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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by tabithababy(f): 3:51pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Paxie55:. Best advice. Imagine some people advising op to give a man money to rent a better house 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by MrSly(m): 3:51pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee: Compliment where he is lacking. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by OlawaleBammie: 3:51pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
baralatie: Use ur brain oga, he might even b testing the gal to know her stance... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by 2ng2ng(m): 3:51pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
I was staying in A room apartment without a job when I met my wife some years ago. Now two bed room flat with our building on going . The most important is love and encouragement . 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by tabithababy(f): 3:52pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:. Yes.. Don't ever try it |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Stacyomolola(f): 3:52pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
benji93: When I say I want a man with a vision what else do u think I mean apart from that I want a guy that's well to do, futuristic and ambitious Something's are better left unsaid u know ![]() ![]() |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Ndoki85(m): 3:52pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ariza:I'm proud of your contribution sir, no one could say better. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Favmil101(m): 3:52pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:I de beg you to try reason with me if i no get today I go get am tommorow. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by goldenfrosh(m): 3:52pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Go rent a flat so u both can stay there . I am sure he won't reject your offer.... U want that guy to kill himself for u Better leave him and go look for a guy that stays in a duplex... |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by greggng: 3:53pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
N.a. God go punish some women ....even the one I spent my money to train, her family later called me This Thing when we had issues ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by supermccoy(m): 3:54pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by adubiay: 3:55pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
He has spent the money for new apartment on you to make you feel like a queen, you were enjoying the way he was spending on you from his little income and you also expect him to have huge savings, what a self deceit. I tot you should have advised him each time he want to spend on you to save the money for rent. You can't eat your cake and have it. Give him another one year to save for a new house, but ensure he doesn't spend it trying to impress you or to maintain your love and care, please assure him of ur love and support, even if he is not spending on you. 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by juniorstar(m): 3:55pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
wat is he doing at the moment and is he having any potential for growth. hope he doesn't smoke and drink alcohol excessively. if you can find answers in the affirmative then you are good to go. remember love is sweet ooh, when money enter love is sweeter. if the financial aspect is not in order for basic necessities of life. dat love will turn to hate cos you will end up nagging. he wud get angry and that's the beginning of domestic violence. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by AFONJACOW(m): 3:55pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
This apartment reminds me of rude boy hit song... Reason with me... This is one funny thing about women, my ex also complain same because I share flat with my sister, imagine someone that born in public yard, face me I face you is telling me she's not comfortable sharing flat with my sister that she's above that class, she always dreamt of big sitting in front of nice car.. person her papa no even get bicycle tire, she later left for someone with 3 bedroom flat and Camry tiny light , when I found out she's going out with this guy I nearly ran mad, I regretted ever been born I thought mine was worst... 3 yrs fast forward Camry guy gone, flat gone , am in world of my own, selecting car I will drive, she noticed statue change from Facebook pix she start forming relationship.... Hehehehehe another suicide loading because nah marriage I go promise 2weeks to see her parents I gave her my wedding card... Women are gold harvesters 5 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Belafonte(m): 3:56pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy: I mean, any dude with an above average IQ should get redpilled by this topic immediately. If any man thinks it’s being good to a woman that makes her stay, they should have a big rethink. No finance; no romance. This is why you never put a woman above your goals. You don't ever do it. I wish guys knew this simple, but powerful truth. Most would not be the broke, poverty-stricken pansies that they currently are. 5 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Stacyomolola(f): 3:57pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
TheRedpillguy: Seems u quoted the wrong one ![]() ![]() It's op complaining not me ![]() ![]() I can't go into something I can't condone Op started the relationship, so I don't think she should back out I can't start arguing with uban.ja's follower this hot afternoon 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Cheeryfeet: 3:57pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee: Can you see the king in the shepherd boy David when he is in the bush? |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by danniyal(m): 3:57pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen. The above statement is your guy's problem. He is not wise at all. Just imagine if he has been investing all the resources he has been spending on ladies like you. I am sure his condition would not have been like this. Guys be wise ooh! You are staying in a face me I face you house and spending on girls. My guy, you are a COMPOUND FOOL 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Amdoyin(m): 3:58pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
brodalikeme:welldone! Man with better reasoning. 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Ajibade123(m): 3:58pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
brodalikeme:you killed this...we plenty for there 2 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 3:59pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Iceberg3:I didn't put that picture. The mods put it and moved the topic to front page |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Villain7: 3:59pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
brodalikeme:LadyBeee if you ask me, please stick with this quoted advice else you may regret whatever you do. Your mind is just playing tricks on you... In fact, I was to read further comments, but this stopped me along the page. Good luck to your decision. 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Olumeme: 3:59pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Apart from his love and been caring, what is his ambition and future goals that he's backing with actions. My dear, love does not pay the bills or make anyone happy, a guy that does not bank at least 50k monthly should not even think of starting a relationship not to talk of marriage, He should be thinking and strategizing on how to make life better for himself. So if he's not the kind of serious guy, who's very ambitious and hard working, my dear find your square root o, you need money to live a loving life, don't deceive yourself, and please kindly play safe when making love by using condom, baby food per week is around 10k, if you'll deliver through CS you won't spend less than 100k. If you yourself, what are you doing for a living? How much are you banking monthly? Abi you want to come and be a livability inside face me, I slap you? Put all this things into consideration. 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Ryocaj(m): 4:02pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
NoApology:I hate this kind of mentality.. Wen it comes 2 d guy.. he must av set plans n goals, be financially intelligent, must av a mission.. but d lady just has 2 spread her legs that's all.. no mention of all those things.. That's d norm in Nigerian relationships.. D guy must av d whole world now to hold on 2 her.. if not she will follow big gods.. Even if he has d whole world these ladies still cheat with broke Niqqa.. To d OP.. d day wey u go get sense Nigeria go turn world power.. coz he stays in face me n face u.. aw is that a problem.. Wat if he was squatting with someone or still with his parents.. Nigerian ladies think it's so easy coz they just open their legs for 3mins n these big gods pay them millions.. it's quite hard for guys that av no strong financial background n r hustling legit.. most ride on luck.. coz its not abt hard work at all.. I have female friends that ball everyday, live on d Island, in their own houses. av flashy cars n they av no jobs.. they get money from big gods.. D wise ones now set up a boutique, or make up line or anything fashion that doesn't yield profit.. they just keep pumping in money from these men 2 cover up.. 4 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by temicyborg(m): 4:02pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ariza:. No mind am him Dey find 3 bedroom flat |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Philadelphia: 4:02pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee: So what stops you from renting and furnishing a 3 bedroom flat for him? How many Are there not women who build houses for their men? Your problem is the 1 room he lives in? See OP, no let me use COVID-19 anger face you o. We have a global pandemic to deal with but your problem is the 1 room your boyfriend is living in. What if this pandemic ravages the whole world in the coming months? Where will you and your boyfriend be? 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Chatflick(m): 4:03pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Wow. Do you love him? |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Villain7: 4:04pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:Dear friend, stick with the first comment and any other one reasonable. Just try and be logical and reasonable enough. Some of we men can be very funny I must tell you. But I believe if you are patient, you both will end together in holy matrimony. Remember, pray for yourselves always. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by baralatie(m): 4:08pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
OlawaleBammie:What is the aim of these tests : 1.to know if she is going to stay with him if he does not have any money. 2.to know if she truly loves him for who he is and not because of money No problem but what if it is the woman that testing the guy 1.to know if the guy is the type that will give his life for love 2.to know if he the guy is not the type that will not lie about his status 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by bigwig071(m): 4:09pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
No one knows tomorrow |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by OlawaleBammie: 4:10pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
baralatie: Woo oga, na der problem b dat jare, make dem carry der problem dey go, I have my own here staring at me 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Oyiboman69: 4:10pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Stacyomolola:What's your definition of a good man?...lets starts from there |
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