier to manipulate or be relegated to the background. That was why he allowed the girl in. I am not being paid a dime to defend anybody. I just will not see black, and call it white. I hate it when people take advantage of the weakness of others, to maltreat and manipulate them, in the way the woman's husband is now doing.... 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 12:44am On Mar 28, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:42am On Mar 28, 2020 |
bring a thieving child to your own household?! any sane man would take the same approach... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 9:49am On Mar 28, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1:You obviously did NOT read the story from the beginning up till this point, or else you would not have made such a comment. The boy stole food, because he was hungry and the uncle's wife kept maltreating him, by starving him of meals. When he was living with his mum in the past, he was NOT a thief! So the mother now wants to bring him back to live with her, and correct his behaviour, and people like you cannot see anything good in her actions? ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by asksteve(m): 10:13am On Mar 28, 2020 |
Plenty support for and against OPs' action and the subsequent reaction from the husband but still only very few care to notice that a once happy home has been torn apart. OP has not even shown any remorse or thought of her broken marriage.. Your words and actions show u never actually needed a husband, u just want to have children. Which is y ur daughter is ur only priority not ur broken marriage. OP b4 I say anything else I'd like to know, do u still want your marriage/husband back? 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by ableguy(m): 10:43am On Mar 28, 2020 |
[quote author=CeterisXVII post=87834318][/quote] It's rather for you |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 10:44am On Mar 28, 2020 |
asksteve:When she's being cheered on by people who have only known broken things (families, relationships, & friendships) in their lives, what do you expect? A broken home is job well-done as far as wise people are concerned. As if there's anything to be proud of being a mother to children from two different men, and now well on the way to making it three men if she doesn't find a way to mend her family. What a shame... 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 11:00am On Mar 28, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by CeterisXVII: 11:04am On Mar 28, 2020 |
crackkhaus:Spoken like a true nincompoop. ![]() So abandoning her child on the streets because of her husband, is a far better thing for her to do in your eyes, .... instead of bringing her son home, and correcting his behaviour, so that he doesn't end up as a criminal, or a cultist, or a yahoo boy, tomorrow? Not so? Wonders will never end! ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: My Husband Doesn’t Want My Son To Come And Stay With Us by crackkhaus: 11:12am On Mar 28, 2020 |
Someone ought to tell this rat-fvck to quit jerking off and spilling foul smelling cvm all over the thread. For someone who is so bothered, I wonder why it hasn't contacted the OP to offer private mentoring. How can one person have at least 15 out of the 30comments on the last two pages and still think it isn't in serious pains? 8 Likes |
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