PerfectMaster:
Nothing but the truth. Women hardly date down.
That is why feminists are very stupid, men and women are never equal. You can not put a Man in a woman's place neither can you put a woman in a man's place, its simple biology.

sadly they only understand women are not equal to women when the odds are against them... its like a swtich.. they flip it on only when its convenient

Kennedyiheme02:
sadly they only understand women are not equal to women when the odds are against them... its like a swtich.. they flip it on only when its convenient

yea dishonesty and deception is their trade

Learn from linda ikeji... some of you don't realise she's a perfect example... to build an empire like she did wouldnt take 2 years... i started working online and it took me 7 years to make a standard income... unless you're doing fraud where you make money very quick... take amazon for example bezos started in 1994..

It took him 17 years to get that company were it is today

He is a man, he can get a woman pregnant at 56.. even at 80... so while you women decieve yourself with "i dont need a man, let me get rich" time goes... nature is against you.. linda believed she had all this time... she's rich yes but ask her which gives her joy.. to drive her husbands car or the car ahe bought with her money.

Dont live your life like a man... it won't end well

Shugavee:
They keep calling me liar but am I tho ? R u happy with the desperate thought of needing a man ? If u are happy, then yes I am a liar

I tried so hard from page one not to quote you but you kept talking nonsense. She's not happy she doesn't have a man in her life, why can't you tell her how to get one if you can? You don't need a man, fine, but she does!

Personally, I also need a girl in my life and I'm not happy I don't have one. And I will keep on talking to any girl I see and feel is good enough for me till I get one.

I very much understand everything this lady is passing through. If you can't help her, just stfu. One last thing..... You talk too much, not good for a potential mum.

Don't quote me

lefulefu:
a lot of ladies keep saying this.there were two ladies on facebook begging me to hook them with a white guy in my school cos all that naija guys are asking for is sex sex .i was asking them since when did i become a love-vendor

You should have informed those ladies white guys are experts in fuccking women & throwing their saggy nyanshes out the door than Nigerian men.
I don't blame Nigerian men for their actions though.Nigerian women don't want to be traditional women anymore so why should Nigerian men?Fucck & go is the way forward

Kennedyiheme02:
Learn from linda ikeji... some of you don't realise she's a perfect example... to build an empire like she did wouldnt take 2 years... i started working online and it took me 7 years to make a standard income... unless you're doing fraud where you make money very quick... take amazon for example bezos started in 1994..

It took him 17 years to get that company were it is today

He is a man, he can get a woman pregnant at 56.. even at 80... so while you women decieve yourself with "i dont need a man, let me get rich" time goes... nature is against you.. linda believed she had all this time... she's rich yes but ask her which gives her joy.. to drive her husbands car or the car ahe bought with her money.

Dont live your life like a man... it won't end well

Stop advising women.You are a man.They won't listen to you.They only listen to advise from other women.
The OP has hit the dreaded Wall but she doesn't know & it has left her confused

Kennedyiheme02:
linda did more than her when she was young... linda plastered our faces with i dont need a man rant

when you tel dem dey no go hear. Busi body gals.

Sexytincoll:
A purpose driven man who's not lustful,but 99.99percent have become Bleep boys

How old are you

femi4:
A woman is always at the receiving end. Its just the normal for them to reduce their expectations.

The fvck boys won't give you stability, that man you think should up his game will eventually find his match that will appreciate even the little he's bringing to the table

He found someone who finds him interesting, appreciates his quality and not because she lowered her standards. She loved his personality. Standards in most cases are not necessarily monetary intervention.

No one says that Bleep boys gives stability. No, they don't and no lady is encouraged to date one. I gave instance with them because you made reference with fuckboys coming after a girl who has defined and maintain her standard.


Pls can you stop this campaign of women being at the receiving end? We are human with desire, choice and needs.

BetWinners:

Stop advising women.You are a man.They won't listen to you.They only listen to advise from other women.
The OP has hit the dreaded Wall but she doesn't know & it has left her confused

and thats the problem, no serious woman should be taking advice from women they gave birth to in the 80s or 90s... lol take advice from women that was born in 60s 70s.. when internet no dey... if you notice marriagss from that generation have lesser divorce rate

24kmagic:

How old are you

old enough

its not as bad as you think....stay positive,i know times like this is tough for single ladies,just know you are not alone in this situation.
pray and hope.

Liliantalks:
If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

Sexytincoll:
Dont even bother yourself looking forward to a relationship else you keep getting what you don't deserve from Bleep boys.I can't even remember the last time i was in a relationship.For the few ones I've been in my life were for the wrong reasons. I get too much attention everyday and I don't take any serious because they either come for the breast or nyash which is not what I want. It's very hard to recognize real this days because of too many Bleep boys around.Focus on whatever you are doing and in no distant time you will find that true person who will dig with you in every.Dont sound desperate, dress to kill and pamper yourself more.Life is good. Stay safe

Hmmmm
So you're even aware that they always come for the breast or yansh

My advice is that one might come for the breast or yansh then along the line fall deeply in love with you so it will be nice given them the chance so you both can know each other

Liliantalks:
If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

don't be depressed... ok.. there is time for everything... make friends. be open with us.. we can even be friend... mention me back.

Eberechi24:

Ok. if the Bleep boys have the quality a woman want, why can't a self-claimed serious man posse same? The question has been brooding my mind lately.

The problem isn't ours-the women. The problem is the quality of man out there. Everyone has a desire even men because no man with sane mind will like to have engagement with a mad women on the street. After all, she is a woman.

Asking her to lower her standard reconcile the fact that plurality of "serious men" out there are low budgets. What do you think?

Because no woman will think twice of dating you if you have some quality. Also, I think men need to seriously up their games instead of waiting and wanting a girl to lower standards to fit into their world.

Getting her standards down isn’t asking the woman to date morally bankrupt and lay about guys.....naturally men have been wired mentally to be in control.... and that’s why we are naturally intimidated by women with higher sophistication than ours..aside the fact that we don’t like to approach such women, we naturally assume such a fine asss lady would have been taken already..
..the few of us that go after such women do it as a game of conquest so we can later brag about fvcking such a classy chic...
why do u think rich, wealthy, high class guys marry poor ladies but that doesn’t happen often with women....except when desperation sets in?? The reason is women naturally don’t let their guard down, too much walls /standard u have to pass to get to her....money is a standard, height is a standard, pen!s size is another standard, educational qualifications is another, age is another, handsome or not is another...
add all these standards to a woman who is already very Classy...it’ll be hard for such a woman to get a man if she doesn’t come down a bit

Op don't let anyone here take advantage of your situation, be wise.

BetWinners:
You should have informed those ladies white guys are experts in fuccking women & throwing their saggy nyanshes out the door than Nigerian men.
I don't blame Nigerian men for their actions though.Nigerian women don't want to be traditional women anymore so why should Nigerian men?Fucck & go is the way forward

u know many ladies judge white men from romantic movies.since jack died for rose in titanic many ladies think all white men are like that

Liliantalks:
If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

come to daddy

NEVER GIVE HOPE... The Best Man will come for you.

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What are u saying

lefulefu:
u know many ladies judge white men from romantic movies.since jack died for rose in titanic many ladies think all white men are like that

You are right.The media is a very powerful weapon

All serious relationship started with just sex as mind set of guy, then gradually they see things more attractive about you, they finally get addicted to the female and want to marry them. You complain they just want sex but before you accept a man you already know he would request for that. What most ladies don’t know is this when you make things that are not important relevant then the men forget the important things. Sex is cheap, a man that walked up to you doesn’t just want the sex but your personality. If you will accept him be ready to give in trust me he will stay.

Eberechi24:


He found someone who finds him interesting, appreciates his quality and not because she lowered her standards. She loved his personality. Standards in most cases are not necessarily monetary intervention.

No one says that Bleep boys gives stability. No, they don't and no lady is encouraged to date one. I gave instance with them because you made reference with fuckboys coming after a girl who has defined and maintain her standard.


Pls can you stop this campaign of women being at the receiving end? We are human with desire, choice and needs.

You are human with desires but prefer to actualize those dreams through a man.

1StopRudeness:


Getting her standards down isn’t asking the woman to date morally bankrupt and lay about guys.....naturally men have been wired mentally to be in control.... and that’s why we are naturally intimidated by women with higher sophistication than ours..aside the fact that we don’t like to approach such women, we naturally assume such a fine asss lady would have been taken already..
..the few of us that go after such women do it as a game of conquest so we can later brag about fvcking such a classy chic...
why do u think rich, wealthy, high class guys marry poor ladies but that doesn’t happen often with women....except when desperation sets in?? The reason is women naturally don’t let their guard down, too much walls /standard u have to pass to get to her....money is a standard, height is a standard, pen!s size is another standard, educational qualifications is another, age is another, handsome or not is another...
add all these standards to a woman who is already very Classy...it’ll be hard for such a woman to get a man if she doesn’t come down a bit

What are you saying, Istop?
That our men have esteem problem and it's (women)our fault. We have to let go of our personality to accommodate their flaws and remedy the situation huh?

Also,You are morally bankrupt if you still see some ladies as a game of conquest. You contribute to reasons why women shouldn't let down their guard.

Liliantalks:
If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

So sad that ladies are dishing you with wrong advice. The shocking part is that some of them are happily married.

Too many adopted social media lifestyles have eaten us up on the inside. A little mistake from a fiance, the next statement would be "All of them are same" on social media.

I don't know you but one thing I know is people still got married yesterday/today.
I won't tell you to date the next guy or not, but at times it's not about looking for the right person, but being the right person.

Give yasef small break biko.

Cheer up Lady, there is nothing wrong with you or men.

There are many good guys (even on this Nairaland forum) ready to marry you.

Liliantalks:
i don’t think I am perfect in anyway . But I know i am every man’s dream i know that for a fact , I am willing to learn n grow,,, but that I am everymans dream is not a statement I will ever regret .

Eberechi24:

What are you saying, Istop?
That our men have esteem problem and it's (women)our fault. We have to let go of our personality to accommodate their flaws and remedy the situation huh?

Also,You are morally bankrupt if you still see some ladies as a game of conquest. You contribute to reasons why women shouldn't let down their guard.

You have a very weird way of understanding the context of argument ...or is it like u are just craving to insult someone??
How and where did I say it’s the woman’s fault for some men to have self esteem problem...
I gave u a general view of how things are sometimes....and u ended up insulting saying I’m morally bankrupt....are u not in this world? don’t men use women and brag about it?? Don’t men use women as sex object ?? so just becos I pointed it out in a dialogue now means I’m guilty of it....

u know what, u guys always feel u have something to prove especially to men by being on the defense mode and mounting up walls..... and that’s was exactly my point in the first comment....if that’s too hard for u to get then its fine for u to see it anyway u want......

Liliantalks:
thanks darling. Still real sad tho

make your self available for the right man. And he will surely come. The problem with most women is that, they chase after mirage neglecting the real thing by their side. Jst cheer up, the right person will come in due time

People have told me this before, of not looking for a partner and then finding 1 with time, but I disagree. If you want a partner then you have to be deliberate about it. The issue with our generation (both men and women) is the fact that we all lack patience for some reason. It's a "I want it now-now" and instant gratification kind of mind set we suffer from. It's now rare to find people willing to continuously make efforts for their relationships to work, whether they are white or black, as well as straight or not straight. Everybody needs someone special in their lives and we ALL have to be more patient / accommodating with one another for our relationships to be built and sustained.

Sexytincoll:
Oya run along

Of course. No one can stay.

Liliantalks:
If u think u need a Man U will never get one ,,, I hv been single all my life, dated yes but hvnt had a committed relationship in my life ,, and it’s sad cause I am every man’s dream woman , I am beautiful, averagely independent, I cook , clean , I believe in summiting to my man and I am well groomed n no man has ever experienced all I hv in me .. I feel so depressed sometimes.. a lot of Bleep boys everywhere, I don’t even know what I hv done to deserve these kind of men , please no one should cm to me with that work on urself bullshit cause people who look like shit r in good relationships, feminist u all talk smack about are in good relationships. Please don’t cm to me with that spiritual nonsense, a lot of church girls older than I am are very single also ,Maybe it’s cause I feel I need a guy too much, I think I would become a feminist, atleast the single feminist r way happier than I am. Am so fuckingg depressed . Damn

NO OFFENSE SIS NOT ALL MEN ARE BAD , MAYBE YOUVE BEEN FALLING INTO THE WRONG HANDS . You’re a lady Meet ladies of your age or above that has a stable relationship ( though not all things that glitter are Gold , she might be facing something that is worst than yours on the inside ) I think she should be able to educate u more on how to catch the BASIC guy that will always do all you want . I’m a G I can’t give you men secret . I’m sorry

Eberechi24:

What are you saying, Istop?
That our men have esteem problem and it's (women)our fault. We have to let go of our personality to accommodate their flaws and remedy the situation huh?

Also,You are morally bankrupt if you still see some ladies as a game of conquest. You contribute to reasons why women shouldn't let down their guard.

i wouldn't call it self esteem... its just nature.. you cant get anything from nature if you dont play the game...

Picture this scenario... a man goes out with his rich wife, richer than him.. she spends money in a public place, family gathering... how exactly do yoj think the world would see the man?...

WEAK.. no man wants to be in that situation, when i used to date, my ex offered to buy things or pay for things for me i refused... i just feel weak letting a woman pay stuffs for me.. a woman thats my gf anyway...

So no man wants to be in that kind of relationship.. it's not like he is jealous of you.. men arent jealous of women.. its women thats jealous of other women.. its just natural..

So its gonna be very very hard for a successful woman to find a man..

Also one thing i want to point out is you ladies arent serious about anything.. you're in search of a relationship... yet you have series of messages on instagram you've never replied.. all you do is check out the persons lifestyle.. if there is no car you won't reply... no offense i see an epidemic where women start over dosing on anti depressant drugs