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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 1:05pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:Do you have any Friends with this mentality like yours?? Just asking o!!! |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by bigpicture001: 1:05pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee: The best thing for you to do is give ur self a period to leave....nd then forget about his house...focus in how he can grow whoever it is he does... If u can help in that aspect do...once the money comes,he will move 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 1:06pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar:But Men invest in ladies too, send some to school, established businesses for some, place some on monthly allowances ![]() ![]() Well as a liberal person, I suggest op should do whatever she thinks it's best for her. It's a free world after all. ![]() 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Mizwisdom(f): 1:06pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Everything depends on your own background, if you are from a rich home, run for your life but if you're from a struggling home try to manage with him until God blesses both of you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by bigpicture001: 1:09pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Nn3muka: Ur really harsh ooo |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Mizwisdom(f): 1:10pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee: Before you support him with such an amount think twice, what is he bringing to the table? what's your own gain? love will seize over time and you will either become friends or enemies. As he's gaining financially what is he prepared to give you in other to balance things? 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by seanwilliam(m): 1:10pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
prettyaura:you cant be abusive like this and expect any sensible man to keep up with you... good day 5 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Ibechris2: 1:13pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
When I met my wife I was still squatting. In fact I had nothing to my name except the clothes I wear daily and some books. My father was obviously poor...but what kept us going was honesty and she loved me. After about 5years,the story changed and changed for the better. I live in a comfortable apartment and I am so proud of my wife who i cherished for believing in me. And many other things i may not like to mention here. If u believe in that ur guy,u can change his life and make him to be more ambitious and yearn for growth and prosperity. U might be the power that he needs to become what God wants him to be. Do not lose sleep. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by bigpicture001: 1:15pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee: Plz dear don't give him 200k for house rent plz I beg u in d name of God... Giv him however much u can forget but targeted at something he does to Improve him... If he finds his feet,he will elevate his accommodation 2 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Jaqenhghar: 1:15pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ariza:Maybe I wasnt clear. I agree it goes both ways |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 1:20pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
prettyaura:true talk 2 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 1:21pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Jaqenhghar:If people intend to be calculative and protective in relationships then I will suggest : The rich should date/marry the rich, the poor should marry/date the poor. That will save lots of stress. Lobatan ![]() 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 1:21pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Paxie55: ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by BigJoe19: 1:23pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
mrblessed:She should quit the relationship if she wants to, at least the guy would be smarter next time to keep his money to himself and see through women's fake love. 4 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Belafonte(m): 1:23pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
I’m just worried for a guy that stays in a one bedder spending generously. Maybe that’s why he still stays in that kinda apartment. 10 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 1:23pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Paxie55:don't look down on anybody. If you do, That will be your undoing. 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Belafonte(m): 1:25pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ariza: As in |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Damntruth(m): 1:33pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:collect the 30k and keep for him, tell him to save more with you as more income comes in without informing him of your intention to add something. When it get to a tangible amount, you can complete it and pay rent in a more conducive environment 11 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by ArticleBeast: 1:35pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Jewessgratitudd:He didn't say he wants to start a family. He can get a self contain or a one bedroom apartment. Anyway a 1 room for lekki na 3 bedroom flat for Ibadan. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by prettyaura: 1:36pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
seanwilliam:U are obviously a kid..see what a faceless forum can cause.had to check your profile and I am not disappointed..U are in your early twenties...lol..maybe twenty one or twenty two and I am here wasting data on u instead of looking for a good cane to lash U with...smh 9 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by baralatie(m): 1:38pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
seanwilliam:of course he can date any girl of his choice as long as he can accept the responsibility attached to the relationship. the same thing in the reverse where the guy is more financially stronger than the woman he can choose any girl as longer he accept responsibility 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 1:41pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
ArticleBeast: Ok. Get a selfcon for how much? Or didn't you read the part where she said he doesn't even have up to 30k in his account? Let them chilax and work hard to save up some more and get a decent apartment. Face me I face you is a no no. 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 1:44pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
This is the worst dilemma of the modern female; meeting a beta who has the attitude of a fantastic provider, but not the means; just when she is about ready to settle down. Should she stay and hope that he will one day acquire the means which she will then be able to fully control? Or should she leave him and risk meeting another man who has the means but is wiser about the ways of women and hence, less subject to her control? A big problem; kind of like which team one should bet all his school fees on, between evenly matched football teams. 12 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by baralatie(m): 1:44pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
realokopi:what is the one curious question and thing about women when it comes to a guy.? they will either ask you or your friends or find means to gauge you.(about financial security). it is their genetic makeup |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by baralatie(m): 1:48pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Lightangel65:overgeneralization! |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by perousd: 1:50pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
SweetCunt97:That I won't give. Something situational to open up other sides of him. Something personal to see if he truly loves you. Think of something. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Belafonte(m): 1:55pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Only a foolish man will be spending to keep a woman whose expenses far exceed his income. Ladybeee, please, do your boyfriend a favour and break up with him. He’s obviously star struck and will hurt himself to keep this relationship with you. Break up with and take him out of his misery. No good can come out of this liaison. Very soon, when the initial butterflies wear off, you’ll come to accept the fact that you settled and he’ll feel inadequate due to your demands of a more luxurious life than he can afford. Please, pity him, and yourself, and leave. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 1:57pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:How much money did the President wife gave him during campaign but you see her advice is priceless...biko teach him how to fish....dont give him fish...else tommorrow you start to nag him...or money creates problem...As a guy i go to my guys for money even if i default they are still my guys i will surely pay them....but the ladies might not be patient they might walk away but they would never forget n forgive. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by LadySarah: 1:59pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Poverty humbles 90percent of men. Take it to the bank. 7 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by seanwilliam(m): 2:00pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
baralatie:so only men can give and support?? Only men should shoulder responsibilities? 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by seanwilliam(m): 2:05pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Jewessgratitudd:if reverse was the case, you people would tell the guy to singlehandedly ( or probably part with the highest amount) rent a new apartment for the lady.... 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by baralatie(m): 2:07pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
proclinician:a guy is fit to date any one his likes. now if a guy earns #12k a month and mets up with for example a Lilian Bach who makes #2.5m a month(it is not a problem to met and the guy gives her the gbenshing love she has ever seen or experienced). already we can see issues.issues about accommodation,clothing,security etc.it is now a question of responsibility. who will bear the responsibility of this relationship. will it be the guy who is earning #12k/month or the Lilian Bach who earns #2.5m/month.each choice comes with serious risks. and if the choice to be made is done outside legal contexts framework of longterm commitment. the risks become greater. even if the choice is made with a longterm commitment the pressure on the side of Lilian Bach will or can burn the relationship down the road. Example of this is Adenuga's daughter And that of Eleganza daughter. 2 Likes |
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