dawnomike:
Chemistry is for a while that has to do with your inward instanstaneous reactions to affection... That compatibility is the long lasting kinetics (physics) of affection
So, if your relationship obeys the laws of chemistry it is ephemeral but if you are compatible which is the physics... You can weather the storm.


NB: Forget all my above grammer...If you both are not compatible please port ASAP. Although people tend to adapt and become compatible along the way

dawnomike:
Chemistry is for a while that has to do with your inward instanstaneous reactions to affection... That compatibility is the long lasting kinetics (physics) of affection
So, if your relationship obeys the laws of chemistry it is ephemeral but if you are compatible which is the physics... You can weather the storm.


NB: Forget all my above grammer...If you both are not compatible please port ASAP. Although people tend to adapt and become compatible along the way
Discuss all what you've said above with him... He might not know it

ojun50:
Yoruba and literature in English will help better since chemistry is failing... Don't try physics because it might get worst

Acmepreneur:
I'm starting to think my bf and I are not compatible...
Do we like same type of movies? My boyfriend prefers to watch a movie he has watched before with me. I hate that so much, he don't like watching movies for the first time with me, or when he's doing that, he doesn't care if I'm enjoying it or not, he's too concentrated, meanwhile when I'm watching movies, I want him to understand, he won't concentrate, I love paranormal movies only, and when he doesn't concentrate, i do neglect him because I like full concentration and I want to hear everything, so I black him off, and he will start showing attitude afterwards that I neglect him

My bf hates to discuss marriage or children, or stuffs like that. He prefers us to discuss sweetly only and no deep stuffs. He doesn't always want to talk about so many things. The best conversation of his is
Him: how are you
Me: I'm fine
Him: Have you eaten
Him: my boss even called yesterday
Him: I'm sure my baby is looking stunning
And other words like that, which I'm tired of...

He thinks studying in Nigeria is a waste CX I told him to do Masters, he doesn't think it has any advantage, he won't apply for jobs either, he's comfortable with where he's working, he works in a company and he's the manager, but he's pay is not more than a 100k. He said he wants to get himself well trained in his job, then establish his own company. I don't agree with any of this because he's not achieving anything, aside being promoted to a manager, I want him to do his masters while working, or an MBA or some other ICT courses for him to advance in his career and life and even if he wants to establish his business, he can still do that later on.
I see other people in ICT advancing their career everyday, so I want that for him as well because I'm the type that love to prepare for any unfortunate, what if the company folds up, its not possible he would say, but nothing is impossible, he said he can only study in UK, US and he knows he doesn't have the money, and he will never even apply for scholarships. His uncle in UK that can help him is not serious and his daddy's friend that promised him is not serious as well. I just want him to do something for himself with the money he's making, to advance, we fight over this every time, he tells me he employs Masters degree holders, and I try to tell him if they get jobs today,he would lick their shoes.

He's the type that apologizes before I finish telling him what I'm pissed about, he would continue apologizing, then later if I say what are you apologizing for, he would say his offence, if I ask him yo narrate it,he wont be able to

Olunmercy56:
Compatibility is the key, chemistry can't balance sometimes. I can't marry a man I'm not free with.

Acmepreneur:

Free as how?