seanwilliam:
so because the girl is financially ok than him, means he can't date her..? And if reverse was the case, what would you say,??

IceColdVeins:
Don't apologise shii.
Your instincts are absolutely correct, I immediately knew it was a guy behind that moniker the very instance that I clicked on the dimwit's profile some time last year.
How simpletons fall prey to this stratagem beats me.

SweetCunt97:
Toh. I expect someone who chooses not to complain like this Op. You see broke person living in face me I slap you, you got roped in and now u wanna complain? How am I toxic, I'm being realistic

Lightangel65:


Toxic by you make simple truth bitter

Lightangel65:


To avoid problems cause of how the world in which guys are bread winners, I think broke guys should not date, only if the girl wants it admist the brokenness
And I wonder, at this stage he needs a good friend not a lover l

SweetCunt97:
Support him with how much? How much the op get? Will the man be able to sustain a bigger apartment? Will he expect support come next payment of the rent?

seanwilliam:
yes, we can see from the write up that it is the lady that really wants him and started pressuring him to do what he cant clearly afford

proclinician:


Good question. No mind all these immature imbeciles. A guy can date a poor lady that earns 12k a month and lives with her parents but a guy that earns same and even owns an apartment is not fit to date.

Lightangel65:


Then he should break up if he is wise

justscorchone:



Ngwanu let her break up with him na,e concern me nii?

mrblessed:
It is very easy to falsely accuse someone in this graveyard, and be readily defended by spineless hanger-ons. Whether she is a she or a he is not the issue. What is the issue is that someone claimed that a PM was sent to her between August and September last year, so, logically, she should provide a screenshot to buttress her point. Anything other than that makes her an amateurish liar.

LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen. He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed. I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him. Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me

mrblessed:
It is very easy to falsely accuse someone in this graveyard, and be readily defended by spineless hanger-ons. Whether she is a she or a he is not the issue. What is the issue is that someone claimed that a PM was sent to her between August and September last year, so, logically, she should provide a screenshot to buttress her point. Anything other than that makes her an amateurish liar.

Ariza:
God bless you.

See how the dude is spilling bladderdash, throwing insults here and there just to sound woke. The lady should upload a screenshot and that would settle it.

SweetCunt97:
We know there's a scam where guys butter you up well in order for you to fall in love and become stupid with ya money. If the guy had 70% of the rent, she supporting with 30% is sensible. You get 30k for account yiu dey look for gf.. Scam

IceColdVeins:
You are a cancer to the world of men.

Ariza:
Cc Mynd..44

LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen. He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed. I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him. Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me

Ariza:
If you can't rent house for him like he would do if reverse were to be the case , Aunty carry your bag and go!

You can't cook food in the passage but you can comfortably eat out making the guy spend more. Aunty you have eaten his accommodation money already nah.

Ariza:
Cc


Mynd44

LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen. He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed. I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him. Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me

LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen. He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed. I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him. Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me

LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen. He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed. I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him. Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me

seanwilliam:
yes, we can see from the write up that it is the lady that really wants him and started pressuring him to do what he cant clearly afford

seanwilliam:
abeg save this ranting you call story jare.. what did you offer him when he was broke ?? U think say man no get sense??

IceColdVeins:

And you ain't got nerves to direct these antiquated dregs of English grammar to the complainant herself?
Swerve please!!

perousd:

It's always not all that straightforward. It can be a scam.... It also can be genuine. That's why I insist she runs some test. Except one is really daft, there'll definitely be scents of deceits.

XhosaNostra:
Gosh! These men have patience to be dealing with all this shìt.

Then just don't take "the little that he spends" on you, so he can save up enough money to move to a better place that meets your standards, sooner, your royal highness.

prettyaura:
must U always prove ur stupidity? Of course I know U are stupid but I don't know it has gotten to this level..U shld be washing ur dad's car or helping with household chores.amatuers like U are not needed in this discussion.

proclinician:


It's all about love. Leonardo Di' Caprio could have saved his life in the Titanic shipwreck but instead switched his life for the lady. I don't want to talk about Jesus Christ.