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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Bamexconsult(m): 4:10pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
people like u later lives in regret. I remember 5years ago when I met a lady LIke u, she was furious immediately she got 2where I stayed den, in a single room. dat was hw she ignored picking my call again n I let her go. just last year she came 4 an assistant in my office and she was directed to boss, immediately she entered and saw d Oga she was directed to seeing me sitting comfortably wit me desk. she felt ashamed of her life. no condition is permanent. 8 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by fortunechy(m): 4:11pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Until I know what ladies really want I will comment 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:11pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ariza: 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Yinkwamo(m): 4:12pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
My Sister, it is up to you to decide. You know the guy in question to a certain extent, we don't. I got married to my wife in a One room apartment in 2016, I mean One room apartment not one bedroom or self contained Apartment, who does that in this day and age, right? Well, Four Months later in 2017, we moved into a more befitting Apartment and in January, 2019, we moved into our own House (True Story). You might be the piece missing in the puzzle of his Life to help him achieve his dreams and be that man you have always wanted him to be. But then, they say, different strokes for different folks, but what do I know? 5 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by addexx: 4:13pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee: I understand your fears. I do. I want you to be careful and weigh your options well. You already have someone that treats you like a queen. A great sign if you're sure he's genuine. Now your concern is his finance and your welfare. You both can figure that out. Find out his plan for his financial future and how he intends to scale up his current status to a very comfortable one for you both. If his Ideas make sense and sounds feasible and he's ready to work towards it. Support him and stay and build with him. But if it seems he has no plans or just having a pipe dream. Please take a walk. There are thousands of couple who grew together from a room. There are others who clashed from duplexes. Ask the right questions. Please if you do decide to stay, your priorities should be getting very stable financially enough to run the family. Don't get pregnant till then. 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 4:14pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Belafonte(m): 4:14pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ladybeee, you don’t have to continue this relationship, and you certainly don’t have to rent him a better apartment. You obviously know what you want, and you’re simply conflicted because this dude is different from what you’re used to, even though he’s almost what you want. However, let me put it to you that money is the leading cause of divorce worldwide. This is obviously not nothing, and like I said earlier, these feelings of infatuation will fade eventually. You will be left with the stark reality of the state of his finances. If you’re accustomed to a certain standard, please and please, save yourself and your boyfriend any future heartbreaks and move on now, while you still can, before you start having children. Forget anybody trying to compel you with talk of his potential, not all potential is fulfilled o. Life is filled with broken dreams and buried visions. People marry and live their whole lives in face-me-I-face-you o. That love you claim to be feeling can easily turn to hatred. When you pay house rent for two years in a row, it won’t matter how neat or kind he is , you’ll probably feel like slapping him with the broom when he’s sweeping . Now is the time to japa. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by jolyment: 4:14pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by adrian3000(m): 4:15pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:16pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by rolams(m): 4:16pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:18pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Realtizzy(m): 4:20pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Na relationship you dey talk about when thousands are dying daily from covid-19 God help u 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by deavicky(m): 4:20pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:my love if what u want is someone that stay in big house, feel free to leave that guy. But the simple truth is that all those care and love u are receiving from him is because of his present status, as soon as changes level, distraction from other ladies will not allow him to give u all u enjoying now. So u have to choose the one u like most because I know u may have had some richer guys but how far?. 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by STARGREEN(m): 4:21pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
prettyaura:I think this your romantic poisoning advice would have been better if she's the one paying for the bills. From the little he has, he gives indicating that he's nice. Well. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by donjancd19(m): 4:22pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Since I started dating, I've never met a man like this. So caring, cute, neat, hygienic, generous but unfortunately, he doesn't have much but the little he has, he'll spend on you and make you feel like a queen. He stays in one room face me I face u. Initially, when I found out, I said I was going to quit but the love he showed me was so overwhelming and I couldn't quit. He said he's making plans to move out and he won't be renewing his rent in may. I agreed. I fell in love with him too and became comfortable with his room but I made it clear that I will never pass the night at his place. You know how love can be blind, I found myself pass the night once and again and again then I asked him about his plans to move out, how much does he have at hand to rent a new place because I was secretly planning to support him with some money to add and he said he doesn't have up to 30k. I was angry and so dissapointed at him. Right now I'm thinking the whole thing over. I don't think I can continue. Please advise me 90% of Nigeria ladies think that building a family is a job of a man,that mentality is very wrong.If truly the guy is a nice person why not plan together with him since you have upper hand now.Staying in a one room apartment is not a yardstick for now.What you will put in consideration is his future plans. #StaySafe# |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Nobody: 4:23pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
I don't understand these mods. First, they uploaded a fake picture to my post and moved it to front page now they have also hidden my story. What has nairaland turned to? 3 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Mizwisdom(f): 4:23pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Bamexconsult: Ashamed of what? who told you she felt ashamed? lol |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Kennedyiheme02: 4:23pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
i dont understand why you posted that picture..... dont deceive yourself, you dont love him... hes just the only guy that has treated you better... better than other guys that just. use and dumb you 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by osilamah77(m): 4:25pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Do your parents own a mansion? 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Obason22(m): 4:27pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee:Love me when I'm poor not when I'm rich. If only God can open his eyes to see thru what u are thinking. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Mizwisdom(f): 4:28pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
LadyBeee: Lol someone wants to claim credit for your story, perhaps they are under target. Just select from the advice you have been given and apply them that's all. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Kennedyiheme02: 4:28pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
why are women like this.. too greedy, you could help him with some money to start a business.. who knows he blows from there... but no it always has to be about you... its always about you women, selfish as fck.... if it was a lady stayiing in that house without a good job, she will just nag the man. to death about helping her... and how its his responsibility to take care of her.... later they say men and women are equal 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by israelmao(m): 4:29pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Thumb up!It is good we douse out COVID--19 tension with a love story.When the world understands the true meaning of love all worries will be over.Love endures all things if truly it is love. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:30pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
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Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by mblarry1(m): 4:30pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
cooluzi: truth... life isnt fair .. na by the grace of God oh 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by okwusdidi: 4:32pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
You said that you asked him how much he has and he said 30k and you got angry.If you leave that guy now even do it might be hard breaking for him he would be better of for it.Of what value are you adding to his life.The right attitude to a relationship is to be able to add some kind of value to his or her life and not what you can benefit from it.If you do not like him because he is poor please do him a big favor and leave.Because i do not see the value you are adding to his life. 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Stacyomolola(f): 4:34pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Oyiboman69: A good man is Responsible, honest, tolerant, disciplined, encouraging and worth emulating Unfortunately there aren't many these days but luckily my dad is there That's my opinion tho 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by XshegzzyeeiX: 4:35pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
dinachi: 2 Likes |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by Obason22(m): 4:36pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
The important of love is to help each other where I'm weak. If he is a kind of person like me who does not cheat on his partner, why not go ahead and support him it will go along way to strengthen the relationship between both of u. One day he may become that saviour of ur dream. |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by nonny1212: 4:39pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
Ariza: Are you related to any tiwa SAVAGE in Nigeria? 1 Like |
Re: We Love Each Other But He Stays In One Room by bobolaga: 4:41pm On Mar 29, 2020 |
That is your Husband for life,i started the same way with my wife,is not really easy,but God time is the best,if at all he disappointed you he can not have another lady like you or if you disappointed him you can not have another guy like him,that is nature does n,t cheat nature. |
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