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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Bamexconsult(m): 4:10pm On Mar 29, 2020
people like u later lives in regret. I remember 5years ago when I met a lady LIke u, she was furious immediately she got 2where I stayed den, in a single room. dat was hw she ignored picking my call again n I let her go. just last year she came 4 an assistant in my office and she was directed to boss, immediately she entered and saw d Oga she was directed to seeing me sitting comfortably wit me desk. she felt ashamed of her life. no condition is permanent.

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by fortunechy(m): 4:11pm On Mar 29, 2020
Until I know what ladies really want I will comment

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:11pm On Mar 29, 2020
Ariza:
If you can't rent house for him like he would do if reverse were to be the case , Aunty carry your bag and go!

You can't cook food in the passage but you can comfortably eat out making the guy spend more. Aunty you have eaten his accommodation money already nah. grin

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Yinkwamo(m): 4:12pm On Mar 29, 2020
My Sister, it is up to you to decide. You know the guy in question to a certain extent, we don't. I got married to my wife in a One room apartment in 2016, I mean One room apartment not one bedroom or self contained Apartment, who does that in this day and age, right? Well, Four Months later in 2017, we moved into a more befitting Apartment and in January, 2019, we moved into our own House (True Story). You might be the piece missing in the puzzle of his Life to help him achieve his dreams and be that man you have always wanted him to be. But then, they say, different strokes for different folks, but what do I know?

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by addexx: 4:13pm On Mar 29, 2020
LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.

He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed.

I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him.

Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me


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I understand your fears. I do. I want you to be careful and weigh your options well. You already have someone that treats you like a queen. A great sign if you're sure he's genuine. Now your concern is his finance and your welfare. You both can figure that out. Find out his plan for his financial future and how he intends to scale up his current status to a very comfortable one for you both. If his Ideas make sense and sounds feasible and he's ready to work towards it. Support him and stay and build with him. But if it seems he has no plans or just having a pipe dream. Please take a walk. There are thousands of couple who grew together from a room. There are others who clashed from duplexes. Ask the right questions. Please if you do decide to stay, your priorities should be getting very stable financially enough to run the family. Don't get pregnant till then.

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 4:14pm On Mar 29, 2020
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Belafonte(m): 4:14pm On Mar 29, 2020
Ladybeee, you don’t have to continue this relationship, and you certainly don’t have to rent him a better apartment. You obviously know what you want, and you’re simply conflicted because this dude is different from what you’re used to, even though he’s almost what you want.

However, let me put it to you that money is the leading cause of divorce worldwide. This is obviously not nothing, and like I said earlier, these feelings of infatuation will fade eventually. You will be left with the stark reality of the state of his finances. If you’re accustomed to a certain standard, please and please, save yourself and your boyfriend any future heartbreaks and move on now, while you still can, before you start having children.

Forget anybody trying to compel you with talk of his potential, not all potential is fulfilled o. Life is filled with broken dreams and buried visions. People marry and live their whole lives in face-me-I-face-you o. That love you claim to be feeling can easily turn to hatred. When you pay house rent for two years in a row, it won’t matter how neat or kind he is grin, you’ll probably feel like slapping him with the broom when he’s sweeping grin. Now is the time to japa.

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by jolyment: 4:14pm On Mar 29, 2020
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by adrian3000(m): 4:15pm On Mar 29, 2020
LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.

He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed.

I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him.

Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me

You should be ashamed of yourself. You sound like a gold digger


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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:16pm On Mar 29, 2020
realokopi:
You don't deserve such a good man...
You deserve those agberos that doesn't have any purpose in life.
The ones that will have no respect or regard for you and would always use u to test their new skills of punching.
If to make money is easy your father would have been a millionaire or a billionaire and you won't be worried about his condition because u would be able to rent a better apartment for him for the so-called love you claim you have for him.
Rubbish!!!
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by rolams(m): 4:16pm On Mar 29, 2020
Nobody knows tomorrow!


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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:18pm On Mar 29, 2020
MARX77:
So you love him and he's the ideal guy but the house he's managing is your ish. You can break up with him na, since it's the one room he stays in that's your problem. If you can't cope with it then quit... Let better girls that can manage with him till he can move out take over please.

Don't put unnecessary pressure on a nigga who's just hustling. Can't cope, BOUNCE!!!
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Realtizzy(m): 4:20pm On Mar 29, 2020
Na relationship you dey talk about when thousands are dying daily from covid-19
God help u

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by deavicky(m): 4:20pm On Mar 29, 2020
LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.

He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed.

I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him.

Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me


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my love if what u want is someone that stay in big house, feel free to leave that guy. But the simple truth is that all those care and love u are receiving from him is because of his present status, as soon as changes level, distraction from other ladies will not allow him to give u all u enjoying now. So u have to choose the one u like most because I know u may have had some richer guys but how far?.

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by STARGREEN(m): 4:21pm On Mar 29, 2020
prettyaura:
my dear, PLS move on with ur life, forget loving and caring becos he is just being humble becos he is broke...you can only know the true colour of a man when he has money
I think this your romantic poisoning advice would have been better if she's the one paying for the bills. From the little he has, he gives indicating that he's nice. Well.
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by donjancd19(m): 4:22pm On Mar 29, 2020
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.

He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed.

I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him.

Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me


90% of Nigeria ladies think that building a family is a job of a man,that mentality is very wrong.If truly the guy is a nice person why not plan together with him since you have upper hand now.Staying in a one room apartment is not a yardstick for now.What you will put in consideration is his future plans.
#StaySafe#
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 4:23pm On Mar 29, 2020
I don't understand these mods. First, they uploaded a fake picture to my post and moved it to front page now they have also hidden my story. What has nairaland turned to?

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Mizwisdom(f): 4:23pm On Mar 29, 2020
Bamexconsult:
people like u later lives in regret. I remember 5years ago when I met a lady LIke u, she was furious immediately she got 2where I stayed den, in a single room. dat was hw she ignored picking my call again n I let her go. just last year she came 4 an assistant in my office and she was directed to boss, immediately she entered and saw d Oga she was directed to seeing me sitting comfortably wit me desk. she felt ashamed of her life. no condition is permanent.


Ashamed of what? who told you she felt ashamed? lol
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Kennedyiheme02: 4:23pm On Mar 29, 2020
i dont understand why you posted that picture..... dont deceive yourself, you dont love him... hes just the only guy that has treated you better... better than other guys that just. use and dumb you

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by osilamah77(m): 4:25pm On Mar 29, 2020
Do your parents own a mansion?

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Obason22(m): 4:27pm On Mar 29, 2020
LadyBeee:
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen.

He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed.

I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him.

Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me


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Love me when I'm poor not when I'm rich. If only God can open his eyes to see thru what u are thinking.
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Mizwisdom(f): 4:28pm On Mar 29, 2020
LadyBeee:
I don't understand these mods. First, they uploaded a fake picture to my post and moved it to front page now they have also hidden my story. What has nairaland turned to?


Lol someone wants to claim credit for your story, perhaps they are under target. Just select from the advice you have been given and apply them that's all.
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Kennedyiheme02: 4:28pm On Mar 29, 2020
why are women like this.. too greedy, you could help him with some money to start a business.. who knows he blows from there...

but no it always has to be about you... its always about you women, selfish as fck.... if it was a lady stayiing in that house without a good job, she will just nag the man. to death about helping her... and how its his responsibility to take care of her.... later they say men and women are equal

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by israelmao(m): 4:29pm On Mar 29, 2020
Thumb up!It is good we douse out COVID--19 tension with a love story.When the world understands the true meaning of love all worries will be over.Love endures all things if truly it is love.
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:30pm On Mar 29, 2020
Admissionclass:
women confused from time immemorial. they marry a rich guy they complain they miss their broke ex.they marry for love they later complain he is broke mtchewww women can make you doubt God because the bible says they are helpers but this ones i am seeing are opposite of helpers they are destroyers undecided.
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by mblarry1(m): 4:30pm On Mar 29, 2020
cooluzi:
do u y`all tink the guy like leaving that way plus how do u knw d guy isnt hardworking,life isnt just fair and its nt abt hardworking its by grace,most ladies are just confuse,i will advice op to leave the poor guy alone nd let him live happily



truth... life isnt fair .. na by the grace of God oh

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by okwusdidi: 4:32pm On Mar 29, 2020
You said that you asked him how much he has and he said 30k and you got angry.If you leave that guy now even do it might be hard breaking for him he would be better of for it.Of what value are you adding to his life.The right attitude to a relationship is to be able to add some kind of value to his or her life and not what you can benefit from it.If you do not like him because he is poor please do him a big favor and leave.Because i do not see the value you are adding to his life.

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Stacyomolola(f): 4:34pm On Mar 29, 2020
Oyiboman69:

What's your definition of a good man?...lets starts from there

A good man is Responsible, honest, tolerant, disciplined, encouraging and worth emulating
Unfortunately there aren't many these days but luckily my dad is there smiley smiley
That's my opinion tho

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:35pm On Mar 29, 2020
dinachi:

Prostitution is the worst kind of life. You see what you have reduced yourself to? Your feelings are tired to how much a man has and how comfortable he is. How dare you refer to girls that stand on the road a prostitutes but not yourself! You are a senior coded prostitute!

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Obason22(m): 4:36pm On Mar 29, 2020
The important of love is to help each other where I'm weak. If he is a kind of person like me who does not cheat on his partner, why not go ahead and support him it will go along way to strengthen the relationship between both of u. One day he may become that saviour of ur dream.
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by nonny1212: 4:39pm On Mar 29, 2020
Ariza:
If you can't rent house for him like he would do if reverse were to be the case , Aunty carry your bag and go!

You can't cook food in the passage but you can comfortably eat out making the guy spend more. Aunty you have eaten his accommodation money already nah. grin

Are you related to any tiwa SAVAGE in Nigeria? grin

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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by bobolaga: 4:41pm On Mar 29, 2020
That is your Husband for life,i started the same way with my wife,is not really easy,but God time is the best,if at all he disappointed you he can not have another lady like you or if you disappointed him you can not have another guy like him,that is nature does n,t cheat nature.

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