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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by BluntTheApostle(m): 11:05am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Evercurious: How did you know this? SMH... It is a bad thing to jump into conclusion. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Smhaykins(m): 11:05am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Freelane33: Am not stingy...just testing d depth of d river |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by pocohantas(f): 11:05am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Dear OP, don’t fall for their guilt-tripping. They will call you broke, materialistic. Remind you of foreign girls. Go to IG and you will see them paying to be sent twerking videos. Naso them dey mumu o. ![]() ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by adabaraabdul: 11:05am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Forget the guy. He doesn't love you, he is just using you. That's if the story you narrated is totally true. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 11:05am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Vega100: Haaa! lol ![]() ![]() Èwo ntèpè...? ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Austineva(m): 11:05am On Apr 02, 2020 |
proclinician: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Arsenate(m): 11:05am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Jaubdu:Bro, no disrespect, but you are dating Funmistiqueen which means you have an extremely poor taste in women and hence you are in no position to call another man half a man. Just take several seats and stfu. 6 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Glink2018(m): 11:06am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Adorablemeee: But you enjoy his dick?/ ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Freelane33(m): 11:06am On Apr 02, 2020 |
It’s 364 Don’t go there Smhaykins: |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Lastmankc(m): 11:06am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Everyone is talking about stingy guys and nobody is talking about a stingy girlfriend.My own babe dey stingy die.I will buy her something on her birthday and still buy her a gift during my birthday .Though,she's working and I still give her money for up keep every month.Abeg,make Una free the guy joor. 4 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Ibrahiimo(m): 11:07am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Wetin Women no go see for HUSBAND We are talking about CORONA, this one is talking about BOYFRIEND, whatever, that's NONE of my BUSINESS WOMEN cannot stay without a HUSBAND, a LADY can go to any LENGTH just to marry a HUSBAND of her choice. A Woman can POISON her fellow woman because of a HUSBAND, a lady can KILL her friend SHE feels is an OBSTACLE, just because of a HUSBAND. WOMEN visit many NATIVE doctors just to TIE their man down, so that HE will be SEEING only HER, and also to SCARE other women away from their HUSBAND YOU can play with a WOMAN'S intelligence, but don't play with HER Husband, cos SHE will deal with you WETIN CONCERN ME!!! 1 Like
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Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by jaxxy(m): 11:08am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: I get ur point perfectly. My point was they can do fine without bt choose not to cos there are good reasons not to. I’m not useless. ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by yommen: 11:08am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Smhaykins: Oga, of you are truly the guy she is talking about, you fumble big time. Which kind test be that? She spends for you and she is faithful to you and you've been bleeping her but your questionable character is creating doubts in her mind and here you saying you've been testing her. I haven't really been so lucky with girls but if I come across her, I'll marry her in less than 3 months. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by MiztaFabuloz(m): 11:09am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: This you post has shown why most guys are worried about spending for you Nigerian ladies. He is obviously worried too that you are after money and I wonder why you are bothered about him getting you anything if you truly love him. Spending on a lady and true love don't connect in anyway. You might have a good man who will do just anything for you when he is sure he is with the right woman, but you are already heading to spoiling it because of mere buying stuffs for you. If your love is about buying stuffs for you with his money, then you might just be falling into the trap he probably set to know if you are worth spending the rest of his life with. 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Hypocrit: 11:09am On Apr 02, 2020 |
sophtcopy:relationship is not a laboratory. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by EmekaBlue(m): 11:09am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Maybe d guy plays bet9ja so he is kinda always broke and u have being a nice lady to him,he wont forget u when he get himself back to order and learn how to use his money wisely. but its a lie u haven't gotten even 10naira from him...thats how my gf say but i remember in our 2yrs of dating how many times i have transferred her money but not as constant as she expects niggaz r kinda struggling and broke even with a job 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by GAZZUZZ(m): 11:09am On Apr 02, 2020 |
mharyamikeola92: You are in your mid thirties and you are desperate. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by uncleFola(m): 11:10am On Apr 02, 2020 |
You should have left that man since yesterday... What is love without giving ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by fredopareto(m): 11:10am On Apr 02, 2020 |
EfonAlaaye2023:craze dey ur head..me wey b ijebu man and at dsame time study economics..am a giver..just we try to b prudence 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 11:11am On Apr 02, 2020 |
1StopRudeness: Payment in the context of sex is inappropriate, so you ain't making any sense whatsoever. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Babyg0123: 11:12am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Do you still need advice ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Evercurious(f): 11:12am On Apr 02, 2020 |
BluntTheApostle: How do I know? I HAVE BEEN IN AND THROUGH SAME SITUATION. and well if she has got some time to spare, she should go dig more and come tell us her findings.. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Freelane33(m): 11:12am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Hold on to what you have . See all these guys advising you to break just want a slot into you pxxxy , the so call man might be trying to bring something out , stay cool , watch him over time and if he didn’t change then you can swing into action . See if you leave him , you eyes go see mehmeh, boys are not smiling ooo , they will tear you from back to front and front to back , even me if I catch you that’s what I will do . Stick to your guy , reason with him mharyamikeola92: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Nobody: 11:13am On Apr 02, 2020 |
if you really want to hear the truth, you won't insult people you re seeking advice from. after all its you who made a bad choice, the man clearly doesn't love you, he sees you as his ATM. a man who can't spend on you at this stage won't spend on you after marriage. it seems you taught that its okay for him to keep his money, so he is doing what you taught him. I deduce that you re in your late 30s or 40s and desperate for a husband, better ditch the guy now cos you change him. and next keep your relationship woes to yourself. you re obviously not ready for marriage. |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by seangy4konji: 11:13am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Only a wise woman would know that the guy is just a codedly smart intelligent guy...wisdom over much.... Majority of Nigerian ladies now are sex objects. We sex them steady and leave them. No one even wants to marry them due to their gluttony behavior as if they don't have their own parents or Jesus Christ. When he settles down with you..you would be surprised of the care and affection...if your mind sent is on man must spend and spend ...you want to run that man down and he must and will eventually run away from you... Just another Nigerian lady turned hoe. 4 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by omooba969(m): 11:16am On Apr 02, 2020 |
Evercurious: @bolded, I hope all men can have this sense of entitlement as well... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by atheistandproud(m): 11:16am On Apr 02, 2020 |
The typical Nigerian relationship is mutually beneficial transaction. Money for hand, back for ground. Most men sef really don't care about chores apart from the oversabi and lazy ones who think because they have 5 or 10 naira, they become royalty and na them girls dey flock after. Regular guys do chores and clean after themselves. Na just sex, that's all. Many of our ladies can't engage me in a deep conversation about philosophy, religion, poetry, sophistry, smartphones, technology, theology etc. It's all zeeworld and gossip. Last last, I'll turn to my online forums or books for companionship. Even in this transaction sef, many ladies always try to play a fast one and get one up over the other person. For Feminists who want equality. This is your chance to spend like a man and you're all complaining. Everyone's gangsta till the bills show up. I greet Una. OP: take note, no man is stingy if he's satisfied. Even in your family, there's always one person close to dad whom he cannot say no to whilst the others are complaining about him. Go and study your man or leave him. It's a transaction gone bad. Stop trying to take the moral high ground. *Drops mic like Obama. 4 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Glink2018(m): 11:17am On Apr 02, 2020 |
It so obvious that Naija love is on a conditional basis. Ladies are saying allow me to chop your money and I will give you my cunt. Nothing goes for nothing. It is only a fool that will die for love in naija because naija love is money for ground, back for ground 3 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Evercurious(f): 11:17am On Apr 02, 2020 |
GAZZUZZ: Pls SHE ISN'T DESPERATE. She is simply concerned and it's normal.. People like you make situations like this look normal whereas it isn't.. Op I bet you ,if you continue with that 'relationship', you ll eventually be left EMOTIONALLY DRAINED AND FAGGED OUT. 1 Like |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by cr7lomo: 11:17am On Apr 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: So what is paining u now?? Anyway, truth hurts... Nigerian women are the most stingy women in planet earth... But still u can't point out anything valuable they do with their money ... The only time they believe u love them is when u spend on them ...what sort of ret.artded mentality is that... It's a different case if she is in need and has no income ... bleeped up creatures 2 Likes |
Re: How To Cope With A Stingy Boyfriend? by Enare(m): 11:18am On Apr 02, 2020 |
The only thing I would advise you is: 1. As long as he keeps you crying awh! awh!, that guy is good. 2. Satisfies you in bed, that dude is ok! 3. Doesn't cheat out side, that nigga is a gem 4. U can screw him like 10/11 spanner, that folk is awesome... Come to think of it, who is the man? |
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