So, there's this guy in my neighborhood. when we ( sisters and i ) newly moved into this area, he was the first person to warm up to us. By force o.
I, being a snob, would ignore him when ever he comes around to our veranda to crack jokes and all that. but my sis makes friends easily so she blended easily and from inside I'll hear their laughter but still stay indoors.

After a while my sis told me, that guy says he likes you o. I was like, what rubbish?

So fast toward to later, whenever he comes, I'll just sit out and we would all chat and laugh and that was it for me. So one day, he said he'll like to draw my portrait. I offered to give him my pics, he said no, that I should sit let him draw me directly. He did and it was perfect! I didn't even bother collecting the portrait from him.
So all of a sudden I noticed this guy wanted to be with me alone. If he comes around and sees my sisters, his countenance will change.


So I began to avoid him.
Then one day, he came and was feeling uneasy. Afterwards he said, Chichi, I love you. I want you to be my girl . I outrightly told him it can't work. That I'm not interested.
This made me hate him ( sorry for using that word). I avoided him on the streets and everywhere.

At a point, if any new guy comes into the neighborhood, he'll tell them I'm his girlfriend and they should not come near me.
If I'm passing where hes sitting with his guys, ( coursemates that usually follow him home for food after school) he'll start singing " hey bitch gerrof the way, gerrof the way" lol...I'll just ignore.

One day one guy called me and said, is it true i dated this guy, I laughed and said no. And the guy told me how hes going about telling them, I broke his heart. Can you imagine?

Even whenever my ex came around then and we were going for a walk, he'll start saying all sort of despicable things like "They'll go to church and go and f uck and come and be claiming born again." Still I'll ignore or sometimes laugh. My ex even got angry at me one day for laughing, saying I enjoy hearing the guys voice. He thinks I like him


To cut the story short, after years of that drama plus there was a time he threatened to harm me and I went to call some powerful guys in the area to warn him cos my sisters said I shouldn't involve the police yet. ( that was two years ago). So the guys told him to steer clear off me. And he was telling them..."this girl broke my heart, girls are bad" blah blah. I'll never forgive her. Ha...Someone I didn't even have anything with. So the guys warned him and left. He calmed down a bit but the name calling continued. I just ignored.

Now 2years after, just last week. There's this new guy that moved in newly to the area. So he comes around And likes to sit with me whenever Im at the veranda reading. So we'll sit and jist. And so last week, this guy told me this artist guy told him, I was his girlfriend. I was shocked. I immediately told him to ignore him that I never dated him.

Now after two years he was warned to stay away from me, he still goes about telling people I was his girlfriend, denting my image. What should I do? Cos I find this very irritating and annoying.

Like seriously since 2013, hes not gotten over this rubbish.
What do I do to stop this nonsense




If I call the police, those people he told might not want to come and bear witness. But I want this rubbish to stop.

I'm a very quiet person, i go my way. And that is why some find it difficult to believe him cos I don't talk to people. The only one who comes in when ever they see me sitting out is the new guy and he knows I'm a no nonsense person. Therefore the respect is there.
Most people don't even know I live in that neighborhood. They are always like, are you new here? But the rate at which hes making everyone to know me is becoming disturbing. That's why I'm voicing out.

How can i tame his ass.

Cc: dairykidd.

Ok

@ Dairykidd

Thanks for your response. Would have replied you but can't comment on Romance section for now because of the post I removed. And I had to remove it because the story was not together in one page.


I'll consider your advice but I'm feeble hearted and can't bear to see someone being dealt with because of me.

the evil you failed to destroy today might gather the momentum to destroy you tomorrow.that's what athaboi WANTED to type instead of ok. but i think that can also help you. SHALOM

Miner13:
the evil you failed to destroy today might gather the momentum to destroy you tomorrow.that's what athaboi WANTED to type instead of ok. but i think that can also help you. SHALOM

I reject it in Jesus name.
He has been defeated. I know the series of prayers I did and saw how God fought for me.
Only just wondering why after all these years, hes still living in lala land.

Jewessgratitudd:


I reject it in Jesus name.
He has been defeated. I know the series of prayers I did and saw how God fought for me.
Only just wondering why after all these years, hes still living in lala land.

defeat him in the physical,so he can wake from his dream.prayer and action not without action

Miner13:
defeat him in the physical,so he can wake from his dream.prayer and action not without action

OK. Thanks.

"" Hey bitch gerout the way" lol,my favorite music, the guy na clown

Eagleboney:
"" Hey bitch gerout the way" lol,my favorite music,
the guy na clown

Lol... O yeah?

What kinda guy is bthis mbok.

If you're tired, you'llI drag him to the police station and charge him for defamation

You said you did series of prayers? Over what? Over this? God gave us brains so we would not call on him for everything. Upon all the prayers and the seeing of how God fought for you, has he stopped?

I repeat, if you really are tired of him.. You'll do what's necessary.

NevetsIbot:
What kinda guy is bthis mbok.

If you're tired, you'llI drag him to the police station and charge him for defamation

You said you did series of prayers? Over what? Over this? God gave us brains so we would not call on him for everything. Upon all the prayers and the seeing of how God fought for you, has he stopped?

I repeat, if you really are tired of him.. You'll do what's necessary.

When i did the prayers was 2yrs ago when he threatened to disfigure my face and that he doesn't want to see me around again.
So I called those guys who came and warned him. Then I entered into prayers and I really saw the hand of God. Cos he got a girl pregnant that period. So at least I was free.
The girl moved in with him and throughout that period hes eyes was off me. ( part of what I prayed that God should distract him for me). Though towards when she was about to be delivered of the baby, she almost died and was rushed to the villa to her parents.
She had a still-birth and upon return,he chased her out. This happened last year.
Recently, he also went and stepped on some bad guys toes (cultist), they threatened him and told him to be watching his back from now on. Thats like back to sender for all the threats he made to me two years ago. And that has really made him cool down. Though he no longer threatens but the issue now is going about telling people we dated.


Thanks for your input.

Anything you do,even if it's trolling or acute attention seeking. Make sure it brings you money. If after all the wasted precious time and energy you put into those rubbish,you still broke and still beg to eat or subscribe. You are world's biggest fool.

Why una name ALWAYS be Chichi?

You really beautiful to discuss this nonsense. I looked at your picture and read this post again..I thought it was posted by a guy or a kid..

Dear you've been lonely for a while now. Gimme your number let's talk.

Jewessgratitudd:

@ Dairykidd

Thanks for your response. Would have replied you but can't comment on Romance section for now because of the post I removed. And I had to remove it because the story was not together in one page.


I'll consider your advice but I'm feeble hearted and can't bear to see someone being dealt with because of me.

Sometimes u gotta do what u gotta do

Leave the neighborhood for him now... Abi wetin una think say I talk?

Ancecoker:
Leave the neighborhood for him now... Abi wetin una think say I talk?

OK.
Thanks

Having gone through your posts on the subject, I will advise you trade with caution. The guy in question is a street boy who is highly possesed over your person as lust over your person has taken over his reasoning. The danger herein is that he can plan to harm you, either by rape or violent attack. Asking some group of guys to warn him in the past, is not even the right way out for someone like him. He wants to get you at all cost. My advise is this as two wrongs cannot make a right; if you can and you got the fund, relocate to way off the area and make sure you never disclose to nobody where you are moving to. In as much as he sees you as you all stay in same vicinity, he cannot take away his eyes on you. Just be strong, but watch your back and never be nocturnal.

andyanders:
Having gone through your posts on the subject, I will advise you trade with curssion. The guy in question is a street boy who is highly possed over your person as lust over your person has taken over his reasoning. The danger herein is that he can plan to harm you, either by rape or violent attack. Asking some group of guys to warn him in the past, is not even the right way out for someone like him. He wants to get you at all cost. My advise is this as two wrongs cannot make a right; if you can and you got the fund, relocate to way off the area and make sure you never disclose to nobody where you are moving to. In as much as he sees you as you all stay in same vicinity, he cannot take away his eyes on you. Just be strong, but watch your back and never be nurctunal.

Planning seriously to relocate anytime soon.
Thank you.

God got my back.

Jewessgratitudd:


Planning seriously to relocate anytime soon.
Thank you.

God got my back.

You're welcomed. I have you in my prayers. He cannot plan nor do you any harm 'cus you are not from same level. Just mind your business as you've been doing. I hope your younger sister through whom he gained access to you must have learnt to keep to herself by now and wherever you relocate, warn her to be herself. Trade with caution for now. Wish you God's protection.

We have quovikk 1 9 birus to attend to

At the moment

Not this trash

We have quovikk 1 9 birus to attend to

At the moment

Not this shit

u are obviously a child!
dnt you av other important life issues to worry about

andyanders:
You're welcomed. I have you in my prayers. He cannot plan nor do you any harm 'cus you are not from same level. Just mind your business as you've been doing. I hope your younger sister through whom he gained access to you must have learnt to keep to herself by now and wherever you relocate, warn her to be herself. Trade with caution for now. Wish you God's protection.

Amen.
Thank you so much and God bless you.

Jewessgratitudd:

OK. Thanks

why did you refuse to date him?

Alfather:
why did you refuse to date him?

Not my spec.

Though hes tall, and dark but....not my kind of man.

I guess you have seen movies or read stories of how obsessive people kill their victims. I hope your story doesnt end that way too. That guy is a psychopath and I believe you know how it usually ends. He has a psychological disorder that makes him think that he is dating you.

Babe, get the Law enforcement involved, citing his threats of disfiguring your face. He needs to sign an undertaking or be cautioned out of his false feelings.

Jewessgratitudd:

@ Dairykidd

Thanks for your response. Would have replied you but can't comment on Romance section for now because of the post I removed. And I had to remove it because the story was not together in one page.


I'll consider your advice but I'm feeble hearted and can't bear to see someone being dealt with because of me.

This is your future,image and personality on the burner. Don't allow him chase away your suitors. Consider relocating. You've been too long in that area and I'm sure your image is more damaged than you think

Jewessgratitudd:


Planning seriously to relocate anytime soon.
Thank you.

God got my back.

Nne, you cannot run away from this man. I'm talking to you from the psychologist's angle. Use slaw enforcement to intimidate him, and if he is also a student, report to the school authorities.

Briller:


Nne, you cannot run away from this man. I'm talking to you from the psychologist's angle. Use slaw enforcement to intimidate him, and if he is also a student, report to the school authorities.

God has been my shield and has continued to shield me.

God willing, I'll soon relocate.

Thank you dear.
I appreciate.

Watch your back.the description you gave of him seems he's a closet rap11st... their patterns are predictable.trying to creep into your home to win your trust.fortunatly he has won your sisters attention and trust and then when he notices no one is at home he will pounce on you

But because he didn't have his way he resorted to slander.very typical


Solution with time he will reveal himself to the world and the world will know who the liar is.just ignore him and work at being successful with the work of your hands?

If you have a job face it, buisness pay more attention to it and he'll just naturally fizzle out of your mind and become irrelevant as well as his news.stop giving audience to people who are of no value to you.all this unnecessary sitting in the veranda and talking is what will be bringing all this he said she said... when you are successful nobody will believe his lies again.na people sef go tell am make he shut up


How about your parents btw?

How come they're not in the picture in all of this?

Meanwhile are you sure this nonentity that you are talking about is not a cultist? You need to clear that out 1st