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We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 9:49am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen. He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed. I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him. Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me Photo for illustration 34 Likes 8 Shares
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by brodalikeme(m): 9:53am On Mar 29, 2020 |
My dear don’t allow the devil use you against yourself! You have 95% of what every lady dream of and you want to throw it away for something trivial and temporary? He stays in a rented one bedroom apartment, he isn’t the landlord, he is not squatting with some friend, haba! He loves you and is honest with you take that is all that matters! If the plan is marriage, support him to grow in his career or business, the benefits will come back to you in the form of more love and comfort. If it’s not marriage, at least you would have helped your fellow human being. I know so many ladies that have gone the extreme length of giving their man money to pay their bride price(Dude should have borrowed from friends though). Sister support him! If his a good man like you said, you’ll be better of for doing that. Have you heard that great song by Cobhams Asuquo Ft Simi titled We Plenti? A part of it says “beans no dey cook forever” A little patient, a little input, you guys will be fine. 1036 Likes 79 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by NoApology(m): 9:54am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Aside being caring and loving, what are his plans and goals? More important than all of the aforementioned is a man with a clear set goals and vision. How financially intelligent is he? How hard working is he? In the end you will find out that without these, love and care will never be enough 313 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by densiks: 9:54am On Mar 29, 2020 |
You should be more worried about contacting Covid-19 245 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by cooluzi: 9:55am On Mar 29, 2020 |
you wanna quit just because he is not living comfortable when he is trying by all mean to keep you nd make u comfortable,remember no condition is permanent its up to you to decide 179 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by LouisBERG: 9:55am On Mar 29, 2020 |
I stopped reading at the part you wrote: "initially, when i found out, i said i was going to quit" I want to know the rationale behind this statement?? At your first paragraph, you are the one that showered this same person with encomium due to his qualities and composure. Now you come up with this, Like seriously?? The height of double standard in your post is so glaring and disappointing.. #caLLmeBERG 221 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Johntitus: 9:56am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Lol... Love sometimes is intertwined with infatuations and lust. Have you ever wondered why and how your undying love diminished after sex with the 'love of your life'? 77 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 9:56am On Mar 29, 2020 |
densiks:Abiooo. All these fake love stories should be banned for now. What we are facing is a serious issue. May God save us from this monster called covid-19 83 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by SenecaTheYonger: 9:58am On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 10:01am On Mar 29, 2020 |
If you can't rent house for him like he would do if reverse were to be the case , Aunty carry your bag and go! You can't cook food in the passage but you can comfortably eat out making the guy spend more. Aunty you have eaten his accommodation money already nah. ![]() 485 Likes 28 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by ProtectMyMoney: 10:03am On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee: So, you only want to come and eat when he has arrived...if he is not doing well and you want to be with him, why not use your support and network to help him get a better job so he can fully move to another place comfortably. 97 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Cholls(m): 10:05am On Mar 29, 2020 |
ProtectMyMoney:my brother GBAM! 50 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Homeboiy: 10:07am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Support him to rent flat na I'm on an online church now Bye 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by baralatie(m): 10:08am On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:oh oh! that should hurt and open someone's thought procesd 7 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by donbachi(m): 10:08am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Na dia qualities be dat. 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by proclinician: 10:09am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ariza: Chisos lol okay. Atleast this isolation is reactivating our subconscious to things that matter. 8 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by proclinician: 10:09am On Mar 29, 2020 |
You self in how many rooms do you live? 60 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 29, 2020 |
proclinician:Guys have been doing themselves since Stone age. How can the guy beg her not to go when her only impact in his life is eating his accommodation money. ![]() 164 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by baralatie(m): 10:12am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Homeboiy:not a good idea and also not advisable depending a number of variables. not a bad idea and also advisable depending on a number of variables 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by proclinician: 10:15am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ariza: It's all about love. Leonardo Di' Caprio could have saved his life in the Titanic shipwreck but instead switched his life for the lady. I don't want to talk about Jesus Christ. Love look what you made me do. Each day I go to crunches to eat I see a man and a lady on same table and the Lady will be eating food while the man just mopes. Well 48 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Stacyomolola(f): 10:16am On Mar 29, 2020 |
cooluzi:Yes no condition is permanent but that only works on a hardworking guy with a vision, tho she did not give much details but i dont think hes keen about moving out, which is a problem to her(which shouldnt) Not all girls like that face to face compound compromising love. 27 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 10:17am On Mar 29, 2020 |
proclinician:Yes... Some Men love sacrificially. You are right. 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Kingsteve(m): 10:24am On Mar 29, 2020 |
@ OP, you sound like a lady with a good heart. My advice: if you feel the need to support him, please do! Do not let his present predicament to be a barrier to the love you have for him. Change is a constant! No condition is permanent, it's just a matter of time, effort, opportunity and God's blessings. As long as he's making plans to better himself, stick with him, but not blindly. If after a while, and nothing changes, then feel free to make any drastic decision you deem fit. For now...be supportive, as long as he isn't deceitful. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 10:25am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ariza: Lol...badt mouth ![]() 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 10:26am On Mar 29, 2020 |
![]() Sincerely speaking, in this time and age, I wouldn't advise anyone to start a family in that condition. You'll end up regretting it. As per his level, with not up to 30k to start with, OP, you might be wasting your time with such a guy except if you are ready to bear 90% of the cost. Now, you didn't state the kind of job he does so I'll know if it holds any prospects for the future or you might need to exercise patience until he gets a better job. If you truly love him and are ready to take the risk and damn the consequence, then go ahead with the relationship. Know that with your frequent sleeping over, belle go soon show. Hmm.. That is when you'll know the importance of comfortability. 70 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 10:27am On Mar 29, 2020 |
NoApology:he's a very hard working person, organized and focused 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 10:29am On Mar 29, 2020 |
You don't deserve such a good man... You deserve those agberos that doesn't have any purpose in life. The ones that will have no respect or regard for you and would always use u to test their new skills of punching. If to make money is easy your father would have been a millionaire or a billionaire and you won't be worried about his condition because u would be able to rent a better apartment for him for the so-called love you claim you have for him. Rubbish!!! 136 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 10:30am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Jewessgratitudd:Lol Ma why did you accuse me of sending you a PM and uploading a picture on ilegend's thread yesterday. That's not a nice stunt to pull on someone you have never had dealings or conversations with. If you wanted my friendship, a quote would have done it all. I'm not pleased with your actions. 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by cooluzi: 10:31am On Mar 29, 2020 |
Stacyomolola:do u y`all tink the guy like leaving that way plus how do u knw d guy isnt hardworking,life isnt just fair and its nt abt hardworking its by grace,most ladies are just confuse,i will advice op to leave the poor guy alone nd let him live happily 39 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Benzgang: 10:33am On Mar 29, 2020 |
![]() Where you sef dey stay weh dey make you attract one room men? Cos I haven't seen one room girls in a while,except when I purposely go after my treasured,sweet 17 uni girls ![]() Up your own game too and leave that vicinity. 27 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by baralatie(m): 10:35am On Mar 29, 2020 |
proclinician:don't get me started with the nonsense definition of love by Titanic. this scenario is more incomparable with tatanic .this is about a guy with a lady and a room.so the guy should vacate the room for the girl now 3 Likes |
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